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DOB: Saturday, 21 Feb 1981, Female, Chennai - Tamilnadu India, 14:10 Hrs.

The above born person is already 34 and no signs of marriage nor anyone approaching for a marriage.

When will this person get married?
How will the married life and spouse be?

Thanks.
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[quote="PS.Lynch"]DOB: Saturday, 21 Feb 1981, Female, Chennai - Tamilnadu India, 14:10 Hrs.

The above born person is already 34 and no signs of marriage nor anyone approaching for a marriage.

When will this person get married?
How will the married life and spouse be?

Thanks.[/quote]

Please reply. Thanks. :)
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Dear PSL
Whenever Sat is associated with 7H/L it is an indication of delay in marriage.
In this chartt, Sat is connectin to 7H from Lagna, Moon, D-9, Upapada Lagna as well as Karakmansha Lagna Virgo.
Further karaka for marriage Ven is in 8H on Rahu Ketu axis and debi in D-9.
So delay in marriage is for sure.

Present Jamini MD is Aquarius which contain DK Mer and this shd give marriage.
The favourable AD is Libra (Jan-June 2016) which is DkN and get aspected by DK Mer.

God bless
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[quote="Dr Neeraj"]Dear PSL
Whenever Sat is associated with 7H/L it is an indication of delay in marriage.
In this chartt, Sat is connectin to 7H from Lagna, Moon, D-9, Upapada Lagna as well as Karakmansha Lagna Virgo.
Further karaka for marriage Ven is in 8H on Rahu Ketu axis and debi in D-9.
So delay in marriage is for sure.

Present Jamini MD is Aquarius which contain DK Mer and this shd give marriage.
The favourable AD is Libra (Jan-June 2016) which is DkN and get aspected by DK Mer.

God bless
Neeraj[/quote]

Thanks for your reply. Also please let us know how will the married life and spouse be?
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Thanks for your reply.

Also please let us know how will the married life and spouse be?

Will these factors delaying the marriage be in any way affect the married life and should the person be in any way be extra precautions to avoid any issues post marriage?
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From 2017 Aug Jupiter dasa starts.
From Moon Jup is the 7th lord and is aspecting the 7th house.
All possibilities are there for the native to get married in Jup Dasa.
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[quote="subramanianp"]From 2017 Aug Jupiter dasa starts.
From Moon Jup is the 7th lord and is aspecting the 7th house.
All possibilities are there for the native to get married in Jup Dasa.[/quote]

Thanks for your reply.

Also please let us know how will the married life and spouse be?

Will these factors delaying the marriage be in any way affect the married life and should the person be in any way be extra precautions to avoid any issues post marriage?
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[quote="Dr Neeraj"]Dear PSL
Whenever Sat is associated with 7H/L it is an indication of delay in marriage.
In this chartt, Sat is connectin to 7H from Lagna, Moon, D-9, Upapada Lagna as well as Karakmansha Lagna Virgo.
Further karaka for marriage Ven is in 8H on Rahu Ketu axis and debi in D-9.
So delay in marriage is for sure.

Present Jamini MD is Aquarius which contain DK Mer and this shd give marriage.
The favourable AD is Libra (Jan-June 2016) which is DkN and get aspected by DK Mer.

God bless
Neeraj[/quote]

Thanks for your reply.

Also please let us know how will the married life and spouse be?

Will these factors delaying the marriage be in any way affect the married life and should the person be in any way be extra precautions to avoid any issues post marriage?

Thanks.
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Please let us know how will the married life and spouse be?

Will these factors delaying her marriage be in any way affect the married life and should the person be in any way be extra precautions to avoid any issues post marriage?

Thanks.
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Thanks everyone for your replies,

Also please let us know how will the married life and spouse be?

Will these factors delaying the marriage be in any way affect the married life and should the person be in any way be extra precautions to avoid any issues post marriage?

Thanks.
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Hello PSL
Are proposals made at the request of the person or by the family ?
Her chances are better after August 2016.
Need to strengthen/appease most of the planets : Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Mars, Moon, Rahu and Ketu
and Saturn. Most of the important significators are poorly placed or afflicted.
I hope she is not wearing any gemstones.
Only spiritual remedial measures, when started, will help if done in all sincerity and throughout.
After having started the remedial measures, then start the search after the above given period.
Hope this helps.
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Dear PS.Lynch
You asked two questions

1.Also please let us know how will the married life and spouse be?
From Lagna the the 7th lord Jup is in a Kendra with the 9th lord Saturn.
From Moon the 7th lord Jup is aspecting the 7th.
Overall picture is good and so the spouse will be a good person.
However Venus being in the 8th there may be small issues in the married life.

