Kundali Matching is poor but couple is very much in love

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Isha99
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Hi,

I know this couple who are perfect together. There is much love and understanding between them. They fight like all couples but I can see their desire to stay in the relationship so they also always fight their way back to each other.

They have been dating for close to 10 years and both live abroad so they have been each others support system away from home. Their families also get along really well. Their respective families have seen the boy and girl grow up together since they have been dating since they were in school (12th grade).

Despite all this positives guna Milan is very poor. Should they get married?

Girl: 26-10-1999 at 11:55 pm in Nagpur, Maharashtra
Boy: 19-06-2000 at 10:20 am in Mumbai, Maharashtra
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Have you taken opinion of family astrologer.
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There are 4 city by Nagpur name in India as shown by Jhora.
Give Long and Latitude.
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hamid wrote: 31 Oct 2025 There are 4 city by Nagpur name in India as shown by Jhora.
Give Long and Latitude.
Latitude and longitude coordinates are: 21.14, 79.08
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Thank you Sujit Ji.
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Sujit wrote:
> Have you taken opinion of family astrologer.

Yes I have. He said it matches by “name” whatever that means.
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Isha99 wrote: 10 Nov 2025 Sujit wrote:
> Have you taken opinion of family astrologer.

Yes I have. He said it matches by “name” whatever that means.
I don't follow Guna milan method.
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Sujit wrote:
> I don't follow Guna milan method.

Is there any other method that would show if we are a good or a bad match?
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Isha99 wrote: 11 Nov 2025 Sujit wrote:
> I don't follow Guna milan method.

Is there any other method that would show if we are a good or a bad match?
I study houses of marriage in both charts which is reliable and gives a clear picture.
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Sujit wrote:
> I study houses of marriage in both charts which is reliable and gives a
> clear picture.

What do you think about the houses of marriage in these charts. One astrologer has suggested the girls chart has guarantee of divorce.
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Isha99 wrote: 11 Nov 2025 Sujit wrote:
> I study houses of marriage in both charts which is reliable and gives a
> clear picture.

What do you think about the houses of marriage in these charts. One astrologer has suggested the girls chart has guarantee of divorce.
I will not be able to comment as studying 2 charts would take me one hour.
Further I don't offer validation on other astrologers' comments.

hopefully, someone would reply.

Good luck.

All the best.
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Sujit wrote:
> I will not be able to comment as studying 2 charts would take me one hour.
> Further I don't offer validation on other astrologers' comments.
>
> hopefully, someone would reply.
>
> Good luck.
>
> All the best.

Not looking for validation. It was mere a FYI.

If you are not interested in reading charts then what are you doing on this forum and this thread?😂
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Hi,
Isha99 wrote: 30 Oct 2025 I know this couple who are perfect together. There is much love and understanding between them. They fight like all couples but I can see their desire to stay in the relationship so they also always fight their way back to each other.

They have been dating for close to 10 years and both live abroad so they have been each others support system away from home. Their families also get along really well. Their respective families have seen the boy and girl grow up together since they have been dating since they were in school (12th grade).

Despite all this positives guna Milan is very poor. Should they get married?

Girl: 26-10-1999 at 11:55 pm in Nagpur, Maharashtra
Boy: 19-06-2000 at 10:20 am in Mumbai, Maharashtra
There are other things that are more concerning and something you should be aware of...
1. Moon/Chandra in your birth-charts are in 6-8 positions from each others... an indication of your minds not being in sync with each other. So, restrain from generalizing the situation with all other couples... although there will be a few couples, who sail in similar condition and regret a lot being misaligned with each other.
2. I'm inclined to think the boy seems to be more like somebody who'll fall in love and marry. You are unlike him and it looks like you might be in the relationship for something different (perhaps for him being rich or coming from a wealthy family or other such).
3. You are in the midst of Rahu Maha-Dasha with below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga and not in the best of mood, a bit of a rough patch... lasting for while. Antara is that of Saturn/Shani-dev... who also has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga is not a good sign and definitely not the best of time periods.
4. Sun/Ravi posited in the Lunar Constellation of Swathi Nakshatra, ruled by Rahu... who himself is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Pushya Nakshatra, ruled by Saturn/Shani-dev... the 9th lord from Chandra Lagna and natal placement of Moon/Chandra. This is not a good sign... some respected Astrologers would qualify this to be a sign of Pitru Dosha.
5. You'll be starting Sade-Sathi or Saturn's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra with Saturn/Shani-dev's next transit into the Zodiac sign of Aries or Mesha Rashi.
6. The conjunct of Saturn/Shani and Jupiter/Guru-dev is a potential indication of of atrocities on innocent/feeble lives in the past life (Gou-Hathya and/or Brahmana-Hatya Dosha)... something that is present in both birth-charts and in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana
7. Moon/Chandra in the boy's birth-chart seems to be adrift in the middle of nowhere, with very little support on either side of the flanks, making him a bit of a loner with very few friends and limited social life. He seems to have an finicky oscillating mind... while the girl seems to be somebody with a stubborn mind with fixed thoughts/idea
Guess I'll stop it at that...and let you dwell on what has been shared.

Sincerely...
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Isha99 wrote: 12 Nov 2025

If you are not interested in reading charts then what are you doing on this forum and this thread?😂
Offering you an Astrologer's perspective the time, effort required to analyse two charts and different methods in practice to analyse compatibility.
Net forums can give you varied opinion and leave you confused. So consult a local astrologer for such queries. This is for your good knowledge and not for argument.

Girl: 26-10-1999 at 11:55 pm in Nagpur, Maharashtra
Your reply has already reflected how in Cancer sign ascendant chart - Mars in sagittarius has given you a conflicting/ quarrelsome nature with debilitated Sun and debilitated Saturn..
Further you are passing through malefic maha dasha of Rahu followed by another malefic of Jupiter and in old age another malefic dasa of Saturn ruling obstacles.

Hope this analysis is okay and do charity.

Bye....
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Both charts have Kuja dosha from Moon. Boy has Mars in the 7th house from Moon while Girl has the same in the 8th house. Overall doshas from Lagna, Moon and Venus are more for the boy.
Both charts have the same Nadi. Lagna lords of both charts are mutual friends naturally but the Moon lords are not.

In Navamsa of the girl, the 7th lord Saturn is retrograde and debilitated. In Navamsa, the 7th lord is debilitated. In the boy’s chart, the 7th lord is again Saturn who is in the 10th with Jupiter. In Navamsa, the 7th lord Venus is in the 8th.

In Trimsamsa, boy has both Moon and Sun along the 1-7 axis. Girl has Moon and Rahu/Ketu along the 1-7 axis.

All these factors are not favorable for marriage apart from the simple nakshatra based Gana-koota mismatch.

In addition, both are operating the dasa of Rahu. Rahu dasa does not favor marriage for the boy directly.

Inspite of all the above marriage can occur if the marriage is a love marriage. In a pure love marriage where each is ready to sacrifice one’s pleasures for the other, matching charts becomes secondary. In this case, boy seems to be practical and likes to command and lead while the girl seems to be emotional but susceptible to anger if the emotions are hurt. Seems to be a tough match in the long run.

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To me it seems the couple is already legally married.
They have differences between themselves.
If the birth details are correct and none of the two is premature/C-section or a twin born.
Then such a couple does not face a legal divorce, they do not acknowledge their separation to the society and may lead a separated life while staying within the same house.

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