Basab lets stick to "u" and not people dying of starvation. So u r saying u wouldnt give up before trying when it came to arranging food. So if push comes to shove u will act. I got my answer. thanksIf I am hungry and need food, I will start searching for it, just I like searched for a solution to my problems. But then, many die of hunger as you know, because they couldn't arrange food for themselves, the same way I am a dead man walking because I couldn't find a solution to my problems. It's not that I gave up before trying, just like I wouldn't give up before trying when it came to arrange food. Now, understanding the person you are, I am sure you will blame and mock those people who die of starvation, saying that they didn't try to get food and solve their problem of starvation.
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Milredr,
You can get your answers only from destiny, but then, I hope destiny will forgive you because I have seen arrogant people like you getting taught some good lessons by destiny because a person never understands unless he experiences it himself. Hope you will be spared by destiny. I have met many like you, a couple of examples I have given in my previous post, who roar like a lion when times are good, and mew mew like a cat when destiny shows them who is the big boss. Just don't try destiny's patience, it will be good for you.
And yes, I am not against effort. I always believe in effort. And yes, I will put a lot of effort when I don't have a choice. But I will think that to be my destiny. When the time I put effort is not as per my wish, what do I call it other than destiny? Yes, there have been times when I have said, who cares about destiny, I have to find a way out, and I know I will think that way again but it all happens only when destiny wants it.
You can get your answers only from destiny, but then, I hope destiny will forgive you because I have seen arrogant people like you getting taught some good lessons by destiny because a person never understands unless he experiences it himself. Hope you will be spared by destiny. I have met many like you, a couple of examples I have given in my previous post, who roar like a lion when times are good, and mew mew like a cat when destiny shows them who is the big boss. Just don't try destiny's patience, it will be good for you.
And yes, I am not against effort. I always believe in effort. And yes, I will put a lot of effort when I don't have a choice. But I will think that to be my destiny. When the time I put effort is not as per my wish, what do I call it other than destiny? Yes, there have been times when I have said, who cares about destiny, I have to find a way out, and I know I will think that way again but it all happens only when destiny wants it.
milredr wrote:Basab lets stick to "u" and not people dying of starvation. So u r saying u wouldnt give up before trying when it came to arranging food. So if push comes to shove u will act. I got my answer. thanks
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Cursing people is not good Basab.......Always wish good for the others. Like i said, i hope u get everybody's respect one day and do really well for urself. take care and God Bless.
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Lecturing people is also not good, Milredr. I remember a great spiritual person saying to another person who was concerned about others: who are you to think about others? There is God up above to think of him. Don't try to be God. And about cursing, I never cursed you. I only told you that don't talk like an arrogant person, showing that a person can win everything with free will, because arrogance is not good, and it is always harmful for the person. I have seen so many times people talking like you losing all their arrogance in one blow from destiny that I couldn't help but tell you to avoid behaving that way because I wish well for you always. If I had to curse you, I would have cursed you in unspoken words and not written here that I am cursing you. But when you give lecture to someone, you are doing wrong. And this arrogance that comes out in your posts is not good. Because you are doing well and have achieved success with your efforts, you think that you have understood the magic formula of success and mock someone who don't belief in your path. Don't do that. It's not me who will be unhappy with you, it is God who will be unhappy with you. You have spolied my day, got me upset, did you do something good here? You came out of nowhere and mocked my points. Why? Did I ask for your opinion? It is not good to hurt someone. And you do it always to me. And I don't need your wishes. I have God to think about me.