2.Will these factors delaying the marriage be in any way affect the married life and should the person be in any way be extra precautions to avoid any issues post marriage?
Don’t worry. Factors causing delay are not going to affect the married life. The native need not take extra care but the astrologer who is matching charts for the native has to take extra care.
Please be happy.
All the best.
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Dear Subramanianp ji

I've some academic queries.

I've noticed that whenever Sat connects to 7H/L, it gives delay in marriage (which in today's scenario may be taken as 28+ for boys and 26+ for girls) but at times there is some extra delay. I've noted that along with Sat's connection to 7H/L, whenever Ven is debi or combust, it gives extra delay.
I always face problems in calculating how much is the extent of delay. Is there any way to calculate the approx age (means how much delay) at which marriage will solemnized?

E.g. For PS Lynch, you've mentioned that marriage may come in/after 2017 (age 36).
I was just observing that the native is currently going thru the Vimshottari dasha os Rahu-Moon (upto Aug 2016)
Now Moon is conjunct 7L Jup and it is the 7L of D-9.
Can't the marriage come in this time?
Plz share your experience/ knowledge about calculating the probable time for marriage.

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Neeraj
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Dearest Dr Neeraj
I like your letters due to three reasons.
1. I like you and so your letters also.
2. You are doing wonderfully good in this forum.
3. Exchanging views are the most beneficial part of participating in forums like LOVA.

Para 1 of your letter :-
Truly speaking there is no method for finding the exact time delay .
What I used to do is doing a close assessment of the Dasa and anther dasa and the quality of its lords.
Most favorable time from DASA if it goes in tune with the transit results means that is the time for marriage. This is how I does. Some times I fail also.

Para 2 of your letter :-

PS Lynch’s chart is very interesting.
Rahu dasa is running and is very ideal for marriage because RAHU is capable to induce the so called ‘ANURAGA’ in the natives mind and for that reason easily proposals get finalized. But her case RAHU dasa has almost over . Last part of any RAHU there will be total chaos. As you know classics say “SRVANASAM” in the last part of RAHU. So less chance for marriage.
Now the question is MOON or JUPITER. Who is going to bring marriage. Moon has PAKSHABALA but its navamsa is in a PAPA rasi and its anther dasa operating is with last part of RAHU.
Please see Jupiter is in a shubha rasi with navamsaka also a shubha rasi.
In ishta bhala chart Jupiter is better than Moon.
Jupietr is in GRAHA YUDHA with Saturn and Jup only wins.
Jupiter is 7th lord from Lagna and also from MOON.
Over and above in 2017 Transit Jup will be very much in janma rasi .
Please recall Lord Sree Rama went for VANA VASA during Janma Guru period.
As per our Indian culture wife has to migrate to her husband’s house leaving all near and dear after marriage.
So I personally felt Jup will bring marriage and not Moon.
May be I am wrong but my logic forced me to say so.
Please comment if you disagree with me.
Thanks
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Dear Subramanianp ji
You've written & explained the concepts so beautifully. Hats off to you.
Also thanks for the kind words you've written about me.

Some years back I read a book "Timing of marriage by MN Kedar" (http://www.indianbooks.co.in/bookmart/t ... riage.html)
In this book the author gave a methodology:
1. He starts with double transit of Sat & Jup (after the age of 20), when they connect to 7H/L
This gives a time period of 2-3 yrs
2. He narrows down the time period by the transit of Mars
3. Finally he looks at the PD operating to give the time of marriage

But he says that first of all, it shd be decided whether its a case of early, normal or late marriage and he wrote there that he's devised a mathematical formula for this which he'll write in his next book. But so far I'm not able to find his next book.

So I try to use Jamini primarily and then try to fine tune using Vimshottari. The prediction accuracy is only upto 60-70%
I feel there must have been some most time tested methods for this area.

