@Sishya
Could you please help me with an astrological analysis of my situation and remedies to improve it? There have been persistent challenges in my marriage and despite all attempts to resolve it, the situation is getting worse day by day. I want my marriage to get back on track but everyone around thinks I am being unrealistic. My husband tells me that he wants us to be together but is unable to say that to his family who are under the impression that he wants out. So, they are asking us to separate, which I don't want. Is he ever going to be able to tell his family that he wishes to continue in this relationship?
My details: Date of birth: March 27, 1979; Time: 18:50; Place: Bangalore
Husband's details: Date of birth: July 30, 1980; Time: 7:30; Place: Mundra, Gujarat
This is an earnest request to please respond as this is the third time I am posting it. As a new user, my earlier two posts have just disappeared. Thank you!
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DAB,
I had time only to check your chart - March 27, 1979
There is mangal dosh in the chart causing difficulties with continuity of marriage, So you are facing challenges.
On other side exalted Jupiter is trying to hold the marriage.
Follow with family astrologer who may guide you.
Good luck.
Sujit.
I had time only to check your chart - March 27, 1979
There is mangal dosh in the chart causing difficulties with continuity of marriage, So you are facing challenges.
On other side exalted Jupiter is trying to hold the marriage.
Follow with family astrologer who may guide you.
Good luck.
Sujit.
https://www.facebook.com/astrologer.sujit
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
Hi,
A quick review of your birth-charts indicates inherent challenges... Below are a few observations relevant for the stated problem:
In the husband's birth-chart:
1. Ascendent or Udaya Lagna is placed in Cancer/Karkataka Rashi, caught in the Rahu-Ketu axis.
2. Lagna Lord Moon/Chandra is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 8th house or Randra-Sthana, the house of Challenges in Aquarius/Kumbha Rashi. So, the native is currently in the midst of peak Sade-Sathi or transit of Saturn/Shani-dev across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. Quite naturally he must be experiencing unwanted stress/tension etc., for some time now.
3. He has started Maha-Dasha of 3rd & 12th lord Mercury/Budha, since June 2023 (as per Vimsottari Dasha systeam). Mercury/Budha is not really a benefic for native. He is strongly placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses has probably made the native too intelligent for his own good and probably induced him in investing in loss incurring ventures.
4. Current and upcoming time period is not really favorable... the native is probably crying for help with his aggressive outbursts (seems to have anger issues).
5. Moon/Chandra does not have much of support on either side of the flanks, making him a bit of a lonesome individual with very few friends and limited social life. His mind/thoughts seem to run wild and wander aimlessly. Now, it seems to be constrained/tied-down, making the native uncomfortable.
In the wife's birth-chart:
1. Ascendent or Udaya Lagna is placed in Virgo/Kanya Rashi. Maandi and Gulika hoovering around is not preferred.
2. Lagna Lord Mercury/Budha is place in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana. For the records, he is neither happy nor comfortable being placed there. There is a good chance you might be letting your tongue free to fan the fire (to counter your husband's anger). Further, he is placed alongside Moon/Chandra and 12th lord of Vyaya/Losses Sun/Ravi, in Pisces/Meena Rashi. So, you've started Sade-Sathi or transit of Saturn/Shani-dev across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. Quite naturally you've started experiencing unwanted stress/tension etc.
3. It looks like you have anger/temper issues as well. You probably say and do things... that you regret whenever you realize and there are instances you don't even realize. This aspect has probably burnet the bridges with your in-laws and folk. Your husband has the ability to tolerate and fight back... perhaps not your in-laws.
4. You are currently in the midst of Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha (since December 2019 - as per Vimsottari Dasha system). He is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 6th house of Service/Disease - not to mention, he has low Shadbala. Antara was that of Sun/Ravi, the 12th lord of Vyaya/Losses from April 2023 to April 2024. Current Antara is that of Moon/Chandra, who has below par Vimsopaka Bala. Presence of Ketu in-between (who has been activated - as are Saturn/Shani-dev and Rahu) and separating Mars/Kuja is not preferred - feels like he is driving a wedge there.
