Birth Details-
6 November 1990
13.47 PM (1.47 PM Afternoon)
Rourkela, Odisha, India
My sibling (sister), seems loving and sweet and kind on the outside but behind the backs of her very supportive and loving family, I am ashamed to say, she has illicit relations with multiple men..something I have personally seen only a few days back. For the purpose of this being a family oriented site I will not go into details but you can imagine the worst things anybody can do, she does. She is addicted to alcohol and far worse things..and when I confronted her she clearly denied everything,even though I have tonnes of proof, starting right from her dirty messages sent to all her 'boyfriends' and booking receipts of all the hotels they go to. She has no idea of how shameful it is for our family, no compassion, no shame, nothing for us who have worked hard just to give her a good upbringing.
Putting her astro details here so somebody can look into it..will she ever gain wisdom about what she is doing? Or is she the next sunny leone in making? I am afraid my parents will die of heart attack if they come to know of this. She is highly educated, such a bright personality, I am at a total loss as to why she would do this...
Please help..I do not know what to do..
Kindly shed some light on this relationship situation
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archangelraphael
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Hi,
To see a person's behavior we see the Karaka of Mind (Moon), then moral ideals from Sun, Beliefs from Jupiter and Overall body through Lagna. Her moon and lagna are Rahu ruled nakshtras Satabisha and Ardra.
Her moon is in Ardra. Nakshtra of Rahu always seeking to leap higher than birth station. Native feels like she is born in lower plane and will use any tricks to move higher against social rules (Saturn) by hook or by crook.
Arudra~ Born Lower and Leaps to the Top
Arudra falls in Gemini gives excellent communication skills, verbal brilliance and intuitions but also prone to fits of anger and crying. Ruled by Rudra they will break any tradition that bounds them. It will start in the home first, as Moon becomes 2nd lord of Kutumbha in 1st house. Family seems to facing lot of problems financially and Father at some point may find himself humiliated (Sun in Swati in 9th house hemmed in enemy territory).
Arudra generally signifies tear drop of Shiva, so after gaining pleasure or a illegitimate higher leap there are themes of tremendous destruction & transformation. Lessons through pain.
As a brother it might be difficult to see your sister challenging the status quo of society but you cannot teach an Arudra native "The Rules" because they always find themselves as misfits. Rahu is an outcast in world of Saturn.
All you can do is keep reminding her that one has to reap what they sow, anything in excess will lead to destrution.
Saturn transit in Capricorn in Jan 2020 will be crossing over natal Rahu. This will amplify resistance to her fickle behavior and she will demonstrate behavior of orderliness and approved competence as per societal standards.
The guna of Arudra is Rajas - Tamas - Satva. At some point she will choose to become spiritual & austere. Moon conjoins Jupiter in Navamsa in Sagittarius.
In India we are conditioned in such a way to think enjoying pleasure is a sin. We are social conformist and eager to judge a person. If the native is enjoying pleasure at another person's expense through manipulation and cheating then that is wrong otherwise, I would say you are being judgemental and interfering her personal space.
Raphael
To see a person's behavior we see the Karaka of Mind (Moon), then moral ideals from Sun, Beliefs from Jupiter and Overall body through Lagna. Her moon and lagna are Rahu ruled nakshtras Satabisha and Ardra.
Her moon is in Ardra. Nakshtra of Rahu always seeking to leap higher than birth station. Native feels like she is born in lower plane and will use any tricks to move higher against social rules (Saturn) by hook or by crook.
Arudra~ Born Lower and Leaps to the Top
Arudra falls in Gemini gives excellent communication skills, verbal brilliance and intuitions but also prone to fits of anger and crying. Ruled by Rudra they will break any tradition that bounds them. It will start in the home first, as Moon becomes 2nd lord of Kutumbha in 1st house. Family seems to facing lot of problems financially and Father at some point may find himself humiliated (Sun in Swati in 9th house hemmed in enemy territory).
Arudra generally signifies tear drop of Shiva, so after gaining pleasure or a illegitimate higher leap there are themes of tremendous destruction & transformation. Lessons through pain.
As a brother it might be difficult to see your sister challenging the status quo of society but you cannot teach an Arudra native "The Rules" because they always find themselves as misfits. Rahu is an outcast in world of Saturn.
All you can do is keep reminding her that one has to reap what they sow, anything in excess will lead to destrution.
