Hello gurus
I wanted to know how my married life would be.
Our family pundit mentioned to my mom that after marriage I will not maintain cordial relations with my mom due to my spouse.
This has swirled a bit of a controversy in terms of deciding the suitability of a match for me.
Currently I am working in the US & doing materially well for myself.
Also doesnt look like any chances of love marriage.
Also I have started looking for spouse online on matrimony sites .. & i get a feeling there might be issues due to the difference of opinion betn me & mom.
1) Mom doesnt want to someone who is currently working or studying in the US .. coz she feels I will settle down in the US.
2) Also she wants to find someone from our caste .. & I am liberal .. so that another conflict.
I am afraid the situation might get heated up as the match making process progresses.
Can anyone shed some light about how my spouse/married life would be ?
And also if any indications of problems with relations with mom due to my spouse ?
DOB: 15th Jan 1984
TOB: 18:45:00
POB: Kolhapur, Maharashtra, IN
Thanks
Vin
Married Life
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Dear Friend,
in general a good chart:
1)Ma is the yogakark
2)Lagna lord moon is exalted in Rasi and placed with an exalted Ra in the 11th house...good placement. Both Ra and Mo rule foreign lands. Your successes and wish fullfillments will come overseas, a settlement abroad is very highly likely.
3)there is an exchnage Yoga between the lords of the 4th and 5th houses Ve and Ma.
4)Lord of 7th house of marriage is Sa and is exalted in 4th house( of mother) Libra, with whom it is friendly in this horoscope. Further 7th house is aspected by Ra.
5)Ma is sitting in the 4th with Sa and aspecting the 7th house. Ma is friendly with Ve and enemy with Sa in this chart. Ma is also the YK.
6) Ju rules the 7th house in Navamsa and is placed in good 9th house of friendly Taurus (lord Venus)
This is a non-linear, non black and white combo of. planets, lords and aspects on the 7th.
I read this as a healthy, wealthy spouse with a connection to the foreign lands ( Ra drishti)good marriage, reasonably well adjusted with your mother ( 4th house of friendly Venus).
However the enemity between Sa and Ma and the 4th drishti of Ma on your 7th house in both rasi and navamsa chart and 9th drishti of Ra in rasi will challange the marriage. There will be diffrences/ conflicts between you and spouse, possibly because of material/ career aspirations of both...especially after children are born ( ketu affliction on Venus in the 5th house of progeny)..or on the subject of having children at all
A bit of roller coaster that both will have to make effort to naivagate throuhg choppy waters.
It will not sink....mars is the Yogakarak and the overall chart is strong.
Hope this helps.
Regards
in general a good chart:
1)Ma is the yogakark
2)Lagna lord moon is exalted in Rasi and placed with an exalted Ra in the 11th house...good placement. Both Ra and Mo rule foreign lands. Your successes and wish fullfillments will come overseas, a settlement abroad is very highly likely.
3)there is an exchnage Yoga between the lords of the 4th and 5th houses Ve and Ma.
4)Lord of 7th house of marriage is Sa and is exalted in 4th house( of mother) Libra, with whom it is friendly in this horoscope. Further 7th house is aspected by Ra.
5)Ma is sitting in the 4th with Sa and aspecting the 7th house. Ma is friendly with Ve and enemy with Sa in this chart. Ma is also the YK.
6) Ju rules the 7th house in Navamsa and is placed in good 9th house of friendly Taurus (lord Venus)
This is a non-linear, non black and white combo of. planets, lords and aspects on the 7th.
I read this as a healthy, wealthy spouse with a connection to the foreign lands ( Ra drishti)good marriage, reasonably well adjusted with your mother ( 4th house of friendly Venus).
However the enemity between Sa and Ma and the 4th drishti of Ma on your 7th house in both rasi and navamsa chart and 9th drishti of Ra in rasi will challange the marriage. There will be diffrences/ conflicts between you and spouse, possibly because of material/ career aspirations of both...especially after children are born ( ketu affliction on Venus in the 5th house of progeny)..or on the subject of having children at all
A bit of roller coaster that both will have to make effort to naivagate throuhg choppy waters.
It will not sink....mars is the Yogakarak and the overall chart is strong.
Hope this helps.
Regards
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Hey Shilpa
Thanks for the clarification & analysis.
I thought so that may be married life is a bit roller coaster due to high aspirations...
But sometimes some pundits just state it in a way that gives an all together meaning to it.
Thanks once again
Vin
Thanks for the clarification & analysis.
I thought so that may be married life is a bit roller coaster due to high aspirations...
