Hello,
I have very afflicted 7th house. In the past, I had two short relationships - both of them were like a nightmare.
I need some help, is there any chance for a happy married life for me, or should I accept, that all my relationships will be doomed?
What should I/can I do for a happy married life?
I was born on 7th of April, 1994, Vienna, 17:43.
Is there any remedy for afflicted 7th lord?
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joyd
Very tough and critical chart to deliver the analysis.out of 12 11 bhavas are under the strong influence of 6th lords amsas.No happy married life.Except the 9th house all the remaining are under severe delay of 6th lords amsas.jupiter-moon-saturn are the main cause in marriage issue.Prolonged delays in each and every house significations are very surely denoting by the chart.
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kanyalagna
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Thank you for your reply!
What do you think, how can I be successful? Work, or anything else can save my life?
What do you think, how can I be successful? Work, or anything else can save my life?
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kanyalagna
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Sorry for that I write again, just I became very sad.
My chart means that I will be unhappy all of my life in relationships?
Because I have seen famous people's charts, which hard as mine, and yes, the happines came later in their life (after their thirties, or later), but it happened.
And sorry again, that I write, but I'm desperate of this, and I need help. I went through hard times, but I hoped, it will be better, if I work hard on this.
My chart means that I will be unhappy all of my life in relationships?
Because I have seen famous people's charts, which hard as mine, and yes, the happines came later in their life (after their thirties, or later), but it happened.
And sorry again, that I write, but I'm desperate of this, and I need help. I went through hard times, but I hoped, it will be better, if I work hard on this.
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astrolover2017
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7th of April, 1994, Vienna, 17:43.
Your rasi is Aquarius and lagna is virgo. Lagna lord mercury is with Sun and Mars in Pisces. Mercury is debilitated, Sani is in own house, Jupiter is retrograde. Good planets when in retrograde will spoil their karakatwa and deliver the results of the house. Since Jupiter is karaka for wealth and kids that might be issue and will deliver 2nd house qualities like family, speech, wealth etc.
Your venus is hidden in 8th house which is not good, Venus and retrograde Jupiter aspecting at 180 deg will affect marriage and children. 7th house of marriage has sun and mars and debiliated mercury. this is cause ego issues, anger outbursts and unstable mind.
With these issues, its best to marry late which will be beneficial.
Your rasi is Aquarius and lagna is virgo. Lagna lord mercury is with Sun and Mars in Pisces. Mercury is debilitated, Sani is in own house, Jupiter is retrograde. Good planets when in retrograde will spoil their karakatwa and deliver the results of the house. Since Jupiter is karaka for wealth and kids that might be issue and will deliver 2nd house qualities like family, speech, wealth etc.
Your venus is hidden in 8th house which is not good, Venus and retrograde Jupiter aspecting at 180 deg will affect marriage and children. 7th house of marriage has sun and mars and debiliated mercury. this is cause ego issues, anger outbursts and unstable mind.
With these issues, its best to marry late which will be beneficial.
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kanyalagna
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Dear Astrolover,
First of all, thank you for your reply. I can accept that I have to marriage late, I'm not suprised.
But "never happy" scared me. I have some personal traits, which lead to late marriage/relationship, so for me, it's not a problem. I have lack self-confidence, and anything else, but I can struggle.
What can I do for make it best? Marry/start relationship after 40/50, horoscope matching?
First of all, thank you for your reply. I can accept that I have to marriage late, I'm not suprised.
But "never happy" scared me. I have some personal traits, which lead to late marriage/relationship, so for me, it's not a problem. I have lack self-confidence, and anything else, but I can struggle.
What can I do for make it best? Marry/start relationship after 40/50, horoscope matching?
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astrolover2017
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Anytime bad planets are causing issues in 7th,2nd,5th,8th house the best remedy is strengthening lagna lord (mercury) by praying to Budh lord. Since lagna lord is your guide for this life and lagna is YOU.
Praying to Lord Shiva will help reduce all issues as he is the controller of all planets and life on earth. He is the universal energy.
If you are destined to enter in marriage, you can really stop it but you can reduce the issues by patience, prayers, tolerance etc. Match horoscope well from lagna, rasi, all marraige houses, dasa bhukti, sade sati etc.
