Why my relationship end after 4-5 years?

[indyan]

Dear guru ji, i want to know why all the time i come back with empty hand in relationship. I was in relationship (Long distance relationship) with a girl since September 2006, we were so good at everything and our family accepted our relationship and mutually agreed for our marriage in august 2010. we are supposed to get married in 2011,but dont know what happened and my relationship ended with this girl in February 2011. She told me that she thinks that our relationship will not last longer as i am not good to him and so she dont want to continue this relationship. She dont have a anything left for me.
I am so much depressed and i have to take sleeping pills in night to sleep. I tried to win her back but of no use.she is very stubborn and dont want to communicate with me also dont want to listen about me from our common friends.


This is not the first time i am facing this issue relationship issue. Same happened with me 5-6 years back and time too i had a relatioship since 2000 which ended in december 2004. At that time too when our parents agreed mutually for our marriage that girl left me alone.

SInce last ten years i am trying to give best to my partner but when times come to marriage girls left me alone.

Guru ji please analyis and tell me whether i will get married or not ? if yes, when? Is there any chances of getting back my lost love? Why everyone is leaving me after 4-5 years of serious relationship?
PS: Both relationship was long distance and i use to travel 1000 kms to meet them but at the end they left me without thinking how i will live without them.BOTH ARE ARIANS

Please help !!!

My birth detail

DOB : 29.09.1979
PLACE:Patna
TIME:09.16 AM

Girl Detail
DOB:19.04.1987
PLACE:Bhopal
TIME: 13.11 PM

[indyan]

you are kindly advised for proper arrange marriage as both 5th, 7th are afflicted.

Thanks aseem ji for your analysis but can you please pen down the marriage time?

[indyan]

You will most probably be get married after a lot of heartbreaks when the karmic implications of past lives is exhausted.

You need to keep on seraching for your soul mate. Rejections will help you burn negative balance fast.

Period from may 2013 to 2014 there will be chances.

Dear aseem ji, The last relationship which was broken made me depressed and i am just thinking to get married very soon to get over my depression. I am type of guy who cant live without love or support. But these days my loneliness is killing me from inside. Few times i wish to commit sucide or marry any widow,handicap or any girl coz i think atleast these girl respect my love if i give them good life with my love.
One thing i also want to share that i married this girl (Just putted sindur on 07 june 2008), We were expecting to get married after completing her mba but all off sudden when she completed her mba and got job she denied to stay in this relationship.

Anyway i also dont want to spoil her life if she is not feeling comfortable with me or my love. Aseem ji i request you to advise me what can be done to get rid of my loneliness

[aliens19672004]

Hi

Jupiter is your Dara karaka and being placed in the badhaka house along with Rahu would create a Guru chandal yog. Diff of opinions. Your A7 (tangible manifesation of relationships) Mars is debilitated. It is also the lord of the 7th house.

For your lagna the 11th house is the house of obstacles and the lord of the obstacle is Mercury being placed in the 12th house exalted but not alone. 12th house denotes secrete enemies.

It is placed with the lagna lord and it is also debilitated. Venus is the natural significator of relationship.

There is a curse of Brahmin on you. Saturn and Rahu is conjoining Jupiter.

Start reciting the mantra of Kamalatmika
Pray to Surya everyday as it is the 11th house lord placed in the 12th house which is a Marana karaka for the planet and also the native


regards

[indyan]

Kindly consult Paulji or anupamji or basabji as they are the best senior astrologers on the forum.

I request basabji , Paulji and anupamji and astroboy ji to guide me ...

[indyan]

Hi

Jupiter is your Dara karaka and being placed in the badhaka house along with Rahu would create a Guru chandal yog. Diff of opinions. Your A7 (tangible manifesation of relationships) Mars is debilitated. It is also the lord of the 7th house.

For your lagna the 11th house is the house of obstacles and the lord of the obstacle is Mercury being placed in the 12th house exalted but not alone. 12th house denotes secrete enemies.

It is placed with the lagna lord and it is also debilitated. Venus is the natural significator of relationship.

There is a curse of Brahmin on you. Saturn and Rahu is conjoining Jupiter.

Start reciting the mantra of Kamalatmika
Pray to Surya everyday as it is the 11th house lord placed in the 12th house which is a Marana karaka for the planet and also the native


regards

Thanks aliens ji , but whenever i worship i have to face problem so i quited praying or worshiping. It may be due to guru chandal yoga. At begining my relationship seems to be world's best relationship but after few years my relationship become worst. You also indicated that i have secret enemies and its really very true. I found my close relatives as my enemies coz they tried to change my partner mind , these things i know after break up.

I am having so much mind noise that i dont know what i will do . sometimes i feel to hurt myself or hurt my partner who left me alone.
PLEASE HELP...

[indyan]

Please reply dear learned astrologers.