Overall the situation looks a little grim. Both of you need to realize how the celestials are colluding to create an unfavorable environment for you. This is really the time for you to realize and help each other and not fight/argue with each other (will be hard for you to change perceptions of other folk in a short duration though - so, you cannot expect help from your in-laws). Please consider offering special prayers on a regular basis to Lord Ganesha, Shriman Lakshmi Narayana (both Goddess Maha Lakshmi and Maha Vishnu or Shriman Narayana) and consider chanting Rukmini Vallabh mantra and simple mantras 108 daily to appease Saturn/Shani-dev.
Sincerely...
I had shared my understanding of your situation earlier, have added/updated a couple of other points for your consideration.DAB wrote: 31 May 2024 Could you please help me with an astrological analysis of my situation and remedies to improve it? There have been persistent challenges in my marriage and despite all attempts to resolve it, the situation is getting worse day by day. I want my marriage to get back on track but everyone around thinks I am being unrealistic. My husband tells me that he wants us to be together but is unable to say that to his family who are under the impression that he wants out. So, they are asking us to separate, which I don't want. Is he ever going to be able to tell his family that he wishes to continue in this relationship?
My details: Date of birth: March 27, 1979; Time: 18:50; Place: Bangalore
Husband's details: Date of birth: July 30, 1980; Time: 7:30; Place: Mundra, Gujarat
A quick review of your birth-charts indicates inherent challenges... Below are a few observations relevant for the stated problem:
In the husband's birth-chart:
1. Ascendent or Udaya Lagna is placed in Cancer/Karkataka Rashi, caught in the Rahu-Ketu axis.
2. Lagna Lord Moon/Chandra is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 8th house or Randra-Sthana, the house of Challenges in Aquarius/Kumbha Rashi. So, the native is currently in the midst of peak Sade-Sathi or transit of Saturn/Shani-dev across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. Quite naturally he must be experiencing unwanted stress/tension etc., for some time now.
3. He has started Maha-Dasha of 3rd & 12th lord Mercury/Budha, since June 2023 (as per Vimsottari Dasha systeam). Mercury/Budha is not really a benefic for native. He is strongly placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses has probably made the native too intelligent for his own good and probably induced him in investing in loss incurring ventures.
4. Current and upcoming time period is not really favorable... the native is probably crying for help with his aggressive outbursts (seems to have anger issues).
5. Moon/Chandra does not have much of support on either side of the flanks, making him a bit of a lonesome individual with very few friends and limited social life. His mind/thoughts seem to run wild and wander aimlessly. Now, it seems to be constrained/tied-down, making the native uncomfortable.
In the wife's birth-chart:
1. Ascendent or Udaya Lagna is placed in Virgo/Kanya Rashi. Maandi and Gulika hoovering around is not preferred.
2. Lagna Lord Mercury/Budha is place in his Neecha-Sthana or sign of debilitation in the 7th house of Kalathra-Sthana. For the records, he is neither happy nor comfortable being placed there. There is a good chance you might be letting your tongue free to fan the fire (to counter your husband's anger). Further, he is placed alongside Moon/Chandra and 12th lord of Vyaya/Losses Sun/Ravi, in Pisces/Meena Rashi. So, you've started Sade-Sathi or transit of Saturn/Shani-dev across natal placement of Moon/Chandra. Quite naturally you've started experiencing unwanted stress/tension etc.
3. It looks like you have anger/temper issues as well. You probably say and do things... that you regret whenever you realize and there are instances you don't even realize. This aspect has probably burnet the bridges with your in-laws and folk. Your husband has the ability to tolerate and fight back... perhaps not your in-laws.
4. You are currently in the midst of Venus/Shukra Maha-Dasha (since December 2019 - as per Vimsottari Dasha system). He is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 6th house of Service/Disease - not to mention, he has low Shadbala. Antara was that of Sun/Ravi, the 12th lord of Vyaya/Losses from April 2023 to April 2024. Current Antara is that of Moon/Chandra, who has below par Vimsopaka Bala. Presence of Ketu in-between (who has been activated - as are Saturn/Shani-dev and Rahu) and separating Mars/Kuja is not preferred - feels like he is driving a wedge there.
