Strong sun...Low self esteem...members kindly help

[Priya dhillon]

According to my chart
1. sun as 8th house Lord (leo) placed in 8th i.e in own house .
2. moon as 7th house Lord placed in 8th along with sun.
3. so from chandra lagna..sun in 1st house.
4. In navamsa sun in 12th house Sagittarius .
5. also moon is exalted in navamsa in 5th house.
6. venus exalted in navamsa.
7. jupiter in 9th in main chart but in 8th in navamsa.
My question is

As sun is cnsidered strong in own house..nd it seems strong in main birth chart nd chandra chart.
but still I hv no qualities of strong sun such as confidence..great self esteem.
I often feel low nd hv inferiority complex.. I m very gud at studies but due to my low confidence..never given quick answer in class..I always feel shy..nt evn able to talk to opposite sex..ie boys..I always hesitate. specially in gathering wid relatives,in conversation with frnds fr smtyms my c onfidence level slowly decreases. .
So is dis due to sun's placement in 12th in navamsa? Or due to weak venus (as I often feel I m nt beautiful as before nowadays.. have not got any benefit of exalted moon nd venus in navamsa yet)
Or due to jupiter in 8th in navamsa.
From above all...could dis b concluded my sun is not strong..
If not strong ... My current venus mahadasha is going to end within 2 yrs nd next dasha is going to start. .I m so worried about it..as dasha of planet in 8th house is not considered good.

1. Will I evr get benefit of sun in own house in main chart,nd venus nd moon exaltation in navamsa?
Kindly guide me...humble request.
2. Will d sun mahadasha prove beneficial for me?
3. when will my confidence level increase?

[powerstarprince]

I have exalted sun in navamsa but it's weak or debilitated in natal. Venus in own houses both in natal and navamsa. I'm an Aquarius ascendant in both natal and navamsa(may be Capricorn not sure) and Saturn as my atmakaraka which is vargottama in Sagittarius. I'm just like you having low self esteem and confidence, negative thoughts and very little belief in what I can do at the time when it's needed. I finished my school long ago and I was exactly like you mentioned in there. I also have Moon in cancer and in Capricorn in navamsa. Rahu in Capricorn in natal. I think now you can now understand the reason.

[Priya dhillon]

Thnkew..powerstarprince for sharing ur views...
As I dnt know much about astrology. ..
But once an astrologer told me that.. you hv sun in lagnesh from chandra lgna in his own house...what r u worrying about. ..He particularly stressed upon sun's gud cndition. .also he said it is wid moon nd moon sun r gud frnds..so no need to worry..
So I really wnt clarification regarding my birth chart..regarding earlier questions. .
Also I wnt to knw frm u... has ur cndition improved regarding low confidence low self esteem ? Bcz I hv heard that navamsa cum into play after u get mature..that is after 30s..nd ur sun is exalted there.
.
Other members kindly share ur views also..

[anuradha]

Sun is very strong but aspected by the dire enemy Saturn your Lagna lord and 2nd Lord. Your Moon is very weak in Paksha Balam[Very near to Sun] and aspected by Saturn the 2nd lord and Lagna lord. Moon is also under the Nk exchange with Ketu.This is the reason for low self esteem

As sun is cnsidered strong in own house..nd it seems strong in main birth chart nd chandra chart.
but still I hv no qualities of strong sun such as confidence..great self esteem.
I often feel low nd hv inferiority complex.. I m very gud at studies but due to my low confidence..never given quick answer in class..I always feel shy..nt evn able to talk to opposite sex..ie boys..I always hesitate. specially in gathering wid relatives,in conversation with frnds fr smtyms my c onfidence level slowly decreases.

Exalted Saturn and Venus in Navmansha , Vargottama Mars[11L] and 9L Mercury 9H going towards exaltation point will surely lift you in present Dasha.

