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Hi Astroboy:

Everyone looks for you for astrological advise and in fact go to the extent of writing your name in the subject. It is because everyone is confident of your tremendous astrological skills and also your helping tendencies and immediate reply and also your outspoken nature. I read what you wrote in this thread and was pained because you had consoled us at times when we were in pain. I wish that you revover from this pain and have a very happy life ahead.

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Astroboy

Though he is very much knowledged on his astrological skills asks us to seek expert advice,

As said we all have passed the love test and astroboy is our guru who has passed the ultimate love test.

I wish astroboy to devote more of himself to religious and our astrological sites. He is a great support to us. When i was suffering the same thing during the end of july 2010 he only guided me to take up new life and start looking out for aspects for marriage with parental consent.

He just told me to just move ahead in life putting down the past.

And i am really feel bad for your story and want to know how and how can you (astroboy) help the future lovers and our future india (18 - 30 year olds) to lead a successful and peaceful career and personal life. My point is that we should help them in not falling in the mental stress trap.

and lastly i have learnt one lesson and this goes to all -
IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE WHOLEHEARTEDLY GO AHEAD AND MARRY (with your parents wish) AND FACE THE LIFE AS IT COMES (COME WHAT MAY) NEVER EVER SEE OR ANALYZE HOROSCOPE IN YOUR LOVE MARRIAGES.
HOROSCOPE IS ONLY FOR ARRANGED MARRIAGES AND CHILD MARRIAGES
(which is not practiced now, but thats y match making was made popular)
WHEN HEARTS MATCH THERE IS NO NEED FOR HOROSCOPE MATCH.
FUTURE LOVERS PLEASE TELL THIS TO YOUR PARENTS / RELATIVES / FRIENDS AND TO YOUR LOVER ALSO.
Nitin21

Isnt it an honour to be loved by someone who is respected and loved by everyone :) .. Kudos to you astroboy.. I am elated to be your buddy.
milredr

My dear Astroboy,

I am indeed very touched by this. This woman was meant to be in your life, for the simple reason that she could gift you with the biggest gift - "Astrology". Look at the number of people you are helping with this gift.

God has given you another opportunity. Do not lose out on the present and the future owing to your past experience. Forget the past, enjoy the present and look forward to a wonderful future. Secondly Never say Never. You never Know what God has in store for you(even if you have mastered the subject of Astrology)

Take care and God Bless.
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Dear Dear Dear Astroboy

Whatever happened to you was simply to make you know this

Tying a knot
is saturation
for freeing of love
is initiation

This may be a bit hard to digest but is the truth.

With warmest regards for you to transcend this present and come out of it unscathed

ramanan
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Age is not a constraint Astroboy - and i am nowhere in the age to advice you.

But i feel there must be a Dharma Pathini born to serve you for your kind and humble heart.

The Right girl if she sees this forum would want to marry you and serve you for her entire lifetime.

Sorry the topic is getting deviated - but i did not get a chance to find and explain astroboys dedication and his worth
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Astroboy once told me "sometimes not getting what you want is a blessing in disguise and it's the best thing to happen". I don't think he would have learnt astrology if he had married his love years before. Her loss is our (the forum's) gain.
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dear dear astroboy SIR,

look, so many praises 4 u.
i personally feel, if u could only be little flexible, i think life would be different
perhaps its the saturn which is making u adamant

i hope u remember me whose sister also has similar horo like urs
CAN THERE NOT BE 'FORGET N FORGIVE ' policy? but its up to u as u have gone throu.

but anyway all i can say is 'U R GREAT'
i would definitely like 2 b urs disciple to learn astrology. CAN I?

let GOD BAPPA bless us,

nutan
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milredr

On second thoughts(now that i am done with the senti bit) i have a question to ask of you. A valid one i would think. Was your exalted Kuja sleeping for 14 years? I would really like to know. My exalted Kuja has a problem even reading something like this, imagine going thru it.