Overall the situation looks a little grim. Both of you need to realize how the celestials are colluding to create an unfavorable environment for you. This is really the time for you to realize and help each other and not fight/argue with each other (will be hard for you to change perceptions of other folk in a short duration though - so, you cannot expect help from your in-laws). Please consider offering special prayers on a regular basis to Lord Ganesha, Shriman Lakshmi Narayana (both Goddess Maha Lakshmi and Maha Vishnu or Shriman Narayana) and consider chanting Rukmini Vallabh mantra and simple mantras 108 daily to appease Saturn/Shani-dev.
Sincerely...
@Sishya
Dear Sir,
Could you please also help me with astrological analysis of my situation:
I am a 31-year old guy who has never ever been in a relationship till now. Even the path of arranged marriage is not working for me. I have lost all hope w.r.t to marriage/relationship and feel that I will be single forever.
Interacting with people has always been difficult for me and I find it difficult to 'connect' with people. Is relationship/marriage not in my bhagya ? I feel extremely frustrated with no marriage/relationship and a career going nowhere.
My birth details:
Date of Birth: 03rd July 1993
Time of Birth: 04:01 AM
Place of Birth: Mumbai, India
Gender: Male
Grateful if you would help me here.
Dear Sir,
Could you please also help me with astrological analysis of my situation:
I am a 31-year old guy who has never ever been in a relationship till now. Even the path of arranged marriage is not working for me. I have lost all hope w.r.t to marriage/relationship and feel that I will be single forever.
Interacting with people has always been difficult for me and I find it difficult to 'connect' with people. Is relationship/marriage not in my bhagya ? I feel extremely frustrated with no marriage/relationship and a career going nowhere.
My birth details:
Date of Birth: 03rd July 1993
Time of Birth: 04:01 AM
Place of Birth: Mumbai, India
Gender: Male
Grateful if you would help me here.
YES.
The couple will separate if married before 30 December 2012.
[male time of birth rectified to 7:37 am]
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer.
The couple will separate if married before 30 December 2012.
[male time of birth rectified to 7:37 am]
Hamid Sheikh
Vedic Astrologer.
SPECIAL INTEREST IN MARRIAGE AND RELATED MATTERS.
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
You got married in 2009?
SPECIAL INTEREST IN MARRIAGE AND RELATED MATTERS.
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
FOUNDER OF "HAMID SHEIKH KARAK ASCENDANT THEORY" [KAT]
AUTHOR OF "Timing Marriage - Match Making" KAT Vol 1-4 [ contain about 200 case study charts and timing of over 340 events].
We have been trying to find a bride for my son, born Jan 9th 1989, 6:14 am at Coimbatore. It’s been challenging and every single alliance fail to work out for various reasons. Please read his chart and help me understand the reason for challenges
Hi,
Anyways, given birth-details place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Taurus or Vrishaba Rashi, with Lagna lord Venus/Shukra placed right behind. He is conjunct Ketu (while being caught in the Ketu-Rahu axis), who is placed close by in the Lunar Constellation of Rohini Nakshatra (almost next to Udaya Lagna). Incidentally, 7th lord of Kalathra-Sthana or house of relationships is placed in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra ruled by Ketu... to make matters more interesting, Moon/Chandra is placed in the Lunar Constellation of Moola/Mula Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu (in effect Moon/Chandra and Ketu are Sukshma Parivarthana, at Nakshatra level). So, the strong foot-print and influence of Ketu is undeniable... he is placed close to Mrityu Bhaga and has probably contributed to some materialistic/worldly detachments.
Moon/Chandra seems to be adrift in the middle of nowhere...with limited support on either side of the flanks. Incidentally, he is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana. This has contributed to you being bit of a lonesome individual, with very few friends and limited social life. It also makes your mind wander aimlessly. It would help for you to develop some focus and consider strengthening your Moon/Mind.
