Dear dgp,
As per your request in the PM, here's my analysis.
The main reasons for the delay in your marriage are
1) A strong Punarbhu yoga.
What is a Punarbhu Yoga?
The Moon joins Saturn in the 7th House, giving rise to what is known as Punarbhu yoga. Punarbhu is formed whenever the Moon and Saturn are in conjunction or aspect and one of them either lies in or rules the 7th House, and this goes for both the birth Ascendant/Lagna and the 7th from the Moon. Although Punarbhu orginally was applied to females, these days it can be equally applied to both genders, and usually registers as an intended marriage being suddenly broken off - either by the native him/herself, or the partner, or by circumstances beyond either of their control.
In your case Sat aspects Moon posited in the 3rd from the 9th H and Sat is posited in the 7th from moon and moon is L7 from Lg. Lg is in Shravana, L-Moon, Moon is in Uttarbhadrapada, L-Sat, Sat is in Hasta, L-Moon. There is a very strong nakshatra parivartan yoga between the Lagna and 2nd L Saturn and 7th L Moon. Saturn being Lord of the 2nd is also a Marakesh so is Moon as Lord of the 7th. Satrun also aspects the lagna - his own house. Saturn causes delay and this combination shows quite extreme delay. Saturn is extremely influential in your chart.
2) Kuja the L4 and L11 in a severe gandanta in the 8th H (1 deg 16' Leo - Magha nk). Kuja is the Darakarak in your chart. Kuja is also the navamsha L7. This shows high turbulance, breakage and delay in matters of matrimony. Apart from Kuja dosha (8th in rashi 12th in Nav)
3) Venus the Karak for marriage is in the H of Kuja, is in the Nakshatra of friend Shani (anuradha) and is aspected by both Kuja and Shani. Venus is somewhat weak under the gaze of 2 malefics.
4) Guru as the L3 and L12 is in Virgo and posited in 7th from moon. Guru is a malefic for your chart and is vargottam - this is not good. Guru is also combust and aspects both moon and lagna.
5) Moon receives the full 7th aspect of Sun, Saturn and Malefic Guru - this points towards a mind prone to confusion. In the Navamsha, Moon is with Guru.
6) Ketu is in Lagna, is in the Nakshatra of 8th L Sun (uttarashadha) - a fiery planet, in a bhutatwa rashi and in a fiery nakshatra. Ketu is aspected by Guru.
7) Rahu is in 7th Cancer, L-Moon. Rahu is in the Nakshatra of friend Shani - Pushya. Pushya is one of the most steadfast nakshatras of the zodiac and denotes both traditionality and religiosity, it is also fiery and warlike. This indicates your wife would most likely be deeply religious but her approach to dharma might be a little off-beat. She might revere one of the new age gurujis or support some reformist sects. This position of Rahu is not very bad. Actually it is quite good in some respects.
8. The 7th H receives no benefic aspects in the rashi chart.
Analysing the Moon and the lagna it appears that you suffer from bouts of violent rage and anger, although you keep it under strict control. You are also prone to bouts of deep dejection and depressions. Moon is in a Kemadruma Yoga. Although the daridra angle has been cancelled by 3 planets in a quadrant to moon (7th) a sense of lonelyness will be your lifelong companion.
What I have given you till now is enough to depress a sailor coming to port. So here is the good part.
In the Navamsha
Venus is the Lg lord and Mars is the 7th lord. Both are very strong being in their houses and aspect each other. (Ven-Lib, Mar-Ar). However Ven is also the 6th L and Mars the 12 L and aspect each other from the 6th and 12th Houses.
Ven is free from Malefic influence in Nav.
Mars is aspected by Shani in Nav but Shani is the 9th and 10th L in Nav - a yogakarak. Also Shani in Cancer is not too harsh.
Shani also eyes moon in Nav but there is no punarbhu yoga in Nav.
The mutual aspect of the lg and 7th lord promises you a lovely and lively wife and since the lords are Mars and Venus I suppose your exasperated expectations would be more than amply compensated.
However the 6th and 12th lord angle in rashi and navamsha (consider aspect of Guru to 7th L in rashi) points towards fluctuating health of your spouse and you would get into considerable expense due to that.
