Married life (waited till I was in my 30s)

[redroses131]

I posted a question on career analysis and kind astrologer Naitik has replied me back. I did not want to keep bothering him. In discussion with the career, I told him I will be getting married soon. A date has not been set. It is a love marriage, we have been dating for almost 7 years. Since June 2012. He is also 4 years younger than me, and also from a different area in India and different religion. Similar to Prikanya Chopra minus the 10 year age difference and he is an Indian. I am a Christian, he is a Hindu (though not religious, but respects me in what I want). I have not had the easiest life so far. We hid the relationship in the beginning from his parents because they wanted him to have an arrange marriage. Some how it has worked out and she loves me as a daughter. Naitik told me my venus and mars being together if temperature is not right it will blow up.

Life has not been easy. School even though I always made amazing grades, I have had trouble with standardized test. I do have 2 bachelors degrees and MD. My parents got divorced while I was really young. Last time I remember my father living with us was when I was around 12. Even though I talk to my father once in a blue moon, I never got the close relationship with him. It is almost like talking to a stranger. My mom was involved with a man for over 10 years after my dad, he died in 2017. He was more of a dad to me. My uncle (through marriage) abused my family in end of high school and beg of college and threatened to kill us because he believed he owned us since his family brought us to America. This has just part of it. Financially thanks to my mom we have survived. I was engaged once before in my early 20s, but I broke that relationship because I feel like he was childish and did not want to grow up and find a career.

Sorry for the long post, I just want to know if life would be a tad bit easier from now on out. I feel like I have been paying back some kind of karma, but have been able to mentally survive it. I have waited so long to get married, I almost feel vintage. How is my marriage and since I waited so long will I be able to have kids?

Birth Time: According to mom it is 7:18 pm, even though I remember her telling me 7:45 at one pt. She 100% remember me born in Rohini star.
Birth Place: Trivandrum, Kerala

[redroses131]

I forgot to add my birth year. January 31,1985.
Currently live in America.

[joyd]

your adhana kundali confirming that you born under rohini is no doubt but the time is 7-32.you have very delayed marriage.you will come across some proposals during 3-11-2019 to 10-3-2020.chart is showing negitive bliss for married life.jupiter dasa-moon AD is good for marriage but sustinity of marriage under suspicion.strong opposition seen from your partner.

joyd.

[redroses131]

Thank you. I have been officially engaged since since April 6, aka just put the ring on me. Our family considered us engaged since last year. My mom says 100 percent I was born before 7:20. I checked time with her again. Is there anything I can do to improve married life. I feel sad now reading this. I have been with this guy for 7 years and it has it usual up and down but we have made it work.

[joyd]

If you are born before 7-29 , then you must be a male child but you are a female.

joyd.