Hi Illusion
I am amazed to see your sincerity!!! God Bless you.
Howzat may take some time to reply as he seems to be very much occupied. But it is sure he shall reply.
Meanwhile you have some patience. May be god testing you.
Do not worry about what other astrologers told. Please understand, astrology is a vast subject. Many people you consult will advice you differently. And no one is the last word. God is always there.
Pls help (Howzat?) - Husband having an affair
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dear madam
first i want to tell you happy birthday. some days back over no. i am wishing happy birthday madam - happy or not i dont know. but god bless you ok. i am pray for you also madam.
now why i told wait for one month means - to see if planet is putting change in you. it not happen. now i will tell bitter truth of your horoscope madam. you please dont feel bad ok. please. what no - some day or other no madam - we have to face truths. ours past karma is represent by planets. where they are sitting no madam - it is showing what karma we done. bad means planet is sitting bad place. good karma means he is sitting in good place. like that.
now see madam - i will tell ok - you please dont feel bad ok - see down -
in your horoscope two big affliction is there. - Rahu is in fatal degree aspecting 7l shukra and Ketu - see two planets are making separation planets and putting bad influence for 7
next most danger is what? - surya and shani are in same degree in 8h. this is most most danger madam. most most danger. 6l in 8 is Viparita raja yoga - but - for that to operate no - first trouble has to be there - then only benefit will come. please understand
what is bigger damage you know madam? - ul - that is upapada lagna is in 8H from lagna. in Upapada lagna only this ravi and shani are fighting. both are making separation planets in 8 and in UL is big problem. then even bigger problem is 2 from ul - lord guru - is debilitated. shani is 100 total combust.
madam like this is there means - if you get marry again to same person no madam - there might be 100 percentdivorce. - if asking my opinion means - dont do traditional marriage. i am only advising ah. please dont think i am putting zabardasti pressure and all - i am just telling - you do traditional means - after that divorce happens means - what is use. tell. full family in front you do marriage - then after - he is leaving means - mu kala - means black face no madam.
antar is of debilitated Guru. astam shani started. how madam - you will do traditional marriage. i am strongly not recommending like this to do. but if your heart is telling means you do. i am telling but - you dont do madam.
first i want to tell you happy birthday. some days back over no. i am wishing happy birthday madam - happy or not i dont know. but god bless you ok. i am pray for you also madam.
now why i told wait for one month means - to see if planet is putting change in you. it not happen. now i will tell bitter truth of your horoscope madam. you please dont feel bad ok. please. what no - some day or other no madam - we have to face truths. ours past karma is represent by planets. where they are sitting no madam - it is showing what karma we done. bad means planet is sitting bad place. good karma means he is sitting in good place. like that.
now see madam - i will tell ok - you please dont feel bad ok - see down -
in your horoscope two big affliction is there. - Rahu is in fatal degree aspecting 7l shukra and Ketu - see two planets are making separation planets and putting bad influence for 7
next most danger is what? - surya and shani are in same degree in 8h. this is most most danger madam. most most danger. 6l in 8 is Viparita raja yoga - but - for that to operate no - first trouble has to be there - then only benefit will come. please understand
what is bigger damage you know madam? - ul - that is upapada lagna is in 8H from lagna. in Upapada lagna only this ravi and shani are fighting. both are making separation planets in 8 and in UL is big problem. then even bigger problem is 2 from ul - lord guru - is debilitated. shani is 100 total combust.
madam like this is there means - if you get marry again to same person no madam - there might be 100 percentdivorce. - if asking my opinion means - dont do traditional marriage. i am only advising ah. please dont think i am putting zabardasti pressure and all - i am just telling - you do traditional means - after that divorce happens means - what is use. tell. full family in front you do marriage - then after - he is leaving means - mu kala - means black face no madam.
antar is of debilitated Guru. astam shani started. how madam - you will do traditional marriage. i am strongly not recommending like this to do. but if your heart is telling means you do. i am telling but - you dont do madam.