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Dear Dr
Thanks for your encouraging good words.
Regarding books .I do read them when I get an opportunity but depend less on them .
I like classics and read them again and again. I have seen ,other books take you somewhere and you will be dragged away from the basic principles at times. No doubt they are good to understand complex principles of classics.
Regarding transit results in the book of M M Kedar sir, I don’t know how Sat and Mars are given importance. Probably may be from his past experience of reading charts of known people.
I personally feel comfortable when I stick to basic rules and depend a lot on BRIHATH JATHAKA and BHALADEEPIKA.
Jamini principles are good but I am totally ignorant in that branch.

With love and Regards
सर्वे भवन्तु सुखिनः।
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[quote="subramanianp"] The astrologer who is matching charts for the native has to take extra care.[/quote]

Thanks for your detailed reply, im glad to know that the marriage will happen during Aug 2017. Please let me know what extra care the astrologer needs to take and why?

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Dear PS.Lynch
I have to write pages after pages to explain that.
However in nutshell it is like this.
Normal the so called GUNA MILAN all does.
Extra requirements are
1. Longivity of both charts.
2. Commencement of DASAs should not get clashed in both the charts (we call it as DSA SANDHI)
3. Papa samya.( Strength of papagrahas in 2,12,7,4 & 8 in both the charts.
4. Factors like 5th lord in 7th, 7th lord in 8th, 8th lord in 7th, Venus hemmed between malefic etc:
The list is little long.
A good astrologer judiciously analyzes all these factors and gives clearance for marriage.

All the best.
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She keeps changing her requirements for partner choice every now and then and this worries the entire family, a few weeks back she wanted someone from a government related stable professional career and now says such people would stick to their jobs and wont move from place to place (internationally) so an IT related partner would be a perfect choice as he would like to settle abroad.

Can someone please explain why such varying mindsets every now and then and will she ever stick to a particular choice? And any idea on the type of spouse and how would be her married life?

Thanks.
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Thanks for your reply.

What type of difficulties will she face before and after Marriage?
Will these confusion on choice continue and affect post Marriage too?

Thanks.
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Hi all, will this person be married to the following match or are there any issues?

Girl - DOB: Saturday, 21 Feb 1981, Female, Chennai - Tamilnadu India, 14:10 Hrs.
Boy - DOB: Tuesday, 01 May 1979, Male, Chennai - Tamilnadu India, 08:55 Hrs.

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Hello,

The potential charts do not match. Aage aapki marzi.

Please be clear that the present and following Mahadasha is not strong for marriage; however marriage is not denied.

My advice would be to continue searching for profiles - because only arranged marriage possible - deep matchmaking on multiple parameters - and hope and rely on only free-will to defy the Mahadashas.
I don't suggest any gemstones.

Thank you,
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saturn-moon-ven-ketu are delay causing planets.she will be married at her 40 or 41st age.jupiter -mercury will give marriage.In jup-mer AD, venus/mer/moon PD are highly favourable for marriage.so based on PD level, her marriage will fall between 24-4-2022 to 3-8-2022 pereoid.

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There is delay due to jup and sat .further sat which is the lord 9th house( next generation house) has gone to 8th from its own house ,so it has spoiled 2nd house(family) 9th house and also 7th house ( house of marraige) in addition to this moon is with sat so it will delay very much .so marraige can occur only after 40 years .if any it is there .mars lord of 6th house is aspecting 7th lord which is also a hindarance .there is delay .there is a chance before 2019 may ,if it misses then only after 2021 nov
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Thanks everyone for your reply. All my posts got disapproved in the span of 2 days and i have been instructed to write this way otherwise this too might get disapproved.

@ProfessorPyareLal:
@Joyd:
@vedam33 :

We thought Poorva Phalguni Kanya Girl and Ardra Boy would match well. Can you please explain why the charts dont match?

Already the girl has spent her entire life in education and reach a great position in professional front and a decent job profile and denies all matches as most of them are not even close to her qualification and we thought that match would do.

So please let us know what would happen if we match these charts together and what to expect?
Will the marriage itself not happen or will it lead to scores of issues post marriage?

Already at her 37 age we couldn't find any suitable match, if it drags to 2022 we have no idea what would be the result.

And please let us know how the life would be in general (both professional, personal and marriage front) for this girl as its already too late and we are much worried.

Thanks.
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