Saindhavi ji,
I don't give advice to married people here on this forum about how they should deal with their spouses, having not married yet, myself, but you are giving advice to Skp and Akansha on their married lives when you have not married yet!! Having no experience in marriage, you are actually misguiding them, which you are not understanding because of your huge ego.
You don't have any idea of marriage, so it's better you don't give advice about it. Give advice on it if you are married, otherwise never. As you told me a couple of days back that I should not talk about love as I have never been in love and so don't understand it, and today you told me about not talking about marriage as I have not married and thus have no understanding of it. Try to follow what you preach, or stop preaching.
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astrolearner15
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One of my friends with Rahu in 7th house (Libra) is getting married. Saturn is in not in Libra but is aspecting the house. I think she is in Rahu MD also.
Astrolearner,
Which Antardasha is running and where is Venus?
Basab,
As I said above - Marriage equates with love in my perspective. I said it yesterday also that I regard only a marriage based on love as real marriage.
I advise them not about how to maintain marriage. Rather, as how a woman should be treated by a man who professes to love her.
I don't see how I am misguiding them.
I am only telling them they have a right to be loved by a man with dignity and every woman has a right to claim this right of hers - before marriage or after marriage, that does not matter.
As a woman, I can give this advice to another woman.
So I see nothing wrong in it.
By the way, I never advised Akanksha anything outside astrology. She knows well how to protect her rights and how to stand up for herself. She doesn't need my advices. I have only admired her, never advised her.
As for SKP23, I feel she is not claiming her right to be loved by a man with respect and dignity and I am only telling her she should claim her right.
Besides, I have said to her she should not leave but claim her home as her own, which is rightfully hers.
As a woman I have every right to tell other women they have a right to be loved with dignity - this is a basic right that no woman should foresake - especially if she happens to be so well-qualified.
This has nothing to do with whether one is married. It has to do with how a woman should be treated by men.
What's the meaning of education if we can't defend our basic right to be loved with respect and dignity?
And why do you think I am misguiding her?
Do you support her husband's ill-treatment of her?
I do find it quite shocking that Indian men who call themselves well-qualified, coming from good family background etc think there is nothing wrong if a husband mistreats his wife.
They don't want to criticise such a husband and they don't want the woman to claim her right to be loved with respect and dignity.
Aseem said above that Western men are perverts etc, but I have known and worked with quite a few Western men and I know that in the West, if a woman gets ill-treated by her husband or boyfriend, she will always find support from other men.
But in India, men always band together against a woman who is ill-treated by a man - and they not only don't criticise such a man, they expect the woman to tolerate her ill-treatment.
And if another woman tells her to claim her right to be treated with dignity, men think she is misguiding!
And these happen to be the men who call themselves well-educated, capable of doing good jobs, coming from good families etc.
This is really shocking for me, because I come from a family where this kind of attitude will not be tolerated and where men treat their wives with respect and dignity. None of my brothers, cousins and uncles talk like this. My father was never like this.
PS - Can you show me the post where I said to you don't talk about marriage because you are not married? I don't think I ever said it.
Which Antardasha is running and where is Venus?
Basab,
As I said above - Marriage equates with love in my perspective. I said it yesterday also that I regard only a marriage based on love as real marriage.
I advise them not about how to maintain marriage. Rather, as how a woman should be treated by a man who professes to love her.
I don't see how I am misguiding them.
I am only telling them they have a right to be loved by a man with dignity and every woman has a right to claim this right of hers - before marriage or after marriage, that does not matter.
As a woman, I can give this advice to another woman.
So I see nothing wrong in it.
By the way, I never advised Akanksha anything outside astrology. She knows well how to protect her rights and how to stand up for herself. She doesn't need my advices. I have only admired her, never advised her.
As for SKP23, I feel she is not claiming her right to be loved by a man with respect and dignity and I am only telling her she should claim her right.
Besides, I have said to her she should not leave but claim her home as her own, which is rightfully hers.
As a woman I have every right to tell other women they have a right to be loved with dignity - this is a basic right that no woman should foresake - especially if she happens to be so well-qualified.
This has nothing to do with whether one is married. It has to do with how a woman should be treated by men.
What's the meaning of education if we can't defend our basic right to be loved with respect and dignity?
And why do you think I am misguiding her?
Do you support her husband's ill-treatment of her?
