please help me.i m really stressed out.cried for whole day

[Navpreet]

don't know from where I have to start well I have to . I got married last year in march 2012. It was a love marriage . Husband was living in Canada. From day 1 of marriage we starts fight because of my in laws .my husband is nice person but in laws are really bad. I came Canada last year oct 2012. HE changed a lot. He started fight with me. My in laws threw the fuel in fire. Everything is getting worse. I love my husband a lot. my family is back home so nobody is here to support me .I m felling lonely .I don't know where I have to go. Who is goanna help me .I m really stressed out this time. I want to be with my husband. Please predict this there any divorce in my chart. I want to learn astrology . I don't know from where I can learn that.

my birth date is 3 April 1989.
my birth time is 12; 10 pm
my birth place is Ludhiana(India)

I don't know about my husband's birth time. his birth place is Amritsar(India). His birth date is 26 April 1982.

I hope you will reply me. thanks a lot in advance...god bless you. you guys are doing great job

[shilpa]

don't know from where I have to start well I have to . I got married last year in march 2012. It was a love marriage . Husband was living in Canada. From day 1 of marriage we starts fight because of my in laws .my husband is nice person but in laws are really bad. I came Canada last year oct 2012. HE changed a lot. He started fight with me. My in laws threw the fuel in fire. Everything is getting worse. I love my husband a lot. my family is back home so nobody is here to support me .I m felling lonely .I don't know where I have to go. Who is goanna help me .I m really stressed out this time. I want to be with my husband. Please predict this there any divorce in my chart. I want to learn astrology . I don't know from where I can learn that.

my birth date is 3 April 1989.
my birth time is 12; 10 pm
my birth place is Ludhiana(India)

I don't know about my husband's birth time. his birth place is Amritsar(India). His birth date is 26 April 1982.

I hope you will reply me. thanks a lot in advance...god bless you. you guys are doing great job

Dear Navpreet,

--7th Lord Jupiter is in the 12th......and conjunct with Mars

--7th Lord has shani seated and under the drishti of Mars

--while technically that is a manglik.....it is greatly cushioned by Jupiter.

--Venus as 5/12 Lord is exalted in the 10th house....good yoga it will mean affluent living and high quality life and prosperity throuhg good position / earnings of the husband. Further Venus aspects the 4th house of home comforts and happiness in home matters.

You should try to find work.....in fashion Boutiques / Beauty salons / pusblishing print industries.....if you can. It will keep your mind busy and give you professional success plus self esteem also.

But Venus is badly combust also.

--Navamsa 7th Lord Mars is debilitated in the 3rd...and Venus has multiple influences on it throuhg conjunction with Su, Mo , Ra and Me.

--Moon in innimical shani's house conjunct with Rahu in the 9th makes your mind swing with emotions, that are easily invoked often times clouding the judgment.

--Your married life is likely to be mixed--good comfortable living, happy conjugal / physical bliss..but at the same time prone to bouts of high voltage emotional instabilities.....frictions, small fights and traumas because of that....it will be a life long pattern.....swinging depending on dasa/ antaras and transits.

--None of the above will ever be serious enough to break the marriage and if you undertsand these tendencies that the chart shows and learn to manage your emotions, not respond and hit back aggressively or with sharp words..... you will reduce the stress on yourself......basically find a way to swim throuhg when the stressfull situation strikes with balance and calm, instead of aggravated actions.

--you need prayers and blessing to keep your mind calm...I would suggest you read Hanuman chalisa daily( or listen to an mp3 / youtube file atleast) and offer sindoor and mustard oil on the feet of Lord Hanuman defnitely on Tuesdays and as often as you can.

--and also chant om -namah shivay 108 times daily...offer milk on shivlings atleast on Mondays or as often as you can...listen to shiv stuti on mp3/you-tube.

--Try an fast on Mondays and Tuesadys at least partially ( one meal) or one or two times a month as much as you can conveniently.
Defnitely avoid non-veg on these days.

These prayers will give you the calm and strength to withstand and judicously handle the emotionals swings and stress-full situation that your planets will create every now and them.

do these with faith and devotion and you should see a marked improvement.

regards

[Navpreet]

when I can expect good time in my married life. right now I m really facing hard time??

[Sujit]

when I can expect good time in my married life. right now I m really facing hard time??

Navpreeet,

Natal promise for marriage is weak. Current dasha lord Venus is weak by combustion. You need to adjust.
Current time has difficulties for marriage, spuse and family life. Some improvement can be expected from October. Chances for child is seen.

Regards
Sujit

[shilpa]

when I can expect good time in my married life. right now I m really facing hard time??

Dear Navpreet,
In a month from when are you able to start the paryers whole heartedly and with faith

regards

[revribhav]

Your aatma karaka is hemmed in between saturn and rahu
a fourth mars adds to effect of an agitated mind distressed with hostile surroundings

intense effects may continue to the age of 28

You may touch the feet of elderly people whose blessings shall help you
Also think twice before using harsh words

Keeping a piece of silver and/or pearl in your handbag/pocket and also keeping a kind heart is suggested.

[Navpreet]

Thanx to all member who helped me.i dont know what to say at one point i lost all hopes but now i have hope again that i can save my marrige ....thanks a millions.
Can u guys tell me more remedies which is good for me.
I want to do everything which is possible to save my marrige.

[Dev]

Pray to Goddess Lakshmi on fridays, chant Lakhmi astottaram and Mahalakshmi Astakam.
Feed cows with green leaves and vegetables.
Dev

[Navpreet]

Can u guy predict best time in life when me and husband will love each other and we will b happily married.right now m confused.i dont know wheter he loves me or not????? Will Our marrige stay long after this hard time???
Sorry guys if i m asking u more question.i just wanna confirm all dis
Thanks in advance

[Dev]

Instead of worrying more and more, try prayers and pariharas without a second thought, they may help.

[Navpreet]

I do but i cant focus on anything ..i cant focus on my study, cant focus on work.i m always worried.wanna be relax ...but i cant. Even i m doing meditition...wanna try to figyre out every. Anyways thanks alot.i know its life .i hav to see face it.

[Dev]

I understand your problems but sometimes, if something has to happen or happens, you cannot change it, by worrying you are further down physically and mentally, but by chanting the slokas and doing pariharas, if you have faith, things could work well. In a worried mood, dont do prayers, think that prayer is going to help and then do, it will work.
Good luck.

[Navpreet]

Yea i will try my best...i m trying even to focus on my work ,on my life....
Thanx Dev for ur valuable advice.u guys are really doung amazing job . appericating it. God bless u.

Thanx for my help