Thereafter, I'm drawn to the mutual aspect between Saturn/Shani-dev and Mars/Kuja. They induce uncontrollable anger/temper/tantrum, when you get triggered... whenever you lose your cool/calm composure. Further, Saturn/Shani-dev, Mars/Kuja and Rahu aspect the 7th house. Saturn/Shani is Yogakaraka for the birth-chart... he is placed in a Kendra and creates Sasa Maha-Purusha Yoga (while Venus/Shukra has created Malavya Yoga), making you a bit of a carefree person.
You've recently started Maha-Dasha of Moon/Chandra. So, it would probably help if you were to consider offering special prayers regularly (on a daily basis) to Lord Ganesha, with unwavering bhakti/devotion and strong Sankalpa. Also, consider chanting Rukmini Vallabha Mantra and putting in requisite effort, in case you are truly desiring of getting married.
Sincerely...
I had missed your query and accidentally came across it today. So, please accept my sincere apologies for the delay in replying to your request. However, your birth-chart looks a bit familiar. So, I'm not sure if I've responded to you in another thread or another platform/portal.rajesh225 wrote: 29 Jul 2024 My birth details:
Date of Birth: 03rd July 1993
Time of Birth: 04:01 AM
Place of Birth: Mumbai, India
Gender: Male
Anyways, given birth-details place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Taurus or Vrishaba Rashi, with Lagna lord Venus/Shukra placed right behind. He is conjunct Ketu (while being caught in the Ketu-Rahu axis), who is placed close by in the Lunar Constellation of Rohini Nakshatra (almost next to Udaya Lagna). Incidentally, 7th lord of Kalathra-Sthana or house of relationships is placed in the Lunar Constellation of Magha Nakshatra ruled by Ketu... to make matters more interesting, Moon/Chandra is placed in the Lunar Constellation of Moola/Mula Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu (in effect Moon/Chandra and Ketu are Sukshma Parivarthana, at Nakshatra level). So, the strong foot-print and influence of Ketu is undeniable... he is placed close to Mrityu Bhaga and has probably contributed to some materialistic/worldly detachments.
Moon/Chandra seems to be adrift in the middle of nowhere...with limited support on either side of the flanks. Incidentally, he is neither happy nor comfortable being placed in the 8th house of Randra-Sthana. This has contributed to you being bit of a lonesome individual, with very few friends and limited social life. It also makes your mind wander aimlessly. It would help for you to develop some focus and consider strengthening your Moon/Mind.
Thereafter, I'm drawn to the mutual aspect between Saturn/Shani-dev and Mars/Kuja. They induce uncontrollable anger/temper/tantrum, when you get triggered... whenever you lose your cool/calm composure. Further, Saturn/Shani-dev, Mars/Kuja and Rahu aspect the 7th house. Saturn/Shani is Yogakaraka for the birth-chart... he is placed in a Kendra and creates Sasa Maha-Purusha Yoga (while Venus/Shukra has created Malavya Yoga), making you a bit of a carefree person.
You've recently started Maha-Dasha of Moon/Chandra. So, it would probably help if you were to consider offering special prayers regularly (on a daily basis) to Lord Ganesha, with unwavering bhakti/devotion and strong Sankalpa. Also, consider chanting Rukmini Vallabha Mantra and putting in requisite effort, in case you are truly desiring of getting married.
Sincerely...
Brinda,
Hope the time of birth is correct.
The lagna lord is weak dispositor and Saturn is afflicted in the chart affects his personality and his initiatives, efforts.
The above weakness affects delay and there is still hope for marriage in the chart.
The above weakness could affect married life.
-Sujit.
Hope the time of birth is correct.
The lagna lord is weak dispositor and Saturn is afflicted in the chart affects his personality and his initiatives, efforts.
The above weakness affects delay and there is still hope for marriage in the chart.
The above weakness could affect married life.
-Sujit.
https://www.facebook.com/astrologer.sujit
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
Rajesh225,
Your Taurus sign ascendant chart has few challenges would make it difficult for you to get married.
