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Vedas
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Hello ,

I am very close relative of him , right now or even previously he had no earnings , had a job June 2016 back and left it after working 2 month only after having dispute with his boss. Right now he has no energy no enthusiasm for going into another job.Due to lack of energy he not even succeeding to do a business.Right now hes very much hopeless,frustrated, dejected ,mentally broken , almost in brink of doing some thing rash, which i fear.I wanted to know from learned peoples here , is this chart is so hopeless ? does he has any chance of earning soon? will he succeed in business or service ? will he do something rash that will bring harm to his family?When will good period will come ?

He and i have consulted few astrologers , but their predictions are yet to come fruitful or most of them predicated wrong.Please give me some advice so that i can clam him down and give him hope.
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SWARNIM
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You need not worry much about him. He is in the phase where the nature is making him strong enough to face adverse situations. All he has to do is to follow the path of virtues. The days of misery will soon be history.

Hope for positive changes towards the end of the current year.
Vedas
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thanks you very much SWARNIM ,i am very worried about him as hes very hopeless & pathetic right now , almost stagnant cant do anything. Does he has a bright future ahead of him ? Your reply put a hope in me ... . If you read my reply please reply , when this bad phrase will end ? what is future he hold in carrier and in married life ? Thank you again !!
Vedas
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Any please .. throw some light .. situation getting out of hand hes very desperate , hes mentally and physically getting worst day by day ... please help.

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Sujit
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The chart is borderline and getting a correct prediction on his chart will be difficult. The chart need to be rectified to confirm the ascendant.

- Sujit
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If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
vedicvishal
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Hello
Sorry to hear about your friend who is having so much trouble.
As Sujitji pointed out, if time is not correct (just by 2 mins), its lagna will change and all predictions might go wrong.
The description below is based on the time provided.
Irrespective of the time, the sade-sati and dashas will still hold good.

As per your details, he is pisces lagna and scorpio moon sign.
Few important observations:
1) Some of the positives include exalted sun which does provide some strength to your chart. Also the lagna is strong with lagnesh (Ju) sitting in his own mooltrikon sign although afflicted by saturn.
Even though it looks bad but this person have inner strength to handle difficult times. He just needs to calm down and need a genuine support from loved ones.

Now some negatives, person's moon is heavily afflicted (debilitated and afflicted by ketu). This is causing immense mental trouble and foresee things which may not be real. Debilitated moon is really fickle minded and cannot rest at one place.
Exalted retrograde saturn is sitting in 8th house of troubles and directly impacting 10th house (profession), 2nd house (finances, family) and 5th house (kids, intelligence). However saturn in 8th gives long life.
Together with that saturn is 2nd in transit (Last phase of sade-sati) that is highly karmic in his chart as saturn is sitting in 8th house. This third phase is time where person needs to unlearn few things and learn new things, try to look at his life from new direction. This is the time to stay low and work on your inner strengths. You have to regain confidence and family members should come together and support the person.

I can really feel that he must be going pretty hard time as Mercury-Saturn dasha together with sade-sati. This is basically all saturn all over (Strong malefic). Since mercury is also afflicted by saturn (although having some benefic aspect of jupiter). Seems to me that his money is controlled by his spouse.

I see this dasha will go till Aug 2020 and sade-sati will also go around sametime.
Don't worry about how long it will go, i feel it will give him new direction.

Here are some remedies that will help to calm down.
1) Do moon based remedies to strengthen it. Offer milk to lord shiva on mondays. Recite "Om Namah Shivay" one mala (Morning or eve or both) as a habit. Wearing Pearl (activated) may help too.
2) Try to retrospect and see what are you doing that is not good or may be hurting somebody. Start to drift away from that behavior. Be helpful to old people and mother like females.
3) Calm down Shani by following Saturn based remedies (offering mustard oil to lord shani on saturdays). Even lighting a sesame oil dia is good.

Best Wishes
Vishal
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