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Basab wrote:Sita,

I am not joking. The love birds can be seen all around. They will have fights over petty issues and talk senti all the time. I don't like all that. :mrgreen:
sita wrote:Heyyy Bassu...this is filmi pyar ...watch this 8)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixS-nK8cmbw


Dear Bassu....everything is fair in love and war :wink:
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Sita,

You didn't need to tell me this because I have learned it the hard way. :mrgreen: I was told by 90% of the astrologers that I will be make huge success in life, and we know what the reality is: I have succeeded very much, but in becoming a failure. :mrgreen: So whatever it is, I am wise enough to not again believe what an astrologer has to say about my birth chart. :mrgreen:
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Basab wrote:Sita,
I look at life logically, not astrologically. :mrgreen:

very nice.....I have been trying to say this right from the first day....thank god..now at least u have said that :)
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You know why? Because it is said, 'marriage is the graveyard of love.' When you are in love before marriage, it is a different feeling, a kind of fantasy type of thing, but when you marry, you face the reality of life. People in love expect a lot from marriage, but then, they are disappointed because marriage brings them face-to-face with real life. It is not the fantasy world, anymore. That is why it is said, love marriage fails more than arranged marriage. In arranged marriage, you enter married life with zero expectations, and so even if you get 5% happiness, you feel like you have made a success of your marriage, while in love marriage, you expect 200% happiness, as you got 100% happiness before marriage, being in love, and then, when marriage gives you only 30% happiness, you can't tolerate it, and it leads to divorce.
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Basab wrote:After marriage people grow up. :mrgreen:
sita wrote:accha ok tell me what happens after marriage?? :wink:

Really Bassu...then why divorce?.......why extra-marital affairs...??
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Basab wrote:Sita,

I am not joking. The love birds can be seen all around. They will have fights over petty issues and talk senti all the time. I don't like all that. :mrgreen:
Bassu,

unmarried couples fight outside (coz their parents r inside :wink: )...thats why they r visible....and married couples fight inside :mrgreen:
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I told you I am not a romantic person when it comes to exhibiting love. :mrgreen:
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Basab wrote:Sita,

I am not joking. The love birds can be seen all around. They will have fights over petty issues and talk senti all the time. I don't like all that. :mrgreen:
sita wrote:Heyyy Bassu...this is filmi pyar ...watch this 8)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixS-nK8cmbw


Dear Bassu....everything is fair in love and war :wink:
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Sita,

I have no problem in a boy and girl fighting. What I find funny is the reason a boy and girl in love fight: they will fight because the guy had come 10 minutes late, or the guy had not telephoned the girl 5 times, or the guy was looking at another pretty girl. This is nothing but crap. If there is a genuine reason for fight, it is okay, otherwise, it is nonsense. :mrgreen:
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Basab wrote: In arranged marriage, you enter married life with zero expectations, and so even if you get 5% happiness, you feel like you have made a success of your marriage, while in love marriage, you expect 200% happiness, as you got 100% happiness before marriage, being in love, and then, when marriage gives you only 30% happiness, you can't tolerate it, and it leads to divorce.

Excuse me...arranged marriages r immune to divorce?
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Anyway, Sita, I think I shouldn't argue on this topic because neither am I married, nor I ever had a girl friend, so I simply am not qualified to argue on this topic. I am sorry, don't mind what I said. I just told you what my issue is: that is I am very poor in expressing my feelings, and so, I don't feel the interest in falling in love as I know I can't be romantic with someone, ever.
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No, arranged marriages are not immune to divorce. It is just that divorce in arranged marriages are less than divorce in love marriages. I just told you what I have heard. Otherwise, I don't have any idea on this topic. It is just theoretical knowledge as far as I am concerned. I am sorry, don't take my posts seriously. I shouldn't have got into this argument. You got me into it. I was talking about my own issues, and that is what I should be confident about.
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So the conclusion is JUST FALL :mrgreen:

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No, I can't fall. It is not possible for me. :(
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Why sorry hehehhee :mrgreen: ...I rarely get irritated :P
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Basab wrote:No, I can't fall. It is not possible for me. :(

arre hehehe just fall :mrgreen:


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No, it is not about irritating you. I shouldn't argue on a topic, which I don't know about. And I really don't know about love other than what I have read in books or seen in serials/movies. I have no experience when it comes to this emotion.
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Yeah, I am in love with 'love'. :mrgreen:
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Love is the best medicine bassu :)

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Yeah, I know Sita, love is the best medicine, but not everyone is fortunate enough to get it. I leave it to God to decide whether He would like to get me treated by it.
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try funny things ....it will make ur life enjoyable :P


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It is not in my personality to try funny things...
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Dear Aseem,

I dont think abt future or past....I believe in living in the present and enjoying the moment....so let me enjoyyyyyyyyy :P
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arre ram re...I m talking abt my love....the person whom I love :oops: ....and regarding online....laptop has made everything easier :P
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hehehhe....I feel good when I think abt him.....whats wrong in that ? :P ....I m happy that by thinking abt him I stay away from negative thoughts.....I feel good,happy...and whatelse can u expect from ur prospective life-partner... :oops:....and yeahh....I cant stay away from 24x7 because I was born with this date....very special date..nahi?? :mrgreen:
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nahi re...I m gonna marry him....he is not an actor... :mrgreen:
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I m not escaping from problems.....I dont have any problems....where is the problem yaar?.....touchwood!
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