@ Illuzion
I feel sad that you have to go through all this. Now following is the explanation on why I commented on the male's chart like that:
18-Jun-1984; 0840 (morning hours); Kluang, Malaysia - chart created in PL7
1. Saturn - lord of 8H & 9H, sitting in 5H, exalted as well as retrograde - such placement of Saturn alone is sufficient to shake the married/family life as it is aspecting 7H & 7L (Jup) via 3rd aspect; aspecting 11H via 7th aspect; aspecting 2H via 10th aspect.
2. Mars - lord of 6h & 11H, retrograde, placed badly in sign of Libra in tight conjunction with Sat
3. Saturn being quite powerful in the chart is afflicting all the houses of marriage - 7 (primary), 2 & 11 (secondary) and also lords of 7 & 11.
4. 2L - Moon is placed in 8H and receiving malefic aspect from retrograde Mars via 4th aspect and 9th aspect from exalted Rahu.
5. Lastly, Mercury - the lord of Asc is sitting in 12H in company of an exalted Rahu & also receiving malefic aspect from Mars, thereby spoiling the entire spiritual signification of the chart.
All the above are obvious observations in D-1 chart. Now the problem is, all houses of marriage are spoiled and that too, with involvement of many planets. These planets will always be appearing in the Dasha-Bhukti-Antara at all times, thereby, affecting married life badly, almost throughout life.
I can only pray that Goddess Durga gives you the strength to overcome this and at the same time also wish that my observations are untrue.
Best wishes
Inderjeet
PS: There is no such yoga as Kaal Sarpa mentioned in texts of astrology, and even if it does, it is not in your chart as Mars is out of Rahu-Ketu axis.
I feel sad that you have to go through all this. Now following is the explanation on why I commented on the male's chart like that:
18-Jun-1984; 0840 (morning hours); Kluang, Malaysia - chart created in PL7
1. Saturn - lord of 8H & 9H, sitting in 5H, exalted as well as retrograde - such placement of Saturn alone is sufficient to shake the married/family life as it is aspecting 7H & 7L (Jup) via 3rd aspect; aspecting 11H via 7th aspect; aspecting 2H via 10th aspect.
2. Mars - lord of 6h & 11H, retrograde, placed badly in sign of Libra in tight conjunction with Sat
3. Saturn being quite powerful in the chart is afflicting all the houses of marriage - 7 (primary), 2 & 11 (secondary) and also lords of 7 & 11.
4. 2L - Moon is placed in 8H and receiving malefic aspect from retrograde Mars via 4th aspect and 9th aspect from exalted Rahu.
5. Lastly, Mercury - the lord of Asc is sitting in 12H in company of an exalted Rahu & also receiving malefic aspect from Mars, thereby spoiling the entire spiritual signification of the chart.
All the above are obvious observations in D-1 chart. Now the problem is, all houses of marriage are spoiled and that too, with involvement of many planets. These planets will always be appearing in the Dasha-Bhukti-Antara at all times, thereby, affecting married life badly, almost throughout life.
I can only pray that Goddess Durga gives you the strength to overcome this and at the same time also wish that my observations are untrue.
Best wishes
Inderjeet
PS: There is no such yoga as Kaal Sarpa mentioned in texts of astrology, and even if it does, it is not in your chart as Mars is out of Rahu-Ketu axis.
Last edited by Inderjeet on 07 Dec 2012, edited 3 times in total.
dear madam - in your horoscope - there is no KSY. Mars is out of axis. KSY is danger yoga - but for you it is not there.by Illuzion » 29 Nov 2012 10:02 Dear Howzat, thank you for the birthday wishes. I also thank you for giving me such a detailed reply. From what I read, there is only one piece of good news- the viparita raja yoga. Can I confirm that there is no Kaal Sarpa Yoga in my chart?
your husband horoscope i will analyse in only one line. - sun and venus in same degree. these two - aspect 7h and 7l guru. ul is also same as Lagna. 2nd from ul is in 8. 8 aspects 7. so i am saying - for this man - very difficult to be good persons in married life. who ever he with no madam - same story is repeat. no stable only. shukra in mans chart afflict to this level means - then over madam. shukra is very very important planet for mans marriage and love life. he is afflict to this level means - no need to see anything. simple i am telling.
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Dear all
A very simple remedy for Rahu in the 1st house is sprinkling of Cow milk on the idol of Nagaraja(snake god) and one can see wonders happending.
I have advised this to most of my clients and found very good results and very fast.
