Extra marital relationship problem

[Randommind]

Hi,

This friend I am asking about is married for 4 years and she is re-kindling relation with an old friend in last 1 year in very strange ways. She is very confused that why this person is coming back in her life as if planted. She dont know what to do and how to handle the situation.This is destroying her peace of mind and career growth. How do you see her marriage and relationships in the chart? When she would be over with this turmoil and tension and sadness. Any help would be huge help for the girl. Thanks.

Female
23rd April 1984
Morning 6:08 AM
Ujjain

-R

[Randommind]

Her wedding date is 2nd December 2009. Domestic life is ok as far as known with more than usual fights, no kids yet.

I dont have spouse details but if you need it, I can try to find out. Your help is much appreciated and is immense. Thanks again.

[aayush-astrologer]

Dear Randommind,
If it is possible, try to get the birth details of that guy with whom she is in extra marital affair now......... If say A & B are two people in relation and A's UL lord is B's AK and B's UL lord is A's AK then such relationships are part of past birth pending karma and such relationships can come at any point of time... even as an extra-marital affair. So that is important to be checked.

[Randommind]

This old friend's details are -

Male
7th August 1983
Harda
Morning 8:30 AM

As I know, she hasnt met this person but connected back remotely and since then, it has been an intense turmoil of emotions. She is very stressed and wants to know what will happen finally with their lives. Thanks again.

[revribhav]

She has 8th lord in 8th
It is significant as ascendent lord too
A risky nature and the consequences of experiencing a temporary phase of being subjected to ill repute or defamation is predicted.

[lightlamp]

Hello Randommind,

To establish a sound relationship, strong links between planets and its reflections are needed. This is known as 'synastry' in astrological parlance. The stronger the synastry, the longer it establishes even with discontinuity .

Her lagna trines his mercury and ven

Her 5th lord - Sun and his 7th lord sat aspect each other in her chart.

Her mars - lagna lord and DK trines exactly his Mars - DK (for him too)

Her mercury- UL lord is 7th to his Saturn-his 7th Lord.

Her jupiter trines his mercury and venus.

Her venus-ak trines his lagna lord Sun.

Her UL-178 deg trines his Rahu - AK.

As told by Shri.Aayshu, her AK venus is his UL lord and his AK-rahu is her UL lord.

Please note arudha padas mentioned above are longitude based and the nodes are mean.

Lightlamp

[aayush-astrologer]

Dear Randommind,
Very interesting chart for analysis though not good for the native.
Let me explain my view points about why she entered in an extra marital relationship. Here are the following view points:
1. Rahu is in Venusian sign and she is running Rahu Mahadasa. Dispositor of Rahu is Venus and is Atmakaraka. This indicates that she will be defamed due to sexuality in Rahu mahadasa and more precisely in Rahu MD - Venus AD. She is into Rahu - Venus Dasa since January 2013 and i am quite sure she must have entered in this extramarital affair after January 2013 only.
2. Venus is 7th lord and is Atmakaraka too. This AK Venus is placed in 8th house is Navamsa. This indicates past birth pending karma is there related to marriage and sexuality. Native keeps on facing problems related to relationships and sexuality.
3. 8th lord is in 8th house, is retrograde, conjoined with Ketu and aspected by Rahu. This is not a good placement and indicates that past birth karma debt (Nija dosha) is very strong and will materialize for sure. Also as Mars is 8th house and is connected to Ketu, it can give suicidal tendencies (Please confirm if she has such tendencies).

Now what we can say about the future of present marriage, let's see that from the chart. Here is my view point:
Saturn and Mars both are in 2/12 from each other. UL is aspected by Rahu and Mars whereas 2nd from UL is aspected by Saturn. All these planets (malefics) are retrograde - Very strong pending karma. 7th house and 12th house has 24 and 20 bindus respectively. All these conditions indicate marital disharmony which can lead to even divorce.

PS- Venus is Atmakaraka and purity in relationships is MUST for her. Having extra-marital affair will bring severe bad luck for her. Don't forget that she is in Antardasa of Venus and she will learn few very bitter lessons of life related to marriage and sexuality. The guy's UL lord is her Atmakaraka indicating she is connected to him from past birth and it will be almost impossible to get out of this relationship.

Boy's chart analysis in next post.

