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We are trying for children from past 7 yrs our medical reports are normal but till now not conceived.
4 IUI failed and 3 IVF cycle failed. Embryo are good my uterus and uterine receptivity is good but all attempts are failing. Doctors also unable to predict what is the reason.
My 3rd cycle IVF done in this month only it ended with negative result. Doctors saying next cycle with Embryo genetic screening. But we are unable to dare for next cycle.
Some astrologers saying I will concieve naturally at the correct time period and suggested that leave it to Divine. Medical procedures and all money waste.
We are unable to decide what next. Our age also increasing and for my husband motility issues started. Till now my egg quality is good but in future don't know.
Please analyse our horoscope and please suggest whether we have to go for next cycle or natural pregnancy chances are there. When is the correct time.
My birth details: 18 June 1983, 10:30 PM, Gannavaram (near Vijayawada Andhra Pradesh)
My husband birth details: 13 April 1980, 5:30 AM, Eluru (Andhra Pradesh)
We are feeling helpless and suffocating like
Why I am not conceiving? What is the reason behind failure?
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tylorechandra
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In your chart, the presence of Rahu and Sun very close to each other in the 5th house (a Trikona) causes what is known as pitru rina (also called Grahana Dosha). May be some elder (even among ancestors) have not had a proper cremation. This rina can prevent the birth of a progeny.
You have not mentioned whether you have performed some pujas etc. My suggestion is that you should perform a Shraddha properly to the concerned person (if known and details available). Else, a Shanti for Sun and Rahu may be done with proper sankalpa to negate the rina and bless you with a progeny.
A second cause of concern could be the closeness of Mars and Rahu near the border of the 5th house. If this occurs in the 5th house proper (and it does so in the bhava chart), this constitutes a sarpa dosha – generally considered to arise if a snake has been killed intentionally and not properly burnt thereafter. If such an event has occurred in your house/husband’s house, then also a shanti is needed. This could be in the form of a Sarpa Sanskara puja or an Aslesha bali puja. The Sarpa dosha can also prevent the birth of progeny.
A third factor is that the karaka for children, Jupiter, is in Mrityu bhaga and his dasa is currently running from 2015. He is also in a papakartari yoga and is further aspected by Mars. Thus you need to strengthen this planet or at least reduce its negativity by donating some yellow cloth to the needy, Visiting temples of Gurus like Sai Baba or Raghavendra and seeking their blessings. Blessings from elders will also be helpful.
In the husband’s chart also, Rahu and Mars are nearly at the same longitude and occupy the 5th bhava in the bhava chart (again pointing to sapa dosha). Additionally, the Karaka for progeny, Jupiter, is in the 6th house (upachaya) in the rasi chart and in the 8th house in Saptamsa. Dasa lord Mercury is debilitated in Rasi chart and in the 8th in both Navamsa and Saptamsa. He needs to recite Vishnu Sahasranama stotra daily in addition to the other remedies suggested for you above.
Though Ketu and Moon occupy the same house in the chart of your husband, it does not constitute a Grahana dosha since the angular separation is large.
You can hope for a progeny after September next year.
TKC
You have not mentioned whether you have performed some pujas etc. My suggestion is that you should perform a Shraddha properly to the concerned person (if known and details available). Else, a Shanti for Sun and Rahu may be done with proper sankalpa to negate the rina and bless you with a progeny.
A second cause of concern could be the closeness of Mars and Rahu near the border of the 5th house. If this occurs in the 5th house proper (and it does so in the bhava chart), this constitutes a sarpa dosha – generally considered to arise if a snake has been killed intentionally and not properly burnt thereafter. If such an event has occurred in your house/husband’s house, then also a shanti is needed. This could be in the form of a Sarpa Sanskara puja or an Aslesha bali puja. The Sarpa dosha can also prevent the birth of progeny.
A third factor is that the karaka for children, Jupiter, is in Mrityu bhaga and his dasa is currently running from 2015. He is also in a papakartari yoga and is further aspected by Mars. Thus you need to strengthen this planet or at least reduce its negativity by donating some yellow cloth to the needy, Visiting temples of Gurus like Sai Baba or Raghavendra and seeking their blessings. Blessings from elders will also be helpful.
In the husband’s chart also, Rahu and Mars are nearly at the same longitude and occupy the 5th bhava in the bhava chart (again pointing to sapa dosha). Additionally, the Karaka for progeny, Jupiter, is in the 6th house (upachaya) in the rasi chart and in the 8th house in Saptamsa. Dasa lord Mercury is debilitated in Rasi chart and in the 8th in both Navamsa and Saptamsa. He needs to recite Vishnu Sahasranama stotra daily in addition to the other remedies suggested for you above.
