Hi all,
I have had a terrible run with relationships since my Rahu MD which started in 2000. The relationships never work out, turn up suddenly, seem promising and disappear. My is moon 8th from Rahu. Jupiter MD starts in 2018, but I am afraid my poor run will continue or god forbid get worse because he sits in the maraka 7th house in Libra with Saturn (who is exalted and digbala though). But worse still Venus is the lagna lord of my Navamsa and is debilitated in the 12th house in Virgo in D9 chart.
I would be grateful for any guidance.
Birthdate: 21 November 1982
Time: 16:58
Place: Nagercoil, India
Help! Terrible with love/relationships
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There will be improvement with maha dasa of Jupiter from April onwards. You should know the chart has weakness of Venus and affliction to Sun in the dusthana cause breakup in relationships. You need to be careful with arguements and expression. Next year there will be improvement in your life.LR2017 wrote: 15 Sep 2017 Hi all,
I have had a terrible run with relationships since my Rahu MD which started in 2000. The relationships never work out, turn up suddenly, seem promising and disappear. My is moon 8th from Rahu. Jupiter MD starts in 2018, but I am afraid my poor run will continue or god forbid get worse because he sits in the maraka 7th house in Libra with Saturn (who is exalted and digbala though). But worse still Venus is the lagna lord of my Navamsa and is debilitated in the 12th house in Virgo in D9 chart.
I would be grateful for any guidance.
Birthdate: 21 November 1982
Time: 16:58
Place: Nagercoil, India
Good luck !
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If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
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vedicmaths
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hi lr2017,
If all relationships with the opposite sex turn sour, there should be something
negative which pushes others away. Moon is placed in shravana. You could be
hypersensitive. Moon is placed in makara. Saturn's influence will certainly be
there. If some of your earlier friends could comment on your attitude, it would
help you in the future. Since the dasa of jupiter starts soon, it can easily be
used to polish the traits of moon.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
If all relationships with the opposite sex turn sour, there should be something
negative which pushes others away. Moon is placed in shravana. You could be
hypersensitive. Moon is placed in makara. Saturn's influence will certainly be
there. If some of your earlier friends could comment on your attitude, it would
help you in the future. Since the dasa of jupiter starts soon, it can easily be
used to polish the traits of moon.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
Thank you vedicmaths, I truly appreciate you taking the time to respond.
I have gotten several readings and also drawn up my own chart - I believe my nakshatra is Uttara Ashadha? I am not hypersensitive myself, but have had a tendency to be quite cutting especially when I was younger and in the thick of the Rahu MD.
I'm sure you are right about internal negativity, but I do feel the turns in my life have been needlessly drawn out / painful and inexplicable despite that. Praying for reprieve at the end of Rahu MD.
I have gotten several readings and also drawn up my own chart - I believe my nakshatra is Uttara Ashadha? I am not hypersensitive myself, but have had a tendency to be quite cutting especially when I was younger and in the thick of the Rahu MD.
I'm sure you are right about internal negativity, but I do feel the turns in my life have been needlessly drawn out / painful and inexplicable despite that. Praying for reprieve at the end of Rahu MD.
LR2017 wrote: 17 Sep 2017 Thank you kindly Sujitji - very grateful for the time you took to reply.
Guru Mahadasha starts for me at the end of February 2018. Is there some specific reason why you have referenced April 2018?
You are correct. Maha dasa of Jupiter starts end of Feb 2018. Good luck.
Regards,
Sujit
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If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
If you have the right knowledge, EXACT predictions can be made. Astrology is an incredible tool for guidance, and one should take note of the energies of changing dasha lords.
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vedicmaths
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hi lr2017,
You were born at the fag end of uttara ahsada or in the very beginning of Shravana.
This happens due to various standards of ayanamsa.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
You were born at the fag end of uttara ahsada or in the very beginning of Shravana.
This happens due to various standards of ayanamsa.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
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OmShanti11
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Greetings LR2017,
are you sure about your Time of birth, is it accurate? I'm asking because my sister was born the same date i.e 21/11/82 in chennai and you might not believe that her TOB is 16:55. I still can't believe whether it is a coincidence or what.
She a Doctor in Delhi and married long back in 2007, and her marriage seems to be very fine without any problems till this date. I can't believe how can 2 people born just 3min. Apart can be so different. It's hard to digest that's why I asked about your time of birth..
are you sure about your Time of birth, is it accurate? I'm asking because my sister was born the same date i.e 21/11/82 in chennai and you might not believe that her TOB is 16:55. I still can't believe whether it is a coincidence or what.
She a Doctor in Delhi and married long back in 2007, and her marriage seems to be very fine without any problems till this date. I can't believe how can 2 people born just 3min. Apart can be so different. It's hard to digest that's why I asked about your time of birth..
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vedicmaths
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hi OmShanti11,
Thanks for posting the birth data. It helps to understand astrology better.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
Thanks for posting the birth data. It helps to understand astrology better.
truly yours,
vedicmaths
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joyd
Lr-your nodes are in 5-11 axis.6th lord of self selection of partner[mars] is in magha and also rahu in magha which is ketu , in the terminators nakshatra. Nodes are dominating your 5-11 houses.so don't waste your precious time on non-fruitful issues.Non-materialisation of relationship seen very clearly in your chart.