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Oh Basab, Let me assure u, i feel a lot for the beggars. I do my best to help people. But i certainly do not feel anything for people who talk like u and curse people. And let me tell u Basab, i still wish well for u. My post has nothing to do with arrogance. Its a reaction to what u wrote and i stand by it. I wasnt trying to mock at all. I coulnt digest the fact that u have given up and now ur hoping destiny teaches me a lesson so that i can understand ur problems. Basab, u have everything Basab, a good home, good parents, a good brother, food on the table. U r indeed blessed. How many people r so fortunate. Do u think i can stop working? I cannot. I have a responsibility. Even if i dont feel like working, i have to work, not because i enjoy it, but because i have to. TCSame happened with a person I know. She was very successful in life--had made a great career for herself. She was talking arrogantly then. Once she said, why do I bother about the beggars, it's their fate. I don't feel any sympathy for them. She was doing well, how would she understand those beggars plight? Destiny had to teach her a lesson too. And guess what? She is hiding in a far corner of the world, and it would do good if someone sympathized with her, but she won't get that. She is lonely and all alone and tremendously unhappy. Now, I am sure she feels for the beggars on the road.
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Milredr,
It's great to know that you feel for poor people, but you know what? This very thought that YOU feel for poor people is showing your arrogance. Who are you too feel for poor people when God is there above you? This is something said by a spiritual person, who was considered to be an incarnation of God. He said, never say, you feel for people--you help people; always say, you are God's servant. God, through you, is helping those people. That is when you will not be arrogant anymore.
You don't need to feel for me, Milredr because there is God to feel for me. I know He knows who is right and who is wrong. Today also He knows who is correct, and who is incorrect. He knows everything.
I never curse anyone!! I believe in the saying which is there in your Christian religion. I can't quote the exact lines, but it is like this: I will take revenge for every wrong done to you. I believe in that, so I never curse anyone. Why should I curse anyone? Who am I to curse anyone? It is God who will take revenge for every wrong done to me.
About this line of yours: "now ur hoping destiny teaches me a lesson so that i can understand ur problems" don't change the meaning of what I said. I said, I am WORRIED that destiny will make you taste a bit of its bitterness to prove who is greater--you, or your destiny. And when I said that I really meant I am worried, and I said that out of concern so that you don't keep repeating the same mistake again and again in life of preaching something, which shows that destiny is something which resides under your foot.
This line again shows your arrogance. You know, day before a girl sent me a pm, I have the copy of that even now, if you don't believe me. You know what she told me: she said, Basab, what will I do now? I have lost my job, and I am not getting one, how hard I am trying. She said, she has to pay an instalment for a loan she has taken and she has to pay it now, and she doesn't know what to do about next month if she doesn't get a job. Does she have a choice? She has to work, but she doens't have work and is not getting one. She has a responsiblity, but she doesn't have a choice still.
You say you cannot stop working. Destiny can, if it wishes, make you stop working even if you need a job, even when you have a responsibility.
I will quote a line from my fav. actress's serial. Her character was asked what she was planning about her life, now the disaster phase for her was over. She asked, 'Do I have a choice? I will go the way life takes me.'
And who am I to curse you, MIlredr? You pray to God every day, and I don't pray to Him ever--do you think He will bother about it even if I curse you? He will curse me instead for cursing you! He will remove my curse for you and curse me instead. So, don't worry, even if I curse you, which you think I have done, that curse will fall on me only, it will never fall on you. A curse never falls on a good person, it falls only on bad people. And now that you have marked me a bad person, it is logical that the curse will rebound back to me and make me more miserable. So don't worry--no curse will have any effect on you. Evil-Basab's curse can't do any harm to you because God is fair. God always does justice. He will do justice to you, definitely.
And about me being blessed, you think so that I am blessed? Would you like to exchange your life with me? After all I am blessed according to you, isn't it? You will not have to work then, you will not have to take anyone's responsibility then, you will just enjoy life then, just like I am doing. You will have loving family, loving brother, food on your table. I hope you won't complain then that you have not earned anything, that you haven't made a mark in the world, that you are lonely that you can't get married, that you can't have children, that you have to stay single and alone and a dependent on others all your life! Hope you won't complain as you think it to be a blessed life! Think twice before answering because you can lie to me, you can lie to youself, but you can't lie to God. He knows everything! Nothing misses His ears.
