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Dear esteemed gurus,

Please help with your valuable comments about compatibility of these two charts. I am from the girl's side.
In Boy's horoscope 7th house is surrounded by papa Grahas on either side. Plus Venus is placed in 7th. Will this affect his married life adversely? He is doing very well in all aspects of life. Very high education from premier institutions and very highly placed in global firm in India.

Boy details
DOB 11 October 1987
TOB. 19:30 hrs
POB Trivandrum

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DOB 13 October 1989
TOB. 12:41:20' PM
POB Chennai

Thanks very much :)

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Boy's parents say the horoscopes are matching and wishing to proceed. My question is will they have happy married life together?
Any other astrologers, please give me some advice.

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aussie downunder wrote:Boy's parents say the horoscopes are matching and wishing to proceed. My question is will they have happy married life together?
Any other astrologers, please give me some advice.

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Are you interested for the girl s party ?
The boys parents are ready ; Are the girls parents and family ready for your findings ?
Do you think if there is no compatibility that they will go by your findings/opinions ?
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Dear Pem ji,

I think girl's parents are caught in between. They are worried that girl is getting old and is very fussy and this alliance is ticking all their boxes. But if there are serious impediments in the boy's horoscope for a happy married life without any redeeming factors, then they might drop it. I have identified the papa kartari yoga surrounding the 7th house but I am unable to assess if there are redeeming factors which could over ride it. Hence seeking help from experienced and knowledgable gurus. I have not told them anything yet.

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Any astrologer willing to help me on this one please ! Subramanian ji, goswami ji?
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aussie downunder wrote:Dear esteemed gurus,

Please help with your valuable comments about compatibility of these two charts. I am from the girl's side.
In Boy's horoscope 7th house is surrounded by papa Grahas on either side. Plus Venus is placed in 7th. Will this affect his married life adversely? He is doing very well in all aspects of life. Very high education from premier institutions and very highly placed in global firm in India.

Boy details
DOB 11 October 1987
TOB. 19:30 hrs
POB Trivandrum

Girl details
DOB 13 October 1989
TOB. 12:41:20' PM
POB Chennai

Thanks very much :)

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Hello AD
I remember this chart you queried sometime back.
You said that the girl got engaged and then married in 2015.
Now what has happened ?
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Hello AD
Ok then - its almost february 2016 and the girl is not married.
Now we start again :
If she is fussy, you need to first check if she is attracted to the
boy. How do you know if she likes him or not ? before going any further.
How do you know this corrected tob is now accurate ?
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Hi Pem ji,

Boy and girl have not met in person, only seen each other in photos. Girl's parents want the horoscope hurdle to be crossed first before letting them meet. Even if the girl likes the boy, if there are serious issues in his horoscope that will affect married life, girl's parents will not proceed. No point in letting them meet and like each other only to back out due to horoscope mis-match.

Regarding TOB, rectification was done very thoroughly that the astrologer was able to recount accurately all major life events using 12:41:20' as the birth time. So we are totally convinced that this is the correct birth time.

So could you tell me if these two charts match? :)

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Boy 21.11.80 13:42 Delhi
Girl 17.9.81 18:45 Delhi
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Both belong to same rasi and same nakshatra Bharani. Also boy is running rahu dasa and for girl it will start soon, so IMO, it is not advisable for them to get married.
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@ Helpneeded :
Pls post your query in a separate topic in this forum and you will get a response.
This is one person s Reading and the thread will get mixed up like spaghetti.
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Hello AD
This can fret you :
How long has the girl lived in Aus ?; understand boy lives in India.
You will appreciate that this is also part of my preliminary analysis and feasibility study
for the well being of the couple which goes beyond the rules laid down
in classical texts. With modern changing and evolving times in society this also
has to be borne in mind and this also can be interpreted through individual natal charts
from experience and especially for spousal relationships.
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Dear aussie downunder
Saturn in lagna in female chart and Saturn in the 8th in Male chart,Both are receiving Jupiter's aspect.
Venus is hemmed between melafics in both the chart.
Rahu in 2nd in female chart is compensated by rahu in the 12th in male chart.
There is a Dasa Sandhi during the year 2051 but Mercury in the 9th from Lagna and Venus in the 9th from Moon in the female chart will take care the ill effect.
As per my assessment the charts are compatible and you can go for marriage.


