Help - Possibility of marriage with my love

[vivek123vivek123]

Hi all,

I apologize for the long post, but I am trying to provide as much detail as possible for getting the best guidance. Thank you for your assistance in advance. It means a lot at this time.

I have been in a relationship with a girl for almost 4 years and the period from Feb 2016 has been challenging due to heavy resistance/blackmail/pressure from her parents against our inter-caste love marriage.

My dob : 08/March/1988, Time : 2:35 PM, Place: Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu
Her dob : 31/March/1991, Time : 1:07PM, Place, Cochin(Kochi), Kerela

In May/June this year, her parents found a groom for her for an arranged marriage and in mid June this year, she began talking to that guy and told me about it in July beginning(Just as a FYI). In July mid, the marriage was finalized and she got engaged in September. The wedding is planned for December 1st week.

His dob(Her fiance) : 02/September/1986, Time : 8:04 AM, Place: Manjeri, Kerela

I have consulted 3 astrologers and have been told the below:

1. Her horoscope and mine are both strongly towards a love marriage and we will surely get married.
2. It is just a passing phase and she has been brainwashed by her parents. Trying to separate us is like trying to separate Shiva and Parvathy - it will never happen.
3. I was told in Sep 2016(by a Nadi astrologer), that her parents will force her and that she will almost get married elsewhere, but in the end will come back and get married to me.
4. The horoscope of her and her fiance's do not match at all and will result in a breakup/divorce/death. I am not convinced by the astrologer telling me this as her parents strongly believe in astrology and have consulted and matched the horoscopes.
5. Presence of Rahu in the 7th house of her fiance will definitely cause the engagement to break.

I have also read on many forums and have understood the below:

1. Relationships that start during Saturn retrograde mostly end when Saturn goes direct.Their relationship has started when Saturn went retrograde for her(ardhastama sani) this year and I had entered the last leg of my sade-sati. So, should I expect it to end now that Saturn turns direct.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2 ... 749-2.html

2. People in love tend to love someone else when Saturn transits the 7th house from their lagna, like it was in the case of my love during Saturn retrograde.

Though we are not in touch currently, from what I gather they are having a good time together and the relationship is going strong.

I am confused and request you to clarify the below:

1. With less than 45 days left for her wedding, should I pray and hope that she will return to marry me or should I move on because of the planetary positions.
2. If we get married, do our horoscopes match and will we have a good married life together?
3. If we don't get married, will she have a good married life with her fiance, or will they separate?
4. If we don't get married, when should I expect to get married and will it be a love or arranged marriage?
5. Is this breakup predestined or is it due to the sudden unfavorable planetary positions and could have been avoided?

Thank you in advance. Any clarity on the above questions will be a great relief and help me decide on my future.

[Nagesh Rao]

You have already consulted astrologers. Done extensive research, although I must admit that the findings of that research are not in any of the classics and I believe in following classics down to the last letter, to maintain the purity of the ancient science. And you have already convinced yourself that she will come to you and are even hoping deep down that she will divorce from husband and come to you.
Under these circumstances, anything anybody tells you now is of no use. If it is positive, you will want to question it and want guarantees, which no body can give. If it is a negative prediction, you will reject it and ask for more astrological predictions.
Please consider that to do a matching for love triangle is a fairly time consuming job and as detailed above, it is unrewarding. Best of luck, but my suggestion to you is that, there is more to life than all this and it is best to have a level head and think logically. Your girl-friend seems to have a practical approach to the situation. Maybe you do not know the full details. It is best you talk to a good friend or relative who in your opinion is wise and mature. He/She will give you the required insight.

[vivek123vivek123]

Nagesh, I appreciate your response.

My intentions are not as mentioned by you.

My intention is to know if I should wait or should I move on. If I move on, what is in store for me next? And my intention is to know if she will have a happy married life or not with that person. I don't want her to come back to me with a divorce. I just want to ensure, if I am making a sacrifice of losing her, it is at least worth it because she will have a good life ahead.