Regards,
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Nitin21

It is because Moon has a higher shadbala than Mars but lower than Sun. So, the heart ruled over aggression at that time, but when there was time to decide finally, Sun the royal and pride planet ruled and rightly so. Because Sun has higher Shadbala than moon. To decipher astroboy's aggression, peep into his heart (moon), most often you would win his heart over. But don't cross the line of pride (Exalted Sun), you won't win. thats what happened with the lady.

Sun is the kalatrakaraka for him (not moon) and exalted in rasi and 7th in Navamsa. Whichever girl he will be with, she will be royal and of highest pride.

milredr wrote:
Having said that, You have to realise that I am 37. I went around with a woman for 14 straight years, In that time she put me upside down and inside out. I dont know why i subjected myself to that pain, But I sat quiet when she mauled me through all that time.
On second thoughts(now that i am done with the senti bit) i have a question to ask of you. A valid one i would think. Was your exalted Kuja sleeping for 14 years? I would really like to know. My exalted Kuja has a problem even reading something like this, imagine going thru it.

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Nitin21

All these depressive feelings will fade away post June 2011. You will enter into a new relationship. Your partner will be very handsome and moody.

If you are religious at all, Offer prayers to Lord Shiva and Mata Parvati daily.

You have a very good work life and will reach high posts in due course of time. Same will be with your husband. You will definitely marry whether you desire or not. :)

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namratha90 wrote:Respected Forum Members,

Request for analysis of my chart. My DOB 1st September, 1983, 14.03, Mumbai,F. I have a great education, a great career. However in matters of love, i am a zero. I loved someone very dearly. Went around with the person for a long time, fought against my parents for him. He kept giving me false promises and i had no reason to doubt him. He finally said no to me after going around for 5 steady years. No reasons given. I was only told i cannot marry you. I tried my best to reconcile to the fact. Its been 2 years now and i am not able to get over this. I am good looking. Getting proposals and there a lot of men interested in me. I have no interest in anyone. I know i will never get the man i loved and hence i have decided never to get married. Does my chart show marriage ever? I feel if i am not able to get over this for 2 years i have no hope truly.

i will be very happy if you all can take some time to analyse my chart and my situation. Astroboy, i am new here. I have read some of ur posts. you are very straight. Request you to pl analyse.

Namratha
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Milred, what killed us is the placement of the Moon. Her Moon is in a 12/2 relationship. The law of synastry says that when the Moon's are in a 12/2 relationship with each other the Couple become "secret adversaries" against each other. Both work hard to harm the other.
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Basab

Astroboy,

The lady you have talked about has debiliated ascendant lord, and that planets is Mars. Now, I really wonder how a person with debiliated Mars can ever be so strong minded, which she seems to be from what I have understood from your posts. A debiliated Mars should make one a weakling and more so when it is the ascendant lord, but she is far from that from what I got to understand from what you have written about her. Don't mind what I wrote, please.
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Basab,

In a female's chart if both the lagna and moon are in male rasis, then she is bound to act like a male - bold and courageous. If she also has mars in a fiery sign, don't go anywhere near her :D . The lagna lord's debilitation in the fourth (cancer) in the present case would mean breathing difficulties, chest problems etc.,
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Basab ji,

A debiliated Mars should make one a weakling and more so when it is the ascendant lord,

A Graha's strength or weakness is a measure of it's ability to exert energy , Not it's intention. A Malefic being crooked and debilitated is less predictable. A debilitated Malefic is a truly low life sort of being and when this thug is egged on by other Malefics ( By Aspect or conjunction / ) he will display his destructive tendencies at all times. A natural malefic when debilitated need's only to remove the support which are propping up certain areas of life to have them come crashing down on the native's head. ( Kuja aspect's the 7th ). Remember, Kuja is also the 8th lord and is aggitated at being placed in a debilitated sign. Please understand, a debilitated planet is not weak, if he was, he would have a very low Shad Bala, A debilited planet is strong but his intention is not good.

Trust this help's
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Basab

Thanks, Astroboy, for explaining the point.
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My pleasure sir, :)
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