Finally doing lot of charity, good thoughts and deeds will always protect you
Praying to Lord Shiva will help reduce all issues as he is the controller of all planets and life on earth. He is the universal energy.
If you are destined to enter in marriage, you can really stop it but you can reduce the issues by patience, prayers, tolerance etc. Match horoscope well from lagna, rasi, all marraige houses, dasa bhukti, sade sati etc.
Finally doing lot of charity, good thoughts and deeds will always protect you
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kanyalagna
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Isn't change the picture, that retrograde Jupiter become strong in Navamsa, as it is in own sign in Pisces?
Please help me, I like to live happily, it's no problem, if it will come later in life.
I have to know, what I have to pay attention to make my married life better in the future.
Please help me, I like to live happily, it's no problem, if it will come later in life.
I have to know, what I have to pay attention to make my married life better in the future.
kanyalagna,
I am not an astrologer and I can't comment on this from that perspective. Reading this thread, I wanted to share a few ideas that might help you.
Having difficult combinations for marriage/relationships means that you don't naturally know the skill of how to make a relationship work. You need to consciously/deliberately/intentionally learn that skill. You will be attracted to the wrong people. Wrong people will get attracted to you and you will let them in without any resistance. You need to be conscious of who you are attracted to. You need to learn the psychology of how attraction happens between two people. You need to learn the difference between a healthy attraction and an unhealthy attraction. While learning all this, you need to develop a healthy self concept. Doing all this learning requires a lot of self reflection. Please don't think what other people do to you is out of your control. It is not. Carefully watch how your mind functions and you will see that what you think about yourself is the origin of what ultimately happens to you. It is quite possible that certain negative experiences in your early days or even in your parent's lives is causing you to have certain wrong ideas/beliefs/conditioning about how relationships are supposed to work. Please try to get over them. You could get help from a professional relationship counselor.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Stay positive.
I am not an astrologer and I can't comment on this from that perspective. Reading this thread, I wanted to share a few ideas that might help you.
Having difficult combinations for marriage/relationships means that you don't naturally know the skill of how to make a relationship work. You need to consciously/deliberately/intentionally learn that skill. You will be attracted to the wrong people. Wrong people will get attracted to you and you will let them in without any resistance. You need to be conscious of who you are attracted to. You need to learn the psychology of how attraction happens between two people. You need to learn the difference between a healthy attraction and an unhealthy attraction. While learning all this, you need to develop a healthy self concept. Doing all this learning requires a lot of self reflection. Please don't think what other people do to you is out of your control. It is not. Carefully watch how your mind functions and you will see that what you think about yourself is the origin of what ultimately happens to you. It is quite possible that certain negative experiences in your early days or even in your parent's lives is causing you to have certain wrong ideas/beliefs/conditioning about how relationships are supposed to work. Please try to get over them. You could get help from a professional relationship counselor.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Stay positive.
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kanyalagna
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Hello Tinker,
You're right. For me, it's hard to find the measure. And unfortunately sometimes I love the wrong person, I'm looking for illusions. That's why my mother usually say to me, "It will be good, if you will find your partner later in your life, because you have to change." And also, that's why I wrote that for me, late happines is not a problem. I'm aware of my deficiencies, so I won't be suprised, if the love would came in my life after forties.
Moreover when I had these problematic relationships, I was in hard time. But nowdays I start working hard to change myself, I went university, etc.
Thank you so much, and sorry for the late reply.
Regards,
Kanyalagna
You're right. For me, it's hard to find the measure. And unfortunately sometimes I love the wrong person, I'm looking for illusions. That's why my mother usually say to me, "It will be good, if you will find your partner later in your life, because you have to change." And also, that's why I wrote that for me, late happines is not a problem. I'm aware of my deficiencies, so I won't be suprised, if the love would came in my life after forties.
Moreover when I had these problematic relationships, I was in hard time. But nowdays I start working hard to change myself, I went university, etc.
Thank you so much, and sorry for the late reply.
Regards,
Kanyalagna
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kanyalagna
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Hello,
If anybody has any good advice, I like to read it.
I am still young, so I still have a chance to change.
If anybody has any good advice, I like to read it.
I am still young, so I still have a chance to change.