It's great to know that you feel for poor people, but you know what? This very thought that YOU feel for poor people is showing your arrogance. Who are you too feel for poor people when God is there above you? This is something said by a spiritual person, who was considered to be an incarnation of God. He said, never say, you feel for people--you help people; always say, you are God's servant. God, through you, is helping those people. That is when you will not be arrogant anymore.
You don't need to feel for me, Milredr because there is God to feel for me. I know He knows who is right and who is wrong. Today also He knows who is correct, and who is incorrect. He knows everything.
I never curse anyone!! I believe in the saying which is there in your Christian religion. I can't quote the exact lines, but it is like this: I will take revenge for every wrong done to you. I believe in that, so I never curse anyone. Why should I curse anyone? Who am I to curse anyone? It is God who will take revenge for every wrong done to me.
About this line of yours: "now ur hoping destiny teaches me a lesson so that i can understand ur problems" don't change the meaning of what I said. I said, I am WORRIED that destiny will make you taste a bit of its bitterness to prove who is greater--you, or your destiny. And when I said that I really meant I am worried, and I said that out of concern so that you don't keep repeating the same mistake again and again in life of preaching something, which shows that destiny is something which resides under your foot.
milredr wrote:Do u think i can stop working? I cannot. I have a responsibility. Even if i dont feel like working, i have to work, not because i enjoy it, but because i have to. TC
This line again shows your arrogance. You know, day before a girl sent me a pm, I have the copy of that even now, if you don't believe me. You know what she told me: she said, Basab, what will I do now? I have lost my job, and I am not getting one, how hard I am trying. She said, she has to pay an instalment for a loan she has taken and she has to pay it now, and she doesn't know what to do about next month if she doesn't get a job. Does she have a choice? She has to work, but she doens't have work and is not getting one. She has a responsiblity, but she doesn't have a choice still.
You say you cannot stop working. Destiny can, if it wishes, make you stop working even if you need a job, even when you have a responsibility.
I will quote a line from my fav. actress's serial. Her character was asked what she was planning about her life, now the disaster phase for her was over. She asked, 'Do I have a choice? I will go the way life takes me.'
And who am I to curse you, MIlredr? You pray to God every day, and I don't pray to Him ever--do you think He will bother about it even if I curse you? He will curse me instead for cursing you! He will remove my curse for you and curse me instead. So, don't worry, even if I curse you, which you think I have done, that curse will fall on me only, it will never fall on you. A curse never falls on a good person, it falls only on bad people. And now that you have marked me a bad person, it is logical that the curse will rebound back to me and make me more miserable. So don't worry--no curse will have any effect on you. Evil-Basab's curse can't do any harm to you because God is fair. God always does justice. He will do justice to you, definitely.
And about me being blessed, you think so that I am blessed? Would you like to exchange your life with me? After all I am blessed according to you, isn't it? You will not have to work then, you will not have to take anyone's responsibility then, you will just enjoy life then, just like I am doing. You will have loving family, loving brother, food on your table. I hope you won't complain then that you have not earned anything, that you haven't made a mark in the world, that you are lonely that you can't get married, that you can't have children, that you have to stay single and alone and a dependent on others all your life! Hope you won't complain as you think it to be a blessed life! Think twice before answering because you can lie to me, you can lie to youself, but you can't lie to God. He knows everything! Nothing misses His ears.
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by aseem82 » Fri Feb 18, 2011 1:06 pm
3rd house rules use of hands. At least this part of human body is active
Through hard work and spiritual practices, a person gets honor and dignity. The lazy one who puts in no efforts is like a fool who allows salt to be spilled on the wounds of his misfortunes. The idler depending only on fate, achieves nothing. - K.N.Rao ji
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Aseem,
My 3rd house is active when it comes to hands because I have a lot of time to waste, and what other way to waste it than typing my frustration here. I wonder how much God will pay me for this work.
My 3rd house is active when it comes to hands because I have a lot of time to waste, and what other way to waste it than typing my frustration here. I wonder how much God will pay me for this work.