[Priya dhillon]

Thankyu Anuradha ji...fr d clarification. ..
But saturn is my lagan lord..nd secondly it is exalted in navamsa..so if I m nt wrong it can't b dat bad fr me...
And as u told dat it is due to saturn's aspect on sun..so I m nt getting benefit of strong sun due to saturn...is dis dat u wnt to say?..If it is so than dis means it's nthing to do with sun in 12th in navamsa..ryt?
Point here is that... as per ur description. ..If I make my saturn more strong by doing sm remedies. ..will it adversely affect my sun?..more strong d saturn more weak will b the sun?...
My 2nd point here is... dat after my venus dasha..sun dasha is going to start...so during dat period...m I going to experience intense periods of low self esteem?as during sun period all d issues related to sun come in to play major role...
So will it b gud due to a
Strong sun...or bad due to saturn's influence. ..nd wht abt sun in 12th in navamsa..is it going to deteriorate sun's power further?
So worried....due to coming mahadasha of 8th lord in d1 nd 12th lord in d9...These houses r nt cnsidered gud...
Kindly throw sum light on dis...
Also u said moon is weak...but it is exalted in navamsa. .?so does dis placement nt make it strong? Will my moon give me benefits later when navamsa becomes active ie after 30s..?
Kindly solve my these two queries. ..

[Priya dhillon]

*Sorryy....not 12th lord in d9....8th lord in 12th in d9

[anuradha]

Also u said moon is weak...but it is exalted in navamsa. .?so does dis placement nt make it strong? Will my moon give me benefits later when navamsa becomes active ie after 30s..?
Kindly solve my these two queries

And as u told dat it is due to saturn's aspect on sun..so I m nt getting benefit of strong sun due to saturn...is dis dat u wnt to say?..If it is so than dis means it's nthing to do with sun in 12th in navamsa..ryt?

Paksha Balam is most important in case of Moon.Moon is very weak on Amavasya or nearby days.

LL Saturn is aspected by Sun[8L, obstacles] is not good moreover, it has weakened your LL[Saturn] and 7L Moon

[Priya dhillon]

Thankyu for d analysis Anuradha ji...
My next 2 mahadashas are of sun and moon..Both r in 8th house...
Sun opp saturn ..nd moon as u told vry weak..
So as per ur analysis...is this can b concluded dat my nxt 6 +10 16yrs are nt going to b well...also moon is 7th lord in my case...so is dis indicating problems after marriage or delayed marriage..
Kindly suggest me remedies fr sun nd moon...is there not any aspect which can overcum it..
Can jupiter help me in case of weak moon or sun...?
Also there is parivartan yog btwn 8th nd 12th lord sun nd jupiter....can dis b helpful in sun dasha...
Plz tell me remedial measures for negatives in my chart....

[Lex]

Thankyu Anuradha ji...fr d clarification. ..
But saturn is my lagan lord..nd secondly it is exalted in navamsa..so if I m nt wrong it can't b dat bad fr me...
And as u told dat it is due to saturn's aspect on sun..so I m nt getting benefit of strong sun due to saturn...is dis dat u wnt to say?..If it is so than dis means it's nthing to do with sun in 12th in navamsa..ryt?
Point here is that... as per ur description. ..If I make my saturn more strong by doing sm remedies. ..will it adversely affect my sun?..more strong d saturn more weak will b the sun?...
My 2nd point here is... dat after my venus dasha..sun dasha is going to start...so during dat period...m I going to experience intense periods of low self esteem?as during sun period all d issues related to sun come in to play major role...
So will it b gud due to a
Strong sun...or bad due to saturn's influence. ..nd wht abt sun in 12th in navamsa..is it going to deteriorate sun's power further?
So worried....due to coming mahadasha of 8th lord in d1 nd 12th lord in d9...These houses r nt cnsidered gud...
Kindly throw sum light on dis...
Also u said moon is weak...but it is exalted in navamsa. .?so does dis placement nt make it strong? Will my moon give me benefits later when navamsa becomes active ie after 30s..?
Kindly solve my these two queries. ..