But sometimes some pundits just state it in a way that gives an all together meaning to it.
Thanks once again
Vin
shilpa wrote:Dear Friend,
in general a good chart:
1)Ma is the yogakark
2)Lagna lord moon is exalted in Rasi and placed with an exalted Ra in the 11th house...good placement. Both Ra and Mo rule foreign lands. Your successes and wish fullfillments will come overseas, a settlement abroad is very highly likely.
3)there is an exchnage Yoga between the lords of the 4th and 5th houses Ve and Ma.
4)Lord of 7th house of marriage is Sa and is exalted in 4th house( of mother) Libra, with whom it is friendly in this horoscope. Further 7th house is aspected by Ra.
5)Ma is sitting in the 4th with Sa and aspecting the 7th house. Ma is friendly with Ve and enemy with Sa in this chart. Ma is also the YK.
6) Ju rules the 7th house in Navamsa and is placed in good 9th house of friendly Taurus (lord Venus)
This is a non-linear, non black and white combo of. planets, lords and aspects on the 7th.
I read this as a healthy, wealthy spouse with a connection to the foreign lands ( Ra drishti)good marriage, reasonably well adjusted with your mother ( 4th house of friendly Venus).
However the enemity between Sa and Ma and the 4th drishti of Ma on your 7th house in both rasi and navamsa chart and 9th drishti of Ra in rasi will challange the marriage. There will be diffrences/ conflicts between you and spouse, possibly because of material/ career aspirations of both...especially after children are born ( ketu affliction on Venus in the 5th house of progeny)..or on the subject of having children at all
A bit of roller coaster that both will have to make effort to naivagate throuhg choppy waters.
It will not sink....mars is the Yogakarak and the overall chart is strong.
Hope this helps.
Regards
Dear Shiplaji
With respect to this thread, wanted some more clarification.
1) A few astrologers had told me I would get married in the current Rahu - Mars period which runs till mid May 2011 (since both Rahu & Mars aspect the 7th house)
However some have also mentioned that the marriage might be on the rocks if I do so as Mars afflicts the 7th lord & 7th house in D1 & 7th house in D9 & Rahu is a functional malefic.
Hence it is better to wait till the Jupiter MD starts. They hv suggested that the time around Dec 11 to May 2012 is the period when I would get married.
Can you shed your views on the same.
Thanks for your time
Vin
With respect to this thread, wanted some more clarification.
1) A few astrologers had told me I would get married in the current Rahu - Mars period which runs till mid May 2011 (since both Rahu & Mars aspect the 7th house)
However some have also mentioned that the marriage might be on the rocks if I do so as Mars afflicts the 7th lord & 7th house in D1 & 7th house in D9 & Rahu is a functional malefic.
Hence it is better to wait till the Jupiter MD starts. They hv suggested that the time around Dec 11 to May 2012 is the period when I would get married.
Can you shed your views on the same.
Thanks for your time
Vin
shilpa wrote:Dear Friend,
in general a good chart:
1)Ma is the yogakark
2)Lagna lord moon is exalted in Rasi and placed with an exalted Ra in the 11th house...good placement. Both Ra and Mo rule foreign lands. Your successes and wish fullfillments will come overseas, a settlement abroad is very highly likely.
3)there is an exchnage Yoga between the lords of the 4th and 5th houses Ve and Ma.
4)Lord of 7th house of marriage is Sa and is exalted in 4th house( of mother) Libra, with whom it is friendly in this horoscope. Further 7th house is aspected by Ra.
5)Ma is sitting in the 4th with Sa and aspecting the 7th house. Ma is friendly with Ve and enemy with Sa in this chart. Ma is also the YK.
6) Ju rules the 7th house in Navamsa and is placed in good 9th house of friendly Taurus (lord Venus)
This is a non-linear, non black and white combo of. planets, lords and aspects on the 7th.
I read this as a healthy, wealthy spouse with a connection to the foreign lands ( Ra drishti)good marriage, reasonably well adjusted with your mother ( 4th house of friendly Venus).
However the enemity between Sa and Ma and the 4th drishti of Ma on your 7th house in both rasi and navamsa chart and 9th drishti of Ra in rasi will challange the marriage. There will be diffrences/ conflicts between you and spouse, possibly because of material/ career aspirations of both...especially after children are born ( ketu affliction on Venus in the 5th house of progeny)..or on the subject of having children at all
A bit of roller coaster that both will have to make effort to naivagate throuhg choppy waters.
It will not sink....mars is the Yogakarak and the overall chart is strong.
Hope this helps.
Regards