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astroboy wrote:by aseem82 » Fri Feb 18, 2011 1:06 pm
3rd house rules use of hands. At least this part of human body is active![]()
so right Aseem ji ..........seems to work all over . hahahahahaha
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Who is this spiritual person? ya he makes sense. Yes God thru me is helping people. Fair enough. Saying i feel for people is arrogance? ok this is news to me. Fine i will buy ur point.It's great to know that you feel for poor people, but you know what? This very thought that YOU feel for poor people is showing your arrogance. Who are you too feel for poor people when God is there above you? This is something said by a spiritual person, who was considered to be an incarnation of God. He said, never say, you feel for people--you help people; always say, you are God's servant. God, through you, is helping those people. That is when you will not be arrogant anymore.
Ok i wont feel for u, because then i become arrogant. Fine. I dont fear god and whatever the religion is, i dont think God is revengeful. So i dont agree with u about the revenge bit. It came across like a curse, so if u didnt curse me thank u. Dont think God thinks like u about revenge. Dont drag him into ur revenge bitYou don't need to feel for me, Milredr because there is God to feel for me. I know He knows who is right and who is wrong. Today also He knows who is correct, and who is incorrect. He knows everything.
I never curse anyone!! I believe in the saying which is there in your Christian religion. I can't quote the exact lines, but it is like this: I will take revenge for every wrong done to you. I believe in that, so I never curse anyone. Why should I curse anyone? Who am I to curse anyone? It is God who will take revenge for every wrong done to me.
I really feel bad for this girl. I hope i am allowed to feel bad. If feeling bad is arrogance sorry then. I feel bad for her because she has really tried but destiny has been bad to her. So she has atleast used her freewill and tried. I am sure she will find another job soon. Ur problems and hers seem different to me.This line again shows your arrogance. You know, day before a girl sent me a pm, I have the copy of that even now, if you don't believe me. You know what she told me: she said, Basab, what will I do now? I have lost my job, and I am not getting one, how hard I am trying. She said, she has to pay an instalment for a loan she has taken and she has to pay it now, and she doesn't know what to do about next month if she doesn't get a job. Does she have a choice? She has to work, but she doens't have work and is not getting one. She has a responsiblity, but she doesn't have a choice still.
I completely agree with u. But i will not give up trying.You say you cannot stop working. Destiny can, if it wishes, make you stop working even if you need a job, even when you have a responsibility.
No i dont need to think twice. i can give u the answer straight away. i will go mad if i am sitting at home. I said ur blessed compared to a lot of people that u spoke about.And about me being blessed, you think so that I am blessed? Would you like to exchange your life with me? After all I am blessed according to you, isn't it? You will not have to work then, you will not have to take anyone's responsibility then, you will just enjoy life then, just like I am doing. You will have loving family, loving brother, food on your table. I hope you won't complain then that you have not earned anything, that you haven't made a mark in the world, that you are lonely that you can't get married, that you can't have children, that you have to stay single and alone and a dependent on others all your life! Hope you won't complain as you think it to be a blessed life! Think twice before answering because you can lie to me, you can lie to youself, but you can't lie to God. He knows everything! Nothing misses His ears.
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Basab
Milredr,
You know after reading this post of yours, I felt like laughing... Anyway, let me answer your points:
Yes, don't feel for me, because there is God to think for me, and then, you don't like sympathizing with anyone, anyway. By the way, what is the difference between curse and revenge? I mean, I am not talking about the difference between the dictionary definition of the two words. Is a person cursed out of affection? I thought a person when he curse, curses with an attitude of revenge and not with an attitude of affection.
This is the first time I am seeing someone laughing at Sri Ramakrishna's teachings. Good! Very good! Keep it up! You have quite a courage, I must say. I can't laugh at a spiritual person, like him, who was considered, an incarnation of God too by some. Anyway... I am not surprised by your behaviour.