Hi

You are not born on Amavasya day, and person born with Chandra and Ravi in same sign...noble soul

Lets see through K.P.System of astrology, your time of birth OK

Intent or confidence etc are seen from 3rd from cusp and 5th cusp ( denotes at the time of birth your mind etc)

You a Makara lagna born in Uttarashada nk and in sub of Guru and Guru in Chitra nk
In your chart Kuja and Guru are in rapt conjunction... so joint results i.e. 3rd 4th 11th, 12th bhavas

Lets see your 3rd cusp falls in Meena sign in Revati nk and in sub of Shukra and Shukra in Aslesha nk
So Shukra gets connected to Budha, Budha is lord of 6th and 9th and in 8th bhava, Budha in Nirayana rasi in 9th but goes to Ravi's bhava or 8th
3rd cusp falls in Guru's sign, Guru in Kuja's star and Kuja and Guru in rapt conjunction, Kuja afflicts 3rd cusp
3rd cusp denotes many, coborns, braveness etc, but Kuja afflicts your 3rd.... so you become docile with low ebb
Budha is another factor, but Budha is not important

Now lets move to see 5th cusp.. falls in Shukra's sign and deposited in Rohini nk, lord Chandra and in sub of Guru
Guru we have seen above
Chandra in 8th in Rasi and goes to Own bhava, Chandra bhava
As I said earlier Guru in Chitra nk, Kuja afflicts 3rd cusp....
Nothing to do with Dasa etc... it is prewritten in Heaven's map of your natal chart...
For you to get confidence and Zeal... You born on Tuesday... either you chant Slokas of Lord Kartikeya on every Tuesdays or chant Mahisasura Mardini sloka of Kali mataji on Tuesdays

Don't worry.............

[anuradha]

Re: Strong sun...Low self esteem...members kindly help
Unread postby Priya dhillon » 10 Apr 2016, 19:23

Thankyu for d analysis Anuradha ji...
My next 2 mahadashas are of sun and moon..Both r in 8th house...
Sun opp saturn ..nd moon as u told vry weak..
So as per ur analysis...is this can b concluded dat my nxt 6 +10 16yrs are nt going to b well...also moon is 7th lord in my case...so is dis indicating problems after marriage or delayed marriage..
Kindly suggest me remedies fr sun nd moon...is there not any aspect which can overcum it..
Can jupiter help me in case of weak moon or sun...?
Also there is parivartan yog btwn 8th nd 12th lord sun nd jupiter....can dis b helpful in sun dasha...
Plz tell me remedial measures for negatives in my chart....

Sun-Saturn opposition , 7L in 8H, 7L is weak due to the proximity of Sun and Moon -Saturn opposition though they are Lagna lord and 7Lord are some of the factors for delay in marriage.

[Priya dhillon]

Thnkew lex ji and Anuradha ji...
Lex ji u said dat no need to wrry but
I wnt to share here that
I hv jst checked weak moon signs..nd realized dat I hv few of these dat is I m vry emotional type..
Easily get hurt on small things...emotional not vry strong. .nd I feel dis is my main week point ..people easily get their work done frm me..I m d type of person who can't say no if smone needs help...at d end I feel being used up by people ...evn by my frnds...Dats why low self esteem..

Nd Anuradha ji as u hv said...delayed marriage...It is ok fr me bcz I m focusing on my career nd knw dat it's going to take lot of tym...but plz tell me here...will there b any conflicts after marriage due to weak 7th lord moon...? I really value alot such sacred relationship nd dnt wnt any complications in it...If there is possibility kindly suggest remedies dat I cn start doing frm now...

Plz comment on dis...I really need solution fr dis..
Secondly... I do believe in dasha...bcz I hv been analysing my venus dasha along with antardashas frm sum tym...nd found dat dasha really play it's part...It really hs smthing to do wid lyf events.. so plz tell me about my sun dasha also...

Lex ji waiting fr ur views also...