I do find it quite shocking that Indian men who call themselves well-qualified, coming from good family background etc think there is nothing wrong if a husband mistreats his wife.
They don't want to criticise such a husband and they don't want the woman to claim her right to be loved with respect and dignity.
Aseem said above that Western men are perverts etc, but I have known and worked with quite a few Western men and I know that in the West, if a woman gets ill-treated by her husband or boyfriend, she will always find support from other men.
But in India, men always band together against a woman who is ill-treated by a man - and they not only don't criticise such a man, they expect the woman to tolerate her ill-treatment.
And if another woman tells her to claim her right to be treated with dignity, men think she is misguiding!
And these happen to be the men who call themselves well-educated, capable of doing good jobs, coming from good families etc.
This is really shocking for me, because I come from a family where this kind of attitude will not be tolerated and where men treat their wives with respect and dignity. None of my brothers, cousins and uncles talk like this. My father was never like this.
PS - Can you show me the post where I said to you don't talk about marriage because you are not married? I don't think I ever said it.
Havan Manuals -
http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12791&p=124553#p124488
hymns -
1 http://www.vignanam.org/
2 http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=11446&start=75#p93038
http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12791&p=124553#p124488
hymns -
1 http://www.vignanam.org/
2 http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=11446&start=75#p93038
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astrolearner15
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Just looked at the chart again; there's a correction, there is no Saturn aspect.Saindhavi wrote:Astrolearner,
Which Antardasha is running and where is Venus?
Venus is exalted in the 12th house and the AD is also Venus.
Saindhavi ji,
Don’t you think it is wrong to comment on someone’s personal life? That’s what I have been taught by my family. It’s not necessary that what you think is right, and what everyone else thinks is wrong. You may think love marriage is real marriage, and other marriages are not of any value, but then, that’s your opinion—it’s not necessary that it is the only truth.
Just like you believe you have every right to talk about marriage, even if you are not married, I have the right to talk about love, even if I have never fallen in love. You have no right to ask me to stop talking about it because I have not experienced it or are not interested in it. Love is an emotion, which everyone is born with. It’s not that one doesn’t know what it is if he doesn’t experience it.
I have never ever said anywhere that women should suffer torture by men. And I have never supported it. So don’t accuse me wrongly! There are various ways of handling a marriage and shouting back at husband is not the only way.
If you have read Skp’s post, she has repeatedly said that what you have said will not work. So it’s not me, but Skp herself, who said you are wrong in your advice. Keeping that in mind I said, you are misguiding her as she herself thinks it’s not the way to tackle her husband and make her marriage work.
She wants to make her marriage work, and she doesn’t think it wise to get into an open conflict with her husband. She is an intelligent, highly educated, smart and an independent woman So it’s not like this that she doesn’t know all that you are saying. She knows all that, and in spite of that, is not considering what you are saying to be right.
You are not in her place, so you can’t know how things exactly are for her. She is smart enough to know whether to react or not react, to leave her husband or not to leave him. She is not an illiterate village woman, whom you need to teach about domestic violence, and her rights as a person. She knows about it very well, and she will take action when she thinks right, and the way she thinks right—for that she doesn’t need the advice of anyone.
I have myself heard quite a few lectures from the 'all knowing ones' in my life, not about marriage, but about other things, and I have always found those advises bogus because none of them ever bothered to know why I found it difficult to follow what they said, even though I knew they were right.
And let me tell you what I find shocking: that you think you need to teach an educated, independent, successful woman how she should be treated by a man who professes to love her. Don't you think Skp knows about it?
Don’t you think it is wrong to comment on someone’s personal life? That’s what I have been taught by my family. It’s not necessary that what you think is right, and what everyone else thinks is wrong. You may think love marriage is real marriage, and other marriages are not of any value, but then, that’s your opinion—it’s not necessary that it is the only truth.
Just like you believe you have every right to talk about marriage, even if you are not married, I have the right to talk about love, even if I have never fallen in love. You have no right to ask me to stop talking about it because I have not experienced it or are not interested in it. Love is an emotion, which everyone is born with. It’s not that one doesn’t know what it is if he doesn’t experience it.
I have never ever said anywhere that women should suffer torture by men. And I have never supported it. So don’t accuse me wrongly! There are various ways of handling a marriage and shouting back at husband is not the only way.
