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Vel
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This is my daughter and my son-in-laws chart.

my daughter date of birth is Nov 25 1988 Madras 6:35 am
my SIL's date of birth is Dec 31 1986 Karaikudi 11:26 am
They have been married less then a year. (Nov 2nd 2014)
It has been very rough path till now.
We are worried. And has been spending lots of sleepless night.
The great people of LOVA can help with both chart.
Thanks
Vel
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Sir,
According to you till 2027 (that is whole ju dasha) is not good.
I thought ju being her 2nd and 5th house lord and in 7th house gave her marriage.
Yea, transit is a problem.
They both are in abroad already. I mean both moved to USA when they were 2-3 years old.
Should they move again?
Any other input?
Thanks again.
Vel
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Hello LOVA friends,
I am again asking for help.
Things were better for a few years.
Again they are in a rough patch.
This time it is my daughter who doesn't want to continue the marriage.
Any advice? Even this patch will pass? What is your input?
Thanks in advance.
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Anyone?
Waiting for reply?
vedam33
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In your daughter chart lagna lord and seventh lord were in 6:8 ,further at present venus antardasa started from 2019 april till 2021 dec ,so issues might have cropped up from april this year .venus is the lord of 7th and 12 th and in navamsa it is in sagg ruled by jup who is second lord .so lot of worries ,misunderstandings ,etc might have cropped up. Till 2021 dec it is very crucial ,involve elders of both families and sort out the issues .
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I feel since the day of marraige ,both were arguing against each other
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Your daughter's chart does not have Kuja dosha while the SIL's chart has the same. In the SIL's chart, Ketu occupies the 7th sign from Lagna in the rasi chart and Lagna in the Navamsa chart. The SIL is now running the dasa of Mars (remember Kuja dosha too) who is in Mrita avastha though very close to the Lagna point. Bhava madhya of the 7th house in the same chart is in the Nakshatra of Sun who is the 6th lord and occupies the 6th amsa (from natal lagna) in Navamsa. Dasa lord Mars occupies its debilitation sign and Saturn (the antardasa lord) occupies the 7th with Rahu in the navamsa chart. Rahu and Ketu also are on the same 1-7 axis.

The 7th house/Lord of the SIL is afflicted. The 8th house in your daughter's horoscope is afflicted by Saturn, Mars and Rahu. There is a possibility of dissatisfaction in sexual matters which is driving the two apart. If this is indeed the case, counseling can help them tide over the problems. Else, till Mars dasa ends for your SIL(in 2024), things will continue to be problematic and could lead to separation.

TKC
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Thanks for replying tylorechandra.
I also noticed Kuja dosha and Rahu and Ketu's 1-7 axis.
thanks for bringing other things to my attention.
My daughter has got a counseling appointment for her self. She was so upset that she want to find out is she doing something wrong.
Okay, I will ask both of them to get marriage counseling.

Any more input from tylorechandra or anyone else.
Thanks in advance again.
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thanks, vedam33.
According to my daughter, she has to find herself first.
They rushed into marriage.
Yes, Mars and Venus are 6-8 to each other.
Yes, the problem started 2 months ago.

I am confused should I support her when she cries.
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Ask her to change her attitude then it will works ,other wise think over
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