Pitra Dosh & and its remedy?

[indyan]

Dear Guru ji,
I have heard that if one's horoscope is cursed by Pitra (Ancestors) then it is call as Pitra dosh. I am hindu by religion but in our family we never had any such pujan or daan. I saw it in my friends home and other relatives that they do 14-15 days pitra pujan in pitra pakha, they dont shave or cut hair,nail during these days and they also offer water and meal to their ancestors (some pujan and other things they do for their ancestor).

Me and my family is facing the worst time since 1993 and after querying and finding i found that it can also be due Pitra dosha. If the ancestor spirits give you curse then nothing can be fruitful in native life.

I request all guru ji to kindly analyze my horoscope and tell me does my horoscope have Pitra dosh. If yes How ? And also the remedy which we need to perform.
(I heard about Bodh gaya in Bihar,India. where Pitra daan can be done). Does Pitra Daan in Gaya during Pitra paksh escape me and my family from Pitra dosh?



Respect and Regards.

PS:- Got some information from this site. Thought to share here, How true and authentic this article is?
http://www.spiritualresearchfoundation. ... /ancestors

[indyan]

Respected learned astrologers,
Can anyone please have a look at my post

Respect and regards,

[R V RAMANAN]

Dear Indyan

Your chart does not have a pitru dosha. Saturn the yoga karaka afflicted by the presence of 6th lord as well as the nodes and all these planets in the badhaka sthana for your lagna has wrecked havoc in your life. Moreover, presently as saturn is in virgo where the AV dots are very less is creating all sorts of problems. The easiest and the most effective remedy is to chant hanuman chalisa in the morning and vishnu sahasranamam in the evening. THis should take care of all your troubles.

regards
ramanan

[indyan]

Thanks a lot Guru ji for guiding me. But as you can see i have guru chandal yoga (Sat and jup in 11th) due to which i beome atheist , I dont believe in God. But yes i believe in supreme power universal powers. I dont break powers into religions and name of GOD. Sorry i am very much hindu and my family love to worship god. But after so much trouble i cant believe on their existance any more. I use to fast, worship till 2001-2002 but since 2002 i never worshiped any god. Ya i love to visit temples mosques and every holy place. But i dont worship them.
I Came here to know about me and my endless trouble and its remedy. If after going back to worship give me comfort then i will sure do it. But as i remember after leaving my poojan my life become good. whenever i worship something bad happened with me or my family. You can say it my misconception , but these things happened with me more than 4-5 times. After leaving worship things not become good but not become worst also. But if i continue worship then even the things which can become good become worst for me.

Why this is happening? Due to guru chandal yoga? If yes any remedy for it? I am really afraid to worship any god coz due to it i suffered many times.

Respect and regards

[R V RAMANAN]

Dear Indyan

The lord of 5th, yoga karaka, saturn afflicted by being placed in the badhaka sthana along with 6th lord jupiter and rahu aspected by ketu and from the moon sign, lord of 5th being debilitated has made you disbelieve god.

Pls. understand that this earth is presently nineteen billion years old (proved by the carbon dating of the fossils) is still running despite the fact that we have managed to literally rape it because of the supreme capacity of the great god. We may not know his workings but from my experience I can vouch that it is just limitless compassion.

Pls. change your attitude and persist with worship shunning all obstacles both internal and external enroute. You will see an ocean of difference outside you, provided you allow a very little transformation inside.

The trick is to be aware of yourself within and without and throughout.

all the best

regards
ramanan

[indyan]

Dear Indyan

The lord of 5th, yoga karaka, saturn afflicted by being placed in the badhaka sthana along with 6th lord jupiter and rahu aspected by ketu and from the moon sign, lord of 5th being debilitated has made you disbelieve god.

Pls. understand that this earth is presently nineteen billion years old (proved by the carbon dating of the fossils) is still running despite the fact that we have managed to literally rape it because of the supreme capacity of the great god. We may not know his workings but from my experience I can vouch that it is just limitless compassion.

Pls. change your attitude and persist with worship shunning all obstacles both internal and external enroute. You will see an ocean of difference outside you, provided you allow a very little transformation inside.

The trick is to be aware of yourself within and without and throughout.

all the best

regards
ramanan

Once again thank for your great input in my question. But this is really hard for me to believe again on GOD who never gave me any fruitful result after worshiping them UNCONDITIONALLY.

I was very much into worship and i used to worship them like my parents. But after sometimes when i realized that they are just stones nothing else i quit to worship them. On my bad times my parents my siblings cared for me not that GOD. I know there is something which is governing the whole universe thats why i told that i respect and follow the laws of universe but i dont have a single percent love for GOD.
I really love to visit temple and the places where God is worshiped but from my heart i dont like to worship them at all. I dont whether i am doing any sin or not but i dont believe in doing such things which my heart dont allow. If you love something then love him dont show that you love them else you are breaking someone trust. and i believe in above statement.
I had my business my home everything which a man want i got since my birth, but all of sudden everthing went off. My parents are so much devoted to god that they still pray them but i cant. If I treated them like parents then how come they left me in bad time? why dont they come to save me? why i get that much problem in life? I have lots questions which i wanna ask to GOD.

