Why do I have an "Unassertive" speech?

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Kaushal82
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Namaskar to Everyone

Request all the knowledgeable gurus to reflect on my query.

I was not sure under which thread I shall put this query hence posting it in health section. It might seem like a trivial question but I face this problem every day.

Why am I not confident when I have to speak publicly (for e.g. in office)? Even during general discussions with colleagues, sometimes words get jumbled up at my tongue and don't get delivered perfectly as I intend them to. This gives me a bit of inferiority complex and I don't think that I will be able to convince the person in-front of me. Surprisingly, I have a very good command over language along with good memory. Also, I can write very well (Poetry, Prose etc.). But my speech is not as impressive as my writing skills are. Additionally, I have a lower than average handwriting which is a fact since my school-days. But it might also be due to the shoulder trouble I have which I'd say is only about 80% efficient and I've been getting physiotherapy now and then for it. What might be the reason behind my unassertive speech & lower than average handwriting. Also, what needs to be done about both of them?

DOB : 3-Jan-1982
TOB : 10:30 AM
POB : Samrala, Punjab, India

Request you to enlighten me with the logic as I'm trying to understand about my horoscope.

Thanks for your time devoted in reading.
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vedicmaths
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hello kaushal82,

Mercury is vani pratayaka. Second house is house of speech.

Mercury is placed in 12th house, a house of loss. Moon, the mind is placed in the second
house. Moon is lord of sixth house showing disease. Second house and moon come under rasi drishti
by planets rahu, saturn, mars and ketu. Saturn and mars also throw graha drishti on the second
house and moon. These could be the reasons for the lack of confidence.

To over come this , you may reduce the speed of your speech , try not rushing to speak
that comes to the mind. A few seconds of thought process before speaking every sentence
could help you.

truly yours,
vedicmaths
Kaushal82
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@vedicmaths,

My sincere gratitude for the analysis and guidance provided by you to me. I will do as you have asked me to.

Kindly teach me whether mercury is functional benefic for me or malefic. Being the lord of 5th & 8th, will it always give obstacles to me? Last year, I was suggested to wear emerald but I did not wear it as I was not sure about its effect in my horoscope. Will it help?

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Kaushal
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@vedam33

Kindly teach me whether mercury is functional benefic for me or malefic? Being the lord of 5th & 8th, will it always give obstacles to me?
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hello kaushal82,

Mercury is a malefic. As lord of 5th, it could pose problems in career, since 5th is 8th (obstacles,
change ) to profession ( tenth house ).

See what happened in your mercury antars and pratyantar periods. Transit wise too, you may
observe the movement of mercury to get a better understanding of it.

I do not believe in stones. People in Bengal have stones all over their body. Do they have a
different and better way of life compared to others in general ?

truly yours,
vedicmaths
joyd

Word expression,fluency in speech,able to convince the others are comes under your 2-3rd lords jupiter-mars.Moon as 6th lord sits in your 2nd house of speech,which is the 8th from moons own house.so you lost in speech frequently.coming to your actual lord of speech that is jupiter placed in 8th from the 2nd makes you to search for correct words while speaking with someone.Nxt coming to fluency,convince and expressive part, all are ruled by your 3rd lord mars.Mars sits in 6th from his 3rd house aries ,makes you to expressive in a lesser way or you find difficulty in your expression and fluency.such a mars joined with 12th lord saturn in the 8th from the lagna.so it denotes that you can slowly overcomes this problem.saturn-mas combo will give best writing skills as bcz mars is print and saturn is ink.you are highly expressive through your writings.saturn blocks the power of fluency and delivery in speech issues.

joyd.
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@joyd and @vedicmaths,

My sincere gratitude for the analysis done by you.

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Kaushal
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