You can feel bad definitely, and you can pity her too, because you are arrogant, anyway. She will definitely find work, and that is what I told her too. I asked her not to worry, God will definitely find her a way out, even if her time is not in her favour right now as per her chart.
Yes, I was not comparing her case with mine, but with yours because you said you have to work. I showed even when you know there is no option for you but to work; still then, you can be jobless.
Why should I compare myself with her? I am doing a job everyday, watching TV, chatting with people on the net, reading books, day-dreaming. I have a lot of work, I am self-employed.
Yes, I am definitely blessed that I have got so much that many don't get. I never denied that.
You know after reading this post of yours, I felt like laughing... Anyway, let me answer your points:
The person I am talking about is Sri Ramakrishna. When you are joking about what he said, you are making a joke of yourself; but then, it doesn't harm someone who jokes in ignorance. It is fine. God understands.milredr wrote:Who is this spiritual person? ya he makes sense. Yes God thru me is helping people. Fair enough. Saying i feel for people is arrogance? ok this is news to me. Fine i will buy ur point.
You know how to twist the meaning of a word. I told you I can't quote the exact line, but you still tried to twist the meaning of it. I don't mind what you do with it. God knows what I meant, and that is enough for me. The saying that 'I will take revenge (maybe the word was not revenge) for you' has the same philosophy as 'as you sow, so shall you reap', and it is again a saying from your religion. So if someone does me harm, he will pay for it too one day. And that is how the law of karma operates. And the law of karma is known to be God's law.Ok i wont feel for u, because then i become arrogant. Fine. I dont fear god and whatever the religion is, i dont think God is revengeful. So i dont agree with u about the revenge bit. It came across like a curse, so if u didnt curse me thank u. Dont think God thinks like u about revenge. Dont drag him into ur revenge bit![]()
Yes, don't feel for me, because there is God to think for me, and then, you don't like sympathizing with anyone, anyway. By the way, what is the difference between curse and revenge? I mean, I am not talking about the difference between the dictionary definition of the two words. Is a person cursed out of affection? I thought a person when he curse, curses with an attitude of revenge and not with an attitude of affection.
I really feel bad for this girl. I hope i am allowed to feel bad. If feeling bad is arrogance sorry then. I feel bad for her because she has really tried but destiny has been bad to her. So she has atleast used her freewill and tried. I am sure she will find another job soon. Ur problems and hers seem different to me.
This is the first time I am seeing someone laughing at Sri Ramakrishna's teachings. Good! Very good! Keep it up! You have quite a courage, I must say. I can't laugh at a spiritual person, like him, who was considered, an incarnation of God too by some. Anyway... I am not surprised by your behaviour.
You can feel bad definitely, and you can pity her too, because you are arrogant, anyway. She will definitely find work, and that is what I told her too. I asked her not to worry, God will definitely find her a way out, even if her time is not in her favour right now as per her chart.
Yes, I was not comparing her case with mine, but with yours because you said you have to work. I showed even when you know there is no option for you but to work; still then, you can be jobless.
Why should I compare myself with her? I am doing a job everyday, watching TV, chatting with people on the net, reading books, day-dreaming. I have a lot of work, I am self-employed.
But you said that you have to work even if you don't like to. That's why I thought that maybe you don't like to work but is working because you have so much responsibility on your shoulders. I just wanted to prove that you enjoy working not just because there was responsibilities. You are not doing something you hate, you are doing something you love.No i dont need to think twice. i can give u the answer straight away. i will go mad if i am sitting at home. I said ur blessed compared to a lot of people that u spoke about.
Yes, I am definitely blessed that I have got so much that many don't get. I never denied that.
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milredr
Basab, ur really funny....i shd learn from u on how to concoct theories and make it look like its mine. Now i am not only arrogant, i do not have respect towards the great saint, and i do not respect God. If i feel bad i am damned if i dont feel bad i am arrogant. U really make me laugh. Enjoy ur work. Goodnight
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Basab
Swamykool,
Why should I mind? It's absolutely okay your asking me about my 3rd lord, Jupiter. Yes, you are right, my 3rd lord Jupiter is in Leo in the nakshatra of Purvaphalguni. How did you know that?