If you have read Skp’s post, she has repeatedly said that what you have said will not work. So it’s not me, but Skp herself, who said you are wrong in your advice. Keeping that in mind I said, you are misguiding her as she herself thinks it’s not the way to tackle her husband and make her marriage work.
She wants to make her marriage work, and she doesn’t think it wise to get into an open conflict with her husband. She is an intelligent, highly educated, smart and an independent woman So it’s not like this that she doesn’t know all that you are saying. She knows all that, and in spite of that, is not considering what you are saying to be right.
You are not in her place, so you can’t know how things exactly are for her. She is smart enough to know whether to react or not react, to leave her husband or not to leave him. She is not an illiterate village woman, whom you need to teach about domestic violence, and her rights as a person. She knows about it very well, and she will take action when she thinks right, and the way she thinks right—for that she doesn’t need the advice of anyone.
I have myself heard quite a few lectures from the 'all knowing ones' in my life, not about marriage, but about other things, and I have always found those advises bogus because none of them ever bothered to know why I found it difficult to follow what they said, even though I knew they were right.
And let me tell you what I find shocking: that you think you need to teach an educated, independent, successful woman how she should be treated by a man who professes to love her. Don't you think Skp knows about it?
"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
Basab,
First, you have not answered my question - where did I say today that you should not comment on marriage because you are not married?
Second, I have not gone out of my way to interfere into SKP's life. She presented her case in a public forum, so we gave her whatever advices we felt was right, as one woman to another woman.
Third, It is SKP's right to decide whose advice she wants to take and we have not forced her to follow our advices. She has the freedom to decide.
Fourth, you make a distinction between love and marriage - I don't. For me, love and marriage are the two sides of the same coin.
Fifth, I made it clear that I am not advising her about maintaining her marriage. I am advising her about the right of every woman to claim to live her life with respect and dignity. Please understand this distinction.
Sixth, I am not accusing you about anything. I asked you if you supported SKP's husband's behaviour because you seem to be so upset that I asked her to be firm with her husband without leaving him.
If you don't agree with my line of approach and if you are so upset that I asked her to tell her husband where the line is drawn, does it not mean that you are against her staking her claim to live her life with respect dignity?
Why are you so upset that I asked her to tell her husband where the line is drawn? Why do you want that she should not speak at all and no one should speak against her husband's ill-treatment of her? I honestly don't understand this.
Besides, Akanksha is married and she also said the same thing to her as what I said. This is what any sensible woman would advise in such a situation. So why are you so upset about it?
In fact, it was Human Nature who said to her that if she is facing too many problems, she should leave her husband. I never said it.
So, I don't see why you find my advice to her so disagreeable. Why do you feel that women should not speak against their ill-treatment from men, when all these women have criticised it here - not only I.
Seventh, I am noticing that for last one week or so you have become very agitated and are getting into arguments for which there is absolutely no need. So, check your chart from all angles - what kind of Dashas, planetary combinations or Gochar are you running?
I do enjoy discussing astrology with you and I have no intention to get into an argument with you.
Astrolearner,
Rahu-Venus is a period when one can get married. If her Venus is exalted in 12th, she may go to a distant place or abroad after marriage.
First, you have not answered my question - where did I say today that you should not comment on marriage because you are not married?
Second, I have not gone out of my way to interfere into SKP's life. She presented her case in a public forum, so we gave her whatever advices we felt was right, as one woman to another woman.
Third, It is SKP's right to decide whose advice she wants to take and we have not forced her to follow our advices. She has the freedom to decide.
Fourth, you make a distinction between love and marriage - I don't. For me, love and marriage are the two sides of the same coin.
Fifth, I made it clear that I am not advising her about maintaining her marriage. I am advising her about the right of every woman to claim to live her life with respect and dignity. Please understand this distinction.
Sixth, I am not accusing you about anything. I asked you if you supported SKP's husband's behaviour because you seem to be so upset that I asked her to be firm with her husband without leaving him.
If you don't agree with my line of approach and if you are so upset that I asked her to tell her husband where the line is drawn, does it not mean that you are against her staking her claim to live her life with respect dignity?
Why are you so upset that I asked her to tell her husband where the line is drawn? Why do you want that she should not speak at all and no one should speak against her husband's ill-treatment of her? I honestly don't understand this.
Besides, Akanksha is married and she also said the same thing to her as what I said. This is what any sensible woman would advise in such a situation. So why are you so upset about it?