Though Ketu and Moon occupy the same house in the chart of your husband, it does not constitute a Grahana dosha since the angular separation is large.
You can hope for a progeny after September next year.
TKC
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astro latha
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Thank you for reply
Before our marriage at the compatibility check we came to know that delay in progeny. After marriage performed graha japa and Santhi homas.
We performed Rahu Ketu pujas 3 times
Santhana gopala mantra Japan in Somnadh Temple
Narayana Naga Bali puja for pitru disha and sarpa dosha nivaran
Lord subhrahmanya abhishekam and fast
Shashti puja
Visited many temples
So many pujas and vrat as suggested by astrologers, elders and wellwisher
But we didn't succeed
Can you please check and let us know that is there any chance for naturally conceive or we need to go for next IVF cycle.
Before our marriage at the compatibility check we came to know that delay in progeny. After marriage performed graha japa and Santhi homas.
We performed Rahu Ketu pujas 3 times
Santhana gopala mantra Japan in Somnadh Temple
Narayana Naga Bali puja for pitru disha and sarpa dosha nivaran
Lord subhrahmanya abhishekam and fast
Shashti puja
Visited many temples
So many pujas and vrat as suggested by astrologers, elders and wellwisher
But we didn't succeed
Can you please check and let us know that is there any chance for naturally conceive or we need to go for next IVF cycle.
Casted your husband chart .lagna is pisces fifth lord moon is aspected by Mars from 6th house .so problem in child issues.second lord sun and 10th lord jup which are important houses for child birth have gone to 6th house .jup who is karaka for child birth is in 6th house so it's quality got spoiled .So difficult in child birth .eight lord is Venus and it has gone to eight from its own house .so quality of 8th house (house of sperm in gents ) got spoiled . further sat lord of 11th has gone to eight from its own house .so fourth house (family ) 9th house ( next generation ) got spoiled .
With the above I feel it is very difficult for child birth
With the above I feel it is very difficult for child birth
Casted the wife chart and the lagna is aquarius .for women 11th house is important for child birth .11th house is aspected by Mars and Rahu maleficallly so miscarriage might have occurred .
I think there is difficulty in birth of children .
I think there is difficulty in birth of children .
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astro latha
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Thank you for your valuable predictions
Yes we are facing difficulties with unknown reasons. Can you please check is there any small chance for our own children and what is the correct period.
If Divine will is deney of progeny, we have to accept it. But before that we want give our full efforts without neglecting any possible chance.
Yes we are facing difficulties with unknown reasons. Can you please check is there any small chance for our own children and what is the correct period.
If Divine will is deney of progeny, we have to accept it. But before that we want give our full efforts without neglecting any possible chance.
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joyd
jupiters delay seen in your child birth issue.so dont be discouraged.At present both jupiter-saturn aspecting your 5th house of progeny.so go for trail after 17th -october-2018. and let me know the result via your feed back.your jupiter-saturn both are in retro.so dont loose your hope on issues matter.They will delay the event a bit.your jupiter already completed 8 transit cycles over your 5th house and going to complete the same on your 11th house in coming months.so this trail is going to be a very crucial one to get the issues.I hope you can retain your pregnancy this time successfully.Before the trail doubly cross check that if you have any white-discharge kind of problem by gynaecologist once. karaks jupiter dasa with lagna lord bhukthi is running now,after this the 5th lords anthara is going to entering too.so both AD are favourable for child birth.so from Oct-17th ,2018 to 6-12-2021 pereoid is dam good for child birth.so dont give off your trails.your husband chart is also showing the jup-saturn retro.so you have this much delay in getting issues.
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so from Oct-17th ,2018 to 6-12-2021 pereoid is dam good for child birth.so dont give off your trails.your husband chart is also showing the jup-saturn retro.so you have this much delay in getting issues.
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Thank you very much Joyd ji
Your post raised hope in us.
As per doctors prospective, our condition is unexplained. So they can't say about further trials. We have to continue with open mind.
Can you suggest medical intervention is compulsory for us or natural possibility is there.
joyd.
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Thank you very much Joyd ji
Your post raised hope in us.
As per doctors prospective, our condition is unexplained. So they can't say about further trials. We have to continue with open mind.
Can you suggest medical intervention is compulsory for us or natural possibility is there.
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joyd
yes-medical intervention is compulsory ,your partner already in sperm mobility issue.In your case saturn is vayu. so white discharge kind of things inhibiting the conception.
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AstroDrAnjna
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try after oct 2018
Thanx
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joyd
pl.read it [pereoid is dam good for child birth-typo error]as for conception and not child birth]..
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yes-medical intervention is compulsory ,your partner already in sperm mobility issue.In your case saturn is vayu. so white discharge kind of things inhibiting the conception.
joyd.
