I got married on 14-11-2017 and since 31st May 2018, I am living separate. It was a arranged marriage.
In 7 months with my husband I dealt commitment issues, his inclination towards phone and friends (a one particular female friend), lying habits, his secretive nature and influence of his family members on our decision.
His dependency on his brother for finance and losses he incurred on his business exploration.
We started having arguments soon after our marriage and one day it went beyond the limits.
I am planning to file a case against him but still looking for guidance
1. Is there any hope that we can come together though we are staying separate from more than 10 months
(All reconciliation efforts are gone in vein as he want me to agree on things on which I would have never agreed for marriage)
2. What are the chances of being strong in my litigation case as I never kept sufficient proof in my support moreover they are resourceful.
My details:
Date of Birth: 25 May, 1981,
Time of birth: 11:20 am,
Place of Birth: Chandigarh, India
My Husband details:
Date of Birth: 30 December, 1976,
Time of Birth: 18:23 pm,
Place of Birth: Bathinda, Punjab
Guidance on married life required
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Got a chance to cast your husband chart based on the details given as your chart does not show so much delay in getting married
Coming to your husband chart
A asc is Gemini and 6th lord in 7th spoiled marraige
B there was delay in marraige due to slow moving planets jup and sat
C Venus to sun distance more than 43 degrees , sat aspecting Venus in D 9 sat aspecting moon in rasi chart Venus is not aspected by jup
D so due to Venus spoiled bad qualities of Venus got enhanced and due to which happiness from marraige gone
F chances of divorce will be very late
Coming to your husband chart
A asc is Gemini and 6th lord in 7th spoiled marraige
B there was delay in marraige due to slow moving planets jup and sat
C Venus to sun distance more than 43 degrees , sat aspecting Venus in D 9 sat aspecting moon in rasi chart Venus is not aspected by jup
D so due to Venus spoiled bad qualities of Venus got enhanced and due to which happiness from marraige gone
F chances of divorce will be very late
If the reconciliation does not work, and both of you want to separate, then get divorced and look forward to the life and possibilities ahead.
My advice is that do NOT get tangled into litigation, since it burns both sides and consumes a lot of time. And even after you spend 4-5 years in litigation, the outcome is same as divorce.
Regarding your chart, you have ketu in 7th house of marriage. Also the lord of 7th house is saturn which is retrograde. You have jupiter's aspect on 7th house, but jupiter is retrograde too.
All in all, I would say try to save the marriage through dialogue. If it doesnt work then get divorced without getting involved in litigation.
My advice is that do NOT get tangled into litigation, since it burns both sides and consumes a lot of time. And even after you spend 4-5 years in litigation, the outcome is same as divorce.
Regarding your chart, you have ketu in 7th house of marriage. Also the lord of 7th house is saturn which is retrograde. You have jupiter's aspect on 7th house, but jupiter is retrograde too.
All in all, I would say try to save the marriage through dialogue. If it doesnt work then get divorced without getting involved in litigation.
Definitely I feel betrayed and having sleepless night as I'm regreting on my decision for this marriage at the age on 37+ and he being 42.
I am well aware of the fact of spending 4-5 years with the same outcome. Somehow I feel that if I file a case it will keep them entangled and they won't spoil anyone's else life by there sweet and convincing talks of which I became a target.
As he is attached to them, he never understood how things went wrong.
Still thanks for your comments JIGKOSHTI. I will definitely keep your views in my mind.
Still looking forward to know my chances on divorce case.
There is no more dialogue between us. Moreover they are not even ready to pay alimony or maintenance. They just want me to sign paper
I am well aware of the fact of spending 4-5 years with the same outcome. Somehow I feel that if I file a case it will keep them entangled and they won't spoil anyone's else life by there sweet and convincing talks of which I became a target.
As he is attached to them, he never understood how things went wrong.
Still thanks for your comments JIGKOSHTI. I will definitely keep your views in my mind.
Still looking forward to know my chances on divorce case.
There is no more dialogue between us. Moreover they are not even ready to pay alimony or maintenance. They just want me to sign paper
privik wrote:
> Definitely I feel betrayed and having sleepless night as I'm regreting on
> my decision for this marriage at the age on 37+ and he being 42.
> I am well aware of the fact of spending 4-5 years with the same outcome.
> Somehow I feel that if I file a case then they
> won't spoil anyone's else life by there sweet and convincing talks of which
> I became a target.
> As he is attached to them, he never understood how things went wrong.
>
> Still thanks for your comments JIGKOSHTI. I will definitely keep your views
> in my mind.
> Still looking forward to know my chances on divorce case.
> There is no more dialogue between us. Moreover they are not even ready to
> pay alimony or maintenance. They just want me to sign paper
> Definitely I feel betrayed and having sleepless night as I'm regreting on
> my decision for this marriage at the age on 37+ and he being 42.
> I am well aware of the fact of spending 4-5 years with the same outcome.
> Somehow I feel that if I file a case then they
> won't spoil anyone's else life by there sweet and convincing talks of which
> I became a target.
> As he is attached to them, he never understood how things went wrong.
>
> Still thanks for your comments JIGKOSHTI. I will definitely keep your views
> in my mind.
> Still looking forward to know my chances on divorce case.
> There is no more dialogue between us. Moreover they are not even ready to
> pay alimony or maintenance. They just want me to sign paper
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joyd
No divorce-no second marriage-issues will be delayed.Long married life seen with adjustments.This is based on your chart.As you mentioned that you are planning to file divorce case, i preferd your chart only.jupiter supporting your marriage so you have to think on it.your planets not allowing you for divorce.Hasty decession on it will keep you as single life long.so be wise and act.
joyd.
joyd.
