Marriage prospects

[shreyabsawant]

Hello Sir.
I am Shreya sawant. Married before last 2 years; since then the relationship is not going smoothly. for every small reason he fights a lot. He is very Gentle person but some time he reacts very harshly for a useless small reason .
now a days we litterally stopped talking each other . if anything not improves we will be thinking of sepration .
i am in a very trouble situation.....
nothing is going well in every aspect of life.....Everywhere there is lot of trouble
please give advice ..........
will he improve his behaviour/
My details are as follow
Shreya Sawant
Date of Birth 10/08/1980
Time of Birth 1.20 A.M.
Place Mumbai Maharashtra

[Pem]

Dear Shreya
Kindly let me know if you had a love or arranged marriage ?
What is your religious faith and do both of you seriously practise,
worship and pray, go to temple, poojas, etc.?
Did you have marriage compatibility checked before ?
Do you sincerely love him and do you think that he really loves and care for you ?
Are both of you living independently in a separate house ?

Regards - Pem

[shreyabsawant]

Thanks for reply sir…
We had an arranged marriage on May 2011
We both are Aasthik
Our marriage Compatibility score was 30.5
I do love him and He also Loves me a lot .but my in-laws interfering a lot in our marriage for each and every small Cause.right from what to wear and what to eat.
Really it becames unbearable for me to sustain in such condition.
We stay together in same house but the humidity in our relation is lost .
Is this situation is going to change in future . Will I get marital happiness…….
Is any bad influences of planet effects our marital life…….
We both are Qualified persons doing very well in our professional life…but this type of personal deficiency affects our carriers also.
Plz reply

[Pem]

Dear Shreya
Can you pls send me the birth details of husband as well ?
2. Pls answer direct - are both of you living with in laws - yes or no ?
3. As both of you are doing well professionally, why is it not possible for
your living separately ?
4. Excuse me, I do not know what Aasthik is - can you pls explain ?
regards - Pem

[shreyabsawant]

Hello sir
This is shreya Thanks a lot for ur immediate response.
Husband Details
Name Ameet Sawant
Date of Birth 12/02/1978
Time of Birth 7.00 P.M.
Place Sindhudurg ( Maharashtra)

Ans 2.. Yes, We both of us living with our in-laws.
Ans 3. My husband is the only child to his parents , so socially it doesn’t look good to leave them and stay apart from them.And the mental involvement of his parents in him is too much. Involvement can be cosiderable but interefering for every small reason lagging us behind in every front.
Ans 4. Aastik (God Believer) We both believe in our religion ,in God

[srcs]

@shreyasawant;Forget about astro readings. As u love each other,pl.have some patience & the time will iron out them to ur satisfaction.

[Pem]

Dear Shreya
I have had a look at both horoscopes and have observed some difficult traits
in husbands. And, in yours too, so you will have be careful, wise and understanding
if you want things to work out; or be ready to face the worst.
Apart from that he is manglik.
Also:
In his chart, his Mars is fallen in the 12H . He could have sudden outbursts of temper and
lack patience and hence is in line with your complaint. His level of Tolerance is very low.
He has Rahu in the 2H and he could have sharp and piercing speech.
With his Moon in Aries he could also want things to happen very quickly or immediately if possible.

Your 2 Moon signs, they are agreeable because of the friendship of the Moon and Mars rashi lords.
But the elements do not mix very well - one is water and the other is fire. So there could be friction.

Lagna lords : One is Sun Lord and the other is Venus : They are not friends and both are strong willed.

In the light of the above, I do hope that you will have a better understanding of your husband now that
you have been advised and know his weaknesses.
You too should use your heart a bit more, towards in- laws/family, and use the mind more with matters outside the home with outsiders/strangers. This will make a lot of difference.
So I want you to be the architect of your marriage and if you stay quiet, loving, pleasant and give this
air of friendliness and support to the family, they will quickly sense it, and above all seek spiritual
help and guidance which will bring peace and happiness in the whole home.

Remember, they do not have a daughter, and I am sure in their minds they love you and are proud to
have you as one. You must learn to be adaptable, flexible and be part of the family. Family unity is
strength.
Usually, he will calm down after some time of flaring up and regret for his behaviour. Be ready for this
and accept it as you love him and talk to him at a right moment and be more understanding if you want
this marriage to work. Do not think hastily of separation at this early stage without making thoughtful
attempts to find ways of how to tackle the situation, like what you have done by coming to the forum for
guidance and seeing light in your path of darkness.
I wish you two all the best. Pls let us know how you get along.
Regards - Pem

[girl]

Dear Astrologrers

I am 29 plus single female struggling to get married .

Please tell me if i am destined to get married ever ?

17 dec 1983 , 12 pm, kanpur u.p

aquarius lagna, aries moon, saggi sun

thanks in advance