The reason I am asking this in the forum is because the astrologers I visited were all asking for big money to do pujas and wear rings of various stones to bring her back, which I did not do as I do not believe in that. I want to know scientifically what is in store for me. I want an unbiased pure scientific prediction.

I understand practically what you are saying is correct, I want to know what is astrologically correct.

Thank you in advance.

[dtr777]

No horscopes are good or bad

No astrologer should predict 3rd person horoscope especailly stranger

so in this case many predicted and seems just they said what you wanted to hear

your research is very basic level but its good that you want to understand but dont rely on your predictions'

you only saying their relationship is growing stronger so there is nothing you can do

whatever happnes it happens for the best and try to not get depressed and eat well and figure your future especially in career matters

[vivek123vivek123]

Thank you for your post. You are correct. Every astrologer told me what I wanted to hear and asked me to do certain 'pujas' / 'remedies'. The first astrologer told me to pay him 18000 rupees to do a puja. He also asked for a 5g gold coin to do the puja. When I asked him what is to be done that I'll do it myself, he gave a complicated description of 14 temples at different locations at different times. I felt he wanted to take advantage of my situation and hence visited a second one. He wanted me to pay him 11000 rupees for making 3 rings of various stones. Hence I went to a third person. He asked me 35000 again to do some puja for 40 days, twice a day at some temples.

I found almost all of them were telling me what I wanted to hear and we're looking to make money with the situation and desperation.

Hence, I began researching online. But? I what I found is that it is a vast subject and in this limited time I will not be able to learn enough to predict correctly. Hence requesting help from this forum.

I just want to know if we are meant to be together or not. If not, what is the future for us both.

Any help in this regard will be greatly appreciated. I want an honest, unbiased and scientific prediction. Nothing else.

[dtr777]

I am getting gemini asc with juiter venus in 11th house

5th and 7th lord cinjuction in 11 th house is one of combination for love marriae but ketu in 3rd house asecting 9th asect on 5th house can cause breaks especailly venus in mars nakshtra of 6th lord ,6th lord and 7th lord directly aspecting ascendant with saturn cans how trouble or arguments in marraige

punaravasu people will have failures but same time they will quite succesful so life is not easy for them but this is one of the best nakshtra generally for business ,inforamtion or restaurents

ascendant lord in th house is ood for other eole money ,stock market or insurance type and good for research in communication fields

5th lord venus in d9 is on axis iof rahu ketu and saturn can shows marriage of different culture or caste or status but same time love relationships can break .I dont know you have any pprevious love realationships which got failed

hoiw was period 1990 jan to 1991 ?must have been bad period for health or luck is not there

2015 jan to 2018 feb will be a difficult eriod in life generally >what happened in 2014 decmeber to 2015 june in realtionship wise ?

2012 march to december any good thing for career ? 2006 march to november also good for career

strong views on politics and goverment .

no younger brothers or younger brothers suffered in life

fianlly your astakavarga scores for marraige are good and moon in 5th house with jupiter venus mutuala aspect is very good for love or marraige .Astkavara scores are also nice for 7th house

So your chart is good generally for career and marriae also but d9 is littlbe bit troublsome shows lots of disagreements .So you have to be calm minded and has to listen other peole views

Regradrinf current situation its mixed ,I hope everything turns out well

read you can heal your life or similar books which will give you nice perspective on life problems generally.If the outcome is not in your favour then dont completly depressed because your chart shows that if any problems came you will feel confused .So i suggerst you to more confident and dont waste your career potential .Jupiter venus in 11th is very nice especailly for this ascendant as 5th lord 7th lord and 10th lord .Forein oppurinities are also nice in this birth horoscope .I cant see girl horoscope as I am not expert in compatibility matters

[dtr777]

give how the time periods and other details are how much true for leaning purpose

[dtr777]

I forget to add that aswini nakshtra influence is heavy on chart so mars related or this nakshtra related remedies you can do

[vivek123vivek123]

Thank you for your response.

1990-1991 - I don't remember
2014 Dec to 2015 June - Relationship was awesome
2012 March to December provided a promotion at work. But it was due.

[vivek123vivek123]

Request someone to help in checking compatibility and provide prediction for marriage and married life. Thanks.