what happened?Basab wrote:Yesterday was very bad for me, Aseem. I felt like leaving this material world and becoming a saint. I think the eclipse had its effect on me very strongly.
Spirituality, Astrology, Destiny, B. Geeta, Celibacy
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Basab
Destiny got me into a situation, which made me feel a terrible humiliation. I was kind of trapped and couldn't escape. Anyway, it's a part of life, and one has to accept it and move on. What makes me worried though is that if I come across this kind of situation again and again in my life, I will have no choice but to detach myself from this world completely, keeping relation with only God.
I have heard that when a person is supposed to turn spiritual, God makes his life in the material world such a hell that he doesn't feel attracted to it anymore and gladly leaves it for a life, detached of all kinds of material luxuries. I wonder whether that's what's in my fate. Hope not!
I have heard that when a person is supposed to turn spiritual, God makes his life in the material world such a hell that he doesn't feel attracted to it anymore and gladly leaves it for a life, detached of all kinds of material luxuries. I wonder whether that's what's in my fate. Hope not!
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Basab
What do you mean by 'just fall'? You want me to fall in love? If that is it, then I can't because I am not interested in that, one bit. 
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Basab
I love 'love', but then, I am not interested in falling in love. I know it sounds confusing, but that is how it is. 
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Basab
I am serious.
I really have a big crush for the emotion called 'love', but then, that's where it ends.
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Basab
With Venus in 8th house, and 7th lord in the 12th house in my chart I don't expect a good married life. Okay, I will not marry then. 
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Basab
I never said arranged marriages are without love. You changed the meaning of what I said. Anyway, I will not marry. You have shown me enough reason for why I should not marry. 
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Basab
Love after marriage is different from love before marriage: before marriage, it is more about an exhibition of feelings, and after marriage, it is not about that. I mean, running around trees and celebrating valentine's day and saying romantic lines happen before marriage, not after. 
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No Bassu...dont say like that....dont follow ur chart so seriously...listen.. I can bet no one can completely understand astrology ..its a very very complicated subject....u spend ur whole life in it .....still u feel like a big zero...ok...get married and never discuss ur 7th lord or 12th lord with ur wife....
....it will have bad psychological impact on her...
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Basab wrote:Love after marriage is different from love before marriage: before marriage, it is more about an exhibition of feelings, and after marriage, it is not about that. I mean, running around trees and celebrating valentine's day and saying romantic lines happen before marriage, not after.
hehehhe...this is filmi pyar re
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Basab
Sita,
If I have decided not to marry, that is not on the basis of what my chart says, but because, you gave me a valid point as to why I should not marry.
I don't care one bit about what my chart says because not a single astrologer has been able to tell me anything correctly from my chart. So not being an astrologer myself, how can I know what my chart says. Yes, I know that astrology is a complicated subject, and I totally agree with you that one cannot learn it properly in one single life, and that is why whatever I do, I never think about what my chart says.
About marriage, let's see. It will happen if it is destined for me. No, I will not discuss my 7th lord in the 12th house with my wife, and then, I don't think even if I do, she will get affected, one bit. My brother has 7th lord Saturn in the 12th house with 12th lord Moon and that aspected by Mars, and even though it's just been 2 years that they have been married, they are one of the happiest couples I have ever seen. My brother is running the sub-period of 7th lord in the 12th house, and he is not having a single problem in married life. My bhabhi is also running the sub-period of Rahu in the 12th house, with 2nd lord Sun, and she is doing fine too and very much happy in her married life. So I don't really bother about what my chart says about my marriage. I look at life logically, not astrologically.
If I have decided not to marry, that is not on the basis of what my chart says, but because, you gave me a valid point as to why I should not marry.
About marriage, let's see. It will happen if it is destined for me. No, I will not discuss my 7th lord in the 12th house with my wife, and then, I don't think even if I do, she will get affected, one bit. My brother has 7th lord Saturn in the 12th house with 12th lord Moon and that aspected by Mars, and even though it's just been 2 years that they have been married, they are one of the happiest couples I have ever seen. My brother is running the sub-period of 7th lord in the 12th house, and he is not having a single problem in married life. My bhabhi is also running the sub-period of Rahu in the 12th house, with 2nd lord Sun, and she is doing fine too and very much happy in her married life. So I don't really bother about what my chart says about my marriage. I look at life logically, not astrologically.
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Basab
No, Sita, it is not filmi pyaar. Don't take what I said literally. Both boy and girl act very senti before marriage. They will act like kids, but after marriage they become real, normal, sensible people.
sita wrote:Basab wrote:Love after marriage is different from love before marriage: before marriage, it is more about an exhibition of feelings, and after marriage, it is not about that. I mean, running around trees and celebrating valentine's day and saying romantic lines happen before marriage, not after.
hehehhe...this is filmi pyar re...
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Basab
Sita,
I am not joking. The love birds can be seen all around. They will have fights over petty issues and talk senti all the time. I don't like all that.
I am not joking. The love birds can be seen all around. They will have fights over petty issues and talk senti all the time. I don't like all that.
sita wrote:Heyyy Bassu...this is filmi pyar ...watch this![]()
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixS-nK8cmbw


