Why does it happen like this? Show some light

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If a human has God, Parents, Blessings/Good wishes (attained through good deeds) and love, then the person needs nothing else. Whatever, is there in material, world will just come to you.

My, question is specifically regarding love. I have been told (also by the way things have happened ) many things (there is a link below)

So, why does it happen, that's people I like don't like me back. It happened in 2008 and then it happened again in 2018. (Debilitated Venus?). What , I do know that I am honest in my feelings. I know, what love is.

Well, if this is the case, and will be, then perhaps, I should draw up my shields and focus on God,on Doing Good Deeds and on my parents (Just wish my parents understand my decision). Because, although the above 4 things are different, but they are closely knit and the problem in one will surely affect the other.

A question was asked from marriage perspective and the reply is in the link viewtopic.php?f=18&t=39010

Male, 18.09.1984, 0419 AM, Dehradun

Hope, to seek some light from your side.
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In addition to above, there is something I would like to confess and I am sorry " I shared incomplete on this forum in the question in link above. I was in 2 single sided likes and not one" Have written here complete.

So, if Joyd, Lex, Chandralagna, Kimahy, astroanjana, vedam , basically the astrologers on this forum can show some light.
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hello sphericalin,

Appreciate that you have now disclosed that there was a relationship ( though one sided ) in
2008 during rahu dasa which I asked in your previous message.

Rahu, saturn, moon, ketu , mars and moon are influencing your relationship issues either
directly or indirectly. As most of them are placed in unhelpful places, establishing a long term
and peaceful relationship is very difficult.

With half of the jupiter dasa gone along with that of venus's antar, you will have to change
in areas which you feel could bear fruits.

truly yours,
vedicmaths
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@vedicmaths. Thank you for your comments. Initially, I was reluctant to accept (I hope you and others here understand that)

"With half of the jupiter dasa gone along with that of venus's antar, you will have to change
in areas which you feel could bear fruits."

I just don't know how to sort this. I thought about it but...

I always try to present my true self in front of a person and not a polished and fabricated part of me because if I ask anyone to be my partner of lifetime, then during the lifetime, if something comes as a surprise to my partner... things will break apart. Further, you can suppress your true self, but one day or the other it comes out. So, I just live by " be what you are..." Yes, people don't like me in my form, but I want someone till my end, till our end together, so I just have to be how I am. In any relationship one has to respect his/her partner and that is something I do, even in single sided.

In an earlier post of mine, it was forecasted love marriage for me but as mentioned by you above, that my relationships won't be long term and peaceful, so that part stands ruled out.

I guess, I should be content with I have and live the way I am and not in a fabricated version of me.

But, thanks for letting me know the reason of failure of things, it's just my bad stars.
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Opinion of scholars here:-

My Venus is debilitated in D1,D7,D9. Although, a neechbhang is taking place but if one looks closely, it is as good as NIL. Also, Venus is my Atmakaraka.

1.) Mercury is causing Neechbhang but Mercury is Venus Nakshatra in sub of Mercury.
2.) Venus is in Nakshatra of Mars, the Yogakaraka. But, Yogakaraka is ineffective as the same is in Nakshatra of Mercury,which is in Nakshatra of Debilitated Venus.
3.) Venus is Debilitated and is conjunct ketu in D9. So, Vargottam debilitation, making debilitation more strong.
4.) In D1, 7th Lord in Libra, whose Lord Venus is debilitated.
5.) On the top, my lagna Lord is at 1 degree. This makes self confidence soar kind of real high.

As far as remedies go, I believe there are only, three. First, supreme power up there, second, love and third,doing good for others. And somehow, except the third, everything is like nowhere near me. With the likes of it, even if something changes in future, it shall be short-lived.

So, this is because of my past deeds. So, what bad did I do in my past birth. Must have been something real bad.?
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Can the scholars here, read and help me with my above interpretation, which I have done.

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Request for any help with my analysis above done for myself
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