You have a rare and excellent yoga in your chart both rashi and navamsha - Parijat Yoga. (Parijat Yoga is not Kalpadruma Yoga which is more complicated and is of a higher octave.)
A planetary combination related with the position of the Ascendant lord. If the lord of the sign where the Ascendant lord is situated, or if the lord of the navamsa where the lord of the sign in which the Ascendant lord is situated is placed in a cardinal or trine house, Parijata Yoga is formed. It makes the person born under it a sovereign, destined to be happy during the middle or the later part of his life. Such a person is respected by other kings. He is fond of wars, possesses immense wealth, is mindful of his duties towards the state, and is compassionate in disposition.
As given above, Parijat yoga activates in the middle or later part of life. At least after 40. It is also a very stable yoga, means it will manifest to a goodly extent even if the constituents are afflicted. But the first part of life would be troublesome. Your Parijat Yoga is created by Shani, Mercury and Jupiter. At least two of the constituents are highly afflicted. So life till your 40s would be quite troublesome but if you persevere you'll reap rich rewards from middle age.
You were born in Dhruva yoga. It stands for patience, steadfastness and fixity of purpose. At also makes the native highly intelligent and comfortable financially. You have the ability to stick to a course inspite of heavy obstacles. It is not a mean feat. Again the benefic effects of this yoga manifests from middle age. (I pay a lot of importance to the Surya Siddhanta yogas or Nitya yogas because they are dasha independent and acts as a background music to ones life. Although the strength of the sun and moon would vary the final effects of the yoga).
You have severe Kuja Dosha. Kuja matures after 30-32 when the head becomes cooler and the mind less turbulent.
Shani begins to ease its harsh grip after 35 so your Punarbhu yoga would lessen after 35. (actually I'm cheating a little bit here, Shani starts to ease after 35 but tangible results manifests after 40. If I stress that you might be tempted to jump off the bridge

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Your Ketu MD runs till 11/02/2016. This period is very inauspicious for you and it is unlikely that marriage will happen. Although opportunities will be there from 15/01/2011 to 29/01/2013. (Moon, Mars & Rahu ADs) and between 05/01/2014 to 14/02/2015 (sat AD).
In my opinion you should not marry before 35.
Your best period for marriage comes from your Ven MD which starts from 11/02/2016. 2016 and 2017 are excellent years for you to get married.
As far as my calculations love marriages won't work for you. For the following reasons:
5th L Ven in rashi is heavily afflicted. 4th and 11th L Mars in a gandanta.
In the SAV chart the score for your Lg is 29 and that for the 7th H is 34. You will always be dominated by your immediate society - parents, friends, social peers, and care too much for public opinion. It is very unlikely that it will be the other way round.
It'll be better for you to have an arranged marriage.
Chart matching is 100% essential for your marriage.
Kuja dosha matching is 500% essential. Otherwise do not marry. ( I shall not give any freewill / kriyaman karma recommendation in your case.)
You should be married to a lady of calm and very stable temperament. Ladies with their moons in Pushya or Anuradha would be beneficial for you.
You have excellent perseverence and always try to beat the limitations destiny has imposed upon you. From Nov 2011 Shani will be exalted in Libra, in your 10th H. Use this 2.5 years to better your career and make your finances more secure. Marry after 2015.
I gave you such a detailed expln because in my very limited exp I found your chart to be a bit extraordinary. Lots of heights but lots of pitfalls. You'll have to struggle through the 30's but will be healthy, wealthy and wise from your 40's.
The period between 12/10/2012 to 29/01/2013 is extremely troublesome for your health. Ketu MD Rahu AD. Take great care and do medical check ups.
Get into a regular physical regimen like jogging or else suppressed emotions will affect your heart.
There are a couple of 'shaaps' in your chart.
Moon aspected by 2 malefics - most likely matrishaap
Venus aspected by 2 malefics - most likely kalatrashaap.
Recite the Sri Sri Durga Saptasati regularly. Reciting the Sri Hanuman Chalisa would also help.
I do no know about pariharas. But if you want to do something about the shaaps please ask astrosonu ji or aliens ji. They have sound knowledge regarding these things.
I am a novice and do not know much and might be totally wrong in my analysis. If so, forgive my ineptitude.
Regards
Swamykool
It's better to rule in hell than to serve in heaven.