[Randommind]

Aayush Sir,

I am speechless. EVERY sentence of your's is true. Time order is absolutely correct and all the problems you said are right with her. She does has suicidal tendency ( although she maintains very strong demeanour)- that is the reason i decided to take your help. May be its God's way of helping her in time and save her from severe damage.

I understand the supernatural connection of past birth - thats exactly how it is happening - as if planned. Is there any chance she can get out of relation or lead a peaceful personal life. Any time this venus-rahu dasha will be over. She is a very determined girl and will try her best as you suggest.

Your analysis of boy's chart will be incredible help. Thanks again.

[aayush-astrologer]

Dear Randommind,
Namaste,
Thanks a lot for your beautiful words. Such appreciation gives more energy to work in the field of astrology. Here are the replies of your questions and remedies for your friend:
1. The Rahu-Venus dasa will end on 29th January 2016. It is a long time duration and remedial actions are must for the native to have some relief. I will suggest remedial actions in this post itself.
2. Very precisely, I will tell you that Retrograde planets don't let the native go out of the Karma bondage as Retrogression means high desire to give results as per the pending past birth karma. But still if remedies are performed by full faith and discipline, divine intervention can happen and one can be freed from the destined punishment. Since Jupiter is connected with A5 in 9th house (House of Dharma), i have the hope that she will ne freed from the bondage and her prayers will reach to Almighty God. Also exalted Venus as AK is another positive indicator.
3. Here are the remedies suggested by me:
(i) Chant "Hare Krsna Hare Krsna Krsna Krsna Hare Hare" per day as many rounds as possible by Tulsi Rosary. Gradually increase it to 16 rounds at least.
(ii) Purchase Srimad Bhagavad Gita - As it is by Srila Prabhupada from http://www.krishna.com or from the nearest ISKCON Temple. She can find the ISKCON centre at http://www.iskconcenters.com . Read the Chapters 5th and 12th of Karma Yoga and Bhakti Yoga especially.
(iii) Get Kamala Mahavidya Sadhana performed by any Devi Sadhak. She can contact me as well for the sadhana.
(iv) Chant one mala of "Om Aim Hrim Klim Chamundaye Vichche".
(v) Besides this, I will suggest her some do's and don'ts:
(a) If Saturn is in 7th house, avoid extra-marital affairs otherwise sufferings to children will happen.
(b) Do not be rude or curse anybody.
(c) Do not consume liquor or eat egg and fish.
(d) Do not use green color.
(e) Avoid staying with sister-in-law.
(f) Avoid sex in day time.
(g) Don't make false promises.
(h) Don't talk against religion.
(i) Don't give items of Venus in charity.
(j) Don't take electric items from in-laws.
(k) Don't tie a dog on the terrace of house.
(l) Don't insult sweepers.

Boy's birth chart analysis in next post today only.

[lightlamp]

Hello Shri.Aayush,

You may also note moola - antar dasa of venus is running from may 2013 - may 2014. So it is highly possible, she can come out of this problem from june - 2014

Lightlamp

[aayush-astrologer]

Dear Lightlamp,
I have been taught that Moola Dasa is used when the planet is under curse. Moon is not under curse as it is not aspected by two or malefics through graha drsti. Thus Moola dasa is not significant to be used here. Let's see if she comes out of it by June 2014 or not? Since UL lord has became AK, this attraction is very strong. It is very difficult to come out of it on her own. I have seen a known person of mine who came in contact with a girl 10 years younger than him and left his wife for whom he was married for 20 years and also his children and one of his son was 18 year old. His AK was her UL lord whereas his UL lord was girl's AK. Such connections are very strong!!

[aayush-astrologer]

Dear Lightlamp,
Can i know from where you learnt astrology? The principles you use are very much similar to what i have learnt through SJC. Even the way of writing of yours is very much familiar to me.........

[Randommind]

Thank you both Sir. I dont know what will happen but she is gonna full try with determination and stay away she says. She also says she can be fine when it is assured that he is fine and living well. Such strong are the connections and attractions!!

Aayush sir - In your remedy for dos and donts - what all are the things of venus not to be donated. Rest, she will implement exactly as suggested. Also, if you can take out little time to tell about the boy analysis, i can then speak in detail to both of them. God bless!

-R

[lightlamp]

Hello Shri.Aayush,

Yes, most of my astro studies are from SJC. Shri.Sanjay rath, certainly should be given due credit for that. Also Shri. Narasimha who gave jhora should equally be given credit for some sort of revival of astrology.

If you are born in Rourkela, I know you.

