Failed love affairs... Should i avoid thoughts of marriage to live at least a peaceful life if not a successful life ?

[naga]

Name- 3rd January 1991
Time:- 12:08 PM Afternoon
Place:- Danapur, patna
Pisces ascendant
Vargottama pisces lagna

Is there any chance of marriage as per my birth chart ? If yes is there going to be problems and conflicts and loss of wealth and peace ? If sometime in the future marriage is the possibility in this chart how will be her nature and behaviour towards me and my family ?

Already faced 2 break ups in the past and recently there was going on marriage talks with a girl very close to my life which was called off under unfavourable circumstances ..... It was kind of cheating by the girl's side and i don't want to discuss it in detail here.

But the point is recently i have been studying few combinations which lead to denial of marriage and a happy family life which are also present in my chart such as :-
1> Moon in cancer with exalted retrograde jupiter and ketu in 5th house - very bad for children
2>Venus in capricorn with rahu and saturn in 11th house
3> Saturn moon conjunction in D9 Chart in 11th house
4> Venus mars rahu conjunction in D9 chart in 12th house
5> Sun in 7th house in D9 chart

Over the time i have accepted that there is wrong with me or my luck that despite going good everything turns wrong and disappointment in the end ..... And this is same for my career as well ..... Despite a good education and a good college brand Zero progress, mediocre salary, no bank balance and changes in job frequently .....in short a failed career and financial condition ....... I am just fed up of this failure in love affairs and career

My only question is should i for a couple of years stop focussing my energy on these marriage and love affairs and rather focus even more intensely on my failed career ....... or else it is better to stay away from thoughts of marriage and love for good forever ? I just need a peaceful life as of this moment !!!!

If marriage is a possibility in distant future will she bring any good fortune in my life thus improving my failed career and zero bank balance through her luck and support ...... or getting married will lead to further downfall and destruction of peace in my life thanks to my doomed chart ?


Please reply someone in detail !!!!
I post my queries a lot of times but rarely get any response
I am in peace with this fact that i am born with a cursed chart maybe due to my past bad deeds or the same in this birth ...... but detailed explanation from some knowledgeable expert of this forum will help to consolidate a cemented/concrete plan of action to proceed ahead in my doomed life ...... After all giving up is not an option in life !!!!

Please find some time to answer me !!!!

[joyd]

Late marriage indicated in your chart.The probable marriage period falls in between 09-10-2022 to 30-10-2022.

joyd.

[Rache]

Naga,your chart and mine are similar in many ways, position of venus-saturn, moon,mercury, ascendant and infact nakshatras in ascendant and moon sign are same.
Normally from what've known 7th lord in 9th house means luck after marriage, and also position of moon,Jupiter is great but affliction is there .
Normally, any kind of Grahan yog is bad in terms of luck,and stress level will be high always.

[vedicmaths]

hello rache,

your inference about your venus is fully right. Hence pack all your 'venus'
and concentrate on career. Venus is in close proximity to saturn and rahu and
trined by mars. So venus has all the stress elements. Saturn antar is from march 2018
and runs upto apr-2021. If you marry during this saturn antar, separation will be there.

truly yours,
vedicmaths

t

[naga]

@Rache
@joyd
@Vedicmaths


Thanks a lot for your advice all respected members of this forum ...... I will follow advice given by you all ..... But Is my married life going to be peaceful if marriage takes place after this hurdle mahadasha of venus is crossed ?
Also will it be arranged or love marriage ?

I have been advised to concentrate on my career ...... But frankly the fact is that career aspect is equally ruined in my life and despite being a hard worker, good education from a top engineering college and all nothing i do helps in my career growth and income ....... What can be done for this failed career aspect ? I have decided to prepare for civil services(IAS/IFS/IFoS) examination 2019/2020 but it falls under saturn antardasha ...... IS this hard work also going to be ruined in my fate or there is a chance of getting some influential govt job with hard work ?

One last thing will marriage in late years after 32-34 help in bringing good luck in my career and other aspects since mercury my 7th lord although retrograde is present in 9th house scorpio sign of luck ? ..... But the catch is that in D9 chart Same mercury as 7th lord is debilitated in 1st house pisces sign ?


I know i'm asking too much but if possible please guide me genuinely respected members ..... I am literally fed up of these failures in career income live and family aspects since last 4-5 years ...... I have no idea why i deserve this kind of life despite trying my best never to do bad or harmful things for anyone else !!!!

Please reply

[Rache]

No no Vedic maths ji, I'm not going to marry that early my prime focus is on career as always,I may think about marriage only during mercury antardasha from 2021,and when jupiter-saturn double transit will activate 1st and 7th house respectively, bdw who takes risk of marriage during Saturn antardasha