The sprinkling of the milk should be done on the tithi day when the native is born and in this case of this native it would be Sukla Dwadasi
Next Saturn in the 8th house along with UL would definetly not break the marraige as Saturn is the Karaka for the longevity and it is with UL(marraige)
The only issue here is Rahu which is aspecting ketu/Venus.
Venus is placed in the 7th house the natural house of relationhips and being aspected by Rahu tells us about the relationship with the spouse of the native
As per the chara dasa the native would have started the problems during the year when Leo chara dasa started which is from 2004-2013 december . Leo lord is Sun being placed with Saturn and Mercury. We all know that Sun and Saturn are dire enemies and in the case of this native Saturn is the Chara darakaraka(significator of Spouse) and being placed in the sign of Scorpio native spouse would be very cold and introvert and would not reveal anything.
Here also we find that A7 lord is Moon placed in the 12th house the house of losses and enemity and rejection.
From 22.5.2012 till 20.02.2013 the native is also running Cancer Chara Antar dasa and the Lord which is Moon placed in 8th which is a Marana karaka for the native if we count from Leo. Hence native would suffer on account of the spouse as she would ignored by the spouse and also spouse would tend to reject her for various reason
A very simple remedy for Rahu in the 1st house is sprinkling of Cow milk on the idol of Nagaraja(snake god) and one can see wonders happending.
I have advised this to most of my clients and found very good results and very fast.
The sprinkling of the milk should be done on the tithi day when the native is born and in this case of this native it would be Sukla Dwadasi
Next Saturn in the 8th house along with UL would definetly not break the marraige as Saturn is the Karaka for the longevity and it is with UL(marraige)
The only issue here is Rahu which is aspecting ketu/Venus.
Venus is placed in the 7th house the natural house of relationhips and being aspected by Rahu tells us about the relationship with the spouse of the native
As per the chara dasa the native would have started the problems during the year when Leo chara dasa started which is from 2004-2013 december . Leo lord is Sun being placed with Saturn and Mercury. We all know that Sun and Saturn are dire enemies and in the case of this native Saturn is the Chara darakaraka(significator of Spouse) and being placed in the sign of Scorpio native spouse would be very cold and introvert and would not reveal anything.
Here also we find that A7 lord is Moon placed in the 12th house the house of losses and enemity and rejection.
From 22.5.2012 till 20.02.2013 the native is also running Cancer Chara Antar dasa and the Lord which is Moon placed in 8th which is a Marana karaka for the native if we count from Leo. Hence native would suffer on account of the spouse as she would ignored by the spouse and also spouse would tend to reject her for various reason
Uma shanker achanta
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dear madam ,
as howzat ji have said karaka always has the last say , i mean karaka is like umpire , i have read in books .
I am not expert astrologer and also not asking you to follow astrology blindly but since you have already come to know the truth , better face sorrow now and let go of him than face sorrow for the whole life .
please forgive me if i have hurt you and god bless and and help you choose the right path .
please recite lakshmi narayana ashtakama , dont ask god to give you anything , just tell him to show you the right path , trust me , just in a few days you will feel the effect .
as howzat ji have said karaka always has the last say , i mean karaka is like umpire , i have read in books .
I am not expert astrologer and also not asking you to follow astrology blindly but since you have already come to know the truth , better face sorrow now and let go of him than face sorrow for the whole life .
please forgive me if i have hurt you and god bless and and help you choose the right path .
please recite lakshmi narayana ashtakama , dont ask god to give you anything , just tell him to show you the right path , trust me , just in a few days you will feel the effect .
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dear madam ,
every planet is a karaka for something like Ju is the karaka for husband in a female chart and Ve is the karaka of wife in a male chart .
Combusted planet generally gives frustration regarding that aspect of life regarding which it is karaka , in your husbands case Ve - karaka of spouse is combusted , thus he might become frustrated with you and become unable to neither vomit nor digest the relation which might turn out devastating life for you .
i am not learned astrologer enough to say whether you relation will last or not , but i have seen the effect of combusted Ve . They will never be satisfied with their present partner and if they find a better option they will ditch the current partner .
