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Dogs were never the same to me after I visited Deeapk and his dogs last December. He is Dattathreya reincarnate it seems :D .

Dear DGP,

I know you are feeling bad and want a solution to end your problems and are consulting many people. Forget astrology, just bear in mind a Good time or a Bad time never lasts forever. Things are bound to change. Just wait it out and you will see things turn for the better in due course. Do feed those stray dogs, it's very kind of you to do things like that.
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amazing experience sirji. Amazing compassion. Hats off to you :)
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Astroboy keeps putting these nimitas in front of me but I have never been intelligent enough to grasp. My 10th co-lord is ketu and it is debiliated :( . Maybe I need to start the remedies by Astroboy as well and see the results for myself. :)
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Good for you Sonu but don't play your pranks with them, they may reply in kind :D
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One of my friends in my last workplace, had similar affinity towards dogs. He would often pick up loner pups from the street and bring them home. He knew all the tricks of the trade, to take care of them. They would grow up in no time and would travel with him in his every 6 months changing cars to his farm house and other places where he went. Ketu is aspected by Jupiter in navamsa for him.
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AB Ji,

After reading your post, i felt like sharinge this vdo

Cld be irrelevant but thought to share the source of disgust, We Human just dont know how many lives and generation we are spoiling, on the top of it we feel proud calling our kids mirror of ourselves. I wonder why we have heart, why we try to define Love, Justice , compassion ..when we self define it making it the most suitable to us only.

It really makes a difference when people are like You.

My regards to your Guru Ji.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHi2dxSf9hw


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Chak's ji and Sonu ji , Thank you for the kind words . To be honest , some times I think I am lazy and I am not doing enough . :( . Hopefully I can change this in the comming days .

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Through hard work and spiritual practices, a person gets honor and dignity. The lazy one who puts in no efforts is like a fool who allows salt to be spilled on the wounds of his misfortunes. The idler depending only on fate, achieves nothing. - K.N.Rao ji
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Good day Talib Ji ,

I just wish some times , This entire universe would fold up and go back to its original state . Wishfull thinking no doubt .

Here is one for you .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jDGD4mLC04E

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Hello,

This is a wonderful forum full of compassionate and wise people. I learn everytime I go through a thread not only astrology but also spirituality.

I learnt about Punarbhu dosha in this thread, but is there any remedy for the dosha,or the person is supposed to suffer due to it's own action. What is the upaya for wavering mind, because in such condition the person suffers on it's own hand and so does people associated with them. The sufferings coming from outside still can be overcome with strong, will, faith and virtue, but arising from inner weakness are toughest to fight.

Also I have learnt that it gets nullified after age of 30, is it true or it's influence is felt through out life on marital bliss. What is the connection of saturn with age 30. Please shed some light on my queries and help me learn more.

Thank you.
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thanks to all of you wonderful ppl here for your sharing your views,

I always thought it to be highly illogical on my relatives part to say these things about dogs.it dint make any practical sense at all.moreover,when I feed the dogs,I do feel good about it.

Swamycool ji: you mentioned that "In dgp's chart Ketu owns the Vipat Tara fr moon and the Naidhana Tara fr lagna (Navtara Chakra). And this guy wants him to get married in his ketu dasha???" what does that exactly mean?

By the way my relative is a SHE,not HE ! :D

thanks a lot once again

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Hello to all guruji's here,

I & another colleague at my office were nominated for a senior position in my office in October 2010.one of us will be promoted to the next senior level.the decision is still pending,may happen this month or next.It was supposed to happen in March 2011,but it stands delayed.As some of you had said that I will get that promotion,but it seems I wont be promoted(its my personal guess).I am having some very frustrating times at office since Nov-Dec 2010.I am not sure what is in store for me from promotion point of view but i did get a good salary hike in April 2011.but regarding my promotion,my personal view(keeping in mind the prevalent office atmosphere) is that I wont get it,the other person may get it.
Please analyze whether I will get promoted this year or not .

thanks in anticipation.
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thanks for replying aseem ji,
I dont have his exact birth details.all i know is his DOB is March 8, 1983.he joined an year an half later than me,he is married as well(got married last year).
it is my own personal opinion based on the present situation at office which makes me think that he may be promoted,not me..rest is destiny.

