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Can you share the date of marriage?
Also advice whether the problem of adjustment started from the beginning of marriage or later?
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Neeraj,
Please check your message.
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Dear 091190
Plz remember a thumb rule in Astrology.
Whenever there is a planet debilitated in any of the divisional chart, in the dasha of that planet the bad results related to that signification if life are observed.
In ur chart, Sat is debilitated in D-9, hence not very gud results shd be expected in the dasha of Sat.
Now you get married in the dasha of Sat-Sat-Moon
The next AD was Mer (Aug 2003-May 2006) which is again debi in D-9
Next debi planet was Mars (Mar 2013-June 2014) in D-9
So these time periods wud have been tough for marital results.

The current AD is of Rahu which is exalted in D-9 but current PD is again of Sat (Jan 2015-July 2015) & next is Mer (July 2015-Dec 2015), so I feel there may not be any relief in this year.
Sat MD will continue upto Aug 2019 after which Mer MD will start for next 17 years.

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Dear 091190
Yes there are problems of mismatch in these charts.
8th from lagna in the Girls house is heavily afflicted.
In such situation the 7th of the boys chart should have afflictions.
Unfortunately 7th of the boys chart is having mild affliction only.
The relationship is under threat.
Sun anther dasa in venus Maha dasa of the female chart is capable to put an end to the relation.
Performing SURYA NAMASKAR daily may help to save the marriage..
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091190 wrote:Neeraj....Now is Saturn MD and next is Mercury MD..both debilitated. Should I assume that life is going to be same till mercury MD is not over?
Dear 091190
It will be wrong to conclude that the entire time of Sat & Mer will be bad. But at the same time, the ill effects coz of their debilitation in D-9 can't be overlooked.
Since the dasha periods of both planets are long enough, it will be wrong to say entire time will be bad. Things will certainly change in the various ADs. However the overall scenario will not be very positive.
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Dear 091190.
As per classics in such a placement of the SUN in the female chart, the lady will be abandoned by her husband.
Please see the problem is in the female chart, but the action is being performed by the husband.
So remedy is to be performed by you.
SURYA NAMASKAR is for you.
All the best.
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Greetings sir (subramnianp),
I emailed you 2 days ago . Would you mind having a look at marital aspects of this chart?
DOB- 13th July 1991
TOB- 8:11 am
POB- al jubail, eastern province , Saudi Arabia

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Dear surya15

Please provide your spouse's birth data also.
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Dear sir,
I am not married but I do find constant troubles in relationships ( mostly in kethu dasha )
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I don't think the issue is due to KETHU.
May be due to Mars being with Venus.
Try to have more self control & be good with others.
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Dear sir,
I can assure you the problem wasn't me . I always find myself with people who seems very attracted to me at first and then later leave me saying "you are too nice ". Since kethu dasha started , I always end up with people who challenge my outlooks ( eg religious beliefs ) . I just couldn't get along with anyone . I also ended up as a victim of misunderstandings which resolved itself after sometime and I was able to prove my innocence. I can confidently say the only sector that was severely affected during kethu dasha was my relationships andf friendships .Now my family is looking for good alliance for me and I just don't want to go through all this again . Could you please have a look at it again.
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Hi Subramanianp Sir,

I wanted to know what happens if mars is conjunct venus in the birth chart as you mentioned in your post?
Does it mean relationship troubles? or that the person with this combination can never have a normal relationship in his/her life? It leads to divorce and breakups?

Also, I wanted to know what happens if this conjunction is aspected by jupiter? Say jupiters 5th or 9th aspect? Does jupiters aspect help in anyway?

I request you to kindly help me understand this. I'm equally confused and worried.

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Dear Peace2mind,

Q 1 :- Venus is the karaka graha for married life.
Any PAPA graha joining with Venus is not generally good.
It is the basic rule.
Q 2 :- Jupiter aspecting Venus is GOOD.

All the best.
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