If someone can help me.. please

[DrM]

Hello. I am female , 35, from South Africa:
Dob: 16/05/1990
Tob: 12h03 (afternoon)
Place: Pietermaritzburg, South Africa.

Since I had my son in late 2019, my health has declined. Mostly spine and joint related issues that make it hard to do much. Despite this, I preserved.. I tried to work through everything and build up my career/life.. with no support from family. My parents have done unspeakable things to me throughout my life, and after I fell ill, I could no longer mentally deal with their abuse. My in laws are no better. I thank God I have a good husband and child, but I am very lonely and depressed .

My work kept my spine issues in check because I moved alot, in July 2024, my contract ended and after that, no matter how hard i tried , all attempts at securing a job have failed. I am so depressed as I feel I have lost my career for good , I was an academic. I sit around all day in pain and depressed. I stopped recently looking for jobs because I feel traumatised. I have done my Shani fasting, and my Guru fasting as advised by my local priest and astrologer. But my life no longer feels like mine, I started accepting that maybe some just have to live like this, although I try to trust God and try to improve myself.. i worked so hard in my career/marriage/as a mother/health. I am so tired now of it all.

I hate waking up every day.. I only wake up for my son, but even that is getting exhausting. I am not selfish, I am so tired. If someone can help me, advise me, something.

[pink1]

Hello DrM,

You will notice improvement from your 37th year onward. Until then, focus on meditation, regular exercise, and other simple practices that keep your mind calm and balanced.

pink1

[Sishya]

Hi,

Hello. I am female , 35, from South Africa:
Dob: 16/05/1990
Tob: 12h03 (afternoon)
Place: Pietermaritzburg, South Africa.

Since I had my son in late 2019, my health has declined. Mostly spine and joint related issues that make it hard to do much.

In my humble opinion, birth-timing of your son and timing of your health issues were only incidental... for it is more than a coincidence that you were in the midst of Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra, at that time. This period might have contributed to some unpleasant and stressful times - not to mention the precarious situation of Moon/Chandra, who is caught between two hardcore malefic planets, in a strong Papakartari Yoga and in-turn its effect on the mind .

Thereafter, you seem to started Maha-Dasha of 6th lord and Roga-Karaka Jupiter/Guru-dev, placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses/Hospitalization/Medical Expenses etc., activating the 3rd & 12th lord Mercury/Budha (who is Vakra or Retrograde) placed in the 10th house of Karma-Sthana, creating a rippling effect at workplace.

In any case, it would perhaps make sense for you to get out of your current mindset by strengthening your Moon/Chandra and in-turn your mind. On the sidelines, kindly consider chanting the following mantra 108 times, twice a day (preferably starting from Thursday):
Om Namo Bhagavate Dhanvantraya Vishnurupaya Namo Namah

Sincerely...

[DrM]

@pink1 @Sishya. I appreciate your advice. I will try the reccomended .