thanks once again
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hello to all the respected guru ji's here,
I am posting after a while and wanted to share the latest happenings with you and seek assistance.

after many hassles,frustrations,obstacles,troubles,my rishta has finally been fixed in May 2011.this alliance has been fixed through matrimonial columns in newspaper.the girls family gave their ad in newspaper in early May and the rishta was fixed in the end of May 2011.
I do feel my case is a case of strange things :)
Many learned ppl on this forum said I will know the girl before marriage and some said I will have arrange marriage.Now practically this alliance is an aranged one through newspapers,but the girls family have the same surname as we do and they belong to the same ancestral village from where our grandparents and great-grandparents belong.So in my situation or as per my chart,love and arranged were both indicated ?reason being that girl has the same surname as mine and belongs to the same ancestral village?

My reason for posting here is that what would be the best time for me to get married? my parents and me are planning to fix the marriage in the 1st or 2nd week of Nov,2011. is this time good astrologically?
the girls exact TOB isnt available as our families dont believe in matching charts,(we only know the DOB and POB).

I humbly request learned ppl here to analyse my chart and check for a suitable time for marriage as my parents and me want to fix the date of marriage.

My details are:
Male
DOB: Oct 12th,1981
POB: Chandigarh,India.
TOB: 2:30pm(1430)

thanks in anticipation
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..God !! i have seen like this, DGP bro ur and my kundali is almost same!!! life history is almost pretty similar to urs!! Damn its like me life fate written all over u man!!
Cheers, I can feel for u bro coz i have suffered same things that u have done!! But hope is good thing so i just hope everything will b ok ??

cheers,
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astroboy wrote:Dear Chak's Ji,

I cannot understand the attitude of the parents sometimes. They act as if Marriage is like air and water and that their children are not married by 24 they will just die of thirst and suffocation.

And to make matters worse these 20/35 year old's act as if they will decay and rot away if they dont have a spouse. I cannot understand this urgency and fascination.

Once marriage is done then the next rush is for kid's , Like the world is going to be hit by a Astroid if they dont have children and that their children will find a cure for all the ills of the world. Like we dont have enough on this earth already. I am not against people having Kid's, But the frenzy to do it gets to my nerves. :evil:


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Hi all,

I am a new buzzer in this forum. I started reading this topic and I read each and every comments here.

Especially some of the comments regarding marriage delay were awesome WOW :!:

Actually in my case, I don't have pressure from my mother and also from relatives (anyway my relatives never cared about our family). I always have problem from the outside ppl. I am living in abroad. Whenever I go to India, I have tough time. Wherever and whoever I meet, first question "any good news?"
and they start to give advices.. as if I don't want to get marry. Last time, when I went home my mom was terribly sick and I were with her in the hospital. My neighbour started talking abt my marriage at that time and he started giving advices in the hospital. I really wanted to shout "SHUT UP!" but wasn't able to do that :evil: and several similar experinces...

As a girl not getting married at the age of 30 and to face the Indian ppl... its a tough task!! :x
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hello to all gurujis here,

I humbly request some analysis on my recent post above.
thanks in anticipation

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hello to all the guru jis once again,

I havent received any response on my latest query.posting again.
Please provide some assiatance.

after many hassles,frustrations,obstacles,troubles,my rishta has finally been fixed in May 2011.this alliance has been fixed through matrimonial columns in newspaper.the girls family gave their ad in newspaper in early May and the rishta was fixed in the end of May 2011.
I do feel my case is a case of strange things :)
Many learned ppl on this forum said I will know the girl before marriage and some said I will have arrange marriage.Now practically this alliance is an aranged one through newspapers,but the girls family have the same surname as we do and they belong to the same ancestral village from where our grandparents and great-grandparents belong.So in my situation or as per my chart,love and arranged were both indicated ?reason being that girl has the same surname as mine and belongs to the same ancestral village?

My reason for posting here is that what would be the best time for me to get married? my parents and me are planning to fix the marriage in the 1st or 2nd week of Nov,2011. is this time good astrologically?
the girls exact TOB isnt available as our families dont believe in matching charts,(we only know the DOB and POB).

I humbly request learned ppl here to analyse my chart and check for a suitable time for marriage as my parents and me want to fix the date of marriage.