Your previous Sun MD had some connections for marriage but could not deliver the event indicates the stress in the chart.
Be patient and keep looking.
-Sujit.
Your Taurus sign ascendant chart has few challenges would make it difficult for you to get married.
Your previous Sun MD had some connections for marriage but could not deliver the event indicates the stress in the chart.
Be patient and keep looking.
-Sujit.
https://www.facebook.com/astrologer.sujit
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
Hi,
Given birth-details place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Sagittarius or Dhanur Rashi, with Lagna lord Jupiter/Guru-dev placed uncomfortably in the 6th house of Roga-Sthana. He participates in Rashi Parivarthana with Venus/Shukra, placed alongside Udaya Lagna. This is a bit of a chart-spoiler is not preferred.
Incidentally, Venus/Shukra is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Moola/Mula Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu and Ketu is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Purva-Phalguni Nakshatra, ruled by Venus/Shukra... in other words, they participate in Sukshma Parivarthana, at Nakshatra level. Further, 2nd Saturn/Shani-dev and 5th lord Mars/Kuja are also posited in Lunar Constellations of Moola/Mula and Ashwini Nakshatras, ruled by Ketu. So, there is a strong foot-print and undeniable influence of Ketu, who has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga... negating materialistic benefits - including spousal relationship.
Current Maha-Dasha is that of Lagna Lord Jupiter/Guru-dev. He and Naisargika Kalathra-Karaka or natural signifier of Spousal Relationship have below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga, complicating matter further. Mars/Kuja being placed close to deep Gandanta degrees is not preferred either. Native is at the fag end of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra.
In summary, it looks like the birth-chart is tending towards denial. I'm not quite sure if the native is really desiring of getting into a relationship. If truly interested, it would make sense to check with experienced and knowledgeable experts for suitable Vedic/Dharmic remedies, have reasonable expectations and put a lot more effort to fulfill the desire.
Sincerely...
Disclaimer: Request you to kindly bear with me and feel free to ignore anything that is not your taste or liking. My response below is my personal opinion, based on my understanding of the birth-chart. Please feel free to seek as many alternate opinion from others.Brinda wrote: 29 Jul 2024 We have been trying to find a bride for my son, born Jan 9th 1989, 6:14 am at Coimbatore. It’s been challenging and every single alliance fail to work out for various reasons. Please read his chart and help me understand the reason for challenges
Given birth-details place Ascendent or Udaya Lagna in the Zodiac sign of Sagittarius or Dhanur Rashi, with Lagna lord Jupiter/Guru-dev placed uncomfortably in the 6th house of Roga-Sthana. He participates in Rashi Parivarthana with Venus/Shukra, placed alongside Udaya Lagna. This is a bit of a chart-spoiler is not preferred.
Incidentally, Venus/Shukra is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Moola/Mula Nakshatra, ruled by Ketu and Ketu is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Purva-Phalguni Nakshatra, ruled by Venus/Shukra... in other words, they participate in Sukshma Parivarthana, at Nakshatra level. Further, 2nd Saturn/Shani-dev and 5th lord Mars/Kuja are also posited in Lunar Constellations of Moola/Mula and Ashwini Nakshatras, ruled by Ketu. So, there is a strong foot-print and undeniable influence of Ketu, who has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga... negating materialistic benefits - including spousal relationship.
Current Maha-Dasha is that of Lagna Lord Jupiter/Guru-dev. He and Naisargika Kalathra-Karaka or natural signifier of Spousal Relationship have below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga, complicating matter further. Mars/Kuja being placed close to deep Gandanta degrees is not preferred either. Native is at the fag end of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra.
In summary, it looks like the birth-chart is tending towards denial. I'm not quite sure if the native is really desiring of getting into a relationship. If truly interested, it would make sense to check with experienced and knowledgeable experts for suitable Vedic/Dharmic remedies, have reasonable expectations and put a lot more effort to fulfill the desire.
Sincerely...