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ChandraLagna
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Kanyalagna,
The discussions around your chart in this thread and elsewhere and the questions you have asked are all around 7H alone. Please understand that marriage is not just 7H alone. There is also the karaka for marriage, Venus to consider. Just once look at your Venus, and the aspect of jupiter on it. Since you have a collection of charts with afflicted 7H, re-evaluate those charts with Venus in the equation and see what you come up with.
Your late marriage would very likely be with a divorcee and that would last with fair share of challenges.
The discussions around your chart in this thread and elsewhere and the questions you have asked are all around 7H alone. Please understand that marriage is not just 7H alone. There is also the karaka for marriage, Venus to consider. Just once look at your Venus, and the aspect of jupiter on it. Since you have a collection of charts with afflicted 7H, re-evaluate those charts with Venus in the equation and see what you come up with.
Your late marriage would very likely be with a divorcee and that would last with fair share of challenges.
--भज गोविन्दं... भज गोविन्दं...गोविन्दं भज, मूढमते --
With Regards,
ChandraLagna
With Regards,
ChandraLagna
Hi Chandralagna, Thanks for taking out time and sharing your analysis. I am sure this would ease Kanyalagna alot.
Request you to please help me as well with your inputs regarding second marriage/husband.
DOB: 27th Jan 1987
TOB: 01:30am
POB: Bulandshahr, UP
Many thanks in advance for the time and patience.
Request you to please help me as well with your inputs regarding second marriage/husband.
DOB: 27th Jan 1987
TOB: 01:30am
POB: Bulandshahr, UP
Many thanks in advance for the time and patience.
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kanyalagna
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Dear ChandraLagna,
First of all, thank you for your reply. It's hard to accept, that I have to live my life without friends (11th lord in 6th), and without marriage. Because if all my relationship will end in divorce, I don't want any of them. I don't want to build something just to see how it will go bad. For me, it's hard to make any relationship, so I don't want work hard for nothing. That's why I looking for some hope. I have close relationship with my mother, that's all I have in my social life. Anything else not permanent. If something happens with her, ther will be no meaning of my life without marriage, forever alone. I don't need many people around me, but I want one. But if it won't come, I don't know, how my life going on.
And in the other side, my 10th lord is also debilitated, so all my life will be full of sadness, meanwhile I achieve huge successes at university. It means that I can't escape to work, because of debilitation of 10th lord. So after university, I won't achieve success because of this debilitated Mercury.
Yes, I have a collection, which includes Warren Beatty, Henry Winkler, Simone Renant, Suzanne Sommers, etc, who have some afflication, but they found their partner. But if I don't have hope, I should rethink my life.
Regards,
kanyalagna
First of all, thank you for your reply. It's hard to accept, that I have to live my life without friends (11th lord in 6th), and without marriage. Because if all my relationship will end in divorce, I don't want any of them. I don't want to build something just to see how it will go bad. For me, it's hard to make any relationship, so I don't want work hard for nothing. That's why I looking for some hope. I have close relationship with my mother, that's all I have in my social life. Anything else not permanent. If something happens with her, ther will be no meaning of my life without marriage, forever alone. I don't need many people around me, but I want one. But if it won't come, I don't know, how my life going on.
And in the other side, my 10th lord is also debilitated, so all my life will be full of sadness, meanwhile I achieve huge successes at university. It means that I can't escape to work, because of debilitation of 10th lord. So after university, I won't achieve success because of this debilitated Mercury.
Yes, I have a collection, which includes Warren Beatty, Henry Winkler, Simone Renant, Suzanne Sommers, etc, who have some afflication, but they found their partner. But if I don't have hope, I should rethink my life.
Regards,
kanyalagna
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ChandraLagna
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@Kanyalagna
Perhaps my previous post was not explicit enough. The whole point I was making was that your chart for marriage is not as bad as is being made out and there's less reason for despair than you think. Your Venus is reasonably well placed and receives aspect from a reasonably well placed Jupiter.
7th house is not the only factor to consider - it denotes partnerships in general and so many other aspects of life. Venus is the significator of marriage and finer things in life and the point of my previous post was that despite your 7H looking bad, Venus has some strength to see you married, and I also said it appears that your wife is more likely than not to be a divorcee. I hope the message is now clear?