In fact, it was Human Nature who said to her that if she is facing too many problems, she should leave her husband. I never said it.
So, I don't see why you find my advice to her so disagreeable. Why do you feel that women should not speak against their ill-treatment from men, when all these women have criticised it here - not only I.
Seventh, I am noticing that for last one week or so you have become very agitated and are getting into arguments for which there is absolutely no need. So, check your chart from all angles - what kind of Dashas, planetary combinations or Gochar are you running?
I do enjoy discussing astrology with you and I have no intention to get into an argument with you.
Astrolearner,
Rahu-Venus is a period when one can get married. If her Venus is exalted in 12th, she may go to a distant place or abroad after marriage.
Havan Manuals -
http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12791&p=124553#p124488
hymns -
1 http://www.vignanam.org/
2 http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=11446&start=75#p93038
http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12791&p=124553#p124488
hymns -
1 http://www.vignanam.org/
2 http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=11446&start=75#p93038
Saindhavi ji,
Please don’t try to accuse me of something, which I have not said. I have not said anywhere that I support Skp’s husband’s behaviour, and I don’t think there is anyone in this world, who will support it. I wonder how you can ever think that someone will support a man, who tortures his wife!
Let me clear up what I meant. When a person is in trouble, hundred people come in to give the person advice, which is very irritating for the person. I am telling this to you because I have experienced it myself. I have always felt tremendous anger towards people, who came to advice me because they were very insensitive to my situation, lecturing me their how-to-come-out-of-my-difficulty crap. They just came and preached like parrots what was right and what was wrong, which even a child knows. But life is not that simple. Sometimes we end up being in situations when we don’t know what we are supposed to do, even though we know clearly what the right thing to do is. No one understands our position, like we ourselves do.
The advice you gave to Skp is not wrong. It’s right. Why just you, any person will give the same advice. I myself will give her the same advice. But has someone bothered to ask her why she is not being able to follow it, even though she can? Has someone thought of understanding why she is suffering when she has the option to not suffer? No, I am not defending her husband; I am in full support of her. But I don’t want to irritate her telling something again and again, which she knows about, herself. She comes here to share her sorrow, not to get advices, which her family and friends in the real world are giving aplenty.
You may say she wants advice, she is happy that you all her giving her advice, but believe me, in times of misery and stress nothing makes a person more frustrated than getting lectures from everyone.
Read her posts—has she accepted anyone’s advises? Instead she has shown her irritation whenever she has been suggested something, saying that they don’t work. Go through her posts, and you will understand that she is not filled with gratitude to everyone for their millions of advices. She knows them all and telling her what she knows, already, is making her feel more irritated.
Well, I wrote what I felt. I can be wrong. If I am wrong, then my apologies to Skp ji. I have tremendous respect for her. And all I want is she finds happiness in life. I only wrote this way because someway I felt like I understood her situation here, that she was feeling irritated by the uncalled for advises.
Please don’t try to accuse me of something, which I have not said. I have not said anywhere that I support Skp’s husband’s behaviour, and I don’t think there is anyone in this world, who will support it. I wonder how you can ever think that someone will support a man, who tortures his wife!
Let me clear up what I meant. When a person is in trouble, hundred people come in to give the person advice, which is very irritating for the person. I am telling this to you because I have experienced it myself. I have always felt tremendous anger towards people, who came to advice me because they were very insensitive to my situation, lecturing me their how-to-come-out-of-my-difficulty crap. They just came and preached like parrots what was right and what was wrong, which even a child knows. But life is not that simple. Sometimes we end up being in situations when we don’t know what we are supposed to do, even though we know clearly what the right thing to do is. No one understands our position, like we ourselves do.
The advice you gave to Skp is not wrong. It’s right. Why just you, any person will give the same advice. I myself will give her the same advice. But has someone bothered to ask her why she is not being able to follow it, even though she can? Has someone thought of understanding why she is suffering when she has the option to not suffer? No, I am not defending her husband; I am in full support of her. But I don’t want to irritate her telling something again and again, which she knows about, herself. She comes here to share her sorrow, not to get advices, which her family and friends in the real world are giving aplenty.
You may say she wants advice, she is happy that you all her giving her advice, but believe me, in times of misery and stress nothing makes a person more frustrated than getting lectures from everyone.
Read her posts—has she accepted anyone’s advises? Instead she has shown her irritation whenever she has been suggested something, saying that they don’t work. Go through her posts, and you will understand that she is not filled with gratitude to everyone for their millions of advices. She knows them all and telling her what she knows, already, is making her feel more irritated.
Well, I wrote what I felt. I can be wrong. If I am wrong, then my apologies to Skp ji. I have tremendous respect for her. And all I want is she finds happiness in life. I only wrote this way because someway I felt like I understood her situation here, that she was feeling irritated by the uncalled for advises.
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"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
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Well true..Destiny is predestined..No doubt about that.No, man, I am not feeling jealous of you. Whatever is destined will definitely happen, but then, does that mean one can't wish for anything? Even wishing for something is in one's destiny. I feel as you ran Rahu's MD, with Rahu placed in the 7th house of opposite sex, in your teens and youth, you became a huge craze among girls.
Well I definitely ran Rahu dasha. 7th house is the house of relationships which may involve both men and women. I made many friends in Rahu dasha and they were mostly from other castes and religions. However I met most of the girls in Venus and Ketu dasha antardasha only. Before that not much. And in Mars dasha also.
Saindhavi wrote:Basab,
First, you have not answered my question - where did I say today that you should not comment on marriage because you are not married?
In reply to the following post of mine:
Yellow wrote:I wish I knew what love means. With the planet of love, Venus, in the house of death, in my chart, and the 7th lord of romantic relations in the 12th house of loss, I have no understanding of that emotion. Will have to take birth again to understand this quote on love as in this life I have not been born with an understanding of the queen of emotions, love.
you wrote this:
Saindhavi wrote:Basab,
Add to this "Marriage" as well and it would be just as relevant.
I think it's a clear hint from you that I don't understand about marriage and so should not talk about it.
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"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
As Mercury the planet of writing is conjunct with Mars the planet of argument and agitation, we all are ending up having heated arguments through writing.Saindhavi wrote:Seventh, I am noticing that for last one week or so you have become very agitated and are getting into arguments for which there is absolutely no need. So, check your chart from all angles - what kind of Dashas, planetary combinations or Gochar are you running?
I do enjoy discussing astrology with you and I have no intention to get into an argument with you.
Let me try to use my free will now and try to not get involved in any argument as I would not want to stop discussing astrology with you.
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"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
I had read it in a research survey that there are two kind of people. First kind are the ones who feel better after taking advice from friends/elderly etc and it helps them to find a way out.
We have been always told since childhood its better to speak out what you really feel inside etc. This actually applies to the first kind.
Second kind is, after they get advice from people they feel even worse about the situation. These are the ones who have ego/self respect to an extent that they actually dont like to seek advice and solve their problems.
I am not able to locate this article..it was very interesting.
We have been always told since childhood its better to speak out what you really feel inside etc. This actually applies to the first kind.
Second kind is, after they get advice from people they feel even worse about the situation. These are the ones who have ego/self respect to an extent that they actually dont like to seek advice and solve their problems.
I am not able to locate this article..it was very interesting.
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“Everything you can imagine is real.”
― Pablo Picasso
― Pablo Picasso
Venus period making one meet people from the opposite sex makes sense, but not sure how Ketu and Mars is showing that—is it because Mars, the 5th lord of romance, is in conjunction with Ketu? 
"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
Our internet is gone again & i am getting hard time opening posts on my phone, just managed to read last few posts.
Dear friends,
I approached this forum as i felt you all mean more than brothers & sisters to me. Please....please don't take my concerns to a different level.
When we argue or fight back, no matter who gets the last saying, ultimately its "us" who loose. Thats what i believe ( i may be wrong). I feel this apply in my marriage and this forum as well. Trust me, no one actually wins at the end. Thats why i feel best thing to do is atleast one person be quite.
I also noted that nobody talked about that my husband is wrong; but i am not here to point bad qualities of him, rather i wanted myself to learn & see what others can see from outside. I might not be able to see several things being in situation.
You may say that i am a martian woman but trust me nobody is from mars, not even men. Even terrorist women/men also have a tender side with in for some one. Its not my personality to fight back or argue back....so dont try to use this.
Neelkumar ji said several things including that he will never leave me. I have only one point to say-- i have always treated him gently despite his agressive behavior...thats why he doesnt want to leave me. This cant be love for husband to his wife.
Will write later when i will get internet back.
I am sorry if i hurt anyone's feelings.
Dear friends,
I approached this forum as i felt you all mean more than brothers & sisters to me. Please....please don't take my concerns to a different level.
When we argue or fight back, no matter who gets the last saying, ultimately its "us" who loose. Thats what i believe ( i may be wrong). I feel this apply in my marriage and this forum as well. Trust me, no one actually wins at the end. Thats why i feel best thing to do is atleast one person be quite.
I also noted that nobody talked about that my husband is wrong; but i am not here to point bad qualities of him, rather i wanted myself to learn & see what others can see from outside. I might not be able to see several things being in situation.
You may say that i am a martian woman but trust me nobody is from mars, not even men. Even terrorist women/men also have a tender side with in for some one. Its not my personality to fight back or argue back....so dont try to use this.
Neelkumar ji said several things including that he will never leave me. I have only one point to say-- i have always treated him gently despite his agressive behavior...thats why he doesnt want to leave me. This cant be love for husband to his wife.
Will write later when i will get internet back.
I am sorry if i hurt anyone's feelings.
Janaki,
I feel terribly depressed and angry when someone comes and lectures me. If you find the article, please do send me the link of it as I would like to read it. The problem is sometimes feeling emotional, I share my problems with people, and when they start lecturing me, I feel disturbed.
I feel terribly depressed and angry when someone comes and lectures me. If you find the article, please do send me the link of it as I would like to read it. The problem is sometimes feeling emotional, I share my problems with people, and when they start lecturing me, I feel disturbed.
"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
Skp ji,
I am sorry, I shouldn't have gone into an argument with Saindhavi ji on the issue of your marriage. It was wrong on my part. I will try not to do that ever again. Sorry once again.
I am sorry, I shouldn't have gone into an argument with Saindhavi ji on the issue of your marriage. It was wrong on my part. I will try not to do that ever again. Sorry once again.
"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
Update: Just now came from the doctor’s.
Since yestermorning, I was feeling discomfort - mild chest pain, heavy head and ears closed.
So, today evening I went to this doctor. There was a long queue. Got talking to the receptionist (pretty gal!). She was concerned and asked what happened. I replied I came to check my blood pressure. And then I gave her the reasons.
The other patients waiting also listened intently. She then got a weighing machine from another cabin herself and asked me to check my weight. All this was happening while I was waiting for my turn to meet the doctor. The patients waiting also said ‘yes, check your weight’ – all concerned. I checked and as the readings were appearing I said “ how much could it be – it can’t be like 80 kilos” jokingly. And then the moment of truth arrived. The reading stopped exactly at 80 kilos. I almost fainted..along with me the patients waiting also sighed. They said “You go immediately, we will go after you finish”, They were so sweet.
But all didn’t end there.
I went to the doctors cabin. She asked me what happened – why all that commotion. I told her about it and that I have come to check my BP. She then checked..it was 140/90. Slightly higher, she said but nothing to worry but get your weight down to 67 kilos pronto.
She then asked how come I gained so much weight – I said all the outside food – junk food, parties, etc. She asked me if I am married, I said nope. I asked her how much for the consultation, she replied nothing and gave me a lovely smile!
Since yestermorning, I was feeling discomfort - mild chest pain, heavy head and ears closed.
So, today evening I went to this doctor. There was a long queue. Got talking to the receptionist (pretty gal!). She was concerned and asked what happened. I replied I came to check my blood pressure. And then I gave her the reasons.
The other patients waiting also listened intently. She then got a weighing machine from another cabin herself and asked me to check my weight. All this was happening while I was waiting for my turn to meet the doctor. The patients waiting also said ‘yes, check your weight’ – all concerned. I checked and as the readings were appearing I said “ how much could it be – it can’t be like 80 kilos” jokingly. And then the moment of truth arrived. The reading stopped exactly at 80 kilos. I almost fainted..along with me the patients waiting also sighed. They said “You go immediately, we will go after you finish”, They were so sweet.
But all didn’t end there.
I went to the doctors cabin. She asked me what happened – why all that commotion. I told her about it and that I have come to check my BP. She then checked..it was 140/90. Slightly higher, she said but nothing to worry but get your weight down to 67 kilos pronto.
She then asked how come I gained so much weight – I said all the outside food – junk food, parties, etc. She asked me if I am married, I said nope. I asked her how much for the consultation, she replied nothing and gave me a lovely smile!
मैँ सुरज हुँ - अँधेरा चीड़ के हर रोज़ निकलूँगा,
मुझें क्यॉ रोंक पाओगे, ऊँजला रोंकने वालोँ।
मुझें क्यॉ रोंक पाओगे, ऊँजला रोंकने वालोँ।
Neel,
OMG!
How did you manage to gain 13 KGs and get so ill?
I hope you got medicines.
I have been wondering where you disappeared suddenly.
Take medicines and take rest.
And stop eating junk food. Reduce your weight now. No parties and no eating out for 2 months for you.
Take salads in the night and fruits or sprouted Mung and sprouted chana with honey and milk in the morning. Light meal in the day. Reduce salt in food. Salt increases blood pressure.
Follow this diet strictly.
You are running Ketu period till tomorrow.
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Basab,
you have got it wrong. I didn't mean it in that sense. I just meant that love and marriage are 2 sides of the same coin.
OMG!
How did you manage to gain 13 KGs and get so ill?
I hope you got medicines.
I have been wondering where you disappeared suddenly.
Take medicines and take rest.
And stop eating junk food. Reduce your weight now. No parties and no eating out for 2 months for you.
Take salads in the night and fruits or sprouted Mung and sprouted chana with honey and milk in the morning. Light meal in the day. Reduce salt in food. Salt increases blood pressure.
Follow this diet strictly.
You are running Ketu period till tomorrow.
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Yellow wrote:Saindhavi wrote:Basab,
First, you have not answered my question - where did I say today that you should not comment on marriage because you are not married?
In reply to the following post of mine:
Yellow wrote:I wish I knew what love means. With the planet of love, Venus, in the house of death, in my chart, and the 7th lord of romantic relations in the 12th house of loss, I have no understanding of that emotion. Will have to take birth again to understand this quote on love as in this life I have not been born with an understanding of the queen of emotions, love.
you wrote this:
Saindhavi wrote:Basab,
Add to this "Marriage" as well and it would be just as relevant.
I think it's a clear hint from you that I don't understand about marriage and so should not talk about it.
Basab,
you have got it wrong. I didn't mean it in that sense. I just meant that love and marriage are 2 sides of the same coin.
Havan Manuals -
http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12791&p=124553#p124488
hymns -
1 http://www.vignanam.org/
2 http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=11446&start=75#p93038
http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=12791&p=124553#p124488
hymns -
1 http://www.vignanam.org/
2 http://www.lightonvedicastrology.com/phpBB3_0/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=11446&start=75#p93038
So i did see that rahu MD thread and read your experiences, saindhvi ji. But it isnt like mine for the most part. You ve enjoyed a better Rahu MD.
And i was just reading about saturn.. And i wished to ask something. I read its symbolizes darkness, cold. . Represents sinful or saintly deeds.. Helps lift you over the material world by giving you sufferings.. And being a slow moving planet.. It makes you reap reward through hard work, slowly and steadily... Pretty much everything i read about it is scary..
So i wanted to ask what does having a benefic good saturn represent? That it won't make you go through all that it represents or it will make you go through all of that.
And i was just reading about saturn.. And i wished to ask something. I read its symbolizes darkness, cold. . Represents sinful or saintly deeds.. Helps lift you over the material world by giving you sufferings.. And being a slow moving planet.. It makes you reap reward through hard work, slowly and steadily... Pretty much everything i read about it is scary..
So i wanted to ask what does having a benefic good saturn represent? That it won't make you go through all that it represents or it will make you go through all of that.
Yeah, it is a vicious cycle, Janaki, but as I am an introvert by nature, I faced that problem here on this forum only. Used to get very irritated when people used to give me advice after I had shared my sorrow in an emotional moment. And it led to lots of unnecessary tensions as I didn't like it when a stream of advices would follow right after my sharing my problem. But now, I have become very careful, and even though in my emotional moments, I feel tempted to write about my unhappiness, I check myself. It seems like I have learned my lesson very well.
No problem, if you can't find the article.
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"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
Saindhavi ji,Saindhavi wrote:Combustion of the Rashi lord can create problems sometimes.
Is Moon chart important? Or is it just the lord of the Moon, which you give importance?
"Go thou and follow Him, who was born and gave His life for others five hundred times before He attained the vision of the Buddha!" -- Swami Vivekananda
