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I am a male in my mid 40s with 2 Kids. My wife has decided to file for a divorce from me and her parents are also supporting her. We don't really know the real reason for asking for divorce. They have sent us their requirements for Divorce already. They don't want the kids but want a lot of money. So I wanted to ask the following questions
1) Is there Divorce in my or her Kundli?
2) If Divorce is to happen, then by when will it happen, is there any insight on timeline that Kundli can provide
3) Will they be able to succeed in their demands during the divorce process?

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Mine: DOB 7 Aug 1980, Time 10: 40 PM, Place : Sangrur, Punjab
Her 7 Oct 1983 , Time 11: 34 AM, Place : Gwalior MP
Marriage 14 Feb 2009
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Figuringout,
Your chart with dob -7 Aug 1980 has afflicted marriage lords so you can face difficulties in married life.
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Hi,

At the outset it looks like you have anger/personality issues.... and your wife probably has a overwhelming urge to travel long-distance - abroad/overseas, perhaps driven by other desires as well.

Sincerely...
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YOU BOTH HAVE A DIVORCE IN YOUR KUNDLI.
Separation: Mercury Mahadasa and Venus Antardasa [ 24th March 2024 to 23rd January 2027]
Finality of divorce: Mercury Mahadasa and Moon Antardasa [ 29th November 2027 to 30th April 2029]
Ayanamsa used: 22:41:50 [this is a little less than true Lahiri]

REASON: Your adamant/dominating behavior, plus you have a photographic memory which is very harmful for marital life since you are not prepared to forget minor unpleasant incidences which may occur in routine life.

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14 February 2009
Seems to be your 2nd marriage.

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Hi Is divorce possible ? Dob 10th sep 1977, time 14.58, place Varanasi. Marriage date 25th Feb 2010. For a saggitarius ascendant, sun Mercury Saturn in 9th house means divorce right ? Someone said if 2nd and 7th lord are in 9th house. Another person said not easy to divorce as sun with mercury. This marriage has been turbulent and volatile with many occassions for divorce. Venus and moon in eight house. Mars and Jupiter in 7th house. Both of us have extra marital affairs, both have alcohol issues, we are faking or pulling for sake of kids, society, avoid paying alumni and wife obviously needs social status and security of marriage.
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Need your advice for my cousin. He wants divorce.

Date of birth 10th sep 1977, 14.58 time, Varanasi

For a saggitarius ascendant, sun Mercury Saturn in 9th house means divorce right ? Someone said if 2nd and 7th lord are in 9th house. Another person said sun and Mercury friends so not easy to break marriage.This marriage has been turbulent and volatile with many occassions for divorce. Venus and moon in eight house. Mars and Jupiter in 7th house. ketu in 4th and rahu in 10th, Both have extra marital affairs, both have alcohol issues, they are faking or pulling for sake of kids, society, avoid paying alumni, and wife obviously needs social status and security of marriage. Husband goes around telling everyone he is oppressed by his wife and she forces and pressuries him for conjugal relation and society. Both are split personalities. Show they are soft spoken, religious, spiritual but very aggressive and polluted in heart. Husband is highly educated - IIT Madras BTech. Wife is basic education.



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Amit
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Both charts show temperamental issues and very strong opponents. The 6th house of D1 indicates public divorce proceedings and legal battles.

Although she will have favorable support from the legal office & government, your Mars + Saturn in the 6th in D1 is vital for winning over opponents in court of law.

You are also running the 6th lord Dasa, which is in the 4th house, signifying health issues, bickering in the home environment, and detrimental effects on your mother’s health, home, dwellings and inner peace. However, there is also potential for surprise gains (11th house from Swakshetra) in the long run.

Your time period looks good, and negotiations will be available from October. Regarding marriage-partnership—whether it's remarriage or renewal—your spouse's & in-laws' confidence and support-all private marriage practises will always be available to you, depending on your terms and what you are willing to gain or lose (Venus in the 8th in Navamsa/Sagittarius).

Since you are running Mercury Dasa, and Mercury's significators include adolescent children who are highly vulnerable due to such domestic affairs, I advise taking care of your children and providing them with a safe and friendly atmosphere will be major remedy for navigating your 6th house issues. Donate books and essentials to an orphanage and help adolescent kids, eunuchs according to your means.
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Will I get the divorce? Me: 06/09/1989 , 12:45 PM muzaffarnagar UP, Wife: 03/08/1993, 9:00 AM , Aligarh UP
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sorry
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