please help me all!!!history has repeated itself once again!

[dgp]

hello all,
just a few days back I had asked all the astrologers here about the compatibility between me & the girl with whom my alliance was fixed(arrange marriage)...as I had told the people here that I was not feeling compatible & satisfied at all with her,so I have broken off this alliance the learned people had told me that the compatibility levels are good & will be good,however I was not feeling comfortable from day one...in the last 3 months of our courtship,I hardly used to talk to her or think about her & finally I called it off...the alliance was broken by me 2 days back,infact on my 29th b'day ...engagement was supposed to be in the end of oct 2010 & marriage had been fixed for Jan 2011...but I am single again today

as you all would know but i still would provide a brief history:I have already been through 3 failed serious love affairs(the last & the bestest one ended in feb 2010),then me & my parents came very close to fixing an alliance in march 2010(i again backed off as the girls family background dint come out as good as they had lied about a lot of things which we came to know later),then finally my parents & me fixed this alliance for me in June 2010 after a lot of efforts & difficulty searching an alliance(with marriage supposed to be for Jan 2011),now this rishta/alliance has also been broken by me primarily as I found the girl to be aggressive,short tempered,rude & argumentative from the very first day....my heart & mind always used to say if i had carried on,the marriage wouldnt have survived...

so here I am today again,I bow down on my knees with my folded hands in front of all you great learned people & astrologers & humbly request you to please check my chart & tell me AM I DESTINED TO BE DOOMED FOREVER??? WILL I EVER GET MARRIED??? IS MARRIAGE PROMISED IN MY CHART????LOVE OR ARRANGE??? & WHEN????
life is becoming increasingly frustrating day by day...this recent marriage situation has again stressed out my parents(though this alliance was refused by me due to compatibility issues)...
I know that I am a manglik,is that whats causing the whole problem???or my present Ketu MD is the cause of this???what about the Venus MD starting in feb 2016???

Events in the Venus Antardasha that ended in sept 2010:I lost the best relationship I had in feb 2010,I got 2 decent salary hikes(one in oct 2009 & 2nd in april 2010),joined MBA in april 2010(the result of 1st semester exams was 10 times better that expected),then this marriage alliance took place in june 2010(but has ended/broken in oct 2010)

many people here had predicted that I will get married before june 2011 & it did seem correct but now this alliance is broken...

I humbly request everybody here to please check my details & tell me when is marriage supposed to happen??? are there any chances of a love marriage??? my marriage situation has become a cause of big concern & tension for my parents who have already seen many lows in their life financially...my behavior has become so short tempered,rude,irritating that I pick up arguments/fights with almost everyone who doesnt agree with me..my past life events have made me so rude in these present times...life seems stuck...

my details are:
Male
DOB: Oct 12th,1981
POB: Chandigarh,India.
TOB: 2:30pm(1430)

thanks a lot in advance
anxiously waiting for some replies

a very depressed,frustrated soul

dgp

[astroboy]

DGP,


I sent you a PM some time back,



Sent: Sat Oct 09, 2010 11:39 am
From: astroboy
To: dgp

DGP

Dont feel bad

lagna has ketu
lagna lord is with the 8th lord
lagna lord and 2nd lord is combust

This indicates a horoscope where one damages his own life with his own actions.


I rest my case.

[dgp]

hello astroboy ji,
i still have your PM...I remember each & every word you said...
my dilemna since last 3 months was always that how should I go ahead for marriage with a girl with whom I dont even feel like picking up the phone & talking...I hardly used to talk to her & to be honest used to give excuses that I am busy coz there was no charm or tenderness involved...woundnt I have spoiled my & her life by marrying her just for the sake of marrying???? in all the last 3 months she used to complain that I remain aloof,not interested & she used to ask me herself whether we should continue to move ahead with this relation or not...even she was double minded coz of me & then her raw behaviour like rudeness n arrogance spoiled the atmosphere...what could have I done????