And i personally think , once a cheater always a cheater ( please don't take it personally madam but i hate those heartless people who have no principle other than their greed to fulfill their desires and those who never think twice before betraying those who love them ) . remember madam , he has had an affair with somebody after having married you . after having kids it becomes very difficult to get separated and devastating for kids also .
but beloved Vishnu ji ( god ) will help you think clearly and take right decision . he might not come in front of you and tell you to do something but will make you go through such experience and such facts will come in front of you that will help in taking right decision ! he is ready to help everybody , you should be ready to listen to what he has to say . trust me madam i have experienced it , lakshmi narayan ashtakam helps . if possible please read bhagvat gita for time pass , not a very big book but a very good book .
every planet is a karaka for something like Ju is the karaka for husband in a female chart and Ve is the karaka of wife in a male chart .
Combusted planet generally gives frustration regarding that aspect of life regarding which it is karaka , in your husbands case Ve - karaka of spouse is combusted , thus he might become frustrated with you and become unable to neither vomit nor digest the relation which might turn out devastating life for you .
i am not learned astrologer enough to say whether you relation will last or not , but i have seen the effect of combusted Ve . They will never be satisfied with their present partner and if they find a better option they will ditch the current partner .
And i personally think , once a cheater always a cheater ( please don't take it personally madam but i hate those heartless people who have no principle other than their greed to fulfill their desires and those who never think twice before betraying those who love them ) . remember madam , he has had an affair with somebody after having married you . after having kids it becomes very difficult to get separated and devastating for kids also .
but beloved Vishnu ji ( god ) will help you think clearly and take right decision . he might not come in front of you and tell you to do something but will make you go through such experience and such facts will come in front of you that will help in taking right decision ! he is ready to help everybody , you should be ready to listen to what he has to say . trust me madam i have experienced it , lakshmi narayan ashtakam helps . if possible please read bhagvat gita for time pass , not a very big book but a very good book .
dear madam - i will tell one by one ok - you please read. sorry ah - my english is not good. sorry ok.by Illuzion » 29 Nov 2012 19:38
Dear Howzat,
what is the effect of a combust Shani? Any way to remedy this?
Also, what is the effect of antar of a debilitated Guru? What does it mean by astam shani?
I agree with you though. I have told him before that he has deeper issues that needs to be resolved otherwise he won't be happy with anybody he is involved with. Also, is there any way to help him improve the Shukra?
see here - shani is 11lord. 11 is a important and final house - ultimate - in the kama trikon. kama trikon is 3 7 11 houses. 3 is desire - 7 spouse - 11 is the gains from both. here shani is total combust and in same degree as sun. sun is number 1 separative planet. if he is in 7 and 8 in girls horoscope means - he is 100 percent causing problem one day.
guru is 9 and 12 lord. for woman no madam - 9 is very importaant. why you know? she must have good fortune for marriage. here 9 lord is debilitated. now his sub period is running and also till 2013 feb - gurus sub sub period is running. so it is tough time.
astam shani means - from your natal moon - shani is in 8 house in transit. this is not good position for shani - and he will give full trouble. in your horoscope - because he is in 8h and also combust - he is giving more problem. understood ah madam?
another big problem is what you know madam - 7l shukra is in sin scissors. sin scissors means what? see - 7l is shukra - this shukra no - he is falling between ketu on one side and - on another side shani. see both are natural malefic. this is giving solid problem to 7 house. like that.
see madam - in your husbands horoscope no madam - big big problem is that shukra and surya in same degree. navamsha also - sun and shukra in same in 7 house . i dont want to tell much about his horoscope madam. but one day he will be in big lafda because doing like this.
see his guru - he is 7 lord. this 7l is in 7 house only. still why so much problem? why you know? he is in 12l star. who is 12l - shukra. 12l in same degree as 3l surya is big big big problem madam. - i dont want to tell anything - respected moderator no - they simply delete my whole post if i write something means. very berahami way they are deleting whole post. for me it is difficult to write madam. 30 minutes i am taking to make one post - in one minute they are delete. want to tell fact means how to tell? what to tell? i cannot understand.
correctly you have told like this madam. very correctly you have told. one day madam - whole sky only will fall on head if he is doing masti like this means. telling means not listening means what to do? tell.by Illuzion » 29 Nov 2012 19:38
I have told him before that he has deeper issues that needs to be resolved otherwise he won't be happy with anybody he is involved with.
