Husband Abandoned me- Misunderstanding In laws

[Unna]

I’m feeling really overwhelmed by everything that’s happened. In December 2023, my in-laws tortured me so much, and in January and February 2024, my husband also didn’t treat me well. Then, on February 7th 2024 a big issue happened, and since that day, he has been staying away. It has now been a year, and he still hasn’t come back home.

In May I lost my job and i went to India - May 26 2024, we discussed things in India, hoping for a solution, but things didn’t go as expected. His family is also not talking or doing anything to fix this. I don’t know what to do anymore. Now i found a job but feeling really overwhelmed there too.

My date of birth is March 23, 1996, at 9:30 AM in Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu. My Husband is April 10 1992 , 4:15 am kumbakonam Tamil Nadu.

Married on November 15th 2021 at 10:00 am in karaikudi tamilnadu

I was in Hostel for most of my childhood and wanted to have a happy family.
I really want to know when I will reunite with my husband and when I can have children. There are no major issues between us, just a misunderstanding and because of in laws. I just want to clarify everything and make things normal again. One day, everything was fine, and in a second, my whole life turned upside down.

Please, if anyone can help, I would really appreciate it. I’m not being supported financially, and I am abandoned in a totally different country where i don’t have any support system and I don’t know how much longer I can keep handling all of this alone.

[Sishya]

The post seems to have duplicated... hence deleting the earlier version.

[Sishya]

Hi,



I've had a chance to cast and review both of your birth-charts. Below are a few points that are relevant for your respective birth-charts.

In the male/husband's birth-chart:
1. Ascendent or Udaya Lagna is placed in Zodiac sign of Aquarius or Kumba Rashi co-lorded by Saturn/Shani-dev and Rahu. Saturn/Shani-dev is strongly placed in the 12th house of Vyaya/Losses/Distant or Foreign Land. Rahu has below par Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga and seems to be in a distressed state.
2. Moon/Chandra seems to be adrift in the middle of nowhere and has very little support on either side of flanks, making the native a bit indecisive, having a wavering or oscillating mind and letting his thoughts run a bit wild. He is conjunct Ketu.
3. Native is currently inching towards the fag end of Saturn/Shani-dev's Maha-Dasha, after starting Antara of Jupiter/Guru-dev. For the records, previous Antara was that of a distressed Rahu who has below per Vimsopaka Bala in Dasha Varga as does Ketu (who activate each other). So, the time period from mid-2021 until April 2024 would have in all probability been challenging. Thereafter, Antara of Jupiter/Guru-dev and the influence of Ketu... I think has triggered separation and he is probably not as perturbed by the situation.
4. Mars/Kuja being placed alongside Ascendent or Udaya Lagna makes him a strong Mangalik and prone to anger/temper issues (he is just hot headed - not to the extent of being a dual personality)

In the female/wife's birth-chart:
1. Given birth-details seem to place Ascendent or Udaya Lagan seems to have barely crossed over to Taurus or Vrishaba Rashi, changing in less than 65 seconds. In other words, it is in a Cusp/Sandhi while being caught in transition. So, there is a good chance of the time being rounded off. Hence, it would make sense to consider validation (and if need be rectification) of your birth-time, instead of speculating.
2. Assuming the birth-time is accurate or later, Lagna Lord Venus/Shukra being placed in the 12th house and very closely conjunct a weak and susceptible Moon/Chandra (to the lure of Rahu induced illusions and Moha), may not be a good sign for spousal relationship (specially during challenging times).
3. The conglomeration of planets/grahas in the Zodiac sign of Pisces or Meena Rashi, them being closely conjunct Sun/Ravi and in the process being torched and being distracted in Planetary war or Graha Yudha may not be a good sign. Incidentally, 7th & 12th lord Mars/Kuja being at logger-heads with Karka-Karaka Saturn/Shani-dev makes you a bit temperamental, with a strong possibility of uncontrollable anger/temper issues (whenever triggered - to the extent of you not being yourself and capable of breaking/burning down everything) and limited tolerance/patience. There is a good chance the planets have made you a bit of a a dual personality.
4. You are currently in the midst of Rahu Maha-Dasha (since June 2021), who has taken you on a long roller-coaster ride, to a distant land (away from family and friends). He has probably mesmerized you with his customary illusions, while dishing grief/misery. He is posited in the Lunar Constellation of Chitta Nakshatra, ruled by his sworn enemy Mars/Kuja... who himself is placed close to Mrityu Bhaga and within the fatal Trimsamsa degrees. So, Rahu is not really a benefic for the birth-chart
5. A few months later, you'll be starting Sade-Sathi or Saturn/Shani-dev's transit across natal placement of Moon/Chandra, testing the relationship further.

