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seena
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I have received a proposal for marriage from this person
he has mercury in 7th house - how is his married life - he is asking me for marriage since last 5 years.
i am so confused as i dont like to interact with him.
He is libra ascendent , libra moon sign
15 may 73
18.45 pm
nasik

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MY dob
9th oct 77
7.20am
mumbai
K.R.Mani
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Dear Seena,

Both of you are having same Lagna--Libra--- For this Lagna

Saturn (4/5 lord--yogakkaraka), Mercury (9th/12th lord) and Venus(Lagna lord/8th lord) are benefics, Saturn being the best.
The Sun (11th lord), Jupiter (3rd/6th lord) and the Moon (10th lord)are malefics.
Mars (7th/2nd lord) may be taken as a feeble benefic.

There appears to be no harm for Mercury being in the 7th as he is a trine lord--a benefic.

For your stars--Swathi and Magha the star-match is o.k. as 6 out of the 10 factors, particularly important
factors like Dina, yoni, Vashyum and Rajju agree.

The relative planetary positions of Lagna, Sun, Moon, Venua, Jupiter,Mars and Saturn are o.k except the position of Jupiter (which is 6/8 --counting from Male-chart to that of Girl-chart).

Dosha Samyam -- Boy--4; Girl--5 . Generally girl's points must be lower than that of boy. There is no Manglic Dosha or Rahu/Ketu Dosha for both of you.

Also, the SAV (Sarvashtakavarga) value for the fifth house (house for progeny) is reasonable and there is no worry on that account.

Pl discuss all the above points with your family astrologer and take his advice.
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Hello Seena

Your statement : "I am so confused as I don't like to interact with him"
Are you physically attracted to this person ? Be sincere.

I have not examined your horoscopes.
Initially, I am concerned about your statement above.
Advice:
He seems to have the chemistry for you;
And, you do not seem to have the chemistry for him.
It is important that the chemistry exists between each other to
take it further.

Please proceed with optimistic caution.

Regards - Pem
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seena
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my parents want me to marry him
seena
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hi pem can you look into my horoscope and reply , this proposal has come to me since 5years but i am kind of not interested in him my family very much telling me to go for him but i am not interested
He is libra ascendent , libra moon sign
15 may 73
18.45 pm
nasik

....................
MY dob
9th oct 77
7.20am
mumbai
Pem
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Hello Seena :
I know that you are at present 35 years of age, and I also can
understand the plight of your parents.
Where is the confustion :
Mercury in the 7H - libra ascendant. why are you worried about
astrological significations ? Would this change your heart and mind ?
OR, that you cannot fall in love with this person ?

If your astrologer says that the two of you are compatible, do you think
you can make your heart change to love this person and obey your parents ?

I am sure your parents have consulted their astrologers about this match and what were their
findings. Please tell us the truth.

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seena
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can u check MY dob
9th oct 77
7.20am
mumbai
when exactly my marriage
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Hello Seena

I need answers to my questions if you want help. Please do not try to divert.

I will also appreciate if you use magic words to get replies :)

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seena
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I am not interested in him but he is very much keen to get married to me since last 5yrs. he is talking to our family friends and doing everything to get information about me. But i am honestly not interested in him nor i like to talk to him. some of my close relative tell me i should marry him. my parents dint show our horoscope anywhere as thy dont believe in astrology. my greatest fear in my life is my marriage to him. i find him too much childish, rigid and sometimes he try to threaten me. can you tell me if i will get married to him and when exactly i have my marriage.
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Dear Members,

I think the forum-members time is being wasted, discussing personal likes and dislikes. I think a personal, family problem is brought to the forum. There is use for students who wish to learn.
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Hello Seena

Here is some important information so you can tell your parents and try
to convince them :
You have Rakshasa Gana and the boy has Deva Gana ; this is incompatible
The Moon sign lords : His is Libra and your Moon is in Leo; Lords are not friends
and hence incompatibility.

The above are important and is not advisable to go ahead. No Match at all.
Please also consult family astrologers.
The final decision comes from you.
Please tackle this situation patiently, tactfully and firmly.
You are under stress at this present time from two malefic planets : Rahu and Saturn.
Pray to Dhurga Devi and Lord Shani and Hanumanji to help you cope in this situation.

I hope this will help you.

Regards - Pem


Regards - Pem
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seena
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as you said i am in stress with two malefic
yes i am in very very heavy stress moreover i have some stress in my business and my younger bro claiming some huge money from me which is not realistic and i heard some legal action against me. i dont understand what is this going on in my life.
can you help me when this stress will go away any idea , are they any legal issues any court case coming up in near future.
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Hello Seena

After end October 2014 this most stressful period will end remarkably.
You will be able to concentrate better and see clearly and fight on as
there could be challenging times from beginning of June 2014 until
October 2015.
If you awaken spiritually and ask for help from the bottom of your heart
your prayers will be answered.
Pray to the deities I have given you and in addition, Lord Vishnu, to protect
you during the sub period of Mercury from June 2014.

I shall now conclude on this matter.

God Bless - Pem
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