UL,AL,A7

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Dear Astrologers,

Humbly requesting you to clear the following doubts .

marriage prediction and longivity of the marriage has been predicted based on

1) 7th house/lord in rashi chart
2)7th house/lord in navamsa
3)UL,AL,A7 places

in the above three which is highest source to tell about marriage or which will take precedence in showing the effects or its a combine effort from all the above three. for example if 7th house/lord in rashi and navamsa is good but A7 is placed in 8th from Ul.in this case does it refer to good marriage or bad?

if A7 is placed in gemini and 8th from UL - does it bad ?
if AL followed by UL ( AL in sagittarius,UL in scorpio) whts the impact.
If UL and AL both falls in the same sign scorpio with ketu in it - whts the impact.

Thanks

[desyno1]

Dear Shrikanth ji,

What if the AL / UL is the same house ?

Example my 9th house is Kark Rashi with Jupiter ji in it and the same house has AL and UL together ? what does this signify about my marriage and my A7 is in 5th house of Meen Rashi with Kethu ji in it.

I would appreciate if you can put a little light on this combo about my marriage.

Thank you once again.

[anilesh47]

Dear Shrikanth,

My UL/AL ( 9th house/11th house) is in 3/11 relationship. I think it is consider good. But in my wife's case it is(8th house/3rd house) 8/6 relationship. It is consider not good. Then how we analyse abt this?

Regards
Nilesh

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Thanks srikanth for ur wonderful clarifications.

If possible could u pls share how to identify spouse's character,age difference and when/where will meet spouse (for example workplace/temple/home in case of arranged marriage)?

Thanks

[psha85]

I just found this thread and also had a question similar to the one which Nilesh has asked. If in one spouse's chart the UL/AL are in the same house but in the other person's chart they are in 2/12 position then what does it signify? It seems odd that for the same marriage it would show something different, especially since AL/UL in 2/12 position usually indicates rejection of the partner (although I must clarify that in the other spouse's chart the UL is not free of obstacles either despite being same as AL ). How do we go about interpreting such discrepancies in the charts?

Kindly clarify. Thanks!


*Pooja*

[2002diksha]

your discussion is really very interesting. in the same perspective, i have a question.i have chart in which AL UL is in 2/12 relationship. AL has Exalted jupiter while UL has saturn in it. what can you say about the married life of the native.will there be rejection of partner. wont the planets present in AL and UL modify the effects of 2/12 relation of AL and UL.
kindly clarify sir.

[anxious2711]

In my case, my wife and I both have a 7/7 AL/UL relationship, but at the same time we both have a 6/8 and 8/6 AL/A7 relationship.
So how do you interpret this?

[psha85]

anxious2711,

To answer your question regarding AL/A7 relationship, I found the following:

"If A7 is in 6/8/12 from AL or is connected with it, the sex drive may be there but it will be curtailed and difficult to materialize."

And generally if AL and UL are opposite to each other then it means that the native is an obstacle to the marriage in some way. Since you both have this it could mean that you each have your own issues which you need (or needed) to work out in order to succeed at the marriage. My parents have this same combination and it was true for them.

Hope this helps,


*Pooja*

[whitelily]

Ul/Al in 2/12 position; does this mean the native reject's his/her partner, or does it mean that the native gets rejected? My cousin's Al is 12th from her Ul, she also fears rejection. Is that justified, or is it also possible that she might reject her (future) partner?

[psha85]

I believe if AL is 12th from the UL that means the partner would reject and if UL is 12th from AL then that means she would reject the partner. If she already has fears of rejection then it makes sense that the partner would eventually reject her because, generally, if we focus on something which we fear enough then sooner or later that will become true.

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Hi Psha85,

I know a person who is having similar AL/UL in 2/12 axis. but he is not rejecting her spouse and happy in marriage life... so AL/UL is really significant parameter to be considered or when will have effect on one's life if so...

Thanks

[psha85]

Yes, I've seen that in some people's charts and as you said it does not come to pass (yet?).. unless there is some hidden aspect to it which we do not see as outsiders.. I guess only the person themselves would be able to answer that There could also be other meanings to this position which I don't know about.. maybe an expert could shed some light on that.

