Suggestion for remedies for the troubled marriage.

[Ramadevi]

Respected all,

Please find enclosed details of a couple .

Husband:
26:01:1972
4:20 am
Delhi
( Scorpio Lagna/ Taurus Rashi)

Wife:
18:08:1973
2:45 am
Jamshedpur
(Gemini Lagna/ Pisces Rashi)

Date of marriage: 25:02:2001

It has been a turbulent marriage path. Few notable incidents
2001 was most horrible, husband always fighting, desiring to end marriage. Slowly things got bit better.
2007/2008 : lost his coveted job and then started an extra marital affair and desirous of divorce. Due to intervention of family Guru and elders , realized it’s not the right path and said will work out with wife .

But he carried on his affair behind everyone back. The wife tried hard to look after the house and kids. He was confronted about the affair, he says he will maintain his family but cannot control his lust and wants other women.

It’s a dire situation. If the wife walks away , life of two young kids is lost.

Please advise it there will be some improvements in the couples condition. It would be kind if some remedies are also prescribed to give relief to the wife as the husband is adamant and will not do any remedy.

Regards.
Ramadevi

[Ramadevi]

Dear all,

Please would anyone look at the horoscopes and assess if the marriage will last ??? The wife has come out of Venus mahadasha and husband will be entering Saturn Mahadasha by end this year.

How will it affect the natives and any remedy suggestions for the woman to do as the man is adamant and won’t do any pariharam.

Regards,
Rama Devi.

[vedicmaths]

hello ramadevi,

both charts show troubles.

In the best interest of the kids, my personal opinion would be to simply accept
the husbands weakness and adapt with it. As long as he meets the financial and
household responsibilities, it is best to be kind with him waiting for a day that
would bring in some wisdom in his thoughts and actions. Slowly , she may involve
him in regular prayers without attaching undue importance. Kids can be advised
to shower more love on him which could make him come out of the clutches.
Kids , if they do not know about dad's weakness, must be left alone from this
issue. This is very important.

Saturn is highly separative and being placed in 6th along with moon in the house
of venus can easily break the marriage. Aspect of rahu on it adds fuel to the fine.
Venus is with saturn and mars in navamsa is also bad.

it is better to be wise and protect the marriage. The wife may be advised to have
a sitting with marriage counselors who have the experience of these kinds of people.

truly yours,
vedicmaths

[Vivek Surya]

Namah Shivaaya,
Just curious, Being Ascendant at 27° 53' in Scorpio, Jupiter in Sagittarius in Ascendant & having 2 kids, what Graha positions made him to crave for other women?

[Ramadevi]

Dear Vedicmaths,

His ascendent is Scorpio and hence moon and Saturn reside in 7 th house not sixth. The ascendents were changing in 10-15 minutes but if you look at various incidents of his life , Scorpio fits him better than Sagittarius.

The wife has been patient with him and he has shown many improvements over the years with regards to temperament and other behaviors but not in his interests in other woman.

The wife hasn’t told the kids anything and has never spoken about this anywhere except us very close family members.

I would advise her to have patience and live her life with diligence that she has lived for years.

Regards,
Rama Devi.

[vedicmaths]

hello ramadevi,

yes, it was a mistake on my part to have written that saturn and moon are in 7th.
It was due to wrong input for the latitude of the place.

I noticed venus with saturn and mars in navamsa, but i did not write it earlier. After
correcting the latitude, i find , all these three are in navamsa lagna ! Hence the
madness towards a woman.

truly yours,
vedicmaths