[powerstarprince]

[quote="Priya dhillon"]Thnkew..powerstarprince for sharing ur views...
As I dnt know much about astrology. ..
But once an astrologer told me that.. you hv sun in lagnesh from chandra lgna in his own house...what r u worrying about. ..He particularly stressed upon sun's gud cndition. .also he said it is wid moon nd moon sun r gud frnds..so no need to worry..
So I really wnt clarification regarding my birth chart..regarding earlier questions. .
Also I wnt to knw frm u... has ur cndition improved regarding low confidence low self esteem ? Bcz I hv heard that navamsa cum into play after u get mature..that is after 30s..nd ur sun is exalted there.
.
Other members kindly share ur views also..[/quote]

Hello hmm well not completely yet. I can slowly realise my potential these days. It's more of an internal work than external action. However, I always tend to feel going back in my nutshell and cave instead of being casual and brave. Been under depression for 15 long years when my ketu dasha had started and since then I have become a changed person with unhappiness. However in your case I'm thinking why you never feel confident compared to others? Well it's clearly because of your non-sync of ascendant and moon sign lords. My mother has same placements and she is very afraid or anxious of many things. Just that her sun is in the other way round instead sitting on top of her ascendant and also has Mercury there in 1st house hence, she likes to talk more without worrying when she's comfortable with everything. Capricorn ascendant, Saturn aspecting moon, moon in 8th house and moon along with sun in his own sign will make you feel deeply hurt by this as you are aware of what your soul truly wants and it's not happening the way you want it to be.

[anuradha]

I hv jst checked weak moon signs..nd realized dat I hv few of these dat is I m vry emotional type..
Easily get hurt on small things...emotional not vry strong. .nd I feel dis is my main week point ..people easily get their work done frm me..I m d type of person who can't say no if smone needs help...at d end I feel being used up by people ...evn by my frnds...Dats why low self esteem..

Do fast on full moon day[Poornima].

Take lot of water in all the seasons.

Take pure curd without sugar and salt in your breakfast.

[Priya dhillon]

Hi Powerstarprince ..thnkyu..fr d feedback

Hi Anuradha ji...thnkyu fr d remedies. .

I hv read that a planet debiliated in d1 but exalted in d9 give very gud results. ..so debiliated means weakest...although moon is nt debiliated in my case..but it is weak.. . So Why dis concept can't b applied to my chart..

[ChandraLagna]

Priya: Please do not write in SMS-language here. Proper English is expected.

[anuradha]

I hv read that a planet debiliated in d1 but exalted in d9 give very gud results. ..so debiliated means weakest...although moon is nt debiliated in my case..but it is weak.. . So Why dis concept can't b applied to my chart

I have already replied Neem Hakim Katrayee a jaan[ A little knowledge is a dangerous thing]

[Priya dhillon]

Ok chandralagna ji I will keep in mind this

[Priya dhillon]

Anuradha ji I don't know much about astrology that's why clarifying my doubt from you. .
So you simply means no benefit from exalted moon in d9
Also doubt related to sun mahadasha is also not cleared yet. ..it is scaring me..

[Lex]

Please re read my earlier response... Kuja

Your Chandra in 7th bhava, no that bad, however it is not in improving bhava for giving or promoting good cause particularly in Chandra dasa or in Bhukti of Chandra in any dasa periods.... why Chandra gives bad aspect on Lagna sputa cusp and lagna lord

Your Chandra in Magham nk, again Chandra got linked to Kuja, as Guru aspects Ketu ( Guru and Kuja in rapt conjunction)

11th cusp or 11thbava occupied by Rahu, Rahu represents Shani and Kuja..Friends are seen from 11th... Kuja's aspect on your confidence/zeal etc...3rd cusp afflicted.... As I said earlier, nothing can be done, Heavens map of your natal chart foretells... you can psychologically built or manufacture confidence through on Tuesdays chanting slokas
.....Inherent inbuilt quality of yours

Your Marriage is not delayed.... You will marry at the earliest

Don't crib on Chandra/ Amavasya etc.... Chandra is not badly placed nor your Ravi

Don't worry on Debilitation, wrong connotations used by modern folks deviating from our Sages system.... Debilitation etc comes when you are sick, the planet under neecha should signify the affected organs of the body.