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Thanks Joyd ji
Before 2017 my husband have no motility issues. However, before going IVF trials in Aug 2017 my husband reports are showed drastic changes in sperm motility and DNA fragmentation index is also not in the normal range. That is actually shocking for us we worried whether this change is reversible or not. By god's grace after using vitamins and antioxidant supliments for two months condition is some what improved.
For me till now there is no noticeable white discharge. However, some hidden factor is inhibiting the conception.
In 9 yrs of our married life we are desperately trying for children from 7 yrs but till now I didn't got single possitive pregnancy test.
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pl.read it [pereoid is dam good for child birth-typo error]as for conception and not child birth]..
joyd.
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Thank you very much for your response
As pet your prediction, from Oct 2018 to Dec 2021 highest possibility is there for conception. You are advising to go for further IVF cycle in this period. Is my understanding is correct?
yes-medical intervention is compulsory ,your partner already in sperm mobility issue.In your case saturn is vayu. so white discharge kind of things inhibiting the conception.
joyd.
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Thanks Joyd ji
Before 2017 my husband have no motility issues. However, before going IVF trials in Aug 2017 my husband reports are showed drastic changes in sperm motility and DNA fragmentation index is also not in the normal range. That is actually shocking for us we worried whether this change is reversible or not. By god's grace after using vitamins and antioxidant supliments for two months condition is some what improved.
For me till now there is no noticeable white discharge. However, some hidden factor is inhibiting the conception.
In 9 yrs of our married life we are desperately trying for children from 7 yrs but till now I didn't got single possitive pregnancy test.
[quote=joyd post_id=265255 time=1532449625 user_id=18243]
pl.read it [pereoid is dam good for child birth-typo error]as for conception and not child birth]..
joyd.
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Thank you very much for your response
As pet your prediction, from Oct 2018 to Dec 2021 highest possibility is there for conception. You are advising to go for further IVF cycle in this period. Is my understanding is correct?
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joyd
YES-you are right madam.Try to eat sweet pumpkin dishes and halwa made of sweet pumpkin in your diet chart[weekly times only].It Removes hidden health problems of your generative organs.Now it is the season of custerd apples.so include them also in your diet.[best if taken after breakfast is over].For your husband guava juice[pure] or semi ripen fruit in the morning time and also drumstick curry[weekly thrice],drumstick rasam[charu] or sambar gives good results in reversing his present problem.
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Thanks Joyd ji
We will follow your suggestions.
Actually my brother in law (my husband's brother) also facing progeny issues. is it possible to predict any inherited or any lineage issues are the reason. because both the brothers are facing children issues. this is some what unusual. Vamsa vrudhi related issue. Below are the birth details of my brother in law and my husband.
My husband - 13 Apr 1980, 5.30 am, Eluru (Andhra Pradesh)
Brother in law - 13 Jan 1982, 6.15 or 6.30 pm, Chinthalapudi (Andhra Pradesh)
We will follow your suggestions.
Actually my brother in law (my husband's brother) also facing progeny issues. is it possible to predict any inherited or any lineage issues are the reason. because both the brothers are facing children issues. this is some what unusual. Vamsa vrudhi related issue. Below are the birth details of my brother in law and my husband.
My husband - 13 Apr 1980, 5.30 am, Eluru (Andhra Pradesh)
Brother in law - 13 Jan 1982, 6.15 or 6.30 pm, Chinthalapudi (Andhra Pradesh)
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When they married year and month
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My husband - 13 Apr 1980, 5.30 am, Eluru (Andhra Pradesh) - Married year and month - May 2010
Brother in law - 13 Jan 1982, 6.15 or 6.30 pm, Chinthalapudi (Andhra Pradesh) - Married year and month - May 2013
When they married year and month
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My husband - 13 Apr 1980, 5.30 am, Eluru (Andhra Pradesh) - Married year and month - May 2010
Brother in law - 13 Jan 1982, 6.15 or 6.30 pm, Chinthalapudi (Andhra Pradesh) - Married year and month - May 2013
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astro latha
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We are not sure about time of birth even for my husband and mine also.
Tentatively inbetween 6 to 6:30 PM
His married life is OK. But they are unhappy about his job and job location. My co-sister wants to migrate at near place of her maternal relatives.
Because of my father in law's expectations and negligence marriage was delayed. And before his marriage some drama created after engagement regarding the looks of bride.
Tentatively inbetween 6 to 6:30 PM
His married life is OK. But they are unhappy about his job and job location. My co-sister wants to migrate at near place of her maternal relatives.
Because of my father in law's expectations and negligence marriage was delayed. And before his marriage some drama created after engagement regarding the looks of bride.
