I have started doing all the remedies as suggested ( all thanks to you all for that) and also
prspun ji- i am trying to read as many books as i can find on astrology to get my basics strong.Then hopefully i''l be back with lots of questions and doubts(silly ones too---no;not trying to scare you

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Ramanji--- i started doing datt stotra this wednesday the 15th----that wud mean it will get over next 15th(15th oct)----i think there wud be 7 days of puja for me---am i right?will get back to you after that regarding the effects.just a co-incidence;something i didn't notice before.but when i started to note down the days of my puja y'day;i found out that quite a lot of(almost all) important things are falling on wednesdays for us this month.Even my son's operation will be on a wednesday,his b'day will be on a wednesday as well.Hope everything turns out ok.
Thanks and regards---imann