[powerstarprince]

Moon's transformation from weak or debilitated sign into an exalted placement could mean that you ought to bring happiness into your life in the future and this doesn't happen magically but it happens through your own efforts. May be the next mahadasha could help in bringing this transformation. Same case with me it doesn't happen magically but through situations that burn me inside and bring all the courage outwards.

[anuradha]

Moon is very near to sun that is why it is weak, though improved in D-9 but for Moon Paksha Balam is most important.

[Priya dhillon]

Thankyou anuradha ji for the analysis

Again Thankyou lex ji for the analysis...
Yes you are very accurate. .3rd house affliction is there..as I m the only child ..my parents wanted another but i guess..It is clear from d chart ..why this could nt happened. .. also I am not that brave..again 3rd house issue.
For marriage- saturn is 7th from moon..This may cause delay..or not?

To powerstarprince. ..I strongly agree with you..navamsa is what we become in future..through our efforts..for example..from 8th house moon to 5th house exalted moon in d9..it is 10 houses away...so efforts should be related to what 10th house signifies...correct me if I am wrong..

[Lex]

Again Thankyou lex ji for the analysis...
Yes you are very accurate. .3rd house affliction is there..as I m the only child ..my parents wanted another but i guess..It is clear from d chart ..why this could nt happened. .. also I am not that brave..again 3rd house issue.
For marriage- saturn is 7th from moon..This may cause delay..or not?

I knew it you are the only One progeny to your parents.... That's what I said, Heaven's map in your natal chart foretold me.

Please re read my earlier responses..... Did I say anywhere your marriage delayed???, why you get into negative mindset, when I talked about Positive things?, I analyze chart scientifically and logically through K.P.System, without twisting our Treta yuga lived Sages system,.

Now Again you are lingering on your moon.... I said earlier too, Modern folks twisted our Sages System

I normally do not motivate querants with slokhas etc
Below is the slokha , Gauri Jatakam... it means... Gauri means Goddess Parvati, Lord Siva's wife, Lord Siva is Father of Nine Universes, and He educated His wife on Astrology, Mother ( Gauri) predicted on Tithis( or Paksha born) born native

As I said earlier, your Chandra goes to Chandra Bhava and Ravi in Simha bhava ( always Predictions to be made from Bhava after looking into nirayana rasi position)

" Chandrathu dwithiyame suryo janamakale yadha bhavet!
Bhahumrutyoh yashasvi cha rajapujyo bhave narah :

It means, Ravi in 2nd ( dwithi) bhava from Chandra during birth time ( it is tithi), the native will be respected by King, will be successful, and will have lots of followers

Mother ( Goddess Parvati) has predicted on Tithi, it will be always correct... Your Ravi is 2nd bhava from Chandra ( You are not born on Amavasya tithi per-se, even Amavasya born native as per Gauri devi predictions.. lives like Kingsize)

[anuradha]

I knew it you are the only One progeny to your parents.... That's what I said, Heaven's map in your natal chart foretold me.

11th cusp or 11thbava occupied by Rahu, Rahu represents Shani and Kuja..Friends are seen from 11th... Kuja's aspect on your confidence/zeal etc...3rd cusp afflicted.... As I said earlier, nothing can be done, Heavens map of your natal chart foretells... you can psychologically built or manufacture confidence through on Tuesdays chanting slokas
.....Inherent inbuilt quality of yours

If you knew that then why you have not written this categorically?

[Priya dhillon]

Sincere Thanks for the "positivity" lex ji..
Any other thing that you want to "highlight" about my chart...so that I gt to know.. like any good yoga or any of guidance wrt planetary positions. ..it would be highly appreciated. ..
Regards