I really want him to come down for me and answer my question. According to epics every person is god's child then how come a parent want there child to be in bad times. I never understand it. Some granth told that it is MOH and MAYA...
well i dont want to say anything against them coz i respect them.I dont love them but i love dont hate them.

I always give donations to orphans or some needy persons. I try to feed the beggars coz i find satisfaction when i do such things but i never find satisfaction while worshiping god.

SORRY guru ji, I know this forum have hardcore believer of god but the problems which i faced during last 17 years made me stubborn. Still i am kind hearted and want every people to be happy, if anything can be done from me to make them i never set back for giving them my hands.
I had seen the worst time of my life where i had to murder some criminals to save my family life.

AFAIK ketu in 5th make a person spiritual and give him foresight power (psychic/medium) which i feel sometimes.
I request you to please throw some light and give me your guidance to overcome from my problem. If worship is the only way then guru ji how can i worship them whom i dont love (I dont hate them).

Respect and regards

[R V RAMANAN]

dear friend

if faith could be defined then i think the whole world will be a much better place to live

i shall answer yr question in due course.

rgrds

ramanan

[sinecurve]

Once again thank for your great input in my question. But this is really hard for me to believe again on GOD who never gave me any fruitful result after worshiping them UNCONDITIONALLY.

I was very much into worship and i used to worship them like my parents. But after sometimes when i realized that they are just stones nothing else i quit to worship them. On my bad times my parents my siblings cared for me not that GOD. I know there is something which is governing the whole universe thats why i told that i respect and follow the laws of universe but i dont have a single percent love for GOD.
I really love to visit temple and the places where God is worshiped but from my heart i dont like to worship them at all. I dont whether i am doing any sin or not but i dont believe in doing such things which my heart dont allow. If you love something then love him dont show that you love them else you are breaking someone trust. and i believe in above statement.
I had my business my home everything which a man want i got since my birth, but all of sudden everthing went off. My parents are so much devoted to god that they still pray them but i cant. If I treated them like parents then how come they left me in bad time? why dont they come to save me? why i get that much problem in life? I have lots questions which i wanna ask to GOD.

I really want him to come down for me and answer my question. According to epics every person is god's child then how come a parent want there child to be in bad times. I never understand it. Some granth told that it is MOH and MAYA...
well i dont want to say anything against them coz i respect them.I dont love them but i love dont hate them.

I always give donations to orphans or some needy persons. I try to feed the beggars coz i find satisfaction when i do such things but i never find satisfaction while worshiping god.

SORRY guru ji, I know this forum have hardcore believer of god but the problems which i faced during last 17 years made me stubborn. Still i am kind hearted and want every people to be happy, if anything can be done from me to make them i never set back for giving them my hands.
I had seen the worst time of my life where i had to murder some criminals to save my family life.

AFAIK ketu in 5th make a person spiritual and give him foresight power (psychic/medium) which i feel sometimes.
I request you to please throw some light and give me your guidance to overcome from my problem. If worship is the only way then guru ji how can i worship them whom i dont love (I dont hate them).

Respect and regards

I could totally relate to the post so heres my 2 cents....

1) Please DO NOT think God as someone who is merciful and is sitting there granting everyones wishes. I too have my own doubts in existence of God and that too after coming from a highly religious brahmin family. OK lets believe for a minute that there is God and he has designed the entire world....well then he should be matured, intelligent and smart who would have already knitted a self-running system. He has incorporated Karma which defines or decide reincarnation. We are given destiny and a free-will so 'we sow what we reap'. Soooo.... if we start believing in self-running world with no interference from God, as of now we might just be living our good/bad karma AND could use our free will to do good karma we might be benefited in next birth.

2) If you pray to God please stop asking for favors. He knows whats good and bad for you and hes smart enough to decide and provide when he thinks is the good time. Remember he not human....he is GOD ...the supreme....he know whats better for you and how to get you Moksha. Just pray and leave rest to him....

3) Now this always raises eyebrows but I keep repeating myself that 'Remedies Never work'. Your destiny is like a arrow which has left the bow and all you got is your free will to accumulate good karma for next birth. You cant change a BIT in this life...its all set !! Help the needy and the poor....donate ....do some good service...respect the elders....trust me thats MUCH MUCH better karma than sitting for hours and doing mantras, which offcourse you might do...but I guess just thanking God once a day for all he has provided us with and asking for forgiveness for any bad karma we intentionally / unintentionally do is ENOUGH !!!...but thats what i think....