(PAPA SAMYA assessed on BHAVA chart )
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Subramanian ji

Thanks for your timely and well-explained reply to my query regarding compatibility of these two charts. I have passed your analysis to the girl's parents who are now willing to let the boy meet the girl.

Pem ji,

I understand you want some context about girl's upbringing etc but I feel that at this stage I have already shared too much information about the girl in a public forum. I will be deleting my query after I get your reply to avoid any breach to her privacy. All the non-astrological issues such as ability to adjust to an India raised boy etc have been raised and discussed by the family. So if you are able to throw light about the astrological compatibility that would be good.

Thanks

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Hello AD
The two inner personalities of the 2 charts are poles apart.
The girls chart deserves a better partnership rather than cope with
this boy s chart whose partnership is hemmed in negatively. The balance of
suffering does not seem to be justified despite both having some manglik qualities.
The Rashis are not compatible.
Indications are that the girl chart is inclined to a non-traditional/unconventional/
foreign connection in this particular area.
My opinion is that the proposed union is not compatible.
Pls check for other opinions.
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[quote="Pem"]Hello AD
The two inner personalities of the 2 charts are poles apart.
The girls chart deserves a better partnership rather than cope with
this boy s chart whose partnership is hemmed in negatively. The balance of
suffering does not seem to be justified despite both having some manglik qualities.
The Rashis are not compatible.
Indications are that the girl chart is inclined to a non-traditional/unconventional/
foreign connection in this particular area.
My opinion is that the proposed union is not compatible.
Pls check for other opinions.
Regards[/quote]

Blimey !!! :(

I will pass this on to the parents and let them decide what they want to do.

Thanks Pem ji I understand why you were considering from all aspects.
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Pem ji,

Re: your prediction that she might go for unconventional/non-traditional marriage - is it because Rahu is placed in 2nd? When casting the horoscope using Parashara Light, Rahu moves to third house Aquarius.

Are there any compensating factors in her horoscope which will prevent this? Jupiter in 7th, for example. Will it keep her within her dharma? :x

Can I please request you to predict timing of marriage too as the parents are very worried about her.

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Hello AD
Your thanks is appreciated.
I have done the compatibility reading and have concluded.
Any further queries on a different aspect of this matter could be raised in a new thread;
discussion type queries to the respective forum.
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Jupiter in 7th, for example. Will it keep her within her dharma?

I have come across a case where jupiter is alone in the 7th from lagna and rasi which is kumbha. The girl got married and immediately after few days went for divorce though the boy was well educated, decent, good looking, from a very good family and in a good position and with good health, nice character and financially well off. In fact he was superior to her in all ways.
So your statement is subjective.
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Dev wrote:Jupiter in 7th, for example. Will it keep her within her dharma?

I have come across a case where jupiter is alone in the 7th from lagna and rasi which is kumbha. The girl got married and immediately after few days went for divorce though the boy was well educated, decent, good looking, from a very good family and in a good position and with good health, nice character and financially well off. In fact he was superior to her in all ways.
So your statement is subjective.
It is not the Jup in the 7th caused the damage.Real reason may be that the 5th and 8th lord is in the 7th.( Ref: BHALA DEEPIKA Chapter 10,Sloka 2.)
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Thanks, I agree.

What I was saying was with that particular horoscope where jupiter lord of 2nd and 11th from rasi and lagna was in 7th alone but still the girl was deceptive and went for divorce. She was too adamant, may be there were other factors.
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