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gopinathpc
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I am facing problems at this stage in my life with an abusive wife. Though I have worked hard all my life for
the welfare of the family, I have been abused very badly by my wife and my son (instigated by my wife).
She has even resorted to using very abusive language against me.
Will this position improve after the Sani transit? If not by when?

My birth details
4th June 1961
12:05 PM
Chittoor, AP

My wife's birth details

4th June 1967
6 AM
Chittoor, AP

Thanks a lot!
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shilpa
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dear gopinathpc,
--your wife has run 2 successive bad transits

--from end of Dec 2012 to July 2014 Rah was transiting over her natal Ketu.....nodes over opposing node generates extreme negative enrgies and can cause severe emotional / mental stressful behaviors.

and this transit was on the 1-7 axis...hence marriage was affected because of her behavior.
and adding more maelfic content to this transit was shani in the 7th house in transit.
--Rahu exited this axis and shani will go out in Nov and so there will be relief

--but now Rahu has moved into her 6th house and transiting over natral Mars and forming an angarak yoga in transit...and operative MD is also Ma...so there is a lot of aggression and enemity in her behavior still...
until Jan 2016

--it would help you to get a Rahu shanti pujan done in your home and softly play Hanuman chalisa audio every evening before bed time in the house

you pray to Lord hanuman and ask for peace......
this will become calm.....and keep your expectation of "ideal behavior" low from her

regards
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gopinathpc
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Thanks for the detailed response.
Incidentally, she is a Hanuman (and a Shridi Sai) devotee!

Can I get the Rahu Shanti pooja done alone? I suspect she may say "no" to the pooja.
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