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psha85,

Yeah..u might be true... astrology is a biggggg subject where tiny info is also make sense

Thanks

[whitelily]

So basically the advise for her would be 'don't focus on it, or it might come true'?
@star_star; Does your friend know about the position of his Al/Ul? Perhaps ignorance is a bliss.

Why is it anyway, astrologically, that when we really dread something it comes true? I know about the self-fulfilling prophesies, but is there also an astrological basis for it?

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Hi whitelily,

My friend doesnt aware of this...

Thanks

[psha85]

Astrology shows the trends we are susceptible to in life and from those trends (either in thinking or behaviour) certain events come to pass. For example, if someone has Vrishchik rashi, they generally fear being cheated on or deceived.. and many times (I even know one person with whom this is true) that does come to pass. And once they are cheated on, their worst fear came true and then they keep fearing it and it keeps happening. So maybe in the chart it would show they would be cheated on but really, that was all because of their own inherent fear!

So yes, my advice to her would be to try to change her thinking.. try to be on a positive frequency as much as possible.. just focus on what she wants from the relationship, not what she doesn't want. Whenever that fear creeps in, just ask her to start thinking about what she loves or what she wants to have happen. Hopefully that would help.

[whitelily]

Thanks a lot for your advise guys, will pass it on to her

In your opinion, does this also work in the opposite direction? That if you really want/desire something badly enough, can you really make it happen? (You know, the SRK dialogue "If you want something badly enough, all of the forces in the world will do their best to bring it to you")?

[psha85]

Absolutely.. if you truly desire something with all your heart and you feel love for that thing then you can definitely make it happen. There's a great book on this principle which I highly recommend anyone to read. It's called "The Power" by Rhonda Byrne. It's an amazing book.

[whitelily]

Thanks for the tip, I will try to get it. Next to my cousin, I also could use some positivety in life
regards

[anxious2711]

Thanks a lot for your advise guys, will pass it on to her

In your opinion, does this also work in the opposite direction? That if you really want/desire something badly enough, can you really make it happen? (You know, the SRK dialogue "If you want something badly enough, all of the forces in the world will do their best to bring it to you")?

I think that thing was kind of stolen from Paulo Coehlo.

[whitelily]

I think that thing was kind of stolen from Paulo Coehlo.

In India & Pakistan we use the term "to be inspired from..." for these kind of things

But on a serious note, I don't think SRK ever claimed that this was his quote. He merely used it in his movie. No harm in that. But it would have been a nice gesture if they would have stated the name of the person behind the quote in the end of the movie or something (if they didn't do it already).

[anxious2711]

I think that thing was kind of stolen from Paulo Coehlo.

In India & Pakistan we use the term "to be inspired from..." for these kind of things

Sorry my mistake, Paulo Coehlo touched upon it from a different stand-view: how the universe shows you again and again the signs you need to follow, but this can actually be found in Rhonda Byrne's book "the secret". Well, I am not accusing SRK of anything, but it really makes you wonder how much influence a Bollywood star has as opposed to current age philosophers and thinkers... It's a shame really for today's generation...

[whitelily]

It is indeed a shame that such great philosopher's are not generally known to the large public. I don't know many of them myself. Just a phrase heard somewhere stays by, and it is easier to refer to that than it is to try and find the source. It is just the pace of life nowadays, nobody has time. Everything has to be quick and fast, and if you can't catch up, well chances are that you'll be left behind. Whether it is in the workplace or in your social circle. Keep up, or stay behind. That's just the way it is, alas.

But the concept really gives food for thought. My friend is experiencing something similar. She says that she feels as if she is getting some kind of signs, but at the same time she knows that she can't follow up upon them. So she doesn't know how to interpret all this. What do you think? if one is getting signs, but knows that he/she can't act upon them, then why would the universe bother to give the person those signs in the first place?

[anxious2711]

What do you think? if one is getting signs, but knows that he/she can't act upon them, then why would the universe bother to give the person those signs in the first place?

All, I will say, is 'when there is a will, there is a way'... Tell her to read the alchemist, if she can find time... In it, it says that if you ignore again and again the signs, they will eventually stop occurring, but hey, what do I know?
It's a great read though.

[whitelily]

Thank you for your advise Anxious, I'll pass it on to her.
And sorry everyone, for going off-topic.

regards,