6th house debilitated Venus and family issues

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I have a badly debilitated Venus in 6th house along with an exalted, retrograde, combust mercury. I wanted to know whether my mercury loses all its exalted status because of its assocition with Venus. Also since I am an Aries ascendant, Merucy is considered to be functionally malefic. Can someone please suggest a remedy for a happy, healthy and a peaceful family life and whether I should wear a white sapphire/ diamond/emerald for it?

D.o.b: 14th September, 1963
Place Mumbai
Time: 9.23 p.m.

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Dear SS
You got wonderful chart. What made you concerned about ur Ven & Mer?
From Lagna, LL & 10L are mutually aspecting, which makes a great rajyoga. 10L in 10H is Shash Mahapurush yoga which may take you in politics and can elevate you upto the level of MLA.
From Moon, 10L Mars and 7L Sat are again in mutual aspect. 7L in 7H is repeating Shash Mahapurush yoga, this time refering to ur name & fame (Shahrukh Khan has this combination).

From Lagna, 3H contain exalted Rahu & 6L is in 6H, excellent.
From Moon, 3L is in 3H and 6H contain Ketu, excellent.
Conjunction of Ven & Mer is neechbhang of Ven.

Your current dasha is Moon-Sat.
When Sat AD started, transit wise Sat was exalted, thus assuring gud results.
Its just you've Sat's 4th place dhaiyya so it may give you tensions relating to ur career (Sat aspect 10Th from Moon), property & vehicles (Sat aspect natal Moon in 4H).

Having said all this, let me share where the current problem lies.
Transit wise Sat is in Libra where it got SAV score on 0/22 in ur chart.
My observation is that if a native got Sat's SAV score of 0 in any rashi, when Sat transit that rashi; native thinks of commiting suicide and few actually attempt that. The things got worse when Sadhe satti is also running.
Though I can assure you that nothing bad will happen to you but it'll be very difficult for you to keep calm and observe patience.

From Nov 6-14, Sat will aspect natal Moon on exact deg, thus increasing ur worries. I will ask you to recite Hamuman Chalisa everyday and have faith in God.

God bless you
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Dear Neeraj-ji,

Thank you very much sir. At least you have made my day by highlighting the plus points in my horoscope. However, I have no affinity to politics, I am in the field of writing and editing. One of the issues I am constantly worried about is about being cut off from friends, brothers and sisters and social ties, due to misunderstandings, family conflicts due to property problems and my health and digestion issues above everything else. I think it is due to the Saturn aspect and I have started worshipping Saturn. I am also reciting the saturn mantra, "om shanaishcharaya namah'. Also, I wanted to ask you whether wearing a gomed and an emerald would help as someone suggested it would help me tide over all the crisis. Also can you please suggest who is my ishta devata and whom I should worship all the time? I am currently worshipping Lord Shiva and durga.

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Also Neeraj-ji,

Can you please suggest me remedies for Venus? I can't fast on Friday as I am having hyperacidity problem and doctors have strictly advised me against fasting. Is there any really good remedy for neech Venus? I know I must have committed some sins in the past which is why I have this Venus but I am not expecting any magical changes either. Just want the status quo in this life to remain as far as my family is concerned.

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DrNeeraj Ji has nicely explained the details, however the following points may also be considered:
1. In the chart, the Moon is surrounded by Rahu in 12th and the Sun in second.
2. The Moon has only malefic/aggresive planets in the Kendra from itself.

Given the placements, the lack of peace and constant worry is obvious. The saving grace is from Jupiter in 12th, with possible indication of divine help.

You may continue the prayers with devotion (Isht Devata as Lord Shiva), it should be answered soon.
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Hello Archit,

Here are the answers to your questions:

1. I have started reciting the Shanidev mantra only recently. I am told that the results will take a few months.

2. Yes property issues and differences with siblings over property issues have intensified in the past two years from January 2011.

3. The differences have nothing to do with aggressive behaviour, they are purely because blood relations do not have value anymore, everything is commercial. I am not surprised that you asked this question because you must have noticed that Mars is posted in my 7th house and aspected by Saturn. The reality is that I have often found myself to be a victim of deceit, treachery (property related matters) and being used by people with ulterior motives. I think this has everything to do with my debilitated Venus. I am married (had a late marriage) and every person has deficiencies and strengths, so I have accepted my spouse without complaining. As for neighbours, there are some troublesome people, who are hellbent on creating problems for others for no rhyme or reasons.

4. have become more spiritually lately and have been worshipping Lord Shiva (chanting Om Namah shiva and going to Shiva temple) and Goddess Durga (Om Shri Durgayai namah) for two years.

5. I am already wearing a yellow sapphire (around 3.5 carats), pearl (3 carats) and ruby (1.5 carats), which I have been asked to remove and substitute with hessonite (gomed) and emerald.

6. I have already been doing daan. Every year I go to Tirupati and Shirdi and donate a small amount for anna-daan, Also I give away eatables every saturday to the needy people.


Do revert back and tell me what is your astrological opinion.
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Hello Swarnim-ji,

Does the fact that the Moon has only malefics in the kendra from itself make it a less benefic planet in the horoscope? Is it advisable to continue wearing a pearl or will it intensify the problems and reduce them? In fact, if I remember rightly, I lost my mother soon after I started wearing a pearl, about two years ago. Also how problematic is Mars in my chart? Also, is it right to worship Rahu and Ketu and chant their mantras, as advised by someone?

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Hello Archit,

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Thanks for your reply. Can you please tell me where I can get a copy of ravan krit shiva tandava stotra and is it long and difficult to recite if its in sanskrit? Also should i read hanuman chalisa and aditya hridayam stotram, that had been suggested to me earlier? Just for information wanted to mention this incident to you. I took suddenly ill on October 22 and almost fainted at a place, due to low blood pressure. Later I checked and noticed that my saturn antardasha got over on that day, though there is a saturn daiya that is currently in progress as per the chart.

D.O.B- 14th September, 1963, time: 9.23 p.m. (21.23 hrs), Mumbai
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Hello Archit,

I am planning to start reciting the Shiv Tandav stotra from Monday since it also happens to be the auspicious day of Lord Shiva who has been kind to me on past occasions, though he has not really protected me from enemies and people with evil intentions. I have got a sanskrit copy of the stotra though I was trying to get a copy in English.
As for Aditya Stotram, it has been recommended as a defense against all negative forces and people with hatred and questionable intentions: "Aditya Hridayam stotram sarva shatru vinashanam"- that is what I was told, Lord Hanuman is a sankat mochan for all times- Sankat kate mite sab pida, jo sumire hanmat bal beera".
I have sought solace by reciting Hanuman Chalisa on umpteen occaasions in difficult circumstances but I don't feel the same about Ram Raksha and the worship of Lord Ram, simply because my mother was a strong spiritual person and a devout follower of Lord Ram and would recite "Shri Ram Jayaram Jai Jai Ram" 24 hours of the day but she had a very painful death despite all her devotion, because of her critical illness.
Also as you had last observed and felt that Moon is the bigger problem between Moon and Venus in the chart, the Venus dasha more than 10 years, which took a major part of my younger years, proved to be very bad period for me, both in terms of finance and relationships.

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Date of birth: 14th September, 1963, time: 9.23 p.m.
Place: Mumbai


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Hello Archit,

Is it possible to get your contact details just in case I need to get in touch with you? I know that you had advised me last to follow only one school of thought but I just wanted an opinion from you whether it is also advisable to acquire a substitute of blue sapphire (amethyst) in addition to what you had suggested?

Thanks and regards,

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