Lex sir please take up this query.

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jia.sin
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Namaste lex sir, We had no intimacy in 16 years of marriage and complete stop in the last years. I don’t feel like at all due to emotional reasons.
Husband Details: 01/23/80, ranchi , jharkhand. 18.15 evening.
My details 1/19/78 , Lucknow Uttar Pradesh. 16.00 evening
Since you are a senior member asking for your prediction and help.
Thank you
Jia
Lex
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Hi
You say, you guys never engaged in the act so far since 16 years, Am I correct? And you said, you don't like to do due to emotional stress.


Are you on Psychotrophic medications ???

I guess your marriage is a relationship ( Love) one????, You guys blessed with kids??

When I looked at your husband chart, it does indicate me there are issues with him on sexual front ???


I do see there are physical relationships had occurred during his running dasa which is Sun dasa and also earlier Shukra period too, and you say no intimacy ????


Is your husband having Diabetes ????


Let me know on the question marked items.
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Hello sir- thanks for response. No diabetes, he has thyroid. We had relations before, but was very stressful for me. We have 1 kid. Now no relations for last 10 years almost. Extremely rare once in a year or two, but I have lot of emotional trauma caused by him overtime and don’t want. It was love marriage but since first day after marriage issues happened and I didn’t have even 1 day happy peaceful with him but was scared to get out of it since no family in foreign land. He and his family took advantage of my emotional weakness. I had to take anti anxiety for depression caused by all this. Praying helped more that anything so don’t take anymore. But feel depressed.
jia.sin
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Thank you lex for response.
No diabetes he has, only thyroid.
No relations, very rare once in year or two. That too I never want. Last 10 yrs.
1 kid. Love marriage but problem started immediately. Too much negativity abuse from his parents. Please let me know if I can email. I was on anti anxiety for depression, but try to pray now instead.
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Hi, Connect with me through email.
True, if physical relationships not happening, there will be issues between both ( you and husband) on the emotional level, nature's principles. Too many Physical relationship between ,is also issue. Balance required.
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How can i connect via email ?
jia.sin
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Updated
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Updated on what Jia ??
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