Guidance....Marriage and stability

[ChandraLagna]

Your misery is understandable. Responsibility weighs heavy on any astrologer trying to given an opinion on this situation because its a question of two lives here.

With that awareness I now write what I can make out from the charts. Please also take more opinions and do think about your decision independently from whatever I or anyone else here would write.

While your chart does have separative influences, it does appear better with regard to holding up the marriage. By better, I mean with respect to your husband's chart.

Your husband's chart though has indication of a second marriage. This is the clincher which kind of makes the conclusion that this marriage may not survive too long.

So unfortunately, I would agree with the astrologer your parents consulted & there appears to be slim
chance of making this work long time. I'm Sorry.

[Rainforest2012]

@ngj...

I can totally feel your pain coz my engagement just broke off...... but yours is a lottttttt more tough and I can only imagine how brutal it is to you emotionally and socially..... I sincerely hope babaji gives you all the courage to come out of this ordeal

[ChandraLagna]

Dear ngj,
It is possible that you may get a change of job abroad. It is not clear whether you have been trying,
or whether your field of work makes it possible. Do think along those lines if you haven't done so already.

After July next year, you may actually move out of the country, should you decide to do so.