astroboy ji,please analyze my case...its a request...my frustration is really causing mental agony to my parents as well...
would like to add here that I have been visiting a nearby temple/place of worship since last almost 3 years without missing on a single day,I have been feeding stray dogs since the last 1 year without missing out on a single day...the heavens seem to be after my life

I request assistance about marriage please

[dgp]

thank you Kannan ji,

please analyse from my birth details that 'is marriage promised in my life' ?? would it be a love or an arrnage marriage??? & when will marriage happen???

i would request all the guru ji's here to kindly have a look into my chart & check the marriage time please !

bestest regards
dgp

[dgp]

hello to all,

I would humbly request all the guru ji's here to please look into my chart & check my marriage time...its a deep hearted request...

thanks

[dgp]

hello again,

I have been on this forum since last 1 year...I really need your help now guru ji's as things are very frustrating...is my fate or destiny too bad that I am not getting any responses??? or is my chart very confusing that nothing is sure what will happen????

please provide some analysis as to when would marriage occur & whether it would be love or an arranged one?

thanks a lot in anticipation

dgp

[dgp]

thank you for replying kannan ji,

you have mentioned 2 things which are very confusing...you have said that marriage is promised but you have also said that chances are feeble...both the things are opposite to each other....
please clarify Kannan ji...your reply is highly appreciated...

thanks in advance

[astroboy]

Dear DGP,

I am sorry to say this, But you are fishing in the wrong pond. You are responsible for your own action's. The Punarboo dosha is strong and it is you who backed out at the last minute sighting some fault or the other with the girl.

For your information I have posted what Punarboo Dosha is,

Punarboo, also spelt Punarbhu dosha indicates a association of the Moon with Saturn, either by conjunction or aspect. Punarbhu indicates a sudden out of the blue frequently inanticipated change of heart between two people planning to Marry. It is strong paticularly in the horosocope of women. The Native does a 180 deg turn for no valid reason. I know of a girl who did not turn up at the wedding and the wedding had to be cancelled. I also know of a girl who got married and filed for divorce the next day. All in a space of 17 hours. No body know's to this day why she wanted out. And this after having a 2 year relationship with the Man.

In your case, The Dosha is absolutely strong because,

Chandra aspect's Shani
Shani is in Chandra's Nakshatra
Chandra is in Shani's Nakshatra
Shani Aspects Moon in the Navamsha.

Get a grip on what you want and then make a move. It's all in your hand's . Use your free will to control your thought's and action's.

Best regards .

[dgp]

thanks a lot astroboy,

my one time query to you would be that apart from the doshas's that you just mentioned, is marriage promised in my chart,if yes when???
sir,there has hardly been any happiness or celebration in our home since ages & with this recent rishta also broken,my parents are now under immense stress,tension & worries that everything looks so bleak at the moment....

astroboy ji, please check from my birth details that is marriage promised???few months back you had said that Ketu MD would bring marriage...please check when will marriage happen?

thanks a ton in advance

[astroboy]

I said Ketu will "Bring" you Marriage. Ketu Did "bring" you a Girl did he not ???. I dont want to know what happened after that, But the point is Ketu Dasha is still on, He can "Bring you another Girl. So I suggest that you just decide what you want in a "Girl" and then look for one. Ketu dasha is on till 2016. So Ketu will keep Bringing Marriage, All you have to do is just tie the knot .

[chaks]

So I suggest that you just decide what you want in a "Girl" and then look for one.

Very well said Astroboy.

DGP,

Please remember that girls are not made to your specifications per default. Marriage in itself is a huge compromise and you need to be flexible and adjusting to enter into it and keep it going.

All the very best.

[astroboy]

Dear Chak's Ji,

I cannot understand the attitude of the parents sometimes. They act as if Marriage is like air and water and that their children are not married by 24 they will just die of thirst and suffocation.

And to make matters worse these 20/35 year old's act as if they will decay and rot away if they dont have a spouse. I cannot understand this urgency and fascination.

Once marriage is done then the next rush is for kid's , Like the world is going to be hit by a Astroid if they dont have children and that their children will find a cure for all the ills of the world. Like we dont have enough on this earth already. I am not against people having Kid's, But the frenzy to do it gets to my nerves.