i will tell one story madam. - just like that ok - what happens when masti is going too much.
two girls – name and all i changed ok madam - two girls are there they are sister sister- malika and rasika. malika is elder girl - rasika is younger. malika no - she is 18 rasika 16. malika is loving one fellow - rakesh. this rakesh no madam - he is rascal number 1. both girl no madam - total karab cheez. chalo means chalo. full fast number.
this rakesh no madam - he is putting hand for malika also and putting hand for rasika also. understood ah madam? means - he is putting hand for both at same time. not together - but same time. today morning put hand for malika means - evening he is putting hand for rasika.
this malika is knowing - but she is keeping quiet. rasika no - she is acting like stupids. she also knowing fully that rakesh is malika boyfriend - she is telling - you leave elder sister and put hand only for me.
rakesh no - he is thinking - he will do jolly for ever with both sister. but planet no madam - they have other better idea. they know how to put ungli in this his plan.
one day rasika no madam - she is getting into full senti mood - then fighting with rakesh. rakesh no madam - he head went full mad. he took rope and kill rasika. when killing - malika came to room and saw. you wont believe madam - she is also helping - then helping in throwing body also.
see madam - like this and all - one day every thing is full jolly. for 10 minutes pleasure - what all people are doing see. now whole life is over. stupids acting means - what will happen tell please.
in rasika horoscope - ketu in lagna Aquarius - rahu kuja guru in 7 leo. kuja rahu in same degree. - guru + rahu - is guru chandala yoga. ul lord is Kuja - now see - both kuja rahu same degree in fire sign.
i am seeing many horoscope madam - guru rahu kuja in fire sign - put influence on 7 or lagna means - full problem. what all is happening. best is what you know - they are thinking they are perfect specimans and all others are stupids and wrong. they are thinking - only they are correct people. what to tell - i only dont know. if you tell anything means - they are argue from morning to evening.
she is kill - in ketu - Guru - kuja. one small problem affliction in horoscope - because she is acting like stupids - that small problem afflictions because so big - that she killed by own sister and sister lover only. see. how old? 16 years old. what this?
now you see madam - what all planet is doing - and what all is happen if peoples are acting like a stupids. what to tell i only dont know. one girl die at 16 years means what to say? we do like stupids - rest planet will finish.
why i told like this story madam? see 50 percent planet is giving trouble - 50 percent in our hand is there. if we are acting like stupids means - that planet 50 percent problem is becoming 100 percent. like that - if your husband is acting like this means - all problem of planet in horocope will become 100 percent problem only.
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@ Praytogod
Yes, indeed, astrology is amazingly insightful, like you mentioned. While I was in deep troubled waters, I dwelt into this science, and all those thoughts of blaming others and of cursing self vanished as I could see the troubles coming from my chart itself. This is the reason I always tell everybody to learn, at least, basic astrology. Though I am not an expert still find the principals of astrology working quite well in native's life.
Whenever, I get a chance to see charts of troubled couple, I always emphasise on male's chart, becs, in Indian society, marriages are still dependent upon male's ego/wishes. Mostly, the marriage is not successful becs male's chart does not support it.
Coming to your husband's chart, he cannot remain married for a longer period. Moreover, whenever Jup and Sat will appear together in Dasha-Bhukti-Antra, things will go from bad to worse and will be out of his control on marriage or career or finance or health front. During the recent past, periods from Nov 11 to Jan 12 and July 12 to Nov 12 are such periods. On health front, he should be feeling better now with the onset of Sun-Mer from Nov 12.
Best wishes
Inderjeet
Yes, indeed, astrology is amazingly insightful, like you mentioned. While I was in deep troubled waters, I dwelt into this science, and all those thoughts of blaming others and of cursing self vanished as I could see the troubles coming from my chart itself. This is the reason I always tell everybody to learn, at least, basic astrology. Though I am not an expert still find the principals of astrology working quite well in native's life.
Indeed Howzat has got amazing guts of conveying his analysis that others may find it difficult to say.praytogod wrote: howzatji has said that many of the worse things they may keep to themselves because they don't want to fear you.
