Parents in great Agony- Love marriage for my cousin

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Nimme
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Dear Members,

This post is about my cousin. He basically was bit dis-obedient, to give an example, he finished his diploma in 2006, he joined BE immediately but refused to attend within a month. Again in 2007 he wanted to join engineering which his parents again accommodated though not with good credentials with lot of bad reputation he completed the course. Then he joined ME in 2010, after 2 years he was just cheating his parents that his project work is not complete and sitting in home. few months back (in 2014) his parents traced out that he had a fight with the HOD and hence he has not gone anywhere near the college.

Though this made his parents loose lot of money still they have forgiven him and asked him to find a job with BE. Because of the discontinuity and gap after BE nobody was ready to offer a job. After a lot of effort he landed a meager paying job just 2 weeks back.

Now he came to his parents and said he is in love with a girl for 10 years and wants to get married within a month!. He is blackmailing them that if parents donot agree he will leave his parents and go away from home to marry the girl. While my uncle is not against love marriage he is worried because of the bad reputation that the girl's family has in our place.

He is devastated that in his last years of life nobody would be there to take care of him.

My questions are

a) Is love marriage indicated in his horoscope?
b) If yes, will it lost?
c) Will he take care of his parents?
d) Given that he is under Rahu AD is it right time for marriage?

DoB: 31-Jan-1988
PoB: Gopichettipalayam
ToB: 8.42 pm

Looking forward for your valuable inputs
Note: I am a student of astrology, please take my advice with a pinch of salt and consult experts as appropriate
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Hello nimme,

He would marry any time after aug of this year. The married life will come under severe stress in july - sep of next year.
Rahu AD in Sat Md is no doubt bad, but if his fate is that, he would certainly undergo it.
When he cannot earn on his own and the girl's family has bad reputation, his father must take all cautious steps. Being the only child,if the parents give in, they should also accept whatever happens.

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Nimme wrote:Dear Members,

This post is about my cousin. He basically was bit dis-obedient, to give an example, he finished his diploma in 2006, he joined BE immediately but refused to attend within a month. Again in 2007 he wanted to join engineering which his parents again accommodated though not with good credentials with lot of bad reputation he completed the course. Then he joined ME in 2010, after 2 years he was just cheating his parents that his project work is not complete and sitting in home. few months back (in 2014) his parents traced out that he had a fight with the HOD and hence he has not gone anywhere near the college.

Though this made his parents loose lot of money still they have forgiven him and asked him to find a job with BE. Because of the discontinuity and gap after BE nobody was ready to offer a job. After a lot of effort he landed a meager paying job just 2 weeks back.

Now he came to his parents and said he is in love with a girl for 10 years and wants to get married within a month!. He is blackmailing them that if parents donot agree he will leave his parents and go away from home to marry the girl. While my uncle is not against love marriage he is worried because of the bad reputation that the girl's family has in our place.

He is devastated that in his last years of life nobody would be there to take care of him.

My questions are

a) Is love marriage indicated in his horoscope?
b) If yes, will it lost?
c) Will he take care of his parents?
d) Given that he is under Rahu AD is it right time for marriage?

DoB: 31-Jan-1988
PoB: Gopichettipalayam
ToB: 8.42 pm

Looking forward for your valuable inputs
Hi Nimme,
According to Horoscope ,

1. 7th lord Saturn is in 5th house and 7th house is seen by Saturn and Mars .
2. Mars is in own house in 4th house so Mars' negative effect is lessened but not cancelled . He is still Manglik .
3. 5th lord Jupiter is in 8th house in own house with Rahu which shows problem in academics and love affairs . Rahu make clouds on Jupiter's wisdom ( to some extent ) , As Rahu is with 5th lord , It increases power of it and therefore events related to 5th house ( love / affairs ) are taking place . Ra Ad period has started from 18 03 2014 so problems may have arised due to effect of it .This time period will bring mental tensions until it gets completed ( in 2017 ) . Rahu is in P.Bhadra which is Jupiter's star .
4.Jupiter is transiting on 12th house so money will be spent more than earned .
5. Rahu is transiting over natal ketu , so this time period is also little dramatic .

a) Is love marriage indicated in his horoscope?
7th lord in 5th house indicates it , but Saturn is believer in society rules and not so much into love marriage . being manglik worsens it .so love marriage may happen after lot of effort or hurdles .
Jupiter Pd will start from 21 08 2014 . followed by Saturn , Mercury till 15 11 2015 . It may also create chance for marriage.

b) If yes, will it lost?
7th house has Mercury and Venus , which generally shows good marriage life . but still Mars and Saturn will create hurdles in marriage life .

c) Will he take care of his parents?
Mercury Md may give him some wisdom . and in future he may take care to some extent .

d) Given that he is under Rahu AD is it right time for marriage?
Rahu is with 5th lord so events related to it is happening . As he is manglik match making should be done .

I am not an Astrologer ( just a learner !! ) so please confirm with Experts here !!
Thanks , God bless you :)
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Dear Light lamp sir

Many thanks for this valuable inputs.

I do not think my maternal uncle can stop my cousin, as you said my uncleshould be ready to face the hardship. My only worry was my uncle's healh condition, God willing everything should end well.

Many thanks sir.
lightlamp wrote:Hello nimme,

He would marry any time after aug of this year. The married life will come under severe stress in july - sep of next year.
Rahu AD in Sat Md is no doubt bad, but if his fate is that, he would certainly undergo it.
When he cannot earn on his own and the girl's family has bad reputation, his father must take all cautious steps. Being the only child,if the parents give in, they should also accept whatever happens.

lightalamp
Note: I am a student of astrology, please take my advice with a pinch of salt and consult experts as appropriate
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Dear Dr. Nature, many thanks for your feedback
Note: I am a student of astrology, please take my advice with a pinch of salt and consult experts as appropriate
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Nimme wrote:Dear Dr. Nature, many thanks for your feedback
:) , God bless you
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