About your mercury being "debilitated" and thus presumed weak. "Debilitation" in the context of astrology has been misunderstood by so many astrologers that it is thought of as something weak, or incapable of giving results. Far from it. Pl search the forum for some of my posts on debilitation and hopefully you get a different perspective. IN this specific case, Mercury is the naturally witty, communicative intelligent entity & when placed in Pisces struggles to come to terms with the depth of the introspective, intuitive and emotional sign. This in any way does not diminish Mercury's intellect, but rather enhances intellect with emotion and wisdom. For what its worth, Albert Einstein had his mercury in Pisces, and Moon in Scorpio, so both is mind and intellect planets are "debilitated" and does this mean his mind was blown? It turns out that he became the most well known scientist of the 20th century, if not of all times.
@ Sapfi - do you have a separate thread on this forum? I can look at your chart and respond there, rather than clutter up this thread.
Perhaps my previous post was not explicit enough. The whole point I was making was that your chart for marriage is not as bad as is being made out and there's less reason for despair than you think. Your Venus is reasonably well placed and receives aspect from a reasonably well placed Jupiter.
7th house is not the only factor to consider - it denotes partnerships in general and so many other aspects of life. Venus is the significator of marriage and finer things in life and the point of my previous post was that despite your 7H looking bad, Venus has some strength to see you married, and I also said it appears that your wife is more likely than not to be a divorcee. I hope the message is now clear?
About your mercury being "debilitated" and thus presumed weak. "Debilitation" in the context of astrology has been misunderstood by so many astrologers that it is thought of as something weak, or incapable of giving results. Far from it. Pl search the forum for some of my posts on debilitation and hopefully you get a different perspective. IN this specific case, Mercury is the naturally witty, communicative intelligent entity & when placed in Pisces struggles to come to terms with the depth of the introspective, intuitive and emotional sign. This in any way does not diminish Mercury's intellect, but rather enhances intellect with emotion and wisdom. For what its worth, Albert Einstein had his mercury in Pisces, and Moon in Scorpio, so both is mind and intellect planets are "debilitated" and does this mean his mind was blown? It turns out that he became the most well known scientist of the 20th century, if not of all times.
@ Sapfi - do you have a separate thread on this forum? I can look at your chart and respond there, rather than clutter up this thread.
--भज गोविन्दं... भज गोविन्दं...गोविन्दं भज, मूढमते --
With Regards,
ChandraLagna
With Regards,
ChandraLagna
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@Kanyalagna
7th house is not the only factor to consider - it denotes partnerships in general and so many other aspects of life. Venus is the significator of marriage and finer things in life and the point of my previous post was that despite your 7H looking bad, Venus has some strength to see you married, and I also said it appears that your wife is more likely than not to be a divorcee. I hope the message is now clear?
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I've made a topic about the same thing .. i have exalted Venus but blown 7th house lord and still no real relationship/marriage.I'll turn 25 years old in February so there you have it.
@Kanyalagna
7th house is not the only factor to consider - it denotes partnerships in general and so many other aspects of life. Venus is the significator of marriage and finer things in life and the point of my previous post was that despite your 7H looking bad, Venus has some strength to see you married, and I also said it appears that your wife is more likely than not to be a divorcee. I hope the message is now clear?
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I've made a topic about the same thing .. i have exalted Venus but blown 7th house lord and still no real relationship/marriage.I'll turn 25 years old in February so there you have it.
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kanyalagna
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Dear ChandraLagna,
Thank you for your reply again.
I will keep your advices!
And sorry if I was annoying.
Good bless, and thank you so much,
Kanyalagna
Dear a7x,
Your 25 years old, you have enough time to make relationship. : )
Regards,
Kanyalagns
Thank you for your reply again.
I will keep your advices!
And sorry if I was annoying.
Good bless, and thank you so much,
Kanyalagna
Dear a7x,
Your 25 years old, you have enough time to make relationship. : )
Regards,
Kanyalagns
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Dear a7x,
Your 25 years old, you have enough time to make relationship. : )
Regards,
Kanyalagns
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There is a time for everything...I know people of my age that had 4-5 relationships already..It's painful believe me.
Dear a7x,
Your 25 years old, you have enough time to make relationship. : )
Regards,
Kanyalagns
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There is a time for everything...I know people of my age that had 4-5 relationships already..It's painful believe me.