Saturn transit in Capricorn in Jan 2020 will be crossing over natal Rahu. This will amplify resistance to her fickle behavior and she will demonstrate behavior of orderliness and approved competence as per societal standards.
The guna of Arudra is Rajas - Tamas - Satva. At some point she will choose to become spiritual & austere. Moon conjoins Jupiter in Navamsa in Sagittarius.
In India we are conditioned in such a way to think enjoying pleasure is a sin. We are social conformist and eager to judge a person. If the native is enjoying pleasure at another person's expense through manipulation and cheating then that is wrong otherwise, I would say you are being judgemental and interfering her personal space.
Raphael
3rd house is for immigration ,so third house is triggering ,her 12th house (house of desires ,enjoyment ,etc totally spoiled ) is she of arrogant ,adamant type,will blame others if some one points out some thing and will have strong reaction and might even walk away or in other words will have a hard time adjusting with others ,might be boss a work or colleague ,friends.also have a trait of not being able to understand why all is happening to them and very difficult to make them understand .so many people dont want to associate with such a person and might break things rather than to deal.very delicately you have to manage.interested more in money matters .
Thank you for replying.
It was difficult for me to put this out here but I am out of my mind right now.
I do not want to interfere in her personal space but she is doing things that are going to create troubles for our family. I have requested her to not do that but as I said,she simply declined and called me a liar even when I had all the proofs. The worst part is she plays a goodie two shoes at home and then behind our backs she goes ahead and does this.
Imagine a girl watching spiritual serials at home, praying to God everyday and pretending that she is just interested in career and loves her family, and then you come to know she is on apps like tinder where she meets stranger every day, every day she leaves home saying she is going to office early and spends hours at her casual 'boyfriends' houses barely 3-4 kms from our home, and she has started making 'personal movies'. Pretty soon, I am sure her intention is to become a 'professional' in this area. And then my parents will come to know and then you can imagine..
I can only pray she comes to her senses. Ours is a progressive family. Our parents have never stopped us from doing anything...study whatever we want, do whatever job we want, have friends anywhere..and then this betrayal..
If she was in a proper relationship with someone, it would be no issue. Whatever she does is her problem, but she seems to have forgotten what it means to be in a 'relationship' anymore. It is all casual fun for her with a different stranger every second day. I have copies of her chat messages. She laughs about us, her family, with her casual encounters saying things like 'my dumb family doesn't know I am not at office, my foolish mom is thinking I am such a God fearing person ha ha' and such. That is the betrayal. After a lifetime of us treating her like a princess, this is what she is giving back...Even when she is at home eating food or talking to us, sneakily she is messaging her 'friends' for next 'encounter'..she has become a complete addict and there is nothing I seem to be able to do. 10 years ago she was a different person and now I do not understand who she is.
Hoping for the best. Rest Karma should take care of everything.
It was difficult for me to put this out here but I am out of my mind right now.
I do not want to interfere in her personal space but she is doing things that are going to create troubles for our family. I have requested her to not do that but as I said,she simply declined and called me a liar even when I had all the proofs. The worst part is she plays a goodie two shoes at home and then behind our backs she goes ahead and does this.
Imagine a girl watching spiritual serials at home, praying to God everyday and pretending that she is just interested in career and loves her family, and then you come to know she is on apps like tinder where she meets stranger every day, every day she leaves home saying she is going to office early and spends hours at her casual 'boyfriends' houses barely 3-4 kms from our home, and she has started making 'personal movies'. Pretty soon, I am sure her intention is to become a 'professional' in this area. And then my parents will come to know and then you can imagine..
I can only pray she comes to her senses. Ours is a progressive family. Our parents have never stopped us from doing anything...study whatever we want, do whatever job we want, have friends anywhere..and then this betrayal..
If she was in a proper relationship with someone, it would be no issue. Whatever she does is her problem, but she seems to have forgotten what it means to be in a 'relationship' anymore. It is all casual fun for her with a different stranger every second day. I have copies of her chat messages. She laughs about us, her family, with her casual encounters saying things like 'my dumb family doesn't know I am not at office, my foolish mom is thinking I am such a God fearing person ha ha' and such. That is the betrayal. After a lifetime of us treating her like a princess, this is what she is giving back...Even when she is at home eating food or talking to us, sneakily she is messaging her 'friends' for next 'encounter'..she has become a complete addict and there is nothing I seem to be able to do. 10 years ago she was a different person and now I do not understand who she is.
Hoping for the best. Rest Karma should take care of everything.