Why should I mind? It's absolutely okay your asking me about my 3rd lord, Jupiter. Yes, you are right, my 3rd lord Jupiter is in Leo in the nakshatra of Purvaphalguni. How did you know that?
swamykool wrote:Dear Basab,
If you really don't mind my asking, is your 3rd Lord Jup in Leo in the Nk of Purvaphalguni?
regards
swamykool
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Basab
Milredr,
I do my 'work' with all sincerity because I believe in this motto: 'work is worship'. Now, would you please clear it up whether you are mocking me or complimenting me when you say I am funny because if it is a compliment, I will say 'thank you' in reply; otherwise, I will say:
Good night.
I do my 'work' with all sincerity because I believe in this motto: 'work is worship'. Now, would you please clear it up whether you are mocking me or complimenting me when you say I am funny because if it is a compliment, I will say 'thank you' in reply; otherwise, I will say:
Good night.
milredr wrote:Basab, ur really funny....i shd learn from u on how to concoct theories and make it look like its mine. Now i am not only arrogant, i do not have respect towards the great saint, and i do not respect God. If i feel bad i am damned if i dont feel bad i am arrogant. U really make me laugh. Enjoy ur work. Goodnight
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Aseem,
No point, suing me: I don't have a penny in my name, so you will not get anything.
No point, suing me: I don't have a penny in my name, so you will not get anything.
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What do you mean by that, Aseem?
aseem82 wrote:Wow, what a die hard romancer!!!...
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Well, that I know definitely. Learn to be a 'little' modest like me.
aseem82 wrote:Well you know I love to brag about myself a lot!!!..I am Egotist!!!
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Dear Basab,
Your 3rd L Jup is not exalted. Jup is exalted in Cancer.
For Tula lagna 11th is the Badhaka House. Your 3rd L Jup is in the 11th (Leo) with Saturn. Saturn is in the H and Nk (Uttaraphalguni) of his enemy Sun.
Moon is with Rahu and both are in the Nk of Ashlesha. The Nk L of Moon and Rahu - Mercury is within 4 degrees of Sun and retrograde. Moon is also in a papakartari yoga between Sun and Sat.
Also your 2nd and 7th L Mars is in the 12th in the H of enemy Mercury and in the Nk of Sun (Uttarphalguni). Mars aspects the 3rd H with his 4th aspect.
In my reckoning you are not very lazy. You are capable of quite great efforts and must have made them. The problem is your 3rd L being in the Badhak H, every effort you make meets with one obstacle or the other. Moon is with Rahu and in a PK yoga. You try something with amplified and somtimes impractical expectations but you get totally disheartened and dejected when you hit even the minutest of roadblocks and give up all efforts. Mars' aspect to the third also makes you extremely angry with even the smallest of disappointments. Moon is in his own H cancer. For this rashi a persons emotions waxes and wanes with the phases of the moon, and are sometimes prone to severe depressions. Karka Rashi is not a good rashi to have for men. And the final problem is the Nk of Moon and Rahu - aslesha. Aslesha people are super sensitive and cannot bear even the minutest of neglect or humiliation. The correct word in my understanding would be - abhimani.
You are running the MD of Venus your Lg and 8thL from 1996 till 2016 (and currently you are running Ven-Sat one of those mysterious and seriously troublesome periods, ends on 29/07/2012). Although Ven is the Lg L it is also the 8th L and is sitting in the 8th H, his own H (Tau) but in the Nk of Mars (Mrigashira) and Mars is in the 12th. An OH Ven has given you all the comforts in his dasha (Ven aspects the 2nd) but his 8th Lordship and the combo of Mars Ven is giving you mental agony and relationship disappointments. Take heart and try harder, your Sun MD from 2016 would be better.