My details are:
Male
DOB: Oct 12th,1981
POB: Chandigarh,India.
TOB: 2:30pm(1430)

thanks in anticipation
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still waiting for some reply on my recent post :(

thanks
shinu.mehrotra

if they don't believe in matching charts, they are right. You should not delay and get married.
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thanx for your reply shinu ji,

my parents and me are planning to fix the date of marriage in the 1st week of Nov 2011. is that ok astrologically?

just wanted to tell you,if you havent read the long entire thread :) ,that matching charts,has or is never done in our families.
and as is the normal Punjabi tradition, that marriages are mostly planned in winters,so thats what my parents are planning too.

please analyse if 1st week of Nov 2011 will be ok?
thanks in anticipation

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hello all,
few days back I was asking you all about the prospective time about when me and my parents should fix the marriage date.
situation has changed and as usual history is almost set to repeat itself:
this 2nd rishta is almost on the verge of collapse.again the same compatibility issues.I am not sure how the next few days will shape up,but it seems this alliance is heading for a break up.
It seems arrange marriage isnt in my destiny or marriage,god knows.
too much stress,tensions and anxiety for my parents who have already seen a lot of bad things in life.

I dont know what to ask you all here.all I can say is that 3 broken love affairs,almost 2 broken rishtas,WHERE AM I HEADING ??? am i destined to be single for my life ??? will I get married ?
m so stressed out now as I feel so sorry and bad for my parents.it seems to be becoming a nightmare for them.

KETU playing havoc it seems.
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Bro DGP!!

I have gone thru every post here man thinking ur and mine condition being same!! But bruh i aint pussy like u? I did have 3 long term affairs broken, few nearly engagement gone in to trash but i aint bitching about it? Grow up dude why are u showing urself as some pathetic frack!! u have good job good family , believe me lotse people they dunt have this luxuries but still they survive. My honest opinion bruh!
Let me come to ur so called marriage fiasco!! Do u want to marry or not? Forget about "Dream gal" hoopla coz is way overrated... Dunt expect JLo's rose, Aish's Eyes, Rekha's hair !! Man its hard combo!! if u try to picture it on every gal that comes in ur life man u are gonna be single forever!! We will all get married and have kids but u still are gonna stay in this forum and embarass yourself.. For u sake i am marrying mangalik gal wid her mars in 7th house!! Our guna matching is like 16/36!! Fuk it , i will see what comes in future!!! atleast i have satisfaction that i choose what heart is telling me to do!!
Bro, If u want to marry just do it, listen to heart , if is says go for it..fuk all frack...whatever happens man its ur destiny!!

cheers mate!!
milredr

DGP again you have issues. What kind of a woman are u looking for? Pl go back to the first page of this thread and read again. You have had compatibility issues with 5 women so far, I dont think u shd b looking at getting married. Marriage is not a joke. If your finding it so difficult to get along, i think u shd stop thinking of marriage for the time being in my humble opinion and focus maybe on work. Your just 30. You still have time. Marriage is not the be all and end all for you to get so frustrated. Take it easy.

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by astroboy » Fri Oct 15, 2010 11:28 am
DGP,
I sent you a PM some time back,
Sent: Sat Oct 09, 2010 11:39 am
From: astroboy
To: dgp
DGP
Dont feel bad
lagna has ketu
lagna lord is with the 8th lord
lagna lord and 2nd lord is combust
This indicates a horoscope where one damages his own life with his own actions.
I rest my case.astroboy


True. Read the bold, Italic and underlined sentence.
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milredr and thirthachengappa,

thanks for replying,
i dint had compatibility issues in love affairs,I am having issues in arranged alliances.in my love affairs,compatibility was v gud and marriage was intended,but destiny played its part.I never ended any of my love affairs,never cheated,remained faithful,still fate did what it did.
Yes, in these 2 arranged alliances,I dont seem to be getting along,so how can I continue? in arranged marriages,you meet once for few minutes and feel ok and say yes,but when you start spending time,I started feeling it wont work out.I do feel that arranged marriage is not my cup of tea.Again,I may be completely wrong,who knows.in my affairs,sparks used to fly all the time,and in these arrnaged alliances,I was like a cold man with no emotions and even avoiding to talk to the girl or meeting.so finally had to call quits.

trust me,this has now left my parents and me way too stressed out.3 broken love affairs,2 broken alliances.
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