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@LR2017: Huh, i was born just 50 days before you and have same Venus at Virgo along with Sun, Mercury & Lagna & Rasi lord Saturn and absolutely no relationships till date. All those who approached, i have denied due to being workaholic and racing towards a dream and never cared for relationships.
Now too i get suitable matches but something prevents me from accepting the proposals also at times Stalkers too make use of my situation and keep running towards me which i had to wade off.
But yes, our stars and lagnas are different so are our dashas.
@OmShanti11: I was a medico as well, but had to discontinue and pursue business due to some reasons. Glad to know your sister made it to being Doctor and also got married. Seems she is blessed for both.
Now too i get suitable matches but something prevents me from accepting the proposals also at times Stalkers too make use of my situation and keep running towards me which i had to wade off.
But yes, our stars and lagnas are different so are our dashas.
@OmShanti11: I was a medico as well, but had to discontinue and pursue business due to some reasons. Glad to know your sister made it to being Doctor and also got married. Seems she is blessed for both.
@Joyd - not sure which chart shows the nodes at 5/11? Understand they are 3/9 in birth chart and 4/10 in Navamsa?
@OmShanti11 - perhaps your sister’s D9, D60 and other charts are very different to mine? Understand a few minutes can completely change these charts and show a different destiny
@SolInvuctus - Do you feel that you really want a relationship or marriage in your life? Or do you like your independence?
@OmShanti11 - perhaps your sister’s D9, D60 and other charts are very different to mine? Understand a few minutes can completely change these charts and show a different destiny
@SolInvuctus - Do you feel that you really want a relationship or marriage in your life? Or do you like your independence?
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@LR2017: Yes, i always wanted a suitable relationship but missed it either due to personal or family reasons, yet cant live lonely for ever. Will marry when i find a soul-cum-lifemate Combo.
Anything in excess is poison, so is independence.
Anything in excess is poison, so is independence.
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Hello @LR2017. Finally got married? U seem to be missing for past 1 month. Okies, have a happy married life!
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joyd
jupiter-saturn-saturn-ketu[21-1-2021 to 15-3-2021]will give you marriage.i have taken your birth time as 16-54 instead of 16-58.If the above period not promised your event,then you have to wait till 4-2-2024 to 24-2-2024 period.
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Tedious karma? Huh, i've got all the possible opportunities some 10 yrs back and i denied all as i wanted to settle first in life and was running away now im still single, donno what i have.LR2017 wrote: 20 Nov 2018 Hi, I am still here and still waiting for things to happen in life (not just married). Feel weary.
I must still have some tedious karma to work off
@ Joyd - what is the technique behind changing the birth time? Only asking because I would like to further my knowledge and learn
@ SolInvictus - it sounds like you don’t seem to really want a relationship unless you find something really special. Have you thought about what core traits you really want in a partner?
From what I’ve seen, even if someone is ‘young’/has a lot of marriageable qualities/plenty of prospects but it’s not the right time for them then nothing will work out. But they might be older, have no so called prospects and ‘squandered’ their youth, but the time will be right and the perfect partner and marriage appears out of no where. Hopefully there’s no reason why this can’t happen to us as well once the time is right
@ SolInvictus - it sounds like you don’t seem to really want a relationship unless you find something really special. Have you thought about what core traits you really want in a partner?
From what I’ve seen, even if someone is ‘young’/has a lot of marriageable qualities/plenty of prospects but it’s not the right time for them then nothing will work out. But they might be older, have no so called prospects and ‘squandered’ their youth, but the time will be right and the perfect partner and marriage appears out of no where. Hopefully there’s no reason why this can’t happen to us as well once the time is right
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@LR2017: Yes, someone special. The traits would be a a person who is same as myself a "workaholic" (can do with a semi-workaholic), someone with whom i can share knowledge and also gain knowledge. Also someone who loves kids.
Yes, you are 100% right, fate is such that, things simply appear out of thin air. I've experienced a lot of such rare things so much hopeful that the time is right real soon and things does appear great.
Yes, best wishes and good luck.
Yes, you are 100% right, fate is such that, things simply appear out of thin air. I've experienced a lot of such rare things so much hopeful that the time is right real soon and things does appear great.
Yes, best wishes and good luck.
In your D1 chart, 7th lord Venus and the karaka of relationship Venus is in 8th house. This means you will have to work hard to find a long lasting relationship especially since the ruler of scorpio which Venus is sitting in is with Ketu. Ketu and Mars also have an argala over Venus so that is the reason why relationships are breaking for you
Marriage is ensured because you have Jupiter in the 7th house in D1, in your D9 chart Jupiter is aspecting 7th house ruler Mars.
As for the timing, Rahu Dasha is now over for you and you will be going through the dasha of Jupiter. This will bring you your partner. 2019-2020 you can meet someone.
Marriage is ensured because you have Jupiter in the 7th house in D1, in your D9 chart Jupiter is aspecting 7th house ruler Mars.
As for the timing, Rahu Dasha is now over for you and you will be going through the dasha of Jupiter. This will bring you your partner. 2019-2020 you can meet someone.
