i will like to add
while i was searching for mahalakshmi pooja, I got to know its day of radha navmi too, birth day of radha
And as i mentioned earler these days, i have started visiting vishnu temple and find peace in chanting radha
I dont know how is this related, but coincidences like these ...
one or other way, she always find me back
regards
Plz help, I am ruining myself
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@Vedam33 I have not recommended to chant mantra. Praying to be started. Japa is a long process and without initiation by a Guru, for beginners it will be disastrous. Visiting the deity's mandir itself can give relief and 95% of people are doing this only. I did experiments with mantras and paid prices. I was after a particular form of Aswarooda with violent intentions and when I asked permission from Guru, He rejected. After few years, when my attitude got changed, one day he called me and allowed me to do that mantra. At that point of time,I was under senses. But I didn't focus on the mantra.So, Guru checks the quality of the seeker and grants permissions.
@ankita294 Thanks for giving the clarity. Your Mars gets aspect of the nodes in D20. You can pray Kalika. Moving to Mahalaksmi will follow later with good guidance. As Vedamji advised, don't do mantras initially. Keep praying to your kuladevata Kalika Maa. She is exalted in D20. She will guide you. Wishing you happy times.
@ankita294 Thanks for giving the clarity. Your Mars gets aspect of the nodes in D20. You can pray Kalika. Moving to Mahalaksmi will follow later with good guidance. As Vedamji advised, don't do mantras initially. Keep praying to your kuladevata Kalika Maa. She is exalted in D20. She will guide you. Wishing you happy times.
Thank you lefteye
Yes, i will never chant a mantra without proper guidance, as I have seen them backfiring because of mistakes made even in reading them
I will start with my kuldevi only, eventhough I was already doing navratre fast keeping in mind the manifest of mahalakshmi. as reading durgasaptsati brought the enlightment of her all swaroop long back in my life and i always prayed her mahalakshmi swaroop.
Thank you
Lefteye, I understand your concern, but may be you where the medium to bring me back to her.. as I lost my way.
Yes, i will never chant a mantra without proper guidance, as I have seen them backfiring because of mistakes made even in reading them
I will start with my kuldevi only, eventhough I was already doing navratre fast keeping in mind the manifest of mahalakshmi. as reading durgasaptsati brought the enlightment of her all swaroop long back in my life and i always prayed her mahalakshmi swaroop.
Thank you
Lefteye, I understand your concern, but may be you where the medium to bring me back to her.. as I lost my way.
Ankita,
there is a saying in our indian folk tales, that there is one remedy for a million problems (I don't know the exact wordings in hindi).
I have seen this time and time again in various charts. First of all your issues are not 'more' than several successful people's chart I have seen. Once the correct direction of life has been captured by the person, things fall in to place. I am not disagreeing with anyone of the suggestions that other learned astrologers have mentioned prior to this. But your issue has one solution. Fix your lagna lord! Your lagna lord (main planet in your chart) is Saturn, the justice imposer. Owner of first house (YOU) and 2nd (family/speech/wealth). Placed in 11th (gains/wish fulfillment). Now its placed in scorpio, a very karmic sign, and owner of scorpio Mars and Sa are not the best of friends. But the main thing is that it is retrograde and at 26 deg. So, from now on you will need to be 110% Disciplined in your thoughts/actions/intentions. If not, you will pay more then average ppl in the world. Afflicted Sat in scorpio and retro makes a very karmic life. PAY YOUR DUES, with a smile! The person you lost WAS NEVER YOURS! understand that and move on. Now Su in 4th house has Mo (owner ofyour spouse) and Me (owner of your bhagya) combust. So in theory your karma from spouse and past lives are combust by Sun in 4th, its possible that your father has a very strong hold in your household and whatever he says goes, everything else is discarded. Its also possible that your mother has no say in anything. This also could be because you are very flirtatious? You might not think so, but are very forward with the opposite sex? So know that and act accordingly and Sat will help you. Sat has a great placement in 11th. Lagna lord and lord of wealth in 11th is really good, so use it to your advantage (morally). If you do not incorporate moral values in your life, Sat will keep on holding your back. Also, Jup in own sign should help you a lot! it is also the owner of 12th. You can try to go abroad or do some kind of business with foreign companies. But no hidden affairs, or Sat 12th from 12th will expose you.
Govt jobs can also be good for you. Sat is retro right now, so some benefit from it must have come about since June/July. But fix your Saturn, by wearing black on Saturdays, any Saturn pooja or mantras you can get from legitimate astrologers that will start putting your life on the right track. You will have Rahu -Ju till 08/2020, good time to try to go abroad and short travels, but not secret affairs (possibly... not saying you have it for sure). Ra-Sat is waiting for your from 08/2020 to 06/2023. Anything wrong will get exposed, anything right will be rewarded. You have till Aug to fix your Sat by any means possible. If done right, it could really push your life in the right direction. Also, after 2033 things will also get better as Ju mahadasha starts for 16 years. Hope this helps. My apologies for any blunt comments that might offend you.
there is a saying in our indian folk tales, that there is one remedy for a million problems (I don't know the exact wordings in hindi).