Lightalamp

[lightlamp]

Hello Shri.Aayush,

Venus is cursing in shastyamsa. If the curse can be seen in rasi and navamsa , then shastyamsa can also be used.
Knowledge has been passed on by Gurus, only to be developed by the learners.

Lightalamp

Lightalamp

[aayush-astrologer]

Dear Brother,
Namaste
It is really great to have an interaction with you. My studies have been through different sources like Sanjay Rath Guru ji, Visti Larsen Guru ji, Rafal ji, K N Rao Guru ji, Mridula Trivedi & T P Trivedi, Few such astrologers unknown to online world and through Saptarishis Astrology.

I completely agree that knowledge is passed by Gurus, only to be developed by the eminent learners. I will definitely look at curses in D-60 chart and try to time the events through Moola Dasa. If it works definitely it will be a great finding as many bad phases of life can be clarified through that.

[revribhav]

A native with 8th lord own house has usually strong will power and there shall be no death due to suicide.
Though intense emotions or death like pain may be felt.
We may be careful of not causing embarassment to anyone in respect of so called extra...

[lightlamp]

Hello revribhav,

Here are details for a suicide case. Jupiter is in his own house in Sagittarius. If you would like to post any view on this,
I request you to open a different thread since my aim is to just give an information and not to pollute this thread.

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996 John Farley 20 10 1948 18:52 Sioux City, IA USA CST + 6 0 Standard + 42 30 + 96 24 Quoted BC/BR Joan McEvers quotes Farley's dad for B.C. AA -- American psychologist, reported missing by his estranged wife on 9/24/1989. He was found hanging from a tree some 150 ft. from his rural home on 10/24/1989 about 3:05 PM, his death determined to be a suicide, probably on the day that he was first missing. The day that he was found was his daughter's 10th birthday, the body was found by Bruce Roath, his former wife's lover. Book Collection:Crime Collection,Healing Fields:Psychologist: ,Death:Suicide:Hanged himself
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This is from astrodata bank, a widely known data collectors for a long time.


Ligthalamp.

[revribhav]

Death due to hanging
It occured in 42nd year
the native was born under (rahu influenced) Vyatipat yoga
It was Rahu and the native may have felt pitted against evil spirits.

[lightlamp]

Hello revribhav,

The dasa was that of jupiter. Jupiter is placed in its house in 8th. The antar was that of merc ( lahiri ayanamsa)
8th Lord in its own house did not loose its grip on the native during its own dasa, that too only 5 years and 4 months of its 16 year span. Jupiter was pretty quick. There was an article on " ENIGMATIC JUPITER " in the astrological magazine long back.

Lightalamp

[revribhav]

I have 8th lord own house,my younger son has also same yoga,my elder son has jupiter in 8th house,all of us survived miraculously head on accident of a two wheeler with a speeding jeep on 18th May 2001.
All of us suffered injuries in legs though the impact was such that I remember being in the air for,say,about 12 feet and then falling down.
My father who was an astrologer used to say that a planet in the 8th house is an asset and I continue to enjoy lessons taught by 8th house Saturn. 16th Septmber 1965,3:15a.m. Ajmer (India)

[lightlamp]

Hello revribhav,

Thanks for sending the info. As I opined earlier I do not want to pollute this thread with totally different subject from that of the ' starter ' of this thread. You may open up a new thread and I would like to place my views. Since the birth data is that of yours, I feel the right of opening goes to you.

Lightlamp.

[revribhav]

No need of that,
I maintain the astrological experience that 8th lord own house does not play a role in suicide.

[arnagar]

I agree that 8th house Saturn causes accidents but saves life. My own story,
Struck by truck on my pelvic. Lot of internal organs damaged. I was in ICU for 3 days with doctors ruling out chances of survival. Finally after 3 months complete bed rest back on foot, nobody can even imagine I gone through those. Now doing very well in foreign. But, planets play their role based past life karma. I am suffering on martial problems. I agree that it is impossible to get out of vicious circle unless we make conscious decision to face it and pay the price. Let's hope this karmic debt is dissolved here in this life.

[aayush-astrologer]

Dear Arnagar,
Saturn in 8th house increases the longevity compartment and thats why you got saved. Though it is not an universal rule. The whole birth chart needs to be looked.

Dear Revribhav ji,
I didn't say that 8th lord gives suicide but it is that 8th lord gives suicidal tendencies. This point is well approved by K N Rao Guruji.