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EarthyMaple2
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Hello,

I just wanted to know how my married life will be? - I was married before and was abused and assaulted by my husband and in-laws which ended in divorce.
Should I consider marrying again please advise?

DOB - August 2, 1985
Time - 4:35 pm
Place - New Delhi, India

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When married year and month and also when got divorced year and month
EarthyMaple2
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Hello,

I got married in May 2016 and our divorced was finalized in October 2017.

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EarthyMaple2,
You can marry again but timing is important to avoid trouble again.
In my view you can try to remarry in next maha dasa of Saturn from 2020.
-Sujit
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If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
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Thanks Sujit
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Your tob is not matching
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Hello Sir,

That is the time of birth on my certificate and my janam kundli made by the elders in my house

Your feedback is much appreciated!
EarthyMaple2
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Hello Sir,

That is the time of birth on my certificate and my janam kundli made by the elders in my house

Your feedback is much appreciated!
EarthyMaple2
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Hello Sir,

This is time of birth on my certificate but time written on my kundli is 4:23pm - so I always used this time.

I appreciate your feedback in the matter.
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Maple Madam
Agree with vedam Ji, TOB seems to be not correct. Prima facie, your chart doesn't show severe marital troubles with give BT. Ask your parents, how accuarte BT is?
Just for now,
did you have any breaks in education?
Did you loose your mother and was raised by father? or vice-versa? or have stayed away from home for significant part of your life?
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hello earthymaple,

i don't find any serious necessity for any time rectification.
There are reasons for unpleasantness in married life. whether you marry
for the second time or not.

Jupiter's transit into scorpio, ( roughly between oct-18 to feb-19 ) can bring in some
proposals.

truly yours,
vedicmaths
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Hello Sir,
Thank You for the feedback. Yes I did have breaks in my education due to the utimely death of my father.
Will there be any improvement in marital life the second time around or it will be disappointing as well. Could you provide some insight on the nature of my spouse?
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Regards to all Guru’s
Could you provide an explaination of the reasons for an unhappy marriage? So I can try to work towards some measures to make it bearable for myself.
Your feedback is much appreciated!
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hello earthmaple2,

i mentioned that there are planetary positions which indicate marital discord.
Going into the specifics may not really help you except for understanding the astrology part of it.

You may yourself look for any negative factors that come in the way of maintaining good relationships.
You may also consult varied aged couples who have crossed such hardships and how they could
come out successfully. Deep psychological analysis can be attempted towards a genuine self assessment.
A counselor may help you a lot.

truly yours,
vedicmaths
EarthyMaple2
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Thank You Sir!
I appreciate your honest response, I was never made aware of this concern in my horoscope before.
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Thank you for the feedback.
Did your father pass away in 1991/1993?
Was your Primary education had a break or secondary/college?
If it seems too personal, you may choose not to answer!
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Hello Sir,

I understand, my father passed away in 2006 and I had sudden breaks in my education in the year 2006 and 2011.
Your feedback is much appreaciated!
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Sorry for the late reply.
One of the reason for trouble in first marriage could be, Jupiter- Husband Karak for female is debilitated in 2nd house of Family.
Don't worry about second marriage. As Vedicmaths Sir said, try to learn from the mistakes in previous marriage. However, IMO, no matter what issues are, assaulting a woman by husband & in-laws are unacceptable. Look at the brighter side, you are out of the violent domestic environment. Look for cues in future potential partners that sound similar to the first marriage to avoid getting into similar situations.
There is always a room for free will in life and ultimately, destiny is in our hands and not planets!
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Thank you for your response Sir could you please indicate any favorable dates as per your calculations.
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