Married life and future

[raeoflight]

Hello,
My knowledge about astrology is very limited to reading articles and then analyzing the horoscope. I need help in understanding how the married life and future will be for the following.

[Pem]

Hello Rflight
The charts are of third parties.
is there any particular complaint or symptoms you can give so that a
member can examine and respond.
Also, kindly give your relationship to them.
Regards

[raeoflight]

Thanks or your response Pemji.

This is for my cousin sister and BIL.
Love Marriage - they met aftr 18 yrs in xxx- quick marriage , wthn 3 months of meeting.
small probs aftr tht , bil travels had 2 brkn relationshps bet xxxxx, keeps contact with ex, quit job in xxx, shrt tmprd, not open and othr such issues.
sis is affctd becoz she was not ready for mrrg and very cautious but got conviced by bil who convinced evryone. Sis and bil love each othr but its up and down, esp with his strong behavior, seems like a diff. man, too much fluff and wrds but no essence. he says has probs with all siblings- sisters; Sis is vry concerned of future but she is very patient and optimistic and hopeful- her career and othr aspects in life r goin v good like before only prob is the rltnshp which causes her stress. She wants to kno how her future would be with him, growth aspects, what to expect, how to handle, any remedies - so she can be prepared. someone saw bth horoscope and said smthng about BIL venus afflicted etc and thngs will be better from sept'13 for his career . I see that sis started her venus mahadasha- will this be better for them both. Anything which will shed light and help will be greatly appreciated.

Sincerely

[Pem]

Hello Rol
You have not said much about the girl s life; like does she have children; how long
she was divorced for and the length of her first marriage, etc.
For how long had she known this husband in total before meeting him after 18 years ?
Is she living with present husband and his 2 children in the same house ?
Regards

[raeoflight]

Hello Pemji
sis prev mrrge for 4-5 yrs, has one kid; she was div for 10 yrs; sis knew current husband for 2-3 yrs before 18 yrs.Bil lives with sis and her kid.Pls any inputs.

Sincerely

[Pem]

Hello Rol
In both charts the houses of marriage are afflicted.
She is a strong manglik.
She started her Venus Mahadasa in August 2013 and the best planet
which could help her in marriage and luck is poorly placed with affliction.
She possibly has the tendency of rejection & detachment to love, marriage.
Its good that they love each other. With spiritual help and making her
understand of her weakness towards love and marriage she might fight it and try to be
persistent.
They need spiritual help through daily prayers, mantras etc to the afflicting
planets.
They both should show that they are interested in seeking spiritual help and believe in it.
Regards

[raeoflight]

Thanks Pemji
Sis is very spiritually inclined -What remedies/mantras do you suggest for her and him.

[Pem]

Hello Rol
The planets requiring attention are :
Venus; Mercury,Mars , Moon Ketu, Rahu - Most important and 9 mantra repetitions daily;
Sun, Jupiter and Saturn also; but 3 repetitions daily.
They have a full Graha Maitram Kuta Match and this is very good.
It shows that they can love each other and support each other psychologically through good and bad times.
Connecting with a person after 18 or more years is a healthy attachment.
Their ratio of suffering are almost similar and seem to be a matching pair.
Now they can pay off their debts of karma together.
For guidance on remedies, kindly go to my Post on this forum titled: Mantras for Planets
and they can pray once a day using a small dhiya. They will feel the beneficial effects in
a few weeks when done seriously and faithfully.
Ask them to not only build up this relationship or covenant with the supreme powers for life,
but to remember their duty toward fellow human beings and to practise to keep their
thoughts, words and actions as clean as possible. Then the effect is maximum.

I wish them both blessings in their lives together !

Regards

[raeoflight]

Thanks so much Pemji will do.

[Pem]

Hello ROL :
Your gratitude and the hopeful happiness of the 2 hearts is rewarding.

Regards

[kaponeh]

[quote="Pem"]Hello ROL :
Your gratitude and the hopeful happiness of the 2 hearts is rewarding.

Regards[/quote]

Dear Pemji,

Can you please study my chart as well and provide some advice as to when I shak finally be happy and prosperous and if I shall have a good marriage.

31 yr old female born in Amritsar on April 9th 82 at 4:20 pm

[raeoflight]

Pem ji:
I found the navagraha shlokas ; sis is wearing small diamond ring for venus should my BIL also wear one. Please any suggestion.

Sincerely

[Pem]

Hello Rol
According to their charts wearing Diamond will be beneficial to both of them.
I hope that this is done in addition to prayers and mantras.
Regards

[Pem]

Hello Athura
Welcome to the Forum.
You have posted incorrectly, in another person's thread.
You will make a pickle of the topic.
You need to select 'New Topic' and come the proper way.
Post your question again with a 'Heading' and 'Body with Question' and and a member will respond.
Regards

[raeoflight]

Shrikanth Ji,
Thanks much for analyzing the charts. Good to know that there is positive and hope. Sis does khadgamala and durga chalisa almost every day now, she also does lalitha sahasranama whnvr time permits- has added navagraha stuti based on Pemji's advise. Venus seems to be a cause for concern , coincidence is sis kid is born in venus mahadasha. There could be few mins differnce in my sis time of birth , I think it won't matter much in her case.
All else is fine except for the elements which crop up as you rightly pointed out. Will my sis have any problem from my BIL's ex because his div. was vry complicated nd messy (loss of money, career and name, othr failed relationships) which v r coming to know now; his ex keeps trying to get him back using kids. on the other hand my sis has almost nil interaction with her ex nd her earlier div. was done by parents and famly; she has lot of respect for working hard and raising chld alone in indian way and parnts/siblings support her- in fact they movd to stay close to her. Sis is very family oriented had vry protectd conservative upbringing, and BIL is complete opposite in terms of nature and circumstance.
I will ask my sis to check on Sumangali pooja. Will you please provide a link or method for the best way to do this at home.

Sincerely

[raeoflight]

Shrikanth ji,
I am trying to look at the UL for second marriage - your earlier post on this in the forum is very helpful.
In my sis and bil case, since they already have kids from prev marriage - what is the probability of a child from this marriage ? Will it strengthen the marriage bonds?

[raeoflight]

Shrikanth ji,
Please help with more insight on the relationship for my sister :

Please any help is appreciated.