4) Noone can make you believe in God....and you should not follow blindly anyways....always believe what you think is right !!!

thanks for your time.

[indyan]

I could totally relate to the post so heres my 2 cents....

1) Please DO NOT think God as someone who is merciful and is sitting there granting everyones wishes. I too have my own doubts in existence of God and that too after coming from a highly religious brahmin family. OK lets believe for a minute that there is God and he has designed the entire world....well then he should be matured, intelligent and smart who would have already knitted a self-running system. He has incorporated Karma which defines or decide reincarnation. We are given destiny and a free-will so 'we sow what we reap'. Soooo.... if we start believing in self-running world with no interference from God, as of now we might just be living our good/bad karma AND could use our free will to do good karma we might be benefited in next birth.

2) If you pray to God please stop asking for favors. He knows whats good and bad for you and hes smart enough to decide and provide when he thinks is the good time. Remember he not human....he is GOD ...the supreme....he know whats better for you and how to get you Moksha. Just pray and leave rest to him....

3) Now this always raises eyebrows but I keep repeating myself that 'Remedies Never work'. Your destiny is like a arrow which has left the bow and all you got is your free will to accumulate good karma for next birth. You cant change a BIT in this life...its all set !! Help the needy and the poor....donate ....do some good service...respect the elders....trust me thats MUCH MUCH better karma than sitting for hours and doing mantras, which offcourse you might do...but I guess just thanking God once a day for all he has provided us with and asking for forgiveness for any bad karma we intentionally / unintentionally do is ENOUGH !!!...but thats what i think....

4) Noone can make you believe in God....and you should not follow blindly anyways....always believe what you think is right !!!

I love to see posts where people are more practical and can think out off the box.

thanks for your time.

Dear sinecurve,
Thanks for your valuable time and your point of view upon my reply.
I request you to please go through to below given link where me and Basab ji posted something , please go through it and then give your valuable reply.



Respect and regards.

[Talib]

Appu Ji,

Many Thanks for this beautiful post.

Love
Talib

[Basab]

Cjappu,

This is 100% true! and I am saying this because I have experienced this in my own life a countless no. of times. And the most amazing thing is, I have never ever worshipped God and never even think of Him, except rarely sometimes. So, I don't think God will only help when we worship Him and not help when we don't worship Him. And now, coming to help, He will not change our destiny, but just give us some support when we need it badly, and we don't need to pray to Him for that. Of course, that's my belief.

Footprints in the Sand

One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord. Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.

In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand. Sometimes there were two sets of footprints, other times there was one only.

This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life, when I was suffering from anguish, sorrow or defeat, I could see only one set of footprints, so I said to the Lord,

“You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you, you would walk with me always. But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life there has only been one set of footprints in the sand. Why, when I needed you most, have you not been there for me?”

The Lord replied, “The years when you have seen only one set of footprints, my child, is when I carried you.

[sinecurve]

Hi Indyan,

Once in my low times when I questioned about God's existence long long back I came across this poster which I thought to share with you.

Footprints in the Sand

One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord. Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.

In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand. Sometimes there were two sets of footprints, other times there was one only.

This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life, when I was suffering from anguish, sorrow or defeat, I could see only one set of footprints, so I said to the Lord,

“You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you, you would walk with me always. But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life there has only been one set of footprints in the sand. Why, when I needed you most, have you not been there for me?”

The Lord replied, “The years when you have seen only one set of footprints, my child, is when I carried you.”


--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Mary Stevenson, 1936

Best rgds,
cjappu

Good One !!!

Guess it all boils down to one word.... 'Faith'....as Nina's signature says 'Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark.'

[onlyhope]

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[sonali.shah]

I like this cjappu. Thanks.

Hi Indyan,

Once in my low times when I questioned about God's existence long long back I came across this poster which I thought to share with you.

Footprints in the Sand

One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord. Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.

In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand. Sometimes there were two sets of footprints, other times there was one only.

This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life, when I was suffering from anguish, sorrow or defeat, I could see only one set of footprints, so I said to the Lord,

“You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you, you would walk with me always. But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life there has only been one set of footprints in the sand. Why, when I needed you most, have you not been there for me?”

The Lord replied, “The years when you have seen only one set of footprints, my child, is when I carried you.”


--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Mary Stevenson, 1936

Best rgds,
cjappu

[aliens19672004]

Hi

What is Pitru dosh/srap which is the first thing we need to understand. For Pitru we see Sun because he is the head of the family and takes care of us and our family. When Sun is aspected by 3 malefics like Mars, Rahu and saturn (any two of them should aspect sun by graha dristi) the Pitru dosh exists. If anybody has got this dosh they have to do sharadh every year without fail.

If they are alive then they have to be taken care by the person


regards
Uma shanker achanta