This is what I came up with. I might be wrong, if so forgive my ineptitude.
Regards
swamykool
Nothing earth shaking, you posted your details in the forum sometime long back.Yes, you are right, my 3rd lord Jupiter is in Leo in the nakshatra of Purvaphalguni. How did you know that?
Your 3rd L Jup is not exalted. Jup is exalted in Cancer.
For Tula lagna 11th is the Badhaka House. Your 3rd L Jup is in the 11th (Leo) with Saturn. Saturn is in the H and Nk (Uttaraphalguni) of his enemy Sun.
Moon is with Rahu and both are in the Nk of Ashlesha. The Nk L of Moon and Rahu - Mercury is within 4 degrees of Sun and retrograde. Moon is also in a papakartari yoga between Sun and Sat.
Also your 2nd and 7th L Mars is in the 12th in the H of enemy Mercury and in the Nk of Sun (Uttarphalguni). Mars aspects the 3rd H with his 4th aspect.
In my reckoning you are not very lazy. You are capable of quite great efforts and must have made them. The problem is your 3rd L being in the Badhak H, every effort you make meets with one obstacle or the other. Moon is with Rahu and in a PK yoga. You try something with amplified and somtimes impractical expectations but you get totally disheartened and dejected when you hit even the minutest of roadblocks and give up all efforts. Mars' aspect to the third also makes you extremely angry with even the smallest of disappointments. Moon is in his own H cancer. For this rashi a persons emotions waxes and wanes with the phases of the moon, and are sometimes prone to severe depressions. Karka Rashi is not a good rashi to have for men. And the final problem is the Nk of Moon and Rahu - aslesha. Aslesha people are super sensitive and cannot bear even the minutest of neglect or humiliation. The correct word in my understanding would be - abhimani.
You are running the MD of Venus your Lg and 8thL from 1996 till 2016 (and currently you are running Ven-Sat one of those mysterious and seriously troublesome periods, ends on 29/07/2012). Although Ven is the Lg L it is also the 8th L and is sitting in the 8th H, his own H (Tau) but in the Nk of Mars (Mrigashira) and Mars is in the 12th. An OH Ven has given you all the comforts in his dasha (Ven aspects the 2nd) but his 8th Lordship and the combo of Mars Ven is giving you mental agony and relationship disappointments. Take heart and try harder, your Sun MD from 2016 would be better.
This is what I came up with. I might be wrong, if so forgive my ineptitude.
Regards
swamykool
It's better to rule in hell than to serve in heaven.
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milredr
Swamykool tel me something. Moon is in his own house in cancer. Isn't that supposed to b good? Why is moon in cancer not so good? I have my moon in cancer too(no wonder I get along well with basab:) ). But ya ur right, I am sensitive too. I mean the smallest of things hurt. However I never show it mostly. I have never understood this concept of moon being not so good in his own house. Thanks
milred,
regards
swamykool
Above is the problem, moon in cancer makes people over sensitive and over caring. And Rahu amplifies the effects. Unless moon is in Pushya Nk or Moon is with Ketu or both. Otherwise moon in cancer makes you easily hurt. It is especially bad for men, who need to be made of sterner stuff. However this is my personal opinion. Moon is most strongly placed in Leo, Taurus and Aquarius. Just remember one thing, placement of Rahu or Ketu with either Sun or Moon is never good. It creates a grahan yoga - a combination of eclipse. Makes one trouble or the other. Except maybe moon with Ketu which provides some twisted benefits. It creates a hardened mind indifferent to the slings and arrows of fortune, indifferent to either bouquets or brickbats.But ya ur right, I am sensitive too. I mean the smallest of things hurt. However I never show it mostly. I have never understood this concept of moon being not so good in his own house. Thanks
regards
swamykool
It's better to rule in hell than to serve in heaven.
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milredr
Ya I understand what happens when moon is in cancer. But then why is cancer moons house, If its better in leo or taurus? That is what I haven't understood. My moon is in punarvasu.