Whenever, I get a chance to see charts of troubled couple, I always emphasise on male's chart, becs, in Indian society, marriages are still dependent upon male's ego/wishes. Mostly, the marriage is not successful becs male's chart does not support it.
Coming to your husband's chart, he cannot remain married for a longer period. Moreover, whenever Jup and Sat will appear together in Dasha-Bhukti-Antra, things will go from bad to worse and will be out of his control on marriage or career or finance or health front. During the recent past, periods from Nov 11 to Jan 12 and July 12 to Nov 12 are such periods. On health front, he should be feeling better now with the onset of Sun-Mer from Nov 12.
Best wishes
Inderjeet
ye aila - morning when i read - this same post was different. now all important matter is different. morning - you said - just as howzatji has said that many of the worse things they may keep to themselves because they dont want to scare you - now you are saying -just as howzatji has said that many of the worse things they may keep to themselves because they don't want to fear you. what this? tell properly no. like this do means - how you will get proper analysis. tell? why you changing word? dont do like this.by praytogod » 30 Nov 2012 11:54
hello illuzion
i read your post and couldn't help but write to you. i was also married to a man with combust venus (in fact stilm am but am separated and applied for annulment because like your sister our marriage was never consummated). this website was extrememly helpful and yes, astrology is amazingly insightful-
((((((((view-Separation or reconcilation or remarriage?
My birth details: august 15 1981, 11:35 am, meerut cantonment
husband's birth details: 22 august 1979, 7:35 am , udhampur (J&K)
We got married on the 25th of april 2012 in india. Then I went with my husband to usa on 5th may as he is settled there. On 1st july 2012 i flew back from usa to india as my husband has not been able to consummate our marriage. He says he does not feel any deire for me whatsoever. though he was otherwise cordail to me as long as we styed together. he used to get frustrated on angry sometimes and lose temper. he also used to seem detached many times and lost in some thoughts. but there was genuine affection between us and some good moments still.
he is now alone in usa and fallen sick with fever. he wants a reconciliation. but given the facts of the situation, will a reconciliation result in a happy marriage? or will things continue the way they are- that is, an unconsummated amrriage? should i go ahead with filing divorce and can i hope to remarry?
my parents are insisting on divorce.
please help.))))))
I now realise that even if our marriage had gotten consummated, it could have never worked as my husaband was just very odd and abusive. Astrologers on this website , i think, were very polite regarding his chart and just as howzatji has said that many of the worse things they may keep to themselves because they don't want to fear you. But i am glad i left him-the sooner one can leave an abusive marriage and move on, the better-just what i feel. of course others might feel differently.
I wish you all the best and hope that god gives you the courage to come through the situation with a right decision.
Illuzion JeeIlluzion wrote:Dear all,
I have been with my husband for 9 years now (4 years dating and 5 years marriage) and I will like to try my fullest before giving up hope on him.
until I can take it no more
That doesn't mean I don't value the input given so far.
I will try till I can try no more.
He has gone from a good looking man to an ugly one because a lot of worry reflects in his face.
I think the least I can do is be his friend till we both figure out the best way forward for both of us, whether we move forward together or on our own different paths.
I said it before. I repeat it now. The faith,sincereity and dedication you have and I(we) feel is enough. Even if you dont beleive, i know and sincerely believe, it is more than any poooja and remedy. Acutally i am in awe of you. I have never seen such devotion. Please understand i have seen much of relationships and this world.
I pray to god to give you what is best for you. Please be brave and free of any fear. You do what your heart say. Do not worry about planets and dasha. You will get what you want.
I know you will not do it when u r happy, but whenever you are not so, please send me mail or pm. it is always open. I know that day will never come.
Your devotion is an example. No matter what is position of planets and dasha. do not even think on them less alone worry. i have not seen anyone with your kind of sincereity and devotion. not even for god. Really you love this person as god. He is lucky. very lucky.
Whatever is worng with this person as per astrology as stated by many learned people, i beleive from bottom of my heart, that your love will overcome and this person will have no choice but to come to you as you want him to be......
God bless you both....
I am no astrologer, but these are my two cents what ever they are worth..