In summary, I foresee some challenging times ahead. Given the situation, it would make sense for you to consider seeking help/guidance from experienced experts for suitable Vedic/Dharmic remedies. In the interim, kindly start propitiating Rahu... on an immediate basis.

Sincerely...

[Sujit]

My date of birth is March 23, 1996, at 9:30 AM in Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu.

Your chart ascendant sign is on the edge requires birth time rectification to confirm. This would affect readings.

[tylorechandra]

You are in the dasa of Rahu. Rahu is in the 5th house and is aspected by malefics Saturn and Mars. This constitutes a Sarpa dosha. You need to perform a Sarpa Samskara puja to get over the bad effects of this yoga. Please consult local purohits for the same. In Karnataka this puja is famous in Kukke Sri Subramanya and Ghati Sri Subramanya temples. It is also done at Srikalahasti near Tirupati. I don not know if there is a place near your place. Perhaps the Rahu temple in Kumbakonam may have this facility??

[Unna]

I have performed the same in Kalahasthi along with my husband

tylorechandra wrote:
> You are in the dasa of Rahu. Rahu is in the 5th house and is aspected by
> malefics Saturn and Mars. This constitutes a Sarpa dosha. You need to
> perform a Sarpa Samskara puja to get over the bad effects of this yoga.
> Please consult local purohits for the same. In Karnataka this puja is
> famous in Kukke Sri Subramanya and Ghati Sri Subramanya temples. It is also
> done at Srikalahasti near Tirupati. I don not know if there is a place near
> your place. Perhaps the Rahu temple in Kumbakonam may have this facility??

[tylorechandra]

The nakshatra lord defining the 7th house is Jupiter who occupies the 8th house. The lord of the 7th is Mars who sits sandwitched between Saturn and Sun. He also loses the Grahayuddha to Saturn.
In Navamsa, the 7th lord is Moon who is in his debilitation house. He is also aspected by Mars. 4 functionally malefic planets (Mercury is malefic by association) occupy the 8th house of Navamsa.
You are now running Rahu dasa and Jupiter antara. Nakshatra lord of Jupiter is Venus who is the lord of Lagna and the 6th house.
Your husband's chart has Kuja dosha. The 2nd and 7th lords interchange houses in the rasi chart. However, Jupiter moves to the 6th bhava in the bhava chart. Jupiter is aspected by Mars and Rahu, occupies the 6th amsa in Navamsa and occupies the 8th position from dasa lord Saturn in the rasi chart. Venus, an important planet for marriage occupies the debilitation house (also the 8th) in Navamsa. Since it also represents the sukha sthana from Navamsa lagna, happiness from marriage is also affected.
He is running Saturn dasa and Jupiter bhukti. Both are in the 6th house in Navamsa which is not good for cordial relations. Additionally Saturn is the lord of 22nd Drekkana which is also not very conducive.
Considering all the above, a shanti for Jupiter for both may be done for improvement of relations. A 'Uma-Maheshara puja' jointly done by husband and wife also helps. Improvement can be expected slowly. When his dasa changes and your antara change (in 2nd half of 2026) thing get much better.