Best regard's

[chaks]

You are bang on. I don't understand that either. It's the society, Astroboy, and our lineage that's responsible for all this. People think that they are respected by the society if one is married and the very purpose of life is to leave behind a progeny. It's in our vedas and puranas I think too. They naturally think marriage is the be all and end all. They need stronger moons like we have I guess to decide for themselves instead of doing it for their parents.

[kunalbhardwaj27]

[meme]

seems even the puranas forbid buying of property from a person who does not have children so the urge and society kills u as chaks said.......but the post of ab was funny..... not a very good day is it ????

[Dev]

If fame is there noone cares whether they have children or not. It is only for the middle class people who have problems facing their own relatives. I give below a list who are or were respected though they do not have children or even marriage.
Atal Bihari Vajpayye
Abdul Kalam
Mamata Banerjee
T.N.Seshan
Jayalalitha
Mayawathi
Uma Bharati
M.G.R

and may be many more. Did they not have respect at all?

Dev

[chaks]

seems even the puranas forbid buying of property from a person who does not have children so the urge and society kills u as chaks said.......but the post of ab was funny..... not a very good day is it ????

Maybe today somebody asked Astroboy why he was single

[chaks]

Dev ji, I said people think they are respected more if they are married and have children. It need not necessarily be the case in practice.

[Dev]

Yes Chaks, I agree with you cent percent.

Dev

[milredr]

Dear Chak's Ji,

I cannot understand the attitude of the parents sometimes. They act as if Marriage is like air and water and that their children are not married by 24 they will just die of thirst and suffocation.

This has been happening from generations....Its an inherent part of our society i guess....whats the point in questioning

And to make matters worse these 20/35 year old's act as if they will decay and rot away if they dont have a spouse. I cannot understand this urgency and fascination.

Haha u forgot the hormones . Ours is a culturally different society. If live in relationships were encouraged the frenzy about marriage would have come down i guess

Once marriage is done then the next rush is for kid's , Like the world is going to be hit by a Astroid if they dont have children and that their children will find a cure for all the ills of the world. Like we dont have enough on this earth already. I am not against people having Kid's, But the frenzy to do it gets to my nerves.

I have never understood this though

[sinecurve]

Hi Chaks and astroboy,
very good posts. I want to add up here once you have a kid specially girl again each one in the society force on you to have another so that you can have a son. What a irony they feel pity for you even though you may be very very happy......
best rgds,
cjappu

Wonderful !! what you said....hypocrites they are !!

[sinecurve]

If live in relationships were encouraged the frenzy about marriage would have come down i guess

Can I agree more !!!

[dgp]

thank you all,

does that mean I am destined to be doomed forever from the marriage/relationship point of view???even if I get married or a relationship happens,that would again break up????
dont these doshas mature up after a certain age???I read somewhere that manglik dosha matures up after the age of 28 & regarding punarphoo,it is more strong in case of females than males???

what does my chart say??? its not only relationships/marriage aspect of my life that is bad,every other aspect of my life is not that great...I had an education break,my parents suffered big financial crisis which resulted in the sale of our factory & home,we have been staying on rent all our life(home that we built got sold),have a small plot but unable to construct home there coz of the location of the plot,then 3 failed love affairs,then this broken rishta....all our friends/relatives are flourishing in millions & all of them took advice from my father to run their businesses but our destiny never helped us...
every aspect of my life is shaky,its been ages I had a smile on my face...IS MY LIFE JINXED????

its a request to all the guru ji's here to kindly look into my chart & see that is there any solace coming in the forthcoming years or is this life going to be just a matter of survival & just waiting for it to end in dismal...
I may be sounding very negative in my posts,but thats what my life over the last few years has been...

thanks

[dgp]

help please

[dgp]

hello all,

may I please have some definitive answer as to when will marriage take place & whether it would be an arranged or a love marriage???

thanks in anticipation
dgp