Marriage is not happening

[angel121]

Namaste everyone,

I am seeking Vedic astrology insight regarding marriage, delays, and possible remedies.

Birth details:
25 September 1989
12:48 PM (midday/noon birth)
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

I have never been married or engaged, despite genuinely wanting marriage for many years.

For context, I am a 6th generation Indian living outside of India, where arranged marriages are not common. I also will not marry outside my religion or convert.

I have tried to put myself out there through singles events, introductions, and matchmaking services, but nothing has progressed towards marriage.

I would sincerely appreciate insight into:
• Whether marriage is indicated in my chart
• Timing of marriage
• Reasons for delays
• Future spouse/married life
• Helpful remedies or spiritual practices

Please be kind. Thank you in advance for your guidance.

[Sishya]

Hi,

Please rest assured I'm merely trying to observe and understand the disposition of planetary positions/influences. So, not judging you as a individual. In any case, request you to kindly bear with me and feel free to ignore any part or the entirety of my post/response.

To start with, it looks like you have limited yogas for marriage and the delay is pretty obvious. Further, it looks like you have anger/temper and temperament issues and folk will invariably figure out and perhaps get repelled of your nature...specially in certain parts of the world, where dating and live-in relationships are common..

On the sidelines, there seems to be a strong influence of Ketu on Moon/Chandra and hence your mind (in the past, you've called out bouts of depression - it was perhaps induced from loneliness or solitude, influenced by Ketu). You also seem to be somebody who has a mind of her own, with fixed or rigid mindset, stubborn views/thoughts etc. If there is any truth in my understanding, you might want to dwell on these aspects as potential reasons and contributing factors.

All said and done, I'm inclined to think the birth-chart seems to be tending towards denial... although there seems to be an outside chance of delayed fulfillment.

Sincerely...

[angel121]

Hi

Thanks for your analysis.

My previous relationships have not worked out due to abuse mainly. Physical, emotional, financial and psychological abuse. While I do struggle with depression and have a temper at times, it cannot be attributed to the desolution of those previous relationships, as it was I who walked away from ill treatment.

For the past six years I've just not been able to meet anyone suitable despite my many attempts to do.

I appreciate your analysis but do not believe that dwelling on my supposed flaws is of any use. No one is perfect and most of the world still gets married.

[Sujit]

Namaste everyone,

I am seeking Vedic astrology insight regarding marriage, delays, and possible remedies.

Please be kind. Thank you in advance for your guidance.

Hello
Could you share a brief on parents, siblings and what is your line of profession.

[angel121]

Good afternoon,

Much gratitude for your response.

I have a younger brother. My parents are alive and married to each other. I did not live with my parents in my childhood.

I am in supply chain and data analytics, career wise.

[Sujit]

Good afternoon,

Much gratitude for your response.

I have a younger brother. My parents are alive and married to each other. I did not live with my parents in my childhood.

I am in supply chain and data analytics, career wise.

I have doubts time of birth is not correct.

[angel121]

Hi

It's the time of birth on my birth certificate and the time noted by my parents when I was born.

I am hindu so it was something that they did take note of.

[Sishya]

Hi,

My previous relationships have not worked out due to abuse mainly. Physical, emotional, financial and psychological abuse. While I do struggle with depression and have a temper at times, it cannot be attributed to the desolution of those previous relationships, as it was I who walked away from ill treatment.

For the past six years I've just not been able to meet anyone suitable despite my many attempts to do.

I appreciate your analysis but do not believe that dwelling on my supposed flaws is of any use. No one is perfect and most of the world still gets married.

As called out in the past, you are more than welcome to ignore any part of my response or all of it, specially if it not to your taste or liking. You can also continue to live in denial carrying your own perceptions...without making any attempts to understand your own part/contribution.

It has been a long time since I've stopped judging people...for we are mere puppets under the influence of planetary forces and driven by our own Karma. So, my intent was to help you develop awareness, realization, etc., in the hope of connecting your with your own nature and their impact on your life.

Lastly, you are right about "No one is perfect and most of the world still gets married". But then, they also have their own fair share of ills and odds. You've perhaps been lucky not to get married by walking away from non-meaningful relationships...while there are several stuck (after getting married...and some without such binding) in such caustic relationships, not mustering courage or being constrained/restrained to continue living in misery. If you dwell on this topic and dig deeper, you'll also realize there are some who seem to take extreme and irrational decisions.

Sincerely...