I have crossed 26 years of age which is considered too late for getting married in my caste and community for a girl. As a result, my parents sometimes tend to push me into marriage proposals which are a complete mismatch to me and way too far away from my expectations. I am told that I wouldn't be married before 30 years because my d9 has Saturn-Moon vish yoga. And that my husband would be financially very weak, doing a random accounting job on a small scale.
Will I have to succumb to family pressures and compromise on finding a match for my marriage? Please help me figure it out.
I will be very greatfull if the learned astrologers can take out time especially Lex ji. Thanks
Gender - F
Date of birth : 20/04/1993
Place Mumbai
time 10:22am
Trouble in finding a partner for marriage
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Punyashree7
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Do not rush marriage destined to be late. Saturn is transiting thru your 7th house till nov 2019. It is not right time. And hence not finding right match. Husband will be short tempered as are u so u have to deal with him tactfully
Hi
Time of birth is perfect.
Mumbai born... I have taken your Latitude mid of Mumbai, Mahim/ Shivaji Park/Bandra
You have been told correct.. you will marry around 30 years old, I see through K.P. System of astrology, 7th cusp lord in 4th bhava and importantly you have Punar-Phoo dosha ( K.P. System)… marriage around 30 or beyond,when Shani makes one full round turn in your horoscope.
You will have more than marriage in your life journey ( Legitimately)
You're Pretty artistic/ well behaved and education would be top class, Am I correct?
You would have wished for a relationship with a person, never materialized ??? or one-sided Crush ????
Neecha Kuja… advantage... you will have more than immovable properties, Kuja in lagna bhava ( not in 2nd , though in nirayana rasi in 2nd... you have 2nd sign has two bhavas i.e. Cancer has two bhava... 2nd cup and 3rd cusp, your 4th lord is Ravi, not Budha ( which is having neecha bhanga), similarly Shani lords for 3 bhavas
...contd
Let me know your response on the raised question marked items
Time of birth is perfect.
Mumbai born... I have taken your Latitude mid of Mumbai, Mahim/ Shivaji Park/Bandra
You have been told correct.. you will marry around 30 years old, I see through K.P. System of astrology, 7th cusp lord in 4th bhava and importantly you have Punar-Phoo dosha ( K.P. System)… marriage around 30 or beyond,when Shani makes one full round turn in your horoscope.
You will have more than marriage in your life journey ( Legitimately)
You're Pretty artistic/ well behaved and education would be top class, Am I correct?
You would have wished for a relationship with a person, never materialized ??? or one-sided Crush ????
Neecha Kuja… advantage... you will have more than immovable properties, Kuja in lagna bhava ( not in 2nd , though in nirayana rasi in 2nd... you have 2nd sign has two bhavas i.e. Cancer has two bhava... 2nd cup and 3rd cusp, your 4th lord is Ravi, not Budha ( which is having neecha bhanga), similarly Shani lords for 3 bhavas
...contd
Let me know your response on the raised question marked items
I’m amazed and and astonished with so many perfect predictions all at once. Thanks Sir. 
You're Pretty artistic/ well behaved and education would be top class, Am I correct? —
— yes. Arts is life to me. Yes I am well behaved but I also can be equally rough when someone persistently has bad behaviour. For education, I’d like to yes I Have a decent education.
You would have wished for a relationship with a person, never materialized ??? or one-sided Crush ???? —
—I wanted to marry my boyfriend. He didnot want to. We separated around 4-5 years ago. But now I am over it and I no more want it.
You will have more than marriage in your life journey ( Legitimately —
—I’m sorry I did not get this statement.
Also, what is punar phoo dosha?
Am I going to be divorced?
You're Pretty artistic/ well behaved and education would be top class, Am I correct? —
— yes. Arts is life to me. Yes I am well behaved but I also can be equally rough when someone persistently has bad behaviour. For education, I’d like to yes I Have a decent education.
You would have wished for a relationship with a person, never materialized ??? or one-sided Crush ???? —
—I wanted to marry my boyfriend. He didnot want to. We separated around 4-5 years ago. But now I am over it and I no more want it.
You will have more than marriage in your life journey ( Legitimately —
—I’m sorry I did not get this statement.
Also, what is punar phoo dosha?
Am I going to be divorced?
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sammyho148
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I do not see signs of too much delay in marriage in chart. There is no impact of the delaying factors on either seventh house or seventh lord from either lagna or the moon.
Venus is exalted with Moon, Mercury and aspect by Jupiter. Due to exchange of houses between Jupiter and Mercury, my reading is that this entire combination is actually getting fortified. Mercury thus becomes sound from a position of strength and Jupiter retains his benefic influence. Though Moon can cause stambhana to Venus, presence of Jupiter prevents any ill effects. Though the 10th bhava is hemmed between Saturn and Sun, there are enough good influences to prevent bad effects.
The concerns I see in chart are these -
1) Saturn in 12th from Venus and Ke in 12th from Lagna - lot of effort will need to be put for marriage to fructify and this search will test your patience
2) Mars is neecha in both D1 and D9. Sun is exalted in D1 but receives aspect of Saturn, also neecha Mars is in kendra to Sun. Degree wise this is a close orb so Sun gets impacted by both these malefics. By nature you have a healthy ego but this will take a dent. Saturn though a natural malefic is 9th lord in own sign, so you have the maturity to commit to a dharmic relationship and stay committed
3) Ra/Ke axis affects lagna and 7th house in D9. Situation salvaged due to strong Ve and Me in Libra which are in trine to Ketu. Was yours a slightly difficult childbirth?
4) Saturn Moon combine in either D1 or D9 gives either a delay in marriage or a miss in a relationship which impacts the person deeply. Has this happened in your life? Neecha Mars and Moon exchange signs in D9, Moon is also the 8th lord in D9 which has the ability to break relationships during his periods.
I see a possibility of marriage in 2020 once Saturn and Jupiter transit into Capricorn and a double transit on your natal Mars occurs. But my suggestion would be to not marry in that period (AD of Sun and Moon) since Moon has the potential to break relationships due to his afflictions in D9. The period of Venus - Sun will push you very hard to commit to marriage but it is suggested you marry after you pass the Moon AD within Venus MD. The next possibility occurs during Ju AD that begins in Sep 2027, which will then be called a late marriage since you will be 34 during by then.
Suggest you consult some experienced astrologers on the affliction to Moon in D9 and if they agree to my line of thinking
Venus is exalted with Moon, Mercury and aspect by Jupiter. Due to exchange of houses between Jupiter and Mercury, my reading is that this entire combination is actually getting fortified. Mercury thus becomes sound from a position of strength and Jupiter retains his benefic influence. Though Moon can cause stambhana to Venus, presence of Jupiter prevents any ill effects. Though the 10th bhava is hemmed between Saturn and Sun, there are enough good influences to prevent bad effects.
The concerns I see in chart are these -
1) Saturn in 12th from Venus and Ke in 12th from Lagna - lot of effort will need to be put for marriage to fructify and this search will test your patience
2) Mars is neecha in both D1 and D9. Sun is exalted in D1 but receives aspect of Saturn, also neecha Mars is in kendra to Sun. Degree wise this is a close orb so Sun gets impacted by both these malefics. By nature you have a healthy ego but this will take a dent. Saturn though a natural malefic is 9th lord in own sign, so you have the maturity to commit to a dharmic relationship and stay committed
3) Ra/Ke axis affects lagna and 7th house in D9. Situation salvaged due to strong Ve and Me in Libra which are in trine to Ketu. Was yours a slightly difficult childbirth?
4) Saturn Moon combine in either D1 or D9 gives either a delay in marriage or a miss in a relationship which impacts the person deeply. Has this happened in your life? Neecha Mars and Moon exchange signs in D9, Moon is also the 8th lord in D9 which has the ability to break relationships during his periods.
I see a possibility of marriage in 2020 once Saturn and Jupiter transit into Capricorn and a double transit on your natal Mars occurs. But my suggestion would be to not marry in that period (AD of Sun and Moon) since Moon has the potential to break relationships due to his afflictions in D9. The period of Venus - Sun will push you very hard to commit to marriage but it is suggested you marry after you pass the Moon AD within Venus MD. The next possibility occurs during Ju AD that begins in Sep 2027, which will then be called a late marriage since you will be 34 during by then.
Suggest you consult some experienced astrologers on the affliction to Moon in D9 and if they agree to my line of thinking
@sammyho148 - during my birth my mom faced terrible contractions for more than 3 whole days, dont know if thats considered a difficult birth, maybe yes.
yes I did have a miss in a relation, as I mentioned above and I was deeply impacted from within.
So even after having a delay in marriage is it true that he won't have appropriate and sufficient prospects, along with being financially vulnerable and very weak, because I am really doing fine for myself, which would mean I will be compromising ?
yes I did have a miss in a relation, as I mentioned above and I was deeply impacted from within.
So even after having a delay in marriage is it true that he won't have appropriate and sufficient prospects, along with being financially vulnerable and very weak, because I am really doing fine for myself, which would mean I will be compromising ?
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sammyho148
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@Chinkz - Looks likely that husband may not meet your standards (whatever they are). Mars, Karaka for husband as per Nadi astrology is weak in D1 and D9. Jupiter karaka for husband gains some strength in D1 due to parivartana yoga but not that well placed in D9. Mars becomes a bigger significator of husband since he is Darakaraka as well who gets neecha in both D1 and D9.
Mars signifies 6th and 11th bhavas in your chart and spoils the 2nd house. Moon lord of second is fine in D1 but gets afflicted in D9. The sub period of Mars within the Venus MD is what is most concerning for me. Mars signifies (1 6 11), placed in Ju nakshatra (4 7 10) and sub lordship of Rahu (6 11) can be challenging for sustenance of marriage if already married by then.
Going by your responses here you are well educated and have some experience in relationships. In the well educated segment of India 26 is not at all late though it may be late in your caste. Parents in India will get worried needlessly and push you but you are the person who has to take accountability and deal with whatever the consequences of your decisions. Take your time and choose wisely. Even if you can't get a husband who meets your standards, getting a husband who will not come in the way of your financial and professional success is not a bad situation. I have friends where the wife is more successful in all ways than the husband but the husband is fine with it and does not become a hurdle in anyway. Over a period of time such couples have their own equations and eventually settle into a rhythm.
@ Lex - Will ask you a very basic question on KP. So I take it that the right way of applying KP will be to use Placidus house system and treat lagna as beginning of first bhava?
Mars signifies 6th and 11th bhavas in your chart and spoils the 2nd house. Moon lord of second is fine in D1 but gets afflicted in D9. The sub period of Mars within the Venus MD is what is most concerning for me. Mars signifies (1 6 11), placed in Ju nakshatra (4 7 10) and sub lordship of Rahu (6 11) can be challenging for sustenance of marriage if already married by then.
Going by your responses here you are well educated and have some experience in relationships. In the well educated segment of India 26 is not at all late though it may be late in your caste. Parents in India will get worried needlessly and push you but you are the person who has to take accountability and deal with whatever the consequences of your decisions. Take your time and choose wisely. Even if you can't get a husband who meets your standards, getting a husband who will not come in the way of your financial and professional success is not a bad situation. I have friends where the wife is more successful in all ways than the husband but the husband is fine with it and does not become a hurdle in anyway. Over a period of time such couples have their own equations and eventually settle into a rhythm.
@ Lex - Will ask you a very basic question on KP. So I take it that the right way of applying KP will be to use Placidus house system and treat lagna as beginning of first bhava?
That's not unusualchinkz20 wrote: 10 May 2019 I’m amazed and and astonished with so many perfect predictions all at once. Thanks Sir.
. K.P. System of astrology hits a bull-eye >95%, and ofcourse my Teacher's and my parents blessings Thanks for the feedback. Please read as "you will have more than one marriage in your life journey".chinkz20 wrote: 10 May 2019 You will have more than marriage in your life journey ( Legitimately —
—I’m sorry I did not get this statement.
Also, what is punar phoo dosha?
Am I going to be divorced?
Punar-Phoo Dosha…. In K.P. System of astrology Chandra's connection with Shani.../ and or her cusp connection to Shani... results in Dosha
This is only in K.P. System of astrology related to marriage, as described in my previous post, native will get married around 30 years or after but no before ( early), and will have to go sufferings/ humiliation pre- marriage period ( relationship break, Groom/ bride cancel the marriage at marriage arena etc), marriage will be delayed but not denied ( subject to other conditions fulfillment of marriage in the chart... like is marriage destined in the horoscope)
You had asked about divorce..., and I said earlier... more than one marriage seen in the chart.. The answer to your query is YES.
Lets check when is your marriage?
In your chart SHukra and Budha in rapt conjunction( Budha is bhava lord of lagna, while Shukra is 5th, 12th)... Joint results
( Your career looks good... dasa running is Shukra... Interested in Professional consultancy ?, Politics???... are you in the field of Pharmaceutical/ Healthcare, Finance/Banking/Trade????)
In your Chart, Rahu represents Shani, Budha, Kuja Kuja in lagna bhava but in rapt conjunction with 2nd cusp and also 11th cusp lord
Kuja in Punarvasu nk..
Your marriage will be in 4tt quarter 2022
All the best
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joyd
@chi-Long delay in marriage seen.venus-jupiter-jupiter /venus-jupiter-mercury / venus-jupiter-venus IN venus mahadasha -jupiters AD are all favourable for marriage.such periods falls between your 34 to 36th age.Mars-venus in trines.so there is no second marriage and only one marriage.NO divorce kind of things in your chart.you will always oppose your partner.only adjustable kind of married life seen from the chart.your lower confidence levels make to adjust with what you get.your partner is humble and down to earth kind,more spiritual type.Initial 7 years of your married life throws challenges to you so you have to very carefully safeguard the marriage bonding wisely..Long 19 years married life seen from your chart.Neecha kuja gives break in a love affair.No delays in getting the kids.you always feel some kind of scarcity,vacuum and dissatisfaction about your 12th house matters are concerned.saturn-jupiter axis is the main cause for long delay in your marriage.
joyd.
joyd.
Thanks @ Lex, @sammyho148 and @vedam33
@joyd - I was hoping for you to post your views, thanks for clarifying, my world just flipped upside down and my soul had a breakdown knowing I would be divorced.
Yes, with regards to 12th house, I have had ample of plans of abroad visits failing at end moment. Also, I have never had physical relations with anyone and I'm sure it would take sometime with my life partner too
And I am assuming 19 years of longevity is the minimum tenure of my married life???
@joyd - I was hoping for you to post your views, thanks for clarifying, my world just flipped upside down and my soul had a breakdown knowing I would be divorced.
Yes, with regards to 12th house, I have had ample of plans of abroad visits failing at end moment. Also, I have never had physical relations with anyone and I'm sure it would take sometime with my life partner too
And I am assuming 19 years of longevity is the minimum tenure of my married life???
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joyd
your 4th quarter of 2022 falls under 8th lord saturns PD in venus MD-MonAD-Both saturn -mars-jupiter are under 6-8 axis.so if marriage happens in such pereoid,it gives break.why bcz moon trines with ketu-mars in navamsa.As 8th lord of navamsa posited in 4th of grihastha ashrama.saturn also trines with such navamsa moon.For a free flow of marriage life without any breaks [ for no divorce and no 2nd marriage]you have to choose the periods that was mentioned earlier in my post. choice is yours.wish you good luck..
joyd.
joyd.