Dear all, I just thought I will update. Aliens19642007 predicted that till 20/2/2013, I'll continue to be ignored by spouse. He is right. Recently, My husband has been nicer to me as of late. The affair is still going on although he claims he has not been physical with her as of yet.
I am still unsure as to how to move on. It has been almost a year and throughout this period, I find I have grown spiritually and as a person. I think both me and my husband have evolved as a result. Consequently, sometimes I wonder why we came together in spite of being two very different personalities. Must be my karma.i tink we were meant to meet and learn from each other. Maybe now it is time to move on our own separate paths. I am not sure what I want our future to be. I have been praying to lord dattatreya and can only hope that he will show me the way.
I am still unsure as to how to move on. It has been almost a year and throughout this period, I find I have grown spiritually and as a person. I think both me and my husband have evolved as a result. Consequently, sometimes I wonder why we came together in spite of being two very different personalities. Must be my karma.i tink we were meant to meet and learn from each other. Maybe now it is time to move on our own separate paths. I am not sure what I want our future to be. I have been praying to lord dattatreya and can only hope that he will show me the way.
Dear jolliji, thank u for your wishes. I know I've tried my best to be patient. I had actually asked him to leave the house in March. He is still here. Last week he admitted that he was hoping that I would change my mind and ask him to stay. He said he still loves me and wants to be with me but he can't let her go. The decision leaves me feeling sad and empty but I think it might be time to move on. I dont want to prolong the relationship and cheat my karma. If we are meant to separate in this current lifetime then I don't want to hold on. Because that might mean i have to go through the same sorrow in next lifetime.
For awhile I did a lot of mantra japa to help my marriage and it did. But then I read somewhere that beej mantras are tantrik in nature. I don't want to skip evolutionary steps. If we are meant to be together, we will be. He will be leaving this week.
For awhile I did a lot of mantra japa to help my marriage and it did. But then I read somewhere that beej mantras are tantrik in nature. I don't want to skip evolutionary steps. If we are meant to be together, we will be. He will be leaving this week.
Dear mathur_dineshji.
there has been an impact on my job. This year I changed jobs because I was hoping a different environment would bring some relief. I was happy initially but now I'm bored. I have been contemplating leaving my job but I haven't decided what I would do. What I know is that I want to be really really rich.
So you are right. There could be a loss of job.
I have a few questions. What does it mean by sexual secrets? Are you saying that maybe they have had physical relationships?
Dharma has gone missing I feel. The girl he has an affair with is of a different religion. Also he used to pray a lot. He was more religious than me. Now he hardly prays.
I have asked him to leave. The universe and god will show me what's best for me. Like many in this thread have suggested, many of his marriage planets are afflicted and so these problems will affect us for life.
there has been an impact on my job. This year I changed jobs because I was hoping a different environment would bring some relief. I was happy initially but now I'm bored. I have been contemplating leaving my job but I haven't decided what I would do. What I know is that I want to be really really rich.
So you are right. There could be a loss of job.
I have a few questions. What does it mean by sexual secrets? Are you saying that maybe they have had physical relationships?
Dharma has gone missing I feel. The girl he has an affair with is of a different religion. Also he used to pray a lot. He was more religious than me. Now he hardly prays.
I have asked him to leave. The universe and god will show me what's best for me. Like many in this thread have suggested, many of his marriage planets are afflicted and so these problems will affect us for life.
madam hello. i am reading your post and i am paining. why means what he is doing is not a correct ah. you are trying best way to change him but he is not changing. still he is not understanding means what to tell? you are trying best madam. god is seeing efforts. only your husband is not seeing. i told in beginning only it is very very difficult. but you are trying for so long no. great persons you are really. but one i will tell madam. one day he will realize madam. one day he will say sorry. this much i am making prediction. sure this is.he will cry and fall at feets. promise. dont worry madam. the goddess is making all new for you. you will find new man who is loving you and will keep you in happy ness. you wait and see. my word is coming 100 pct true. all pain will go. promise. your husband is not knowing what he is losing. his loss it is.
Thank you howzat for your good wishes. At the same time, there has been a lot of disputes regarding the house that im currently in. Its my parent's house but me and my husband had been paying for it all these years and staying in it and now suddenly my parents want it back. My house like my house is very cluttered and im trying to get some order back in my life.