I have seen this time and time again in various charts. First of all your issues are not 'more' than several successful people's chart I have seen. Once the correct direction of life has been captured by the person, things fall in to place. I am not disagreeing with anyone of the suggestions that other learned astrologers have mentioned prior to this. But your issue has one solution. Fix your lagna lord! Your lagna lord (main planet in your chart) is Saturn, the justice imposer. Owner of first house (YOU) and 2nd (family/speech/wealth). Placed in 11th (gains/wish fulfillment). Now its placed in scorpio, a very karmic sign, and owner of scorpio Mars and Sa are not the best of friends. But the main thing is that it is retrograde and at 26 deg. So, from now on you will need to be 110% Disciplined in your thoughts/actions/intentions. If not, you will pay more then average ppl in the world. Afflicted Sat in scorpio and retro makes a very karmic life. PAY YOUR DUES, with a smile! The person you lost WAS NEVER YOURS! understand that and move on. Now Su in 4th house has Mo (owner ofyour spouse) and Me (owner of your bhagya) combust. So in theory your karma from spouse and past lives are combust by Sun in 4th, its possible that your father has a very strong hold in your household and whatever he says goes, everything else is discarded. Its also possible that your mother has no say in anything. This also could be because you are very flirtatious? You might not think so, but are very forward with the opposite sex? So know that and act accordingly and Sat will help you. Sat has a great placement in 11th. Lagna lord and lord of wealth in 11th is really good, so use it to your advantage (morally). If you do not incorporate moral values in your life, Sat will keep on holding your back. Also, Jup in own sign should help you a lot! it is also the owner of 12th. You can try to go abroad or do some kind of business with foreign companies. But no hidden affairs, or Sat 12th from 12th will expose you.
Govt jobs can also be good for you. Sat is retro right now, so some benefit from it must have come about since June/July. But fix your Saturn, by wearing black on Saturdays, any Saturn pooja or mantras you can get from legitimate astrologers that will start putting your life on the right track. You will have Rahu -Ju till 08/2020, good time to try to go abroad and short travels, but not secret affairs (possibly... not saying you have it for sure). Ra-Sat is waiting for your from 08/2020 to 06/2023. Anything wrong will get exposed, anything right will be rewarded. You have till Aug to fix your Sat by any means possible. If done right, it could really push your life in the right direction. Also, after 2033 things will also get better as Ju mahadasha starts for 16 years. Hope this helps. My apologies for any blunt comments that might offend you.
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hey Chokra,
Thank you for response, no hard feelings taken
* I am not flirtatious, infact I am so upright that my classmate named me as hitler, and the reason to start this thread was that,I am not comfortable in any other relation or marriage, now after him. For me it doesnt feel right and morally wrong to give false hopes to someone when I know my soul still belongs to someone else. Everyone is suggesting me, its not a big deal, I should atleast date or meet someone but for me even that is wrong. Each day there is some or other, approaching me and in last week i have to block 2 of them (just for a fact: I am above average in looks exalted venus), for they where not understanding that i am not interested. I am not saying, I am some saint, infact I find this as a curse, that when everyone is dating some or other, why cant I. I am not ready even to chat on message with a person who shows more interest in me.
* yes my household is ruled by my father, he has a say but now we eventually make him do what we want.
*I have been morally correct most of the time, yes i use to abuse in a moment of heat, but life lessons have brought humility in that too. I can count on my finger, if i had wronged someone in my 32 years of life.
* yes i got week in between and accepted few of my ex calls, but over here too, my stupid morals started eating me, that I cant wrong his wife, there was no fault of her, and i changed my number. i find it stupid but I cant help it, its who I am.
I will take your advice seriously, and watch my deeds and action more closely.
Ps: all my life has been a struggle and a mountain of responsibility and even after that I kept my morals always in check and still keeping, but now i have no hope of happiness ever, I hate my conscious i seriously do
Thank you for response, no hard feelings taken
* I am not flirtatious, infact I am so upright that my classmate named me as hitler, and the reason to start this thread was that,I am not comfortable in any other relation or marriage, now after him. For me it doesnt feel right and morally wrong to give false hopes to someone when I know my soul still belongs to someone else. Everyone is suggesting me, its not a big deal, I should atleast date or meet someone but for me even that is wrong. Each day there is some or other, approaching me and in last week i have to block 2 of them (just for a fact: I am above average in looks exalted venus), for they where not understanding that i am not interested. I am not saying, I am some saint, infact I find this as a curse, that when everyone is dating some or other, why cant I. I am not ready even to chat on message with a person who shows more interest in me.
* yes my household is ruled by my father, he has a say but now we eventually make him do what we want.
*I have been morally correct most of the time, yes i use to abuse in a moment of heat, but life lessons have brought humility in that too. I can count on my finger, if i had wronged someone in my 32 years of life.
* yes i got week in between and accepted few of my ex calls, but over here too, my stupid morals started eating me, that I cant wrong his wife, there was no fault of her, and i changed my number. i find it stupid but I cant help it, its who I am.
I will take your advice seriously, and watch my deeds and action more closely.
Ps: all my life has been a struggle and a mountain of responsibility and even after that I kept my morals always in check and still keeping, but now i have no hope